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Medford and Jackson County
History from the files of The
Mall Tribune 10, 20, 30, 40
and SO years ago.
10 YEARS AGO
Dec. 31. 1952 (Monday)
Seven hundred leet of
warm fog blankets Medford
area; cloud-seeding plane at
tempts to disperse fog over
airport.
Crater Lake National park
officials recommend against
travel in park due to icy road
conditions.
20 YEARS AGO
Dec, 31. 1942 (Saturday)
- Medford bank announces
plans to open branch for serv
icemen at Camp While,
From Arthur Perry's "Ye
Smudge Pot" column: "Thou
sands of years ago this neck
of the woods was a vast lake,
geologists say. A good start
has been made towards a re
turn to this condition, but it
will never be as deep as the
original, even if it never stops
raining."
30 YEARS AGO
Dec. 31. 1932 (Monday)
Author Edison Marshall
stops In Medford while en
route to Indochina.
Mayor E. M. Wilson and
new Medford city council
schedules first regular meet
ing at city hull. 1
40 YEARS AGO
Dec. 31. 1922 (Tuesday)
Jackson county Jail inmates
put to work on county rock
crusher.
City employees present
chair to Mcdford's retiring
mayor, C. E. "Pop" Gates.
SO YEARS AGO
Dec. 31. 1912 (Thursday)
Survey of proposed Coos
Bay-Eagle Point railroad com
pleted to Eagle Point, where
it is to connect with Pacific
and Eastern railroad.
Medford High school foot
ball team defeats Grants Pass,
6 to 2, in New Year's day
game played at Grants Pass.
What's Your I.Q.7
Nine or ten correct Is superior;
seven or eight is excellent; live oi
sis is good.
1. How many acres would
there be in the Northwest
quarter of the Southwest
quarter of a section of land'.'
2. How many square miles
in a township?
3. Why are red, yellow and
blue called primary colors?
4. Are pure metals general
ly belter or poorer conductors
of electricity than are their
alloys?
5. What territory did the
United States acquire from
Denmark?
6. Who wrote the novel
"The Last of the Mohicans"?
7. What is the scriptural at
Venice for Hie duration of
human life?
8. Was the British govern
ment more friendly to the
North or South during the
War Between the Stales?
9. What is the lighest ele
ment? 10. In cattle raising regions
a branding iron used to draw
numerous brands is called
what?
Answers: 1. Forty acres. 2.
Thirty-six. 3. Can't be lormed
by mixing other colors, 4. Bet
ter. 5. Virgin Islands. 8.
James Fenimore Cooper. 7.
70 years. 8. South. 9. Hydro
gen, 10. A running Iron.
4 A
DECEMBER 31. 1962
Emancipation Centennial
It can be said, I believe, .that Abraham Lincoln
emancipated the ilaves, but that, in this century aince,
our Negro citizens have emancipated themselves.
President Kennedy, Sept. 22, 1962.
President Lincoln
Proclamation on Jan. 1, 1863 100 years ago to
morrow. President Kennedy has asked that ap
propriate observances of
The true centennial
Proclamation is in a sense anti-climatic. It was
rendered so by ceremonies at the Lincoln 'Me
morial last Sept. 22, observing the centennial of
an earlier edict.
But as James Truslow Adams long ago ex
plained: "By common usage the term 'Emancipa
tion Proclamation applies to the edict of Jan. 1,
1863, that of Sept. 22,
ing." In effect the earlier document was an ulti
matum. Lincoln warned that as of the following
Jan. 1 all slaves in rebellious districts would be
made free. But he emphasized that the restora
tion of the Union was the object of the war. And
he pledged further efforts to provide compensa
tion to slaveholders.
ADLAI Stevenson, principal speaker at that
an tl! at notifonni'il nKaovironna of f a T in-ilr.
LUl 111 VVllL-lliliai V UOWl Y CWl V. V Ctly lyllt; i-Jl 1 1 VJ 1 J i
Memorial, recalled that Lincoln never defined
his cause of freedom in terms of black and white,
good and bad, excellent and evil. Yet in looking
upon the Emancipation Proclamation as freeing
tne slaves, we do just that.
Neither proclamation was an abolition docu
ment. Unhistorical tradition, as J. G. Randall has
pointed out, has surrounded the proclamation
with an aura of misconception and exaggeration.
The preliminary September proclamation by no
means applied to all slaves but only to those
"persons held as slaves" within areas "in re
bellion agains the United States."
The definitive January proclamation specif
ically designated those districts "wherein the peo
ple .. . are this day in rebellion." The edict did
not apply to Tennessee, nor to specifically ex
cepted portions of Virginia and Louisiana, nor to
the border slave states within the Union. It freed
no Negroes in the North.
THE proclamation, as it stated, was an act of
"military necessity." This was true even of its
timing. An earlier draft had been read to the
Cabinet on July 22, 1862. Lincoln was not asking
advice "about the main matter"; his mind was
made up. Rather he was announcing his course.
But Secretary of State Seward warned that
if the proclamation were issued, then it would
come as a "last shriek on the retreat." Lincoln ac
cepted this counsel; he waited until Lee had been
fought off at Antietam.
The proclamation also was a political act. It
was not so much a blow at slavery as a punish
ment for rebellion. As a practical matter it freed
few slaves at first, for the abolition applied to
districts where the President's power did not
extend.
I INCOLN cautioned Negroes on disorderly be
" havior. No domestic uprising occurred. But
freedmen were extensively used in Union forces.
Ultimate emancipation as a national measure
came only with the Thirteenth Amendment to
the Constitution. Lincoln himself sometimes spoke
almost apologetically of his bold act.
All this being true, the proclamation did
somehow change the course of the war and its
purpose. Anti-slavery became a valid reason for
fratricidal war.
Among conservatives in the North the edict
was criticized as unwise, irrelevant to the main
issue, and highly dictatorial. In the South most
understandably it was damned as the voice of
a fiend calling for insurrection.
Despite these cloudings and . shadings of
meaning, the event was historic. It was the first
step in the long march still unfinished which
is gradually making the Negro citizen a citizen
fact and equity, as well as in name. And this is
no mean thing to celebrate. E.R.R.
Kashmir and India
"There are no two peoples anywhere who are
near than the people of India and Pakistan." The
speaker, oddly enough, is Prime Minister Jawa
harlal Nehru of India, the neutralist who in the
past has shown himself to be neutral on every
thing except Coa and Kashmir, in an interview
published on Dec. 19.
The Chinese invasion of India certainly
brought India and Pakistan closer together than
they had been in years. The Pakistani wore not
slow to see that a threat to one was quite as real
a threat to the other. Now exploratory lmlio
Pakistani discussions opened last Wednesday in
the Pakistan capital of Rawalpindi. Nehru says
he hopes for "some progress" from these.
THE troubles remaining are many. Indian
troops can reach Ladakh only by way of
Srinigar in the Vale of Kashmir.
And religion will always be an issue. Kashmir
has a Moslem majority, which is the base of much
of Pakistan's claim to it. But India proper has a
50 million Moslem minority.
Nehru speaks of confederation of India and
Pakistan as "our ultimate goal."
Indeed, with confederation the coming thing
in Western Europe, Africa, and other areas, a
similar solution for India and Pakistan would
appear most logical. E.R.R.
issued the Emancipation
the Centennial be held.
of the Emancipation
1862 being but a warn
MEDFORD
"You See Fint Women, Then Negroes,
Now Congressmen And Senator"
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Greetings
To the Editor: The follow
ing bit of verse in a New
Year's greeting to my many
logger friends of the North
west. Hope they and you too
will get some sort of lift from
it..
F. J. Clifford
Route 2, Box 200F
Central Point, Ore.
O
TO RUSTY
(A Log-trucker's wife)
I punch the Jammer and skin-
the-cat
and grind the valves to do all
that
required in a Ioggin-show
so long on work but short
on dough.
Kicking the tires of a loggin
truck with a whispered prayer for
real good luck.
'cause you never know
leavin the shack
If you'll be OK or stretchered
back.
For the widow-maker plays
for keeps
while orphaned kids and
mothers weep
for a raw-boned guy so quiet
lav
and the works are closed down
for the day.
I climb the cab and the diesels
roar,
set firm my butt, slam shut
I he door
ease off air-brakes as the shift-
i?pars whine
and wheel 'er out where the
stars still shine.
For miles on miles to the
loiiein'-show.
swell going when dry, plain
hell in snow,
For the big logs roll and like
tn slide.
so I bind 'em tight so they
gotta ride.
Down to the scales, hope they
iinder-weiizh.
then I'm in the clear and on
mv way:
to the wailing dump to kick
the load
then wheel 'er back on the
homeward road.
Grimy and fagged when the
day is done,
I phone the gang for a little
fun,
showered and clean In a brand
new dross.
O boy, O boy there is
happiness.
With bread and meat, the
spuds back-door,
hoping there's coffee a few
days more
yes. logger's lives are a
chancy brew
but what the heck else you'd
want 'a do?
(c) FJC
Birth Control
To the Editor: It seems that
some persons are bent upon
defiance of God's law of prop
agation, which is stated this
way: "ne fruitful and multi
ply and replenish the earth
and subdue it." (Gen. 1:2m
If we attempt to disannul this
edict we are virtually saying
to God that the earth is too
small and there Is danger of
starvation by over-populating
our land.
Now notice the second part
of the command: "Subdue it."
There is no danger of .tarva
tton when a man is willing to
work for his living, for it is
a requirement, also. God says
"In the sweat of thy face
shall thou ent bread, till thou
return into the ground "
Gen. 3:19
The needy nations, today,
are sadly lacking in know
how and the ambition to
work, and now we, the more
fortunate, would beguile them
and ourselves with defiance of
MAIL TRIBUNE, MEDFORD. OREGON
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name and address of the writer.
the case.
a just God. We would use
means to thwart the very pur
pose of our being here upon
earth.
In the masses of humanity
God will attain His portion
whom are trusting in Him. He
says "Trust in the Lord and
do good, so shall ye dwell in
the land and verily thou shalt
be fed." Ps. 37:3
David must have been vi
sioning our day when he
wrote the following: "It is
time for thee, Lord, to work:
for they have made void thy
law." (Ps 119:126) That He
is displeased with thisgenern
tion, is certain: "For He will
finish the work and cut it
short in righteousness," be
cause a short work will the
Lord make upon the earth."
Rom. 9:28
How sad it is that we are
unwilling to trust Him. If He
wanted the wombs to be
closed, He would bring that
condition to pass. He did that
in times past when some na
tion displeased him. Gen.
20:18. He also opened the
wombs of individuals or
closed them, as it pleased
Him. First Sam. 1:5-6
Perhaps if the question of
control were put to a vote in
our country, would it not be
best to trust God implicitly,
and let Him manage that gift,
that beautiful gift, propaga
tion? James Williams
P. O. Box 441
Jacksonville, Ore.
Denial Health
To the Editor: Anna Strecd's
letter on chlorine and fluorine
was a very informational one,
but very little of the informa
tion seemed pertinent to the
issue; nor did she present any
connection between the fig
ures she quotes and fluorida
tion of the water. The only
information available in her
letter was that these two ex
isted together in the same
town at the same time. Surely
Miss Streed, having possession
of so much scientific knowl
edge, also realizes that that
scarcely connects the two.
More data would be needed
to prove any such thing.
A question ma'am: if fluor
ide (the more commonly used
term for sodium fluoride) is so
dangerous that it is unfit for
use by humans, as you imply,
why then do medical and den
tal persons advocate its use?
It will be difficult to convince
me that such authorities would
disregard any information
that would indicate t lint fluor
ide is injurious to the health.
As for diet, I agree that
sweets should not be sold
where the children can easily
buy them, but a dessert at
lunch Is not going to harm
them. As for the other sug
gestions, enriched white flour
is as nutritional as unprocess
ed flour (though, personally,
1 think Hie latter tastes bet
ter); pasteurizing does not af
fect the nutritive value of
milk except for the inconse
quential amount of vitamin
C present (indeed, for the sake
of health, pasteurized milk is
belter, as it is less likely to
contain disease germsl; there
is no difference between but
ter and margarine except in
unsaturated fats (margarine
has the edge here, but I like
butter's taste); and carefully
cooked vegetables are scarcely
injurious to the health as vi
lamin and mineral loss is
negligible 'the bulk in raw
vegetables is good for elim
ination, though, so should be
cairn once a day). As for
seeds and nuts, they are an
excellent source of protein.
Now, whatever all this has
to do with denial caries. 1
don't know, except that a
well-balanced diet, including
meals, builds strong teeth and
Foreign News: Khrushchev's New Year's
Views Awaited; Italian Party Crisis
By PHIL NEWSOM
UPI Foreign News Analyst
Notes from the foreign
news cables:
Moscow Headlines
Nikita Khrushchev is ex
pected to make the biggest
headlines out of Moscow this
week by what
he does or
does not say
at the tradi
tional New
Year's Eve
ball for for
eign diplo
m a t s and
the nation's
elite. Expe-
Newmm rienced diplo
mats do not believe a crisis
is in the wind but they do ex
pect a reminder that the
Kremlin has not forgotten
Berlin especially in view
M'
Washington Report
By William
(o United Feature Syndicate
LOOKING AHEAD
Washington - Washing ton
ends the old year wilh still
lively memories of a recent
tt escape from
imminent and
infinite peril,
in the Cuban
crisis, and
with reason
sonable confi
dence that the
new year may
bring some
easing in cold
white war tensions
all around the world. It would
be quite wrong to present the
atmosphere as one of glad,
full optimism. But it would
be equally wrong not to take
note that 1963 approaches in
the company of fewer birds
of ill-omen than could be
readily espied as 1962 ap
proached 12 months ago.
In this hemisphere, our se
curity is still far from total.
The Soviet backdown in Cuba
has neither deposed Fidel
Castro nor ended his capacity
for trouble-making in Latin
America. But Castroism,
though not yet uprooted, has
been to a large extent genu
inely isolated. And an unex
pected result has flowed from
President Kennedy's decision
to risk nuclear war as the
alternative to an entrenced
Soviet missile base in the
Caribbean.
MOST of the Latin Ameri
can countries which so
long had urged a soft line
upon us in our efforts to deal
with Castro are now more
keeps them that way. That is
a very important part of hav
ing teeth free of caries.
Another important tact, a
recognized one: good dental
hygiene, including regular vis
its to the dentist.
And still another, one that
still is not accepted, is fluori
dation of drinking water.
(Miss) Dayle Ann Stratton
804 Bennett ave.
Medford.
In Good Form
To the Editor: I observe the
female form today is given
far greater publicity and
much more free and paid ad
vertising than any other ar
ticle in thj world mart. Ev
ery art (form features her fig
ure as first. Thorough re
search would prove this some
what mad modern enhance
ment of woman as occasioning
much of our awesome popu
lation explosion.
Advertising surely gets re
sults and this plenteous pub
licizing of Eve has us mildly
wondering whether or no the
mounting multitude of mod
ern mothers are personally
nursing these babes or allow
ing science to usurp their
natural right. We ponder on
whether our millions of lit
tle neighbors answer the din
ner bell according to the most
ancient and honorable rite of
life, or whether they're all
bottle babies, f r have the
transgressors - our too-talented
technicians come up
with something in futuristic
feeding we In the hinterland
have not as yet heard of!?
Man cannot improve on na
ture and no matte- how ex
cellent his public relations
may become no picture
will ever replace that of a
babe at a mother's breast.
William Thomas Cuddy
V A. Domiciliary
While Citv, Ore.
What We Owe
I To the Editor: We found out
I that the Planet Venus weighs
13 septillion pounds. That
ain't nuttin', vc owe that
j much.
I Everett Acklin
j Ashland, Ore.
j HAS FEEDING PROBLEM
j Haddam, Conn. - OTP - Da
ivid Townsend says he's in
ithe market for plain, ordinary
j house mice because white
(mice are to expensive to feed
! his favorite Christmas pres
jent. The present is a five-foot
j boa constrictor from David's
uncle, who bought it from
I New York pet shop.
t '11
S J
of the upcoming East German
Communist party congress.
Khrushchev might also an
nounce an end to the Soviet's
atomic tests. This would be for
propaganda purposes but
would not change the West's
opposition to any uncontrolled
moratorium. Despite Kremlin
talk after Cuba that the
U.S.S.R. and the United States
should seek a settlement of in
ternational issues on a peace
ful basis, the Russians have
made no concrete proposals.
Black January?
Italian Premier Amintore
Fanfani Is looking forward
somewhat uneasily to the com
ing month. Seven of Italy's 18
postwar governments in
cluding three of his own
fell in January or February.
And there are some indica
tions that the present "center-
S. White
nearly in the hard-line camp.
They could at least under
stand the harsh logic of those
Soviet missiles capable of be
ing pointed toward Central
and South as well as North
America.
In Southeast Asia, 1962 has
brought no victory, as such;
but it has arrested Commu
nism's march. Moreover, the
Chinese Communist invasion
of neutralist India-plus good,
tough diplomacy by the Unit
ed States and Britain to com
pel India to deal reasonably
in her old border dispute with
pro-Western Pakistan - may
well have signaled the end
Qf neutralism as an effective
force in this world. For
through its own principal
apostle, India, neutralism has
now been proved the danger
ous illusion that it always
really was.
T OOKING back upon the old
'-'year, the transcendent fact
of all is that this was the
year in which President Ken
nedy freed himself of those
counsels of timidity within
his own administration which
had threatened to compro
mise his leadership of the
free world.
Cuba was the great water
shed. When at last he stood
up all the way there, he not
only forced a Communist
withdrawal. He also came
fully inlo power as a truly
decisive president - decisive
not alone in this country but
also within the Western alli
ance. It is therelore a reasonably
safe prediction that in this
role he will be a strong and
forceful executive in 1963.
Certainly he will be no less if
he now rids his administra
tion's foreign policy of the
undue past interference of the
United Nations-which, though
an excellent instrument in
some ways, is not and never
can be capable of guarding
the ultimate interests of this
or any other great world
power.
A S TO domestic policies,
there are few signs, if
any, that in the year to come
the President will cease pay
ing so much heed to the en
fevered "demands" of the
Democratic left-wing for vari
ous debatable domestic re
forms of variously debatable
kinds. The domestic politics
of the administration are
pretty largely run on the
theory that the urban pres
sure groups are its indispensa
ble allies and so must be pla
cated at practically every
turn.
In short, 1963 should be a
pretty good year on the great,
overmastering issue of our
time, the cold war. But it is
not likely to be so good a year
to those who wish we could
put first tilings altogether
first and so forget about inno
vations in this nation until
its place in the world is made
absolutely secure.
"Woo-eee I didn't think
left" cabinet might suffer the
same fate. The decision is ex
pected to come in a meeting
of coalition party leaders Jan.
8. The socialists of Pietro
Nenni, who are supporting the
government from outside,
have given Fanfani until that
date to whip his Christian
Democratic party into line or
face a crisis. Nenni is pressing
for laws setting up regional
(state) governments before Ihe
general elections scheduled
sometime between April and
In the Day's News
By FRANK
The news?
Overseas, It's still the
weather.
Dispatches from London as
this is written report that
for the sixth consecutive day
bitter winter weather brought
havoc and death to Europe,
with forecasts for more snow
and cold. From Britain east
to the Iron Curtain, from Lapland-
south to the normally
balmy Mediterranean, an un
official count shows that
death attributed to the weath
er rose above. 400 for the
week.
Traffic, rail and miscellane
ous accidents attributable to
the weather have killed at
least 130 Britons. A spokes
man for the Royal Automobile
Club says the roads in hard
hit southern England resem
ble Alpine passes.
IN SPAIN, 11 persons have
died and about 7,000 are
homeless due to floods. Crop
damages from a cold snap in
Eastern Spain are estimated
at $68.4 million.
In Norway, there have been
eight deaths. Norwegian dis
patches report that at the vil
lage of Hell, near the Nor
wegian city of Trondheim, the
temperature dropped to five
above. At Paradise, near the
city of Bergan, the tempera
lure last night was only 28
above.
Draw'your own conclusions.
TJIRANCE reports 44 deaths
from the cold, rrom Mice,
down in the far south, comes
the sad tale that low tempera
tures are chilling the Bikini-
clad beauties along the Rivi
era. No deaths, but much
shivering.
Germany is having the cold
est weather in years. Traffic
accidents due to icy roads and
snow have resulted in 66
deaths and 1500 injuries.
CO FAR,
here in Southern
Oregon, we have been do
ing very nicely in the way of
weather. It has been a bit
chilly around the edges for
the past few days, but nothing
much to complain about.
Maybe the Weather Bureau,
which went out on a long
limb recently and foretold
that for the next 90 days the
Pacific Northwest will have
temperatures ESSENTIALLY
ABOVE NORMAL, with be.
low normal rain and snow,
knows whal it is talking
about.
INCIDENTALLY --
In response to an appeal
issued bv this column several
days ago, Wyatt Padgett has
come across with a copy of
the 1963 Farmers' Almanac.
He reports regretfully that he
has no copies left of the 1962
edition, and adds:
"The 1962 Farmers' Alma
nac predicted the Big Blow
of October 12, but MISSED
IT BY TWO DAYS. I am
out of the 1962's but possibly
could get one from the pub
lisher if you should demand
proof. I'll mail one to the
Weather Bureau, so they can
keep up to date."
POR what it's worth, the
esteemed Farmers Alman
ac predicts for the first half of
the first week in January of
11)63 "fair and colder in the
West, becoming overcast and
threatening." For the latter
you'd erer show up!"
June. Some suspicious Christ,
ian Democrats tear Nenni
might take that opportunity j0
ally with the Communists in
key regional governments.
De Gaulle again
President Charles de Gaulle
plans a news conference early
in January, his first since last
spring. He is expected to take
the opportunity to spell out
his position on the Polarij
missile offer by President
Kennedy.
JENKINS
half of the week, it foresees
"snow in the Missouri valley
and Upper Pacific States."
For the second week in
January, it sees "snow along
the Pacific Slope," and about
the same for the second week,
For the third week, it pre
dicts "colder in the plains and
along the West Coast, with
frosts in California."
We'll see what we'll see -and
draw our own conclu
sions. Strictly
Personal
By Sydney J. Harris
(c- Field Enterprises Inc.
LAZY LISTENING
Not long ago, I took out
nine 7-year-old boys for a
birthday party given by my
son. All the
boys behaved
well - but the
din of their
'?voices was
Si deaf e nine.
Whv rin vnnnrf
c h i ldren, on
i n e w n o 1 e,
talk so loud
ly, and seem
Hams i n c apable of
communicating below the
level of a shout? Part of it, of
course, is due to the exuber
ance of youth, the superfluous
energy that must be discharg
ed in physical motions and ex
ercise of the vocal cords.
But there is another, and
perhaps larger, part. Young
children are not used to being
listened to by adults. They
have to repeat and repeat,
until finally they adopt the
habit of shouting to be heard
at all. Few adults really
"listen" to what a child is
trying to say.
I came home from work
the other day. tired and a
little cross, and my boy
accosted me enthusiastical
ly with a report of some
chemical experiment he had
been making. I nodded absent-mindedly
as he told me
about the chemicals he had
used, and the results he had
achieved. But I wasn't real
ly listening - until he re
peated it the third time, in
sViout-language. Then I told
him not to be so loud.
' Very little children, of 2
or 3, are just learning to
communicate. Their words
are garbled and imprecise
but they know what they
mean. If adults m,ake little
effort lo understand this
embryonic language, then
the children sense a kind of
"psychic deafness" in us
and raise their voices lo
compensate.
We can see this mechan
ism working more clearly
when we are addressing a
foreigner in our language.
If he doesn't grasp what we
are saying, we speak more
loudly - as if the physical
volume alone will get the
message through. Most of
us address foreigners as if
they were deaf and dumb,
as if sheer force of tone will
pierce their minds.
To children, all adults are
foreigners of a sort, in that wo
do not readily grasp what
they are trying to say, be
cause we are tired or inatten
tive or worried or preoccu
pied with our own problems.
And since they cannot speak
our "language." they quickly
learn to raise their voices to
command attention, to repeat,
and sometimes to whine.
Of the four essential hu
man arls - reading, writing,
speaking and listening - the
art of listening is surely the
most rare and difficult. Even
in business and the profes
sions, the great majority of
executives and doctors and
lawyers do not know how to
listen (with the "third car")
to their employees and pa
tients and clients.
Shouting is the way in
which children criticize their
parents for lazy listening.
CARDINAL VISITS CIS
Karachi. Pakistan - HTP -
Francis Cardinal Spellman,
archbishop of New York, be
gan holiday visits Sunday
j to American servicemen sta
Itioned in nnrthern Pakistan.
'Spellman has been to Alaska,
I Japan, the Philippines. Viet
Nam. Okinawa and Formosa
jon his annual Christmas tour
I of U.S. bases overseas.
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