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About The Coos Bay times. (Marshfield, Or.) 1906-1957 | View Entire Issue (Oct. 3, 1914)
MWkJfH r- v "VT-7 I' ("t i I TWO THE COOS BAY TIMES. MARSHFIELD. OREGON, SATURDAY, OCTOBER 3, 1914 EVENING EDITION wmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmtwmjm , ssBMamwwHCwMriiMwiMr'MWB I i i v :t if is i IRA .2 4 W - ' KF' SALLY Is n fine woman, but alio has a number of little fnults. and you should tell her of them," said the man's mother in speaking to hint of his young wilt-. "Not on your life, responded the wise Vusband. "Fr be It from me to tell any woman tlint I have oli acrved certain flaws and weakness-! And blemishes In her character or poraon. Ami still farther be it from mo to make these Iiiv",",m "email: i to my own wife. Who-" er totli SmU of her Imperfections, li won't be me. I have observed too ininv husband and wives who thought it was their eaered duty to tell each other of t'.el.' faults, and they either wound up la tho divorce court or spent t'.icir time wishing they ha'd the coinage to hike out to itcno. "And I don't blame them. None or us aro particularly keen on tho society of people who criticise us and tell lis home truths. Of course we know that, being human, we must huvo lit t lo blemishes, but wo live In the fond belief that we keop them covered up so that the general pub lic Isn't even nwnre that they exist, and l"s alwnjs a shock when wo find out that some eagle eye has ferreled out tho little rotten spot In us. Think, then, what a blow It is when we find out that wo haven't fooled even our ncarost and dearest, nnrf the one whose affections wo had supposed made him or her blind to our faults. Oflri ""v r."vp n I ten Hi Wound It Never Surmount. "I toll you many n time It gives lovo a death wound from which It never recovers. "There's n perfectly good reason why husbands and wives should nev er tell each other of their faults. It is this: It is absolutely necessary for a husband to believe tluit ho Is n paragon In his wife's eyes. It Is Absolutely necessary for a wife to be lieve that she Is tho realization of her husband's fondest Ideal of wo mankind. All the glamour and hap piness of matrimony Is bound up In this faith. "Tho man must believe that his wife looks up to hint; that she thinks ho Is moro or less of an oraclo; that tifs judgment and his knowledge of tho world are to he trusted, and that when sho married him she got a ma trimonial prize. "nellovlng this, tlie man Is enabled to throw out IiIh cIicm nud swell around home, and Indulge In the bosom of his own family In a species of perfectly Innocent vanity which getn plenty of h.ittcilug In the niiuidc woild. Other people mn nut up predate him, but, thank Co1, his. wife knows a real man when h e fees' one, and so ho Is happy and crutent-, ed', and a dor oh his wife for lavish-' CONTRIBUTIONS concornlng Aortal happenings, Intended for publication In the society depart ment of The Times, must bo sub mitted to the editor not later Mian G o'clock p. m., Friday of each week. (Exceptions will be allowed only in cases whero tho events occurred later than tho time mentioned.) ilrnonsil, notices 01 VlBltortf In the cl4-. or of Coos Day people who visit In other cities, together with notices cf social affairs, aro B,ad,y received in the soc a. de- K of "club' meetings will oo r...i,nahri nnd secretaries aro ( kindly requested to furnish same, j when he wakes her up from this dieam by reminding her of her weak nesses, she pays tilm back by getting !ng upon him the soft soap that ev erybody else withholds. "But what happens If wife begins , inninnw. telling him of his faults? Her bal- "That's why the critic on the loon of self-esteem, nnd the whole lw.nrMi cenernll.v breaks up the thing collapses. Wren your wife cor-1 hearthstone. Let somebody else tell ( reels your grammar, and your table 'jour husband or your wife of his or manners, and tells you where to sit j jicr faults. It's too dangerous an down on tho street cars, nnd informs j occupation for the married." you the reason you don't get rich Is I a ' because you haven't got enough Inl- 7T77 i ' t i - ritocitKKS ci.i'ij. tlatlve nnd ambition, and that you show low taste in the selection of your friends, you know that you are no longer a Godlike creature to her. I nil uiu u iiiiBiMumi- milium phi nil r. , ,, ,,. Cntur. i .1 . . i i i ilnv at the home of Mrs. Henry beng nnd under thnt knowledge your soul "" ni ' " .. , ,,. . The President's address by Mrs. Ward M. Blake opened the first meet ing of the Progress Club held Mon- shrlvels up and dies within you. And It's .InM the Simic from n Woman's Standpoint. "And It's Just the same way with a woman. No matter what misfor tunes or hard times marriage may bring to n woman she is happy as long as she believes she Is beautiful slacken. Following came the ap pointment of various committees, chief of which wns that appointed to attend the council meeting and pre sent tho mutter of the Inx quarantine enforcement In behalf of theM'iog ross Club. Mrs. W. F. MrEldowney headed this, with Mrs. Coroy, Mrs ,-, .. o..v .,.,.... o -,. .o .. ,.,,.. ..... ... Vf.lw.tunn nit nfiti'H. to her husband, and thnt he considers u"e " her an earthly angel that condescend- Mm. Hutr. wns named critic for ll.o o from her high estate to marry next three months succeeding Mrs. ,,,, Chandler. Mrs. Gidley nnd Mrs. nut let him commence telling her 1'nyno were named as a courtesy rom of W little faults and weaknesses ml". liners covering the subjer and tho jig Is up. She knows the of Boston and Its environs were rend halo of romance has been smashed ' Miss Silverman and Mesdames Ad nto smithereens when he commences elsporger and Tledgen. Mrs Boo h lo talk about her getting fat nnd to rend Mrs. Chandler s paper In her nb wonder why sho doesn't dress like nce. Mis. Fred W. Powers was some other woman. She knows thnt fleeted to membership. A woOlc her pedestal has been knocked out from Monday Mrs. Schetter will be from under her when ho calls her hoxtess, the day's subject to bo "Now attention to the burnt toast and wnt- York City." Following tho program erv vegetables, and tells her that sho nnd business of Monday enmo n social Is n bum housekeeper, nnd about the half hour, with refreshments served, worst financier that ever camo down Those nttendlng woro Mcsdniucs Aci dic plko. nnd thnt her nerves nro elsporger, Blake, Booth, Butt, Corey, nothing but temper, and that If she Flanngan, Oldley. Hanson, McKl-j was n leaHonnble human being sho downey. Bolf Nordruni. Nicholson, would try to act like one nnd control Payne. Sehottor, SengHtncken, Stoll., herself. TleUgon nno rower aim .urns mhih "She can't ndopt the nngel pose Silverman, any moro after tho first real honest- to-goodncss tinted of his opinions of itiioV Cl.l'li. ' ' her thnt her husband bonds out. She ' ' ' ' m , knows that sho can nover snlno again T,,0 jnn7JOw Hub spent a most before the one man whose ndmlintlun ,l0Kir ,j(iy wlth Mrs. L. I). SniKh she craves above all the world, and , lu(r ,,, 0, nanr,.i Creole on the knowledge Is the bitterness of Tn,irsdny. ATter n very busy fore-li-ith to her. j ,, h)PI in (((.wing, dinner wns served such nn one ns Coos River. Indies nre noted for. In the after-. "Women don't know It. but tho noon the rogulnr club work was taken strongest hold thnt any wlfo has on "I' T,' 8U',J,,(, fop ,n" ,,"-v' ",lowf her husband Is bis artless belief that '" V,)le'" ,,,,,n "","1' w ,ar-. he has got her fooled Into thinking ll,,,! vor for nox, "'"" ,0 n,,ow ",orc that he Is tho grentest man on enrth, " for ""' Tllft "ext e,,' nnd she breaks this strangle hold ,,n w" " Kromlnw. Those when she begins telling him of his present were Mrs. J. A. Goodwill, Mrs. rnults. Men never realize It. but tho T. L. Stanley. Mrs. Ernest Smith. Mrs difference betweon innrrlage being Sherman Cutllp, Mrs. P. Itndford. Iinnvnti nr linll In n u-mnnn U l.nr Mrs.. GrOVCr GullltnmS, MlS. TOIH SOUTH BUM) lilBHAHV. One of t'.ie most delightful .nf fnlrs of the present social season will bo the ball at Eclihoff Hall next Fri day evening for tho benefit of the North Bend public library. The dance Is given by Mrs. C. S. Wlnsor, Mrs. C. F. McCollum nnd' Mrs. D. M. Hull to help finance tlie running expenses of tho public library. Beginning next week (ho library will be o.ien ov nfternoon In the week with Mrs. L. A. Woodbury still ns llbraitau nnd Mts. T. Chnpmnn ns isslstant. The evening classes that wore to have been started by the Library As sociation hnve been doforrcd for the present on account of similar classes having been opened In tho high school building, so tlint tho library mnnngment teels thnt porhnps eve ning classes nro not needod at the library for the ptesent. However, If three or more persons, whosleslru to take evtnlng class work find It Impossible to attend tho classes now being held ut the High School, the library management will arrange to have ovenlng clnsnc9 for such per sons nt the library three evenings u week. A chnrge of fiO cents n week will bo mndc and thu common Eng lish branches tnught. Persons wlsli tug to do class work In public speak ing may make arrangements with tl'e llbrniy management to do this by calling up Mrs. Armstrong, Mt. The class work In public speaking will he In charge of Mrs. Klrkpatrlck, for merly a tencher of public spenklng at Whitman College. The following books hnvo been nd dod to the library the past week: "Chip of the Flying U," "Alice of Old Vlnronnes" and "A Kentucky Cardi nal." A Tho library association Is uttempt Ing to organize supervised playground work among the children, which work will lend to tl'e foimlug of u Junior leagucFrldny nfternoon the children nnd mothers gathered at tho High School gymnasium to loam plnyn nud games selected from the Manual of Itecreatlon Issued by the State Edu cational Department. State Superin tendent of Schools, .1, A. Churchill, Is much Interested In dovc'oplng play ground work In the Oregon public schools nnd has as his advisor and helper In this work, Mr. L. II. Weir of tho National Playground Associa tion, who may visit Coos Bay some tlmo this year for, the purpose of furthering public plnygrouud work In Coos county. Tho North Bend High School Band, assisted by Mr. Kulser and other lo cal tnlcnt, will give n contort the tnnt i Friday evening lu October In Loggle unit for the benefit of tho nubile library. McCl or on KPisroPAi.oniiD. Tuesday nt Guild Hnll Miss Agnes Hutcheson nnd Mrs. E. P. Lewln were hostesses. Sevornl guests were pres ont, among them Mrs. Hnrrlgnn, Mrs. Straw, Mrs. Gobs, Prof. Golden and daughter, Until, Mrs. J. n, Flanngan and Mb. A. It. O'Brien, who was nil mltted as n member. The Guild Is planning to glvo n Harvest Ball Fri day night, October 23 or 21, nt the Englcs' Hull and to this end plnns wore miulo und committees appoint ed. The ball Is for tho purpose of raising money lo meet tho street as sessments nbout Guild Hnll. Net v 8 Hubert n, ; !;,vi,n,eh::! w "" "to Care,,,.! '""lii Mill ! v.,.. . .0f . ' i........ "a "J Mr. ,. :.'r : : t-wi nRn7,. !' ,co'e- Folloiiln.. 7BfcS '' Tuesday cab .""""Si NlurB. Lockl. f , '.' V1 ,,rolnR. Mar, n 0!, iff has been il.ui,,. ,. .rllU :' jew dajs. ;a; ; ;s t the KalBbo. ali;,WS ".... ui;. I.IIRcne lt,H.i.. -O'-IU (Continued 0117? IRVING BLOCK va&Mm Men and Boys An exceptionally good stock of Overcoats and Raincoats Balmncnnu, Crnvouettcs, Mnck Inuws. Sl7cs from .10 to -IS, Price K'.OO to ? 10.00. We are Sole Agen's for "KNOX HATS" WATCH OUIt WIXIIOWS wiiv; Kerausc Wt Sell for 'ni.li Women and Misses The greatest mietf c! SUITS ever brought i MinMWlui the ery latest Ideas ttfy and materials. Priced it n to ?S5. A shipment of new coiU J In comprising the lilt hi styles thnt nre Just out TW newest models. i big i.im: of mrs .lust rerehed, and owltj !i late delhery we hire ebtiliH a concession from the Ion whli h enables us to lw them on the matktt it en fourth less the orljlnil kj- lug prlie. w Let SnmelHMly EImi Tell f I ishIsiiiiiI or Wife Their l'niilts. faith that she's still n dream to her husband after she's fat nud forty, nnd Wm p jjf SILVERWARE A HANDSOME SILVER SERVICE IS THE HALL-MARK OF CULTURE AND REFINEMENT. IT IS CHERISHED AS THE ONE LASTING ARTICLE IN THE HOME AND IS PASSED DOWN FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION. OUR SILVERWARE IS SOLID "STERLING" SILVER WHEN WE SAY IT IS. OUR DESIGNS ARE THE LATEST STYLES, AND OUR PRICES ARE HONEST JLIKE OUR dOODS. "SEND SILVERWARE" AS YOUR GIFT AND BUY IT A T OUR STORE WHERE YOU KNO W THE PRICS ARE RIGHT THD THE GOODS RELIABLE. Smith. Mrs. Win. Morgan. Mrs. C. II. nungnn, Mrs. John Cllnkenbenrd.t Mrs. S. C. Hogors, Mrs. David Bunch, Mrs. Edwnrd Dyer, Mrs. Hoffman, Mrs. K. Don McCrary, Mrs. Jesslo Par ker, Mrs. Burton, Mrs. Mullen, Mrs. Hlchnrd King, Mrs. E. L. Dexter, Mrs. L. A. Cutllp, Mrs. Kromluga, Mrs. Geo. Terry. Mrs. W. G. Perkins, Mrs. Robert Robertson, Mrs. Matthew Jut strom, Mrs. E. Georgo Smith, Misses Ada Cllnkenbeard, Blanche Cutllp, Alice Carlson, Elllnor Cutllp, Wllmn Morgan, Evlyn Bernlco King, Itoao Robertson, I A. X. W. I 4 Mis. E. Mingiis was hostess to tho A. N. W. nt nor homo on Commercial avenue Thursday, ontortalnlng Mes-J dnmes Allen, Evortson, Edmnn, Hall, Hazard, Hyde, Kaiser, Lando, Mutch, Mnloney, Murphy, MuKnlght, Noble, O'Conuell, Ilarrlgnu, Smith, Squire, Stnuff, Hague ami Qulst, MIbs Lou ise Maloney and Baby Qulst wore, special guests. Mrs. M. C. Malonoy and daughter, Louise, assisted Mis. I Mngua In lecelvlng and serving, Mrs. I Murch will be club hostess noxt Thursdny, when a feature of tho day will bo the observance of President Wilson's "peace" week. 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