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Wednesday, April 8, 2020 The Nugget Newspaper, Sisters, Oregon 17 Hooked on digital devices? Seven steps to sanity By T. Lee Brown Correspondent Hooked on the news or constantly checking digital devices during the COVID crisis? Is it making you more miserable and anxious? You are by no means alone. The following steps can help you get a grip on the situation and your own state of mind. Featured in today9s approach is Catherine Price, founder of the Screen/Life Balance program and author of How to Break Up with your Phone. 1. Assess: For three days, keep close track of your media and digital device input. Using pen and paper, not an app, jot down the time you spend with various media, movies, news, email, even personal conversations and books. Here9s the impor- tant part: note how each input made you feel. Set aside 15 minutes before bedtime to look at your list. Note any trends. Which input inspired you? Which amped up your anxi- ety? If you checked the news 50 times, did any result in genuinely useful information that you could act upon? 2. Media plan: Make a media plan for yourself. Price says this allows your prefron- tal cortex, the rational part of the brain, to take command over the freaked-out primitive part of the brain (see related story, page 3). Ask yourself: How many times am I going to check the news today, and what sources am I going to use? <Probably Facebook9s not a good idea, guys!= said Price. Your plan might include a Digital Sabbath 4 a day off for rest and reflection. Plan ahead to avoid logisti- cal hassles. Our family does Digital Shabbat from sun- down Friday through sun- down Saturday, following the Jewish tradition. Kids love it. We light a candle at sundown, and Friday nights are now family game night. 3. Limit access: Reduce access to the cause of your stress. If you have TV or radio on in the background, <you9re going to be con- stantly mainlining anxiety, and it9s going to feel bad,= according to Price. Turn them off. Uninstall all news apps from your phone. Turn off notifications on your devices. Cover your TV or computer monitor with fabric or a towel. Take a cue from kids at Sisters Elementary School, who drew their own posters to hang over monitors for Screen Free Week. Set up a charging station for tablets and phones 4 away from where you hang out most. Try a closet or the garage. Block websites and apps that are problematic. Price likes the app Freedom, which she says changed her life. A more blunt instrument is the app Self Control, a per- sonal favorite. 4. Make boundaries: Friends and loved ones might push us too far into COVID craziness. Setting up bound- aries with them is impor- tant. Price said many people <haven9t yet gone through a process of getting to the point where they conclude, »Yes, this is happening and it9s ter- rifying4but there9s only so much we can control.9= She encourages mention- ing that you9re trying your- self to decrease your own stress around the crisis. Ask to speak about something else. Suggest concrete alter- natives, such as holding a vir- tual dance party, knitting, or putting together puzzles via Zoom, Skype, or FaceTime. 5. Prepare alternatives: Changing habits is most suc- cessful when we have an alternative at hand, some- thing to replace the problem behavior. <Identify something that you want to do with your time,= Price said. Lay books, magazines, and journals out on tables. Set up stations with craft sup- plies, model cars to build, shoes to polish. Try a letter- writing area. Get out your old knitting bag. A pack of cards for solitaire. Plan on healthy use of digital devices: replace news apps with meditation apps. This could be a good time to try mindfulness medita- tion, where you set aside some minutes to pay atten- tion to your breath, body, and immediate surroundings. <Recognize that your mind will run away during those minutes,= said Price, <and that it9s totally normal.= Nature time and Sit Spot exercises work well, too. Keep an eye out for more on these in future issues of The Nugget. 6. Set goals: <Many of us are feeling frantic right now,= Price notes, yet we9re finding time to stress out on the news. Write out a list of soothing, healthy things you would like to do this week: Take a walk. Make a collage. Sew a face mask. Listen to a symphony. Send a letter every day in April, for national letter-writ- ing month. Said Price, <I don9t mean to downplay the craziness of the moment, especially for parents of small kids& Consider that there might be something you can do with your news time that would make you feel more nour- ished and cared for.= Ambitious goals like inventing a better mousetrap or memorizing the complete works of Shakespeare might cause more stress. The prior- ity now is getting through this crisis healthy and sane. 7. Start and end the day screen-free: If your phone is in your bedroom, chances are you9re checking it first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Resolve to turn off news and devices by 7 p.m. or earlier. Keep the phone in another room overnight. If you need the phone nearby for health reasons, switch it to airplane mode and wrap it in a towel. Do not remove the phone from its swaddling until after breakfast. And always remember: at any moment, if your thoughts whirl into catastrophic may- hem, you can stop and take a deep breath. 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