Tune Self Outward
To Enjoy Living
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By Ann landers
Dear Ann Landers: I'm 15 years
old and already a flop. 1 have
no real friends although a lot
i oi people pre
tend to like me.
I get invited
places but only
because people
I feel sorry for
me.
1 have a fair
I figure and my
I mother savs I
can buy all the clothes I want,
but my taste is terrible. 1 hate
to shop because the clothes I go
crazy over in the store look aw
ful when I get them home.
I can't do anything well be
cause I'm a clumsy cow. I'm a
lousy tennis player, I can't swim,
and I hate to dance. My voice
is so screechy the choir teacher
has asked me to just move my
lips and not try to sing with the
others.
I always say the wrong thing
and laugh at the wrong time.
Please help me before I start
high school in September. MISS
NOTHING
Dear Miss: Those who think
too well of themselves are a pain
in the neck. Your problem is the
reverse and equally unattractive.
It's a drag to hear people for
ever running themselves into the
ground. Among other things it in
dicates thiit they think people
are paying more attenl'iin to them
than they actually are.
Get out of the habit of tuning
In on yourself 100 times a day.
Turn your thoughts outward to
ward others. After having done
your best whether it's tennis,
swimming or whatever forget
your inadequacies and concentrate
on something else.
Dear Ann Landers: You might
call this letter "A Warning To
Widows: Stay In Your Own
Home."
My husband died four months
ago and my daughter and son-in-law
insisted that I sell my home
and come live with them. I was
grief-stricken, lonely and con
fused when I said "yes." It was
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the biggest mistake 1 ever made.
My house is gone, my furniture
is gone and I'm a guest in some
one else's home. My teen-age
grandchildren are disrespectful
and make me feel as if I am in
the way. To hear them talk 1
wonder how I could have lived
so long and learned so little.
I was once a friendly, pleasant
person but now I feel like a use
less, sour old woman. I gave up
everything dear to me and 1
really didn't have to. Please tell
other widows to stay where they
are even if it's a single room.
1 wish I had.-NOT HAPPY
Dear Not Happy: If you feel a
single room would be belter why
don't you find pne?
Some mistakes are beyond re
pair but this one can be remedied
and I hope you do It promptly.
Dear Ann Landers: My cousin
is getting married in August and
I've been asked to be an usher.
Linda, the girl I'm going with,
doesn't know the bride or the
groom except casually. She put
a lot of heat on me to get her
invited to the wedding and the
reception so I did.
Last night Linda asked me
what I was doing the Friday be
fore the wedding. I told her 1
was going to the rehearsal dinner.
Slic got mad and said if I went
without her we were finished.
Now I don't know if 1 should
phone my cousin and try to get
Linda invited to the rehearsal
dinner. My mother says Linda
lias a lot of gall to put me on
the spot this way and that I
shouldn't jump through hoops for
her. 1 like Linda a lot and don't
want to lose her. Help, please
BOSTON BLACKIE
Dear Boston: Most rehearsal
dinners are for the wedding party
and some out-of-town guests. Lin
da's demands are clearly out of
line. If the friendship Is going
to stand or fall on this issue
I say let it fall.
M. W. BUESS
DWAYNE WYNNE
Army Recruiter Leaves;
Wynne To Handle Office
Bohemian Group
Seeks Members
MAL1N A membership cam
paign has been conducted for the
ZCBJ Lodge in Malin during the
past week. The ZCBJ, also known
as the Western Bohemian Fra
ternal Association, is a legal re
serve fraternal beneficiary asso
ciation incorporated in 1897 in
Iowa.
It operates as a non-proft or
ganization for the mutual benefit
of its members and the protec
tion of their beneficiaries.
Mrs. Emily Sevcik of La Mesa.
Calif., ZCBJ West Coast repre
sentative, conducted the drive. As
sisting were the officers of the lo
cal lodge, Frank Paygr, presi
dent; Mrs. Anna Polivka, record
ing secretary; Frank Victorin,
financial secretary, and Martha
Brothanek, treasurer.
Mrs. Sevcik was a guest of
Mrs. Josephine John while here.
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M.Sgl. M. W. Buess, local
Army recruiter, who has been in
Klamath Falls for seven years,
will be leaving the city for a new
duty assignment. Buess' replacc
Medford, will be at the 417 Main
Street recruiting office two days
a week, Monday and Tcusday
from a.m. to 5 p.m.
Buess will go to Ft. Lewis for
reassignement after taking a 30
day leave. He wished all his
friends "a fond farewell' and
said he will miss the Klamath
Falls area and its outdoor
resources greatly.
Wynne, who has been in the
Army for 14 years, also had a
three-year stint in the Navy and
was aboard the Hornet during
World War II.
The sergeant has only been in
the recruiting business for five
months. Most of his Army time
was spent as a food service su
pervisor with the Fourth Infantry
Division.
Wynne said the Klamath Falls
area might have a permanent re
cruiter at a later date, but for the
time being the area will be
served two days a week.
The new recruiter serves Klam
ath, Lake, Jackson and Josephine
counties and has one assistant in
the Medford office. He is a na
tive of North Dakota and has his
home in Central Point.
Special Rodeo
Prize Offered
LAKEVIEW Saddle bronc and
bareback riders in the Lakeview,
Cedarville, and Susanville rodeos
arc offered a special $300 prize
this year by the man furnishing
the riding stock for all three
shows.
Dick Hemsted of Anderson,
Calif., has posted the $500 purse
for the rider in the two events
who piles up the most combined
points in the three rodeos.
The Susanville Rodeo will be
Saturday and Sunday, Aug. 17 -18;
the Cedarville show will be 'Sat
urday and Sunday, Aug. 24-25;
and the Lake County Roundup
will be at Lakeview on Satur
day through Monday, Aug. 31 and
Sept. 1-2.
The cash prize will be present
ed at the close of the Lake Coun
ty Roundup, when points from all
three events will be compiled
and tabulated.
Student Notes
Mixup In Name
Ronald Dean Bonham, 17, 229
Alameda Avenue, is not the
same Ronald Bonham who was
listed as being cited for "minor
in possession" in the court rec
ords of the Friday edition of the
Herald and News, the youth told
this newspaper today.
Bonham is in the senior class
and vice president of the student
body at Klamath Union High
School.
The person cited in court was
Ronald L. Bonham.
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City police reported the arrest
of an out-of-state man who ad
mitted robbing Pete Emil Larson
of the Lake Hotel, about 8:15
p.m. July 31 shortly after the
men left one of the city's taverns.
Witnesses said they saw the
men get out of a cab together
on Cedar Street between High and
Pine. Mr. and Mrs. George Wil
liams told police they watched
Lawrence Glen Weed, 39, Elkton,
Md., knock Larson down, grab
the victim's wallet and race down
the street.
Williams pursued the culprit
immediately calling for him to
stop Weed finally stopped and
Wil'iams held him until city po
lice came. The wallet contained
$30.
Weed was arrested on a charge
of robbery by force and the vic
tim was booked for drunk.
Reserve Unit
Drills Noted
Klamath Falls Army Reserve
Company H arrived a week ago
at Camp Roberts, Calif., for its
annual two weeks of summer
training. Capt. Jack Moebius, the
commanding officer reports that
military progress is running some
what ahead of last year's operations.
Company H is part of the 1.000-
man 104th Division (Training! of
w ashington and Oregon which has
been assigned to instruct reg
ular Army recruits in their actual
basic combat training course. The
trainees, from nearby Fort Old.
receive training in realistic com
bat conditions created by Klam
ath Falls reservists and other
members of the "Timberwolf"
Div'sion.
First Lis. Dan Hitchcock and
Wade Patterson, Sic. William
Warren, and Sp.4. Lonnie Belden
are in charge of bayonet train
ing for the troops.
Capt. Ron Pheistcr, executive
officer, First Lts. Harold Heaton
and Al Ebcrlein aid in the coordin
ation of instruction around the
post.
Sgt. Francis Luquer and his
staff members, Sfc. Ben Morri
son, Sfc. Hugh Radspinner, Sgt.
John Ellis, Sp.4. Cliff Ambers,
Sp.4. Robert Wyrick and Sp.4.
Carroll Luker are working in
training. Subjects such as com
pany drill, military courtesy,
physical training, and general
Army orientation are handled by
these non-commissioned ofliccrs.
The reservists will fly back to
Klamath Falls Aug, 3 to resume
their weekly meetings.
Potluck Set
MOUNT SHASTA Masons and
Eastern Star are planning a joint
potluck dinner on Aug. 7 at 6:30
p.m. in the Shasta Arcade Hall
in Mount Shasta. Members arc
asked to bring hot dishes and
salads and the lodge will furnish
rolls and coffee. Any Mason or
Eastern Star member visiting in
the area is invited to attend.
HERALD AND NEWS, Klamath Falls, Ore.
Friday. August 2, 1963
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Role Of Working Mother Evaluated
One out of every three mar
ried women in Oregon is working
at a full or part time job and
more are probably going to be
spending a longer part of their
lives at a job in years ahead.
Mrs. Robflita rrasier, Oregoni
State University family life spe
cialist, reports some trends in
number of women working
and offers some considerations
to wage earners who must find
help in caring for children.
About a fifth of the married
women working are mothers who
have children under 6 years of
age, says Mrs. Frasier.
If mom works, what s the ef
fect on children in the family?
Generally, studies show that the
attitude the mother has toward
her children will show regardless
of whether she's at home taking
care of them or working at an
other job. If she's sincerely in
terested in the youngsters' devel
opment, she'll try to provide the
kind of care that will encourage
their best growth and develop
ment.
Some studies show that mothers
who want to work but out of a
feeling of duty to their children
do not work, create problems for
themselves. They may uncon
sciously resent their children and
have some problems in child
rearing.
What should be the husband's
role if his wife works? How
much should he be expected to
help with housework?
A study made at Florida Stale
University shows that husbands of
working wives tend to bj more
liberal in viewpoint in regard to
all women w ho work than do hus
bands whose wives don't have
jobs. Husbands of working wives
also were more agreeable to help
ing with most household tasks, and
were more likely to favor equal
pay status for women on the
job. '
Husbands wliose wives worked
were more likely to be proud of
their wife's abilities outside the
home, more democratic in recog
nizing her independence, but a
little reticent to think of her earn
ing more or taking over t h e
traditional dominant male roles
in the home.
Children w hose mothers worked
tend to do more housework and
take more responsibility around
the home. If motner's objectives
for working were shared and
iigrocd upon as important by the
husband and teen-age children,
she -was likely to get more sup
port from the family in holding
down a job.
Mrs. Frasier says that one oi
the most important tasks for fam
ilies is to find adequate child
care if the mother works. A
baby needs his first one or two
years of life with his mother or
a mother substitute who can give
him lots of love and a feeling
of security. The younger t h e
child, the more important the
kind of care he receives. The
stimulation a baby gets in the first
year of his life lays down the basis
for his whole personality struc
ture, she emphasizes.
She suggests tliat mothers look
for qualities in a caretaker that
children need acceptance,
warmth, a home that a child can
feel free in, and can learn to
trust. Relatives, as caretakers,
should be evaluated on the kind
of care they can provide. Regular
ity in care is important.
When a youngster is shifted
from place to place, he may
learn not to depend on others. If
he isn't able to enter into deep
relationships as a child, it may
affect his relationships with oth
ers as an adult.
Before arranging for a baby
sitter or group care, make a
personal leisurely visit to the horn"
where the child will be cared for,
advises the OSU extension special
ist. Try to detect the feeling
tone of the adult. Look at the
setting.
Does it have the kind of equip
ment that encourages children
to grow?
There's a limit to the number
of children one adult can care
for and give children attention
they need. The experiences a child
has in his pre-school years are
important. Special provision also
needs to be made for supervision
of schoolage youngsters.
A total of 216,367 women were
in the labor force in Oregon in
1960. Of these; 132,494 were mar
ried and living with their hus
bands and 24,946 of them had
children under age 6.
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By AL KUETTNER
United Press International
A few blocks south of the fa
mous Chicago stockyards is the
suburban residential community
of West Englewood, population
about 20,000.
On a peaceful day in West En
glewood, a visitor on South Mor
gan Street would fancy himself in
a typical small American town,
but one with a strong accent of
old Ireland.
Small homes, long owned by
the families within, have their
shade trees, lawns and garaen
plots. Comiskey Park, home of
the Chicago White Sox, is near-hv.
Right now, things are far from
peaceful in West Englewood. The
place that was once known as Ca
naryville, for some obscure rea
son, has become one of the out
standing examples in the nation
of "phase two" in the desegrega
tion struggle.
Press For Rights
This is the stage in which Ne-pi-dps
are pressing for full imple
mentation of laws and regulations
that long have banned racial unr-
riers legally.
One nroblem in West tngicwmm
is neighborhood transition from
white to Negro occupancy. An
other is the strong determination
of the white Irish to hold fast
against moving.
Thcv nave siuck uigvuwi
through thick and thin in Conary
vjc wars, birth, death a n d
marriage and I hey consider
this bit of Chicago their own pri
vate domain.
West Englewood Has produced
many of the Irish policemen who
are now on duty there trying U
keep racial trouble from explod
ing into a major riot.
It also was home lo many hood
lum youngsters who went on to
the underworld.
Negroes Moved Closer
Over the past several years,
the Negro population has pushed
over closer to West bnglcwood
But recently, when Negro famil
ies moved into flats at 5051) and
5754 South Morgan, the white
residents nearby reacted as
though their street had been invaded.
The pattern of changing neigh
borhoods in the area has been
more or less traditional. As Ne
groes moved closer, "for
sale" signs went up and within
weeks entire blocks changed. But
there are few "for sale" signs on
Soulh Morgan Street, Apparently,
the Irish plan to stay.
They blame real estate inter
sts who gained control of some
Soulh Morgan Street urnpertv for
selling them out.
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