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SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7, 1962
MEDFOHD MAIL TRIBUNE. MEDFORD, OREGON
The Family Council
Editor', note: The Family Council eoailfti nf a Judge, a
Phvchlatriit, three clergymen, three editor, and a women'! editor.
Each article li a summary of a family disagreement presented tn the
Council. The Council dealt with problems, major and minor,
encountered by luldanre counselors and social workers. Edited by
by Mrs. Alma Denny. (Copyright by General Features Corp.)
Ruth V. - She's making her
children too fearful.
Freda N. - Better safe than
sorry, I say.
a a a
Ruth V. - My sister's in
structions to her children
have reached a point of ridicu
lousness. When I called on the
family the other day, accom
panied by three foreign-exchange
students I was escort
ing around the city, I asked
the youngsters to shake hands
wilh the visitors. To my em
barrassment, my 0-year -old
niece replied, "We're not al
lowed to talk to strangers."
I want Freda to see what
she's doing. She's shutting up
her children inside a narrow
cave for safety's sake. I'm
sure she can teach them to
be cautious, but at the same
time to trust a few people,
like tlicir own aunt, for in
stance! She's getting them all
mixed up.
Freda N. - We have three
little ones, a daughter of 0,
and two sons, 8 and 5. I'd
rather have them on their
guard, than ready to oblige or
accompany anyone who talks
to them.
The chills go through me
when I read about the per
verts who prey upon sweet,
trusting little children. I'd
rather err on the side of cau
tion than have my youngsters
get too close to the wrong
person. I admit that Lorraine
went a bit too far, forgetting
that her Aunt Ruth stood be
tween her and the strangers.
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But I'm glad to know how
careful she is.
While the kids are so young,
they're better off not trust
ing their own judgment and
checking with me before
every move they make.
Tha Council: Too much of
anything - even sunny weath
er (as any farmer can testify)
- is harmful, and Freda is
ramming too much cautious
ness into her young children,
without balancing it with a
healthful measure of opti
mism. Her kids are growing
up with walls in front of their
eyes which will not only shut
other people out, but will
block themselves in.
With each normal and sen
sible admonition, Freda
should also hand out a "lift,"
an escape hatch. "Don't take
things from strangers," "Don't
answer strangers who try to
strike up a conversation with
you," "Don't accept candy, ice
cream, toys, or rides from
strangers," - these are a 1 1
common-sense warnings. But
at the same lime, Freda must
emphasize the fact that most
people, even strangers, are
kind and triendly, and that
basically this is a good and
wonderful world we live in.
Her "scaretalk" is merely to
place them on guard against
the liny fringe of sick people
who are at large. She hopes
(she must get across to them)
that as they grow older and
their judgment grows keener,
they can allot.' their warm
impulses toward people more
free play. Her present hold
back counsel is specifically
aimed at protecting them
against molesters, not against
their fellowmen.
Aunt Ruth is right to ask
her sister to re-examine what
she is doing. The children are
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AMBASSADOR'S FAMILY The newly ap
pointed Philippine Ambassador to the Unit
ed States, Amelito R. Mutuc, poses with his
family In front of the embassy in Washing
ton. From left they are the Ambassador,
Mrs. Mutuc holding twins Paola and Pietro,
8 months; Jose Maria, 9; Corinna, 8, Rosa
Maria, 7; Emmanuel, 6, and Maria Victoria,
4. (UPI)
Feeding the Family
Baktd Stuffed Salmon
Truly Elegant Ealing
Famed west coast salmon Is
available in good supply. If
you don't see whole fish in
displays, ask the marnclman.
Tell him you want a five
pound or so fresh salmon for
stuffing. Plan on 10 servings,
obviously a very special occa
sion. Garnish with plenty of
lemon wedges lots of par
sley sprigs or watercress.
5 pounds fresh salmon,
ready for stuffing
Vt cup finely chopped
onion
li cup finely chopped
celery
' Ji cup butler or margarine
16 saitine crackers, crushed
(about 2 cups)
'i teaspoon pepper
i teaspoon poultry
seasoning
1 tablespoon minced
parsley
1 12-ounce package frozen
oysters, thawed or
chopped or 1 can oysters
Saute onions and celery in
butter or margarine until ten
der. Combine with saitine
cracker crumbs, pepper, poul
try seasoning, minced parsley
and oysters. Pack lishtly into
cavity of fish. Place in greased
baking dish. Brush with trick
ed butter. Sprinkle with salt
and pepper. Bake in moderate
oven, 350 degrees, i hours
or until fish fhkes easily
when touched with a fork.
Cheeie-Topped Biscuits
For about a dozen biscuits
of distinction, combine 1 -a
cups biscuit mix, one-half cup
milk and one tablespoon in
stant minced onion to make
a soft dough. Spoon into
mounds on lightly greased
baking sheet.
Make an indentation in cen
ter of each biscuit and fill
with a spoonful of a sharp
cheese spread from a jar. It
will take about half of a five
ounce jar. Bake biscuits in
hot oven, 425 degrees, 12 to
15 minutes, until browned.
Serve hot.
Spicy Chicken Sauce
Fry broiler-fryers as usual;
then make a spicy orange
sauce using pan drippings in
this new and wonderful way
instead of making the usual
gravy.
Stir two tablespoons flour
into one-fourth cup pan drip
pings from fried chicken; add
two tablespoons brown sugar,
salt and pepper, one-half tea
spoon nutmeg, one-half tea
spoon ginger, 1 's cups orange
juice. Heat together until
thickened. Stir in one-fourth
teaspoon tabasco and serve
very hot in a sauceboat so
each person may spoon sauce
over his helping of fried
chicken.
Tomato Tempters
Tomato harvest is big and
so are the tomatoes. Serve
them hot or serve them cold
because any way - baked,
broiled, stewed or raw - to
matoes add zest and vitality,
drama and color to meals.
For a tomato plate certain
to please, allow one peeled,
chilled tomato per serving;
make cuts lmost through the
tomato, fan-tan or quartered
wedge style. Arrange to mato
on lettuce or other salad
greens and fill with one of
these combinations:
Tn, rhicken or shrimp to the center of the problem.
salad, jarnished with hard-
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Cottage cheese, chives, salt
and freshly ground PWcr-
Cream cheese seasoned witn
deviled ham. .
Hard-cooked eggs, dill pick
les and crisp crumbled bacon
and seasonings.
Bologna, cucumbers, stuffed
olives and green onions,
chopped and seasoned.
Helpful Hints
For sliced canned chicken
or any other meat for that
matter, chill cans in refriger
ator. Open both ends, push
meat through, then slice with
sharp knife.
When whipping cream,
have everything-crcam, bowl
and beater-thoroughly chilled
in refrigerator to reduce whip
ping time; increase volume.
Grate rind from oranges or
lemons before cutting. It is
much easier. Wash fruit first.
Grate only outer layer of rind
for the fine flavor you desire.
Tender Hams
Preferred By Consumers
Food editors assembled in
New York at the Newspaper
Food Editors Conference
were brought up to date on
the ham situation when Wil
son and Company, third larg
est meat packer in this coun
try, reported on a century nf
pioneering and progress in
the "ham packing" industry.
In "the good old days," ham
was packed in barrels of salt
and homemakers had to wash
it. Darboil it for hours, skin
it and then bake it. Even then
the result wasn't likely to get
written up in local food col
umns. Came the era when ham
was cured for a mere 45 days
in a pickling brine to give
curing processes time to get
Later came IS day cure "
Today's processing techni.
ques, in the "good new days,"
long since eliminated the nee
cssity for putting hams into
vats; curing time nc takes
24 hours. All this research
and progress came about be
cause consumers preferred
milder moister hams.
More than 90 per cent of
all hams processed today are
the bone-in ham, smoked and
fully-cooked with moisture
added, semi-boneless hams,
smoked and fully cooked
boneless ham, smoked and
fully cooked boneless ham
roll. And they all cost less
than the old-fashioned kind.
Canned hams, fully cooked,
become more popular every
year - now range in size from
ij to -4 pounds. All hams
are adequately labeled for
consumer convenience.
The federal government's
Meat Inspection Division re
cently ruled that hams proc
essed with moisture added in
plants with federal inspection
must be labeled "water add
ed." This, of course, is not
technically correct since plain
water is not pumped into
the ham. Actually additional
curing solution is added for
extra juiciness. Whatever has
been going on has consumer
approval as indicated by con
sumer acceptance.
Best buys: Eggs are plenti
ful; reasonable in price. Beef
and pork supplies are greater
than a year ago. Veal and
lamb are fairly abundant.
Strawberries are in heavier-than-usual
abundance for so
late in the season. Sweet,
juicy, low-in-calories Honey
dew, Persian and Casaba mel
ons are in good supply.
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becoming overcautious, and
developing an unnecessary an
tagonism towards new ac
quaintances. There's a deli
cate danger line between wari
ness and hostility. Freda's
children are en route to view
ing anyone new, who hasn't
been okayed by their mother,
as a saboteur. She'd do better
to keep them viewing such
people as, at least, question
marks.
There's a free leaflet, offer-1
ed by the Police Dept. of N. Y.
City, which can guide parents
like Freda. Entitled, "A Mes
sage to Women", it suggests
nine precautions families can
take against child molesters.
From Ruth's description,
we gather that Freda has been
taking nine times nine pre
cautions, which are adding up
to more than is necessary and
to a distorted view of the
world for Freda's children.
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