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Tip #3: Assign chores as repayment for withdrawals from your “emotional
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When a parent asks a child to stop misbehaving, but the child keeps it up, the
parent can say in a loving, soft tone of voice, “How sad! Your behavior has really
drained the energy out of me. Now I’m too tired to clean the bathrooms.
When you get them done, I’m sure I’ll feel a whole lot better.”
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If the child refuses or forgets to do the chore, wise parents don’t lecture
or threaten. Instead, they quietly allow their child to “pay” for their bad manners
with one of their favorite toys. HGFEDCBA
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