Friday, October 4, 2019 | Seaside Signal | SeasideSignal.com • A5 Phase 2 ahead at the Bob Chisholm Center ‘THE BOB’ DARREN GOOCH I t’s hard for me to believe that summer has come so quickly to a close here on the north coast. As we head into the autumn season with its crisp, cool morn- ings and falling leaves, I can’t help but wonder where the time has gone. It seems like just a couple of months ago we were welcoming a new year, yet we are only a few months away from ushering in another one. Just a couple of weeks ago, our Community Center Commission members hosted a special din- ner for a handful of the Main Hall Refresh Project donors, City staff, R.J. Marx Bob Chisholm Center in Seaside serves lunch to local residents. City Council members, and con- tractors who helped work on the project. The commissioners served homemade lasagna and the dinner was a great success. Commission Chair, Kris- tin Kabanuk took special care to thank each of the contributors in her address and also spoke about some of the exciting things that are yet to come here at the cen- ter. One of those things is the donor recognition tree that has been recently commissioned with local artist Jeremy Furnish. Jer- emy is designing the body of the tree from a black walnut slab and adding wire branches. The wire branches will be capped with laser cut bronze leaves and each leaf engraved with our donors’ names. We are hoping to have the tree in place by the end of November. Another exciting development is the donation of a wood slab by High life Adventures LLC, which will become a countertop at our serving counter in the hall. This was originally part of the project scope, but had to be cut from the plans to keep our project within its budget. Having the folks at High Life step up to donate the wood slab is an absolutely amazing way to cap off the Main Hall Refresh Project. Looking ahead, our commis- sion members are already working on planning for a Phase II proj- ect and what that might entail. I went through an exercise with the commissioners several months ago, where we looked at build- ing needs. One item that seemed to come up again and again was the current stucco siding, which local painter Randy Anderson has offered to paint for free this year as a donation back to his community. I am truly excited to see the fi nal pieces of this project fall into place and I am continuously amazed by the generosity of our community members. As we set- tle in for the shorter, chillier days ahead, it’s time to start put- ting together a list of items to be thankful for and my list starts with all of you! Every month, The Bob will bring you information on current events and items of interest here at the center. See you next month! When an aggressive dog bites, understanding the cause I have, in other essays, bemoaned the bizarre expec- tations of us humans that our dogs should somehow under- stand and follow our human rules and mores as if they were human. Especially given how the human species rails against anthropo- morphism — e.g., “dogs are not children!” is a common chide — you’d think we’d be more open to respecting the differences between dogs and humans. In “The Culture Clash,” renowned dog training expert and educator Jean Donaldson pres- ents the plight of our compan- ion canines, and our own plight. The fi rst edition of her book was released in 1996 and though it is still popular, the underlying prob- lem she presents in it persists. We haven’t properly adjusted for thumblessness. Since they don’t have texting — no thumbs! — dogs settle dis- putes with a variety of threat dis- plays and sometimes biting. In the dog world, these disputes are often minor and soon forgotten. We humans take threats and physical altercations seriously. Perhaps we partake in projection. The result, says Donaldson: “There is incred- ible stigma attached to dogs that bite, as though they have charac- ter fl aws and are qualitatively dif- CANINE CORNER RAIN JORDAN & DAHLIA ferent from dogs who have never bitten. They are not. There are not two kinds of dogs: nice dogs who would never bite and less nice dogs who do. Biting is natural, normal dog behavior.” Don’t panic. This does not mean dogs are readying to bite you. It simply means that dogs have lim- ited options for protecting them- selves from threats. No thumbs means no tool use — no self-de- fense weapon-carrying dogs — and being captive animals means no ability to fl ee from threats. They are at our mercy. As I’ve covered previously, and as Donaldson’s book explains, that means we who are responsible for dogs must prop- erly breed, socialize, manage, han- dle, train, desensitize, care for, and protect them from feeling and being threatened so that they don’t have to protect themselves. Explaining how our dogs may be set up for doom if we expect them to protect us from danger yet not be dangerous to us — attack- ing robbers and muggers but not our family or friends—Donald- son suggests how our dog mythol- ogy disadvantages our dogs: “The mythical dog is one who can tell the good guys from the bad guys,” explaining what would be obvi- ous, both in fact and in conse- quence, once we stopped to ana- lyze it. “Dogs are unaware that mals, says Donaldson, if we are going to hold them to a set of stan- dards that is absurd and abnormal for the species, it is our respon- sibility to ensure they are gifted the skills and support needed to succeed. There’s confusion about dog “bites” and “maulings”; this arti- ‘SINCE THEY DON’T HAVE TEXTING — NO THUMBS! — DOGS SETTLE DISPUTES WITH A VARIETY OF THREAT DISPLAYS AND SOMETIMES BITING. IN THE DOG WORLD, THESE DISPUTES ARE OFTEN MINOR AND SOON FORGOTTEN. WE HUMANS TAKE THREATS AND PHYSICAL ALTERCATIONS SERIOUSLY.’ they’ve been adopted into a cul- ture where biting is considered a betrayal of trust and a capital offense. Incredibly little is actively, consciously done to reduce the probability of biting.” By this she means aggression prevention train- ing, which a good R+ trainer/certi- fi ed canine behavior consultant can provide. This is important, Don- aldson explains, because we hold “an absurd ideal” that there should be “no bites, ever.” Since dogs are animals—albeit really great ani- mals—and biting is normal for ani- cle is not meant to address seri- ous occurrences where death or mutilation have resulted. Donald- son distinguishes between those versus bites that are more akin to “kitchen injury” level bites or less, explaining that often “no effort is made to distinguish dogs involved in fatal and near fatal maulings from kitchen injury level biters. In human terms, this is exactly akin to lumping sharp words with felony assault and murder.” I know some of you have been through great emotional trauma related to this topic. I’ve been through it in the past, and I understand that this last point may be a lot for some people to hear. But please stay with me if you are a dog lover. I suppose I am lucky that my dogs are meek and gentle. I am also ever-cautious to protect them from situations that might put them at risk of having to defend them- selves from a charging dog or an aggressive person — or one who doesn’t understand dog behavior and subtle provocations. But there are no guarantees. I suspect this might be why Donaldson decided to go brave or go home in her book, hoping to increase under- standing and motivation in dog lovers all over the world, so that we might improve our skills and therefore our capacity to protect our beloved best-friend species: “Aggressive behavior does not fracture relationships in dog soci- ety,” she writes. “The problem is that aggression often changes things a great deal in dog-human relationships. We routinely execute dogs who bite. That’s quite the cul- ture clash. ... I say execute rather than euthanize because a biting dog is not suffering and does not need or want a merciful death. He is killed because of transgressions he has committed against humans. That’s what an execution is for.” HAPPENINGS IN BRIEF Prayer conference coming to North Coast Oct. 6–8 A conference to ignite prayer and unity among Christians in Oregon is happening from Oct. 6 to Oct. 8 in Rockaway on the North Coast. Christians interested in uni- fi ed prayer for our nation are encouraged to attend as much of this three day event as possible. The conference, called “Oregon Igniting His Love” will take place in Rockaway at the Twin Rocks Friends Camp. It is being orga- nized by Pray Oregon, the National Day of Prayer in Oregon, and facilitated by the Til- lamook County Wide Prayer Team in a sup- portive roll. Registration will be accepted at the door or online at http://prayoregon. brushfi re.com. The Harbor wins grants The Harbor received grants from Sea- side, Astoria and Cannon Beach. Com- bined, these cities award $30,800 annually to support The Harbor’s work through- out Clatsop County, including funds for D/SART, the after-hours crisis response team, which sends trained advocates to local hospitals and police stations when called on by law enforcement and hospi- tal staff. D/SART is shorthand for domestic/ sexual assault response team: a team of trained people drawn from domestic and sexual assault advocacy, medical person- nel and law enforcement personnel. The SART model is considered best practice in sexual assault response by the Justice Department and is the standard for responding to adult and adolescent victims of sexual assault. In Clatsop County, law enforcement or medical personnel alert The Harbor via the crisis line whenever there is an emergency situation involving domestic violence or sexual assault. “Humility That Overcomes The World” Saturday•October 12, 2019•1:00pm Astoria Library Flag Room 450 10th Street A free talk given by Mark McCurties, C.S. A member of the Christian Science Board of lectureship, The First Church of Christ, Scientist in Boston, Massachusetts Sponsored by: First Church of Christ, Scientist, Astoria All are welcome, invite friends and hear this inspirational message. PORTLAND DERMATOLOGY Feel confident in your skin. 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