A2 • Friday, February 19, 2021 | Seaside Signal | SeasideSignal.com OBITUARIES My mother wanted me to be brief on this part of the assignment. If you knew my “Mudder,” you knew she loved to be the Queen Bee, and was truly a force of nature. Some of her songs, quot- able quotes and one-liners included: “To thine own self be true.” — Shakespeare “Accent the positive, eliminate the negative, latch onto the affi rmative, don’t mess with Mr. In-Between!” sung to the tune of Johnny Mercer and The Pied Pipers. She loved Voltaire’s wis- dom: “The pursuit of plea- sure must be the goal of every rational person.” And of course, Coco Chanel’s understanding: “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.” So what were her super powers? She was a good sport, fl exible and a straight arrow. What did she believe was her greatest asset? Patience … patience can be a bitter seed, but it yields rrr- rrrrrich fruits! When asked what she attributes her longevity to, she easily shares: Good genes, red wine, dark choco- late, being with the ones you love, great friends and hav- ing fun! Marion was born April 29, 1918, in Denver, Col- orado, to Marion Eliza- beth and Donald Twiss. The Spanish fl u, one of the deadliest infl uenza pan- demics, was raging. Mari- on’s father was a pharmacist and her grandpa, Dr. Noble Macomber, had to deal with this deadly health issue, that did not have a vaccine to come to the rescue. The Spanish fl u had to burn itself out, but not before killing between 50 and 100 million people worldwide. Marion’s mother had been plagued with a serious heart condition, and died at 42, leaving her at age 13, and her older brother Stan- ley Craig, 17, in the midst of the Great Depression. Her father remarried within six months, believing Mar- ion needed a mother. Her brother enlisted in the Army. Marion rarely discussed her heartbreaking youth. She chose to make the best life for herself. She grad- Marion Elizabeth Blake Richard Whitlock Seaside April 29, 1918 — Feb. 6, 2021 Seaside Aug. 24, 1958 — Dec. 7, 2020 uated from North Denver High School, and enrolled in the University of Den- ver. She excelled at writing, sports, dancing and all of the social skills around col- lege life. She loved her life, and wanted to fi nd her perfect soul mate. She met Mr. Per- fect, always calling him the Big Man on Campus! Wal- ter Pershing Blake, a three- sport letterman, all years, smart, 6 feet 2 inches, eyes of blue, great dancer and a veterinarian student at Col- orado State University in Fort Collins. She transferred to CSU so they could be close. They married May 27, 1941, at half past four, the day after he graduated. She always referred to their perfect rela- tionship of 55 years. Marion and Persh joined his father’s veterinary prac- tice in Greeley, Colorado, just after they were married. They had a short assign- ment at the University of Missouri, where Persh was a professor of medicine and surgery. They started their family and had three beau- tiful girls. They wanted to be in a warmer climate, and moved to Phoenix, Arizona, in 1954. Marion raised her three girls while develop- ing her championship golf game and master’s quality bridge game. In 1963, the Blakes moved back to Greeley, Colorado, to take over his father’s practice. Marion took on a whole new role in the family. She cared for the kids, managed the house- hold, and became a surgical assistant and offi ce manager for the solo practice. In 1975, they retired and moved to one of their beloved areas, Estes Park, Colorado. From their little cabin they could look down into the village and see where they used to meet and date during the summers, Trout Haven. In the 1980s they were drawn back to the warmth of the sunshine, Phoenix and Scottsdale, Arizona. More deserved time with Mr. Perfect dancing, swim- ming, golf and bridge, along with the delight of their three daughters and three grandchildren. More hardship came into Marion’s life in 1996 and 1997. She lost the love of her life, her husband of 55 years, followed by the cross- ing of her middle daughter, Judy, to cancer, at age 49. She was encouraged, and made her last move to Sea- side in 1998 so she could be close to her youngest daugh- ter, Mary. Her oldest daugh- ter, Marny, and her husband, Paul, also were drawn to the beach and to be near this most remarkable and resil- ient woman. She was living with Marny and Paul when, in 2009, Marny died of can- cer, and Paul, in 2010, died of a broken heart due to the loss of the love of his life. Marion had always had the goal of living to be 100. Not only did she reach that goal, our Mayor Jay Barber got the opportunity to pro- claim April 29, 2018, Mar- ion Elizabeth Blake Day. To top that, on her 102nd birth- day, a drive-by community parade saw her become an honorary detective for the Seaside Police! She was still kicking butt, playing competitive duplicate bridge three days per week, up until March 4, 2020, when we all were quarantined due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Mary moved into Mar- ion’s house in 2012, and they and their beloved four- legged friends lived hap- pily together until Marion’s peaceful crossing Saturday, Feb. 6, 2021, just a couple of months before her 103rd birthday. Marion was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. W. P. Blake; Judy Wagner, her middle daughter; and Marny Philippon, her oldest daughter. Her survivors include Mary Blake, daughter; grandchildren Kristi Skiba, Laura Warren and Jesse Blake; and great-grandchil- dren Bridgette and Hayden Skiba and Brandon Blake Short. My Mudder wanted to live forever! You could help her do that by keep- ing her spirit alive in your heart, memory and stories. Always remember to love your mother! A special thank you to the caring hopsice team who gave such good compassion- ate care to us, and helped my mother cross at home, in the most beautiful and sacred space. We will have a party to celebrate Marion in the fall, when it’s safe for us to gather. Until then … my Mudder would want you to know she’s happy and danc- ing with the love of her life. She wishes you all aloha, and happy trails to you! Please, no fl owers. If you would like to celebrate Mar- ion, please consider a dona- tion of your time, talents or treasure to your favor- ite cause or to the Clatsop County Animal Shelter. Miss Me — But Let Me Go When I come to the end of the road, And the sun has set for me, I want no rites in a gloom- fi lled room. Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little — but not too long, And not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that we once shared, Miss me — but let me go. For this is a journey we all must take, And each must go alone. It’s all part of the Mas- ter’s plan, A step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick at heart, Go to the friends you know, Bury your sorrows in doing good deeds. Miss me — but let me go. Hughes-Ransom Mor- tuary is handling the fi nal arrangements (hughesran- som.com) PUBLIC SAFETY LOG SEASIDE POLICE DEPT. PUBLIC SAFETY LOG incident at a duplex residence is determined by police to be kids playing. Feb. 9 2:36 a.m., Chamber restrooms: Property crimes are reported. 10:36 a.m., 900 block Holl- aday Drive: A disturbance is reported. 10:54 a.m., 2100 block S. Franklin: A subject is cited for disorderly conduct. 4:56 p.m., 800 block 13th Ave- nue: A hit and run car accident is reported. 5:29 p.m., Police headquar- ters: An iPhone found on the beach is turned in to police for safekeeping. Feb. 6 9:14 a.m., 2500 block Queen Street: A disturbance is reported. Seaside Signal 9:52 a.m., Avenue A: Caller reports a property crime in the past; she said her truck lock was damaged. A Seaside man was arrested Monday for man- slaughter following a crash that left a baby dead. Emergency crews responded to a single-vehi- cle crash at about 6 p.m. on Ecola State Park Road. Police say a Mazda MZ3 driven by Rony Tomas-Gar- cia, 23, of Seaside, was head- ing southbound when it veered off the road, struck a tree and came to rest on its top. 10:06 a.m., 800 block 10th Avenue: Caller reports a dangerous hole in front of his water meter. Public Works is advised and says they will remedy the situation. 12:16 p.m., 1100 block Avenue A: Caller reports her neighbor is looking at her mail. Police speak to the neighbor and warn them to stop doing that. A 3 1/2-month-old baby girl died in the crash. A pas- senger, Esperanza Mar- tin-Ramirez, 20, of Rose- burg, was taken to Columbia Memorial Hospital in Asto- ria before being transferred to Oregon Health & Sci- ence University Hospital in Portland. Tomas-Garcia was taken to Columbia Memorial for medical treatment and was released. 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Bond • 325-3144 6:53 p.m., 400 block 12th Av- enue: Caller reports neighbor making a racket. Police contact neighbor who says they are arguing with someone over the phone. They are advised of the complaint and agree to lower the volume. Cannon Beach Chocolate Cafe Feb. 7 6:04 p.m., Carousel Mall: A subject sleeping in a doorway is advised to move along. WE’RE OPEN! 10% OFF YOUR PURCHASE now through 2/28/21 232 N. Spruce • Cannon Beach, Oregon Open 10 am-5 pm Daily! • 503.436.4331 8:14 p.m., 1200 block S. Roo- sevelt: Subjects asked to leave the premises by employees are slow to leave; offi cers arrive and tell them they are indefi - nitely trespassed. Call Sarah Silver 503.325.3211 ext 1222 Feb. 8 5:38 p.m., 1100 block S. Wa- hanna: A reported domestic Seaside woman. Walter Smith, 21, of Pendleton, who was driv- ing the Mercedes, died. His passengers, Erick Fadness, 20, of Decorah, Iowa, and a 16-year-old female from Portland also died. The Seaside woman who was driving the Toy- ota Tacoma was fl own to a Portland hospital. The highway was tem- porarily closed while law enforcement investigated and reconstructed the crash. Three people died last Wednesday in a two-vehicle crash on U.S. Highway 26. Police say a Mercedes station wagon was head- ing westbound at around 10 a.m. about 2 miles east of the state Highway 53 junction when the driver lost control and slid side- ways into the eastbound lanes, colliding with a Toy- ota Tacoma driven by a 3:07 p.m., 400 block 15th Av- enue: A resident reports their mail stolen. 4:27 p.m., 2500 block Mason Street: A subject reported on property they’ve been trespassed tells police the homeowners have asked him to keep an eye on the proper- ty. No further information was available. Whitlock; daughter, Aimee, and son-in-law, Seth Mor- risey; son, David Whitlock; granddaughters, Emmy Grace and Ava James Mor- risey; sisters, Cathy (Al) Drawson and Sally Whit- lock; brothers, Sherman (Cindy) Whitlock and George (Angela) Whitlock; numerous nieces and neph- ews; and many friends, who were also part of his family. Hughes-Ransom Mor- tuary is in charge of the arrangements. A service will be held at a later date. Donations may be made in his name to Seaside Kids Inc. Richard will always be remembered for his sense of humor, good heart, and his all-around love of a good cheeseburger. S Feb. 5 Infant dies in crash on Ecola State Park Road Richard Whitlock was born and raised in Sea- side. Growing up, sports were always a huge part of his life, from Little League Baseball through high school, continuing into his adult years, to playing city league basketball and soft- ball, to coaching numerous Little League teams and basketball teams. Richard enjoyed attend- ing and watching Oregon State University football games with his son, David. He ran many 5Ks with his wife, Kirstin, and daugh- ter, Aimee, always being sure to wait at the fi nish line to say, “what took you so long?” He loved being “Grumpa” to his two grand- daughters, Emmy and Ava, always having pictures ready to show off. Richard took great pride in his work as an auto mechanic. He enjoyed helping people, and numer- ous customers became life- long friends. Richard is survived by his father, Gene (Carole) Whitlock; his mother, Patri- cia (Hugh) Kerwin; his wife of 42 years, Kirstin ENTER TO WIN! If someone went into cardiac arrest, would you be prepared? During Heart Month, February 2021, CMH will help two organizations purchase an Automated External Defibrillator (AED). Learn How>> columbiamemorial.org/aed-2021/ 2111 Exchange St., Astoria, Oregon • www.columbiamemorial.org YOUR RESTAURANT AD HERE. Find Your Next Regular Customers!