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Port Orford News October 21, 2009 • Page 3 Viewpoints Letters to the editor ‘Greetings from Missouri’ I wanted to take this time to tell you some things about a man who was known to most all of you. He was one of your Rotary club members – Chet Dacayana. Chet was loved by many, including myself. Many of you know that Chet and his late wife, Jan, moved to Port Orford in the mid-1990’s from Southern California, their native land. Chet and Jan were exam- ples to everyone around them. They were one of the most active couples, and families, I have ever known. Besides Chet’s 50-year career in sports officiating, he and his family were active for over 32 years in the Ventura County fair in Ventura, California. Chet retired from the Ventura Unified School District in 1992 as District Operations Manager with 35 years’ service. He was also active during his lifetime in 4-H and FFA, judging these and other areas of the fair. Chet and his family had so many more accomplishments that are too much to note for a short letter to you. All these accomplishments do not compare to the one accom- plishment that Chet would sure- ly play down had it been point- ed out to him – Foster Parent. Chet and Jan spent over 30 years in the foster parent pro- gram in Ventura County and fostered well over 100 needy, and desperate, children in that time. They did this while rais- ing their own five children three of which were given a perma- nent life with the Dacayana family. I know these things because I was lucky to have been placed with the Dacayana family in June of 1979 as a fos- ter child. I stayed with them for just over eight months. Chet and Jan, even with the children they already had, want- ed to adopt me as their son. Yet, it wasn’t to be. The State of California had other plans for me and I moved on. The State was worried that, should Chet and Jan continue to adopt the Send your letters, thanks, cheers and jeers to portorfordnews@gmail.com. All letters must have a name, address and phone number for contact questions. Please keep your comments and arguments empirical - and please show respect for the opinions of others in this, your open forum. Thank you. — Matt Hall, Editor, Port Orford News children they were fostering, eventually they wouldn’t want to foster children anymore and a good, and much-needed, family would leave the foster care sys- tem. Yet, Chet and Jan’s capacity for caring was unlimited in their lifetime. Even though I moved on in my life – albeit to much worse situations – I always remembered Chet and Jan for their compassion and love they showed a 9-10-year-old boy all those years ago. Their examples have stayed with me and I have become a successful adult in large part due to these two peo- ple. In July, 2001, I had the great fortune to be invited to Chet and Jan’s 50th wedding anniversary in Port Orford.. My wife and two children accompanied me for a trip that will go down as one of the best of my life for it was the first time in over 20 years that I had seen the entire Dacayana family in person. As we know, Jan passed away in early 2004 after a lifetime of giving. Chet went on without her and continued to give – He, apparently, didn’t know any bet- ter. In the end, Chet made the world a better place for many – including me. He and his fami- ly have been a source of encour- agement to a boy of long ago and also to the man of today. I try to live by Chet’s example as I raise my own children remem- bering the ways a real “father” treats, not only his children, but also his wife and his friends. Chet was that “real” person in all things. I will miss him greatly for I have lost a father figure. I am blessed to have crossed paths with such a good soul. I am also blessed to have seen him one last time, this past May, as I spent the night at his home once again. Mr. Chet Dacayana was a Father, Husband, Friend, and Example to humanity. He will be missed. His family is in my prayers. Regards, Mike Hayslip City Administrator Odessa, Missouri ‘Two wonderful people …’ Recently, Port Orford lost two wonderful people that I cared a lot about, Bonnie Allen and Chet Decayana. Although I did- n't see them often, I hope that I was able to show my love, while they were still with us. Nella Abbott, Port Orford ‘The trick is to deliver ...’ Port Orford ! What we need is marketing. Any one can write glowingly descriptive copy glamorizing our town. The trick here is to deliver. Remember, we are a "way- stop", not a "destination", so the travelers are moving on through and there must be more than the urinals at Battle Rock Park to grab their attention. If they make it to the city limit they are "gone forever" for this trip. Marketing! Let's "sell what we got." First, why don't we slow them down a bit? Let's reduce this four lane passing zone called "Port Orford" to one lane in each direction, a center left turn lane, a bicycle lane, and parrallel parking along both curbs. Drivers can turn left safe- ly without the danger of being See LETTERS, page 7 Confessions of a dying woman ... by Ruth Jamieson I must confess that I am feel- ing very guilty for the sad- ness I have caused anyone by the public announce- ment of my Ruth Jamieson impending demise. Of course some of the discomfort is caused by an accumulation of grief from previous losses of family and friends. My own mother died of can- cer when she was 45 and I was 25. I had two baby girls at the time and I felt angry with her for leaving us. I know that doesn't make sense, and even though I knew that, it didn't make those feelings go away. But now, while the world around me seems to be grieving, I am enjoying life more than ever. The walks on the beach are more exhilarating, the children’s hugs are warmer, every small comfort is magnified by a higher sensory component. Sharing my feelings and expe- riences with the local public has become an enjoyable adventure also. I have received cards, let- ters and phone calls from old and new friends. Opening up to others has rewarded me with real connections to people I have only previously known on a sur- face level. Meanwhile, the break in the rain today allowed me to take the 3.5 mile walk on Battle Rock Beach, in the sun, sweating like a pig, and then top it off with a truly whole grain vegan burrito at the local burrito shop. I think this might be "as good as it gets"... and that's ok with me. Pets of the Week at the Curry County Animal Shelter ‘Kojo & Chester’ North Curry County Church Directory To be continued ... by Pastor Doug Jamieson F or the past thirty years I have been directly involved with young peo- ple and their families. I started as a youth leader in Harbor, Oregon, and then youth pas- tor for six and a half years in Albany, before moving to Port Orford in 1989. Doug Jamieson One of the most common questions parents and young people have asked me through the years is: Do you have anything for the kids? I have found that the answer is the same for youth as well as adults. People need relationship. When I was growing up, one of my greatest desires was to have a friend to run around with. Some of my early friends were my cousins, and when they moved away, I was left looking for another friend. Young peo- ple, when asked to go on a youth retreat, every time, have the same question: Who else is going? If their friends aren't going, chances are they won't either. Friends are (in my estima- tion), a requirement. It is true that we need to be friendly to everyone as much as possible, but it is also important to have close friends. Plural is a good idea. Things can become over- bearing if you only have one true friend. Then we have to accept the responsibility of friendship. Ruth and I became best friends when we were seven- teen. You can imagine when the Doctor came in and announced that my best friend, in the eyes of practical medicine, has not long to live. How am I supposed to digest those words? My answer is simple. I will Campbell,s The Compass Rose B&B Carpet Cleaning Truckmounted, Upholstery, Tile, Windows, Residential and Cmmercial Cleaning Call 541-425-0406 or 541-580-0041 Four beautiful rooms with private baths - walk to the beach. Full hot breakfast every morning. Open all year. 42497 Gull Road (541) 332-7076 enjoy every day that I have with my best friend, and I pray that they are many. We all need close friends, and St. Christopher Episcopal Church the best way to have a friend is to be one. To be cont'd ... 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Being an older dog he would fit in with an older couple or single person. A very nice dog who deserves a good home. Kojo is 7 years old and is looking for an owner who will give him a lot of love and a very comfortable place in their home. He is friendly and would like nothing more than to be by your side. He enjoys any attention he is given. He gets along with our other furry friends in the shelter but could have issues with cats. Kojo is just the right age where he would fit in with any family. Of course a walk or a throw of the ball would just make his day. PLEASE LICENSE YOUR DOG! IT HELPS YOU AND YOUR DOG SHOULD IT BECOME LOST AND THE FUNDS HELPS THE SHELTER! Pet of the Week NEEDS SPONSORS! Anyone who would like to help sponsor Pet of the Week please call Matt Hall at (541) 260-3638. For adoption info call (541) 247-2514 Sponsored by Little Shop of Horrors, Geoff Trotter & Bridget Lance Nix & Cromwell Ali’ s Auto o Inc. 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Bible Study ....6:30 p.m. (541)332-0998 10th & Washington (541)332-2561 St. John’s Catholic Church Sunday . . . . .8:30 a.m. Wed. . . . . . . . . .9 a.m. Hwy. 101 & 15th St. Port Orford, OR (541)253-6250 F irst C ommunity C hurch 2025 Jackson St. (541) 332-3664 Worship Service 11 a.m. Sunday School 9:30 a.m. Zion Lutheran Church Bible Study at 10 a.m., Worship at 11 a.m. “God’s work, our hands ...” Pastor Tim Carraher 2015 Washington (541)260-1309 The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints Port Orford Branch 20th & Jackson 332-5501 Langlois Community Church “Where the Word of God is Proclaimed” Pastor Rick House ◆ Youth Pastor Kyle Busenitz Sunday School - 9:30 a.m. ◆ Sunday Worship - 10:45 a.m. ◆ Wed. Bible Study - 7 p.m. ◆ Nursery provided Hwy. 101 in Langlois ◆ (541) 348-2301
