Friday, December 25, 2020 | Seaside Signal | SeasideSignal.com • A5 Three tips for keeping your dog cool, calm and in control CANINE CORNER RAIN JORDAN & DAHLIA A friend of mine once was awak- ened at 3 a.m. by an explosion in her bedroom. Two of her fi ve dogs were lip- locked, and not in a good way. One was latched onto the other’s face and would not let go. When her husband started yelling, it didn’t end the fi ght; it led to the others joining in. The biggest shock wasn’t the fi ght itself, though certainly it must have been a surprising way to be hustled out of bed. The real surprise was that the dog implanted into the face of the other was the gentlest dog of their crew. It seemed their little lovebug had morphed into munitions. Landmines work by being armed, trip-wired, and buried just beneath a surface, where they then lie silently in wait. The inner workings of dogs are not that simple, but a suffi ciently set animal can be triggered to blow. Sometimes it may be the result of something relatively natural, like tiny disputes between dogs over time. Other times, however, it can be the eventual result of training and han- dling them in ways that suppress, i.e., bury, rather than change their feelings about things. Here are some tips to help you encourage your darling dog to stay “lovebug.” 1: Instead of threatening, enrich. After all, when is the last time a pass- ing threat really worked on you? If your boss threatens that she’ll down- grade you from an offi ce to a cubi- cle if you don’t stop sleeping at your desk, is that going to make you any less sleepy? It might make you fi nd a way to hide your sleepiness, but sleepiness itself won’t be changed by the threat. Only addressing the cause by, e.g., getting more or richer sleep at night — perhaps by resolv- ing whatever worry is keeping you from good sleep — is likely to resolve day-sleepiness. When we threaten a dog to get them to stop doing something we don’t like, we might scare them into the inaction we desire at that moment, but it doesn’t change the underly- ing feeling that led to the undesired behavior, so the scare tactic isn’t a permanent solution. Though each dog may fi nd different things enrich- ing, there are many forms of enrich- ment for dogs in their daily lives: Playing, digging, chewing, yard-hunting, and exploration such as sniff-mission walks, also known as “sniffari” are just a few of many possible options. An enriched dog is a happier, less stressed dog, and a happy dog’s behavior tends to exem- plify that happiness. 2: Instead of nagging, invite. Any- one who has ever been nagged knows that the more it happens, the less effec- tive it is, because you learn to tune out the nagger. Anyone who has ever been the nagger knows how annoy- ing it is to be tuned out, and how the nagger-naggee dynamic becomes an exhausting vicious cycle. Oftentimes we ignore a nagger because we think we already know what is being said or requested, and it’s nothing new or worthwhile to us. It’s the same for dogs. If the barking dog hears “Rover, stop it” 20 times a day and knows from experience that fulfi lling that request will result in nothing but the end of fun or attention, what’s in it for them? On the other hand, if you invite the dog to do something equally or more exciting, nagging soon falls away, and so does ignoring. 3: Instead of punishing, reward. So, your boss catches you sleeping in the offi ce again. This time she docks your pay. Maybe she even throws a pile of paperwork at you. That ticks you off, but you want to keep your job, so you just take it. Because you are angry but have suppressed your feelings, that anger brews into long-lasting resentment, frustration, and a sort of tripwire ten- dency whenever anyone even men- tions the boss or the situation. Now what if instead, your boss were to notice and reinforce the behavior she desires — your staying awake and working in your offi ce — every single day? Perhaps she gives you a daily big smile, thumbs up, and “atta- boy” as she walks by. Maybe after a month of noticing that you’ve not slept in your offi ce at all, she calls you in for a performance review, tells you what a great job you did on your recent project, and then gives you a merit raise for increased productivity. The following month you get more sleep at night so that you can continue this positive streak at work and save your work relationships. When a dog is punished for unde- sired behavior, whether by scolding, leash jerking, or other corporeal pun- ishment, the punishment may once again stop the behavior temporarily, via suppression. Since punishment tends to scare or intimidate if not hurt, most dogs will do what makes the discomfort stop. However, suppress- ing behavior does not solve it. On the contrary, suppressed behavior tends to rise back to the sur- face eventually, exploding with even more energy, sometimes in baffl ing contexts or shocking ways. This is why sticking with positive reinforcement training is so import- ant. Reinforcing desired behavior, by responding with a paycheck of some- thing that the dog really loves and needs, will result in an increase in that desired behavior. And voila! Through rewarding the dog for good behav- ior in this way, the desired behavior becomes a replacement for the unde- sired behavior you thought you had to punish. My friend will never know what tripped the wire to her lovebug’s fi ght. Perhaps the dog had been living in a suppressed or agitated state in regard to the other dog, who had been a bit of a bully, however infrequently, over the years. Since the tools our beloved pet dogs are armed with aren’t thumbs, but teeth, and since they do not have the luxury of their preferred means of confl ict avoidance — leaving when they feel threatened — we need to avoid loading them with potentially explosive emotional material. Santa: Toys for Tots one of three holiday programs put on by Rotary Continued from Page A1 families. “I can’t say enough about Toys for Tots,” McDowall said. The project itself has evolved somewhat over the past couple decades. When McDowall joined Rotary in 1997, it was a small event organized by Tom and Gin- ger Maltman but fi nancially supported by another group. “It kind of grew from there,” McDowall said, add- ing it was eventually put entirely under the purview of Seaside Rotary. Although the program is designed to support fam- ilies experiencing need Katherine Lacaze Volunteer Jenny Knight, with the Seaside Rotary Club, prepares to distribute toys to community families for the organization’s Santa’s Workshop program. during the holidays, there is no vetting process based on income restrictions. How- ever, Rotary does enforce that all participants show proof of residing in either Seaside or Gearhart, since there are other similar pro- grams run in other cities . In light of the coronavi- rus pandemic, McDowall expected there would be a bit more demand for Santa’s Workshop this year than in years past. She said they set up for 20 extra families this year. Last year, they served 85 families, or approxi- mately 300 children. Rotary also had to change day-of procedures for health and safety reasons this win- ter. Normally, they let fami- lies line up as they arrive and walk through the toy area to make their selections when it’s their turn. This year, they could only allow 20 parents in at a time. As peo- ple arrived in the morning, School: District continuing with distance learning Continued from Page A1 Continued from Page A1 fund a compliance offi cer, designed to inspect vacation rentals and enforce local codes related to items like noise, litter and parking. But while Barber and council members applauded his efforts, more than 100 vacation rental homeown- ers were left cold. They say their burden is way out of proportion. “If you take any other business in the city of Sea- side, they’re not being tar- geted like we are,” Mike Meyer, a co-organizer of the 100-member Seaside Vaca- tion Rental Owners Asso- ciation, said after the meet- ing. “We’re an easy target, an easy mark with no vot- ing rights, and no voice. I want to be part of the com- munity, but I feel like I’m an outsider and I’m not a part of it.” A single rental of his, he said, contributed almost $7,200 in lodging tax rev- enue to the city in 2020 in addition to more than $9,500 in property taxes and the permit fee cost. Property owner Dar- ren Karr blasted the permit increase in a letter to the council this month. Permit fee hike Flory documented 51 vacation rental dwell- ing complaints, with park- ing being the biggest issue. Twenty-two properties mar- keting themselves as vaca- tion rental properties had not been granted conditional use permits. Local contacts, prop- erty managers and property owners are given an oppor- tunity to respond to every complaint on their vacation rental, he said. “I wanted to make sure to document what their responses were and what they are doing to resolve any neighborhood issues that may result from the operation of their VRD,” Flory said. Flory also tracked land use applications for the past fi ve years, compar- ing numbers of vacation DINING on the NORTH COAST Great Restaurants in: GEARHART • SEASIDE CANNON BEACH Oregon Department of Education Data for Dec. 6 through 19. Clatsop County with just over 200 cases per 100,000 people and is among the districts required to provide distance learning. Rental: ‘A ridiculous nightmare that they have created’ “You’ve raised taxes, changed rules, added rules, and quintupled our business fee without so much as one single word being said to us,” Karr wrote. “I’ve been renting my house in Seaside for 12 years and you guys have never, not even once reached out to me unless it was with an open hand, and a gun at my head.” money to purchase presents for themselves. Finally, Rotary adopts 10 community families, based on recommendations from the Seaside School District, and purchases gifts and food for each of them. During the week of Santa’s Workshop, the organization was fi nish- ing up its deliveries to this year’s adopted families. “My entire schedule this week has been fi lled with all Rotary activities,” vol- unteer Leah Griffi th said as she sorted through toys at the convention center before families arrived last Wednesday. “It’s been a lot of fun getting everything ready.” rental dwellings to total applications. At their peak in 2018, 56 transient lodg- ing applications comprised two-thirds of the applica- tion. This year, 30 short- term rental requests made up about half of the total 58 land use applications. Flory said he wants to make a vacation rental con- tact list as accessible as possible to the public with 24-hour access for the pub- lic via the city’s web page. City Councilor Steve Wright joined others impressed by the results. “We’ve had a lot of com- plaints by a subset of the vacation homeowners, and hopefully by the end of the night you’ll show them what their money is going for,” Wright said. ‘Under protest’ After the meeting, some homeowners said the posi- tion of code compliance offi cer doesn’t justify even being close to full time, if at all. Joe Foss, a co-organizer of the vacation rental own- ers association, said the city hasn’t followed up on their concerns since they last went before the City Council. “It’s a ridiculous night- mare that they have cre- ated there and there is not suffi cient justifi cation,” Foss said. “If you look at the numbers he presented, 33% of them were basi- cally unjustifi ed and another 30% of them we’re basically already handled by the prop- erty manager. So 60% of those 51 didn’t even require his input at all. And no, we have not had additional con- tact with the mayor or City Council offi cials.” Barber said fees will be reviewed in coming months after the city assesses expenses. “That’s still to be reviewed and we’ll be doing that,” he said. In the meantime, prop- erty owners say they will continue to pay their permit fees in a timely manner. “Paying or not paying is not really an option,” Meyer said. “If you look at our bill, it says anything paid after Feb. 1 faces a 50% penalty. Me, I don’t want to take a chance on having to pay another $275 on top of the $550 business license fee on three rentals.” Foss also intends to pay his 2021 permit fee. “I hav- en’t yet, but I’m going to I’ll put a note there: ‘Under protest.’” WANT TO KNOW WHERE THE LOCALS GO? • Breakfast • Lunch • Dinner • Junior Menu RESTAURANT & LOUNGE • Lighter appetite menu E RIL Y’ S point, the leadership team — comprised of Penrod, school principals and administrative staff — will review whether the case count is declining and “determine if we’re within the range to move to a hybrid model, or if we would need to continue with comprehen- sive distance learning,” Pen- rod said. If the county is within the safe range, the district can begin a two-week preparation period to bring students back on campus for learning. The two-week preparation is necessary for two reasons, Penrod said. First, the district has made an agreement with the Seaside Education Asso- ciation to give them adequate time to transition. It allows all departments to made arrange- ments to safely and effectively serve students in-person. It also establishes a buf- fer period. If the data changes within the two-week period, the leadership team has an opportunity to adjust as needed, Penrod said. Taylor asked whether the recent rollout of the COVID- 19 vaccine has any impact on the state’s metrics for reopening. “It gives us hope, I think,” Penrod said. “But no, it doesn’t affect the metrics at this time.” they were given an appoint- ment, or time to return, later in the day. The program is just one of three that Seaside Rotary coordinates during the hol- iday season. In addition to Santa’s Workshop, the ser- vice organization also does Shop with a Cop and Adopt a Family. 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