SUNDAY.
The Family Council
Edltor'i note: The Family Council aomlltl of a Judge, a
r-hychlatrUt, three clergymen, three editor! and a women'! editor.
l:ach article ll a iiimmary o( a (amlly dlsaereement presented to Uie
Council. The Council deal! with problems, major and minor,
encountered by guidance counielore and toclal worked. Edited by
by Mrk Alma Denny. (Copyright by flen;;-.l feature! Corp.)
Rot J. - It we split up, il
will be his family's fault.
Mr. D. J. - She is out to
drive my son Into bankruptcy.
Rose J. - At present my
husband and I aren't on speak
ing terms. Every argument we
have revolves around his fam
ily and the business. I keep
trying to open his eyes to the
run - around they're giving
him. For the hours he puts in
working for his father, he
could make twice the salary
and we wouldn't have to be
dependent on them all for a
lift whenever our bills pile
up.
They not only work him to
death in the family business
at coolie wages but, knowing
that I see things clearly and
will try to put Harry wise.
they have poisoned his mind
against me. Only they, not he,
would accuse me of caring
Just about his money. He
should be angry at them, not
me. If he quit and took a job
elsewhere, we'd get along
fine.
Mr. D. J. - There Is no sat
isfying this woman. Four
years ago when she married
my son, he was still an ac
counting student working part
time. She promised to keep
on working until he had his
degree and a good job. After
they rented an expensive
apartment and mortgaged
themselves for years with new
furniture, she stopped work
ing and urged him to quit
studying and take a sales job
in her old office.
Harry was lost there. So,
although I had already re
tired, I wont Into business
again, opening an auto-parts
shop. I expect Harry to run
it and I pay him a good sala
ry. In fact, he's not worth
the check I give him each
week because the profits are
skimpy. But I must stop
Rose's nagging. She won't be
satisfied till Harry holds up
a bank and brings her the
vault.
Tha Council - The big ques
tion for Mr. J. to be asking
himself is, "How did I gel
into this fight?"
Anything that was ever
Rood about this match, as well
as whatevcr's sick about it
now, is between husband and
wife. What has happened is
that a flabby-spined husband
has wriggled over to the sup
posed-to-be neutral corner of
the arena and is pushing his
father out towards the center
to handle Pose's thrusts. So
we remind Mr. J. that Harry
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is a big boy, old enough to
get married and presumably
old enough to face his wife in
a disagreement. Don't be the
fall guy, Dad.
This leads us to Rose whose
pique should not be directed
against her in-laws but against
her husband who (1.) not
knowing what he really wish
cs to work at (2.) bends to the
will of anybody who blows
him a fresh idea, and (3.)
blames his discontent on her
The financial wedge be
tween the pair is easier to
deal with than the emotional,
although one will partially
dissolve the other. The casual
ty may have to be Mr. J.'s
new business, unless he can
find someone else to hire.
Harry's immediate project
must be standing on his own
feet - vocationally, financial
ly and psychologically. Some
day, when his backbone is
stronger, he may well return
to his father's shop. But now
he'd be wise to seek employ
ment with non-relatives. And,
since his beginning wage will
certainly need padding, Rose
should sign up for a job now,
too. This would put the lie to
charges against her of slave
driving, money - m a d n ess,
crassness.
But above all this case re
quires a few hours of mar
riage counseling to sort out
the emotional snafu. We doubt
that Mr. J. is the villain Rose
paints, and that Rose is the
conniver Mr. J. fears will
ruin his son. Not only must
surface bruises be healed and
reputations restored, but also
inner wounds must be exam
ined, explained and "dressed."
A counselor can help Rose
and Harry achieve first self-
respect and then respect for
each other. Love? Let's wait.
4-H News
Kandy Kidi
The second meeting of the
Kandy Kids 4-H club was
held Nov. 14 at Mrs. Don
Bradshaw's home. The meet
ing was called to order by
Donna Bailey, president. The
roll was taken and minutes
were read.
A new member, Myrna
Long, was introduced.
Record books and booklets
were handed out to the mem
bers. A brie! discussion was
held on the new projects. Tlic
goals for next year also were
set. Several plans were made
for a Christmas activity.
The meeting was adjourned.
Refreshments were served by
Mrs. Don Bradshaw. The next
meeting will be Dec. 12 at the
home of Carol Foote.
Carol Foote,
Reporter
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The Spoons and Needles 4-H
club met at the home of Mrs.
F. Norris recently.
Jane Humphrey, assisted by
Debbie Croy, demonstrated
cutting vegetables. Ginny Nel
son explained making sand
wiches, while Tern Sue Wood
cock ninrie tumifish sand
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The Worm, Poison and
Last of the First Robin
The outdoor picture, fram
ed by the large window of the
living room, was not particu
larly pretty. A strip of green
grass, an electric light pole,
a web of overhead wires, a
curb and pavement. On the
opposite side another green
strip, another house, almost
exactly like the first. All the
houses had "picture win
dows," The narrow strips of green
grass helped a little. A recent
spring rain had washed the
grass clean and revived it.
Some of the shrubs had put
forth green leaves.
In one of the houses a man
stood gazing out proudly at
his green lawn. He focused his
eyes on a movement in the
yard. Turning, he said to the
family, "I guess spring is real
ly here; here's the first robin."
The family came to look out
the picture window at Ameri-
onstraled the proper way to
pare apples.
The "snack" consisted ot
food prepared at the meeting
Next meeting will be at the
home of Mrs. C. F. Wicskamp
Nov. 23.
Milk Pail Wranglers
The meeting of the Milk
Pail Wranglers was held Nov.
12 at the home of the leaders,
Mr. and Mrs. Walter Cahail,
Medford.
In the absence of our
president, News Reporter
Louise llcrzog conducted the
meeting until Allen Chissum
whs elected vice president..
Four new members attend
ed the meeting. The next
meeting will be held Dec. 6
at our loaders' home.
Louise Horzug,
Reporter
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Small Worlds
Around Us
By LYNN M. W ATKINS
(Register and Tribuna
Syndicate 19621
ca's most beloved bird, robin
redbreast.
The robin cocked his head,
bringing his left eye into close
scrutiny to the ground. He
had heard an earthworm mov
ing in the grass roots. The
worm, not insensible to even
the light step of the bird,
waited immovable for the
danger to pass. Worm -memory,
however, is short lived.
The worm forgot what it was
waiting for and began to
emerge from its water-filled
burrow.
A sudden flash of beak, an
accurate aim, the robin rared
back, feet braced, and pulled.
The elastic muscles of the
earthworm stretched, but in
their stretching they released
their contact with the burrow
and the worm - body popped
from the earth. It was a big
worm; the robin gulped sev
eral limes before the end of
his slippery meal disappear
ed down his throat.
The children behind Ihe pic
lure window laughed with de
light, remembering about the
"early bird getting the early
worm." The parents smiled.
The very fat robin really did
go "hop, hop, hopping along
the yard.
That morning there were
many worms. Again the bird
cocked his head to listen at
the grass tops. Again the short
wait, Ihe quick thrust and the
backward pull. This worm
had a belter contact with the
earth. The pull continued, the
worm body broke in two. The
robin, thankful for even half
a worm, swallowed the front
section while the worm's oth
er half slid inlo the hole.
The father explained to the
children what had happened;
they were glad the bird got
half the worm. While he was
talking, the family watched.
The robin was still watching
and searching. But there was
something wrong. The chil
dren noticed it first. "Look,"
one said, "Ihe robin looks
funny."
A change had occurred. The
bird, his feathers ruffled, had
stopped. His head nodded;
several times it bnbherl until
the bill touched the grass tops.
While the family watched,
tne very fat robin fell over
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od feebly, both legs jerked,
then the little- hc.riv relaxed
and the head dropped into the
grass. Medford reported 6 cases.
The man remembered the Ashland 7. Central Point 4 and
lawns had been sprayed with Jacksonville 2.
a powerful poison Ihe day he- Rogue River reported 6
lore. The earthworms, tlu-m- cases of pinkeye. Two rases
selves carrying the poison, had 01 gonorrhea were reported in
poisoned the robin, a situation the county,
that occurs frequently in near- Other cases reported includ
ly every neighborhood. i ed one case of impetigo at
It will be a sad commentary j Trail and Shady Cove; four
on human intolerance when ! eases of scarlet fever in Eagle
the "lasl robin" goes hop, hop, Point; one case of German
hopping along the poisoned ' measles at Ashland, one case
greensward; progress will of whooping cough from Med
have taken another step back-1 ford and on; case of measles
ward. in Medford.
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Court Records
MKDFOHD MUNICIPAL COURT
Huih Ediths Hawkins, disobeyed
traffic signal, $5.
Wayne Gordon Blachly, dis
obeyed stop sign. $10.
William Wallace Ttautman, ex
pired operator's license, t.V
David Lee RasnetU. disobeyed
slop feign. $10.
Mary Alice cass, disobeyed traf
fic signal, fio.
Benjamin Franklin Sours, no op
erator's license in possession. $5.
Monty Charles Penweli, violation
of basic rule. $10.
Timothy Glen Johnson, disobeyed
traffic signal. $10.
John Mark Ross, disobeyed atop
ign. $10.
Marion Ann Lausmann. expired
vehicle license, $5; violation of
basic rule. $10.
Thomas Lyndcll Shope, disobeyed
traffic signal, $10.
Donald Lloyd Bhamhall, dis
obeyed traffic signal, $io.
Larry Dennis Sander, disobeyed
stop sign. $10.
Ralph Junior Newman, disobeyed
traiiic signal, $10.
Harold Crandall Sutherland, Vio
lation of basic rule, $25.
Marie Nona Weiser, expired ve
hicle license, $5.
Jerry Lee Jarman, excessive
noise (exhaust), $10.
William Nolan Fraser, violation
of basic rule. $10.
Charles Ralph Adams, disobeyed
traffic signal. $10.
Marie Elizabeth Richey, improper
left turn. $10.
Cyrus Charles Dunlap, improper
left turn, $10.
Harold Jean Davis, driving on
wioi'S ime oi street, ia,
rum
Corrin Lofthus. inade-
quale equipment, $10, suspended
i nomas is.cnn ToiDert,
violation
of basic rule. $10
Glen Raymond Bost, violation of
basic rule. $25.
Bruno Fred Blank, violation of
basic rule, $10.
DISTRICT COURT
Louis Spencer Houston, no puh
lic utility commission permit, $25.
Donald Raymond Baker, diso
beyed stop sign, $5.
David Roy Latimer, no operator's
license, $5.
Virgil William Wilson, insuf
ficient binders, $15.
Leon Gordon Stanley, overload,
$15.
Donald K. Dunlap, overload,
$100.
John James Kamody, excessive
noibe, $3.
Robert Charles Jantzer, no pub
lic utility commission permit. $25.
Margaret Ann Cox. failure to
yield right of way, $15.
Arthur L. Hamilton, Ashland,
driving while under the influence
of Intoxicating liquor, $300.
Ca tali no Julian Martin, diso
beyed stop sign, $13.
Francis Johanna Elliott, failure
to dim lights. $15.
William Jamison Scott, no oper
ator's license. $5.
Mike McClain, no vehicle license,
$5.
Lester William Rhodes, failure to
transfer title, $5.
Varian Earl Hutchison, over
height load, $15.
Ervin Merrill Christian, exces
sive overhanging load, $13.
Lloyd Windel Whitaker, truck
speeding, $25.
Norman George Bursing, no ve
hicle license, $5.
Jimmy Wayne Lunceford, no op
erator's license. $5.
Raymond Rex Note, no safety
chains, $15.
Clinton Fredrich Ayrcs, no saf
ety chains, $15.
Michael Roy Shilts, no oper
ator's license, $5.
Charles Newton Fletcher, over
load. $32.
Maynard Arlie Brood, overload.
$78.
Franci Joseph Punyon, illegal
possession of deer, $50.
CIRCUIT COURT
Joyce Volkinan vs. Howard Volk
man, divorce decree.
Norman George Bursing vs. Mar
jorie Bursing, divorce complaint.
MARRIAGE LICENSE
APPLICATIONS
Albert Leonard Harrison, rnule
2, box 6!)8B. Central Point, and
Kay Etta Sturman, box 4i5, Pow
ers. Ore.
Elgan LeRoy Cook. 3653 South
Pacific highway, Mdforf. and
Diane Elizabeth Davis. 2649 Rob
erts rd.. Medford.
Harold Marshall Holmes, 2217
Woodlawn dr., Medford, and Jean
Wobbe, 1657 Brookdale ave., Med
ford. George Mc Clane vs. Bonnie Mc
MIT MkMAix
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(Winter Arrives December 21)
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LOCATION: Medford and vicinity.
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COMPARISONS: Electricity costs 97 MORE than oil heat
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Clane. divorce complainr
David Harper vs.
divorce complaint.
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