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Wednesday, January 31, 2018 The Nugget Newspaper, Sisters, Oregon Your Story MATTERS Audry Van Houweling, PMHNP Columnist Mental illness and places of worship It is estimated that one in four Americans suffers from some sort of mental illness. A good number of these individuals may lean on their faith and place of worship in times of distress. While a place of worship may provide needed refuge, in other instances our place of worship can also cause shame. There have been note- worthy efforts among some places of worship to rec- ognize the prevalence and impact of mental illness; however, in too many oth- ers, there continues to be a stigma and/or discomfort that perpetuates silence and isolation among its mem- bers. Even more harmful, some places of worship may continue to believe notions that mental illness is a spiritual affliction, pun- ishment, or simply a sign of weak faith. When faced with a men- tal-health condition, indi- viduals may feel ashamed, spiritually inadequate, and pressured to put on a façade of strength when possible. Sunday mornings may be a joyous time of social gath- ering and worship, but it may also be a time of social angst, fear of judgment, and high standards. And then there are times when despite our best efforts a façade is simply not pos- sible. Be it serious mental illness such as schizophre- nia or bipolar disorder, major depression, grief, or trauma, displaying “spiri- tual resolve and strength” can at times be all too difficult. A lack of support from a place of worship or the insinuation of shame to the individual may not only perpetuate an emotional crisis, but may also trig- ger a spiritual crisis, which together feed one another in a bi-directional struggle. Throughout my work I have witnessed this struggle, not only in church members, but also among church lead- ers who face even greater expectations to prevail and remain spiritually resolute in times of emotional distress. As has long been the case, mental illness is often seen as separate or different than what may be considered the “physical body.” Places of worship may not hesitate to rally around a member battling so-called physical afflictions such as cancer through prayer, visits to the hospital, flowers, notes of encouragement, etc. Yet, when confronted with sui- cide or a mental-health cri- sis, there may be reluctance or discomfort. There may also be a hesi- tation to seek treatment and trust mental-health profes- sionals as they may not be adhering to the teachings of a particular faith, yet the same may not be true when being treated for a ruptured appendix, diabetes, or taking pharmaceuticals. It is important to recog- nize that many places of wor- ship have good intentions, but may lack the understand- ing, training, and language necessary to empower and support members suffering with mental illness. Leaders of faith are often on the front lines when it comes to emo- tional distress, but may feel overwhelmed with know- ing how to respond in a way that both promotes the faith, but also recognizes the need for professional assistance. Ultimately, there is a need for enhanced dialogue about mental illness among church leaders, congrega- tion members, and commu- nity professionals. Places of worship need not be afraid of the reality of mental ill- ness and ideally would feel emboldened to speak out and provide refuge and understanding. 7 Undoubtedly, spirituality and a person’s core beliefs are central to overall well- ness and vitality. Regardless of our spiritual devotion however, we are all vulner- able to the ups and downs of life and are likely to encoun- ter situations that transcend our spiritual understanding. Places of worship are in a unique position to provide refuge — which can begin with the simple acknowl- edgement that having faith does not have to demand that we feel well, stable, or even optimistic. And that is OK. Here’s to giving each other grace. NEW CAR IN THE NEW YEAR! 2012 Subaru Outback Premium AWD. 80k miles. Heated seats. Michelin tires. $15,900. Best Price! Pr No Hassles! CARFAX Certifi ed! Buy or sell your car with locally owned ... Sisters Car Connection (Low miles • newer than 2005) 102 W. 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