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To relax, avoid dating; try ‘date for one’ ■ If school has become too stressful, take some time out to enjoy a relaxing day or evening alone By Monica Hande Oregon Daily Emerald It’s Dead Week. With the major stress epidemic around campus this time of year, who has the en ergy to date? What we all really need is some personal time to relax: a cheap date for one. Sure, it sounds silly now, but you’ll surely see it differently once you’ve experienced it. Your “date for one” can be as cheap or as ex pensive as you’d like. Of course, be cause the focus of this column is budget-friendly, we’ll start with ideas that won’t put you in the poor house. First of all, it’s amazing how valuable a bathtub is for relaxation. By now, you should know how to bathe, so I don’t have to fill you in on the details. But be creative: Try new scents of bubble baths, oils or crystals. Ladies, now’s your chance to use those generic bath and body gifts you received when your friends didn’t know what to get you. Or perhaps you can stock up on bath products and use what’s left after your “date for one” for holiday stocking stuffers. Regard less, it doesn’t matter what you put in your bath, as long as it suits you. But don’t forget the candles. You can’t underestimate the power of mood lighting. The same romantic candle light that can woo a date will help you relax on your own. If you have them, try aromatherapy candles or any other sensual scents you’ve got around the house. And what about the wine? As long as you don’t drink enough to become inebriated, wine can be a great relaxation tool. And it does n’t have to be expensive. Travis Geny, the wine columnist for Pulse, knows some great deals around town where you can find a bottle of quality wine for only $3. See his column today on page 6B. When you’re done with your bath, if you’re not so relaxed that you’re ready for bed, just take some time for yourself. Curl up in some comfortable clothes and read a book or watch a video. Although, if a video is what you’re up for, check out the exercise tapes at your nearest rental outlet, and you’ll probably find yoga videos. Donna O’Neil, the yoga coordi nator at Four Winds Center, at 1840 Willamette St., said yoga is the ultimate form of relaxation, “learning how to release tension and learning to withdraw your senses.” But if sitting in front of a televi sion screen doesn’t do it for you, there are some drop-in yoga classes you might want to try. Four Winds Center, which offers an introducto ry yoga class, is one option. A $15 lohn Henry’sDance Nights |136 E. 11th, Eugene] Thursdays: 10 pm, $2 80 s New Wave, Pop & Butt Rock. Vinyl. O Now serving ^rvO O full liquor bar. OJ Qik invite you to discover (zploliday ^/amures (9rkjtnd works f/rorn local <9 ^Northwest artists (^Jktne art posters and more La Follette GALLERY & F R A M I N G 410 East 11th, Eugene • 484-1420 Bring in this coupon for 10% off any purchase (Excludes consigned artwork. Expires 12/30/00) The price of relaxation Private bath: free (plus cost of bubbles, oils and candles) Wine: $3-$10 (see “Eleganceon the Cheap" on page 68) Yoga video: $1.5043.50 Yoga class: $15-40 (depending on number of lessons) Massage: $20-$45 for half hour, $30465 for hour Hot tub: $11 -$16 for hou r, two people registration fee includes the intro ductory class and an extra regular class, such as beginning yoga, which is next scheduled for today at 6:30 p.m. Of course, if you really want to splurge, experience the epitome of relaxation: a massage. Don’t expect to easily find a good deal on a mas sage; they’re usually pretty expen sive. However, some places, such as Eugene Downtown Massage Thera py, offer student discounts. Actual ly, many places that don’t advertise student specials will often cut you a deal if you request it. But don’t fig ure on saving more than $5 or so. Expect to pay at least $20 for a half hour massage and at least $30 for an hour massage. But you’ll really have to shop around to get deals like these. This is a starting point for you to create your own relaxing “date for one.” But if you still think a date re quires a partner, here’s an idea for 010215 wnwfTMTi Community Center tar the Pertormny Arts 8th & Lincoln • Friday i Floater TV 616, Lo?os Eye Heavy Rock $10 advance, $io door, 8:30 pm ■Saturday ■ Babes with Axes, Folk $7 advance, $9 door, 8:00 pm ■ Sunday ■ An Evening with David Wilcox Folk $22.30 in advance, $2$ door, 7:00 pm ■ December 8 ■ Joules Graves CD Release Party w'rthRafePeaitman Power Folk $8 advance, $10 door, 9:00 pm ■ December 9 ■ CCPA 25th Anniversary WOW Hall Membership Party with Elizabeth Cable, Lo Nuestro, TBA Folk/Latin A merican/Food Admission free to CCPA members Memberships are available for $15 or more at the door, 7:00 pm All Ages Welcome • 687-2746 Adam Amato Emerald If Dead Week is killing you, take a breather. Take some time out for yourself and relax. Start a bath, light some candles and drink some wine. Voila: a date for one. you and that special person to relax together: a hot tub. Most college students don’t own hot tubs, but there is an alternative. Rent one. There are a few local business that rent private spas by the hour. Of course, most people are a bit wary of anything that rents by the hour. Perhaps it’s a valid suspicion, but just ignore it and have a good time. An hour of pure relaxation can’t be all that bad, especially when it’s with somebody special. Onsen, at 1883 Garden Ave., charges $16 an hour for two people, and Springfield Spas charges $11 to $15 an hour for two people, depending on the time and day. And maybe after ward, you’ll have a few bucks left to spend on a cheap bottle of wine. Whether it’s a “date for one” or a romantic rendezvous, it won’t hurt ' to take some time out to make yourself feel good. Don’t let Dead - Week get the best of you. 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