THURSDAY, JULY 19. 19B2
MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE. MEDFORD, OREGON
MEDFORD MAIL TFIBUNE,
:Di ORD, OREGON
THURSDAY, JULY 19. 1982
Family
Council
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Citunrll rnrulktk nf a JtlfU. a
PvrhtatrlM, ihrei rlnicvmrn,
three editor and a women'i editor.
Karh artii-le Ik a kutnmarv of a
family disagreement presented to
the Council. The Council deatk
with prohlemf. major and minor,
enrountered hy culdanre eoun
elora and toclal workers. Edited
ty Mr. Alma Denny. (Copyright
by General Featurea Corp.)
Mr. T.R. - She won't lift
a finKer at home and I want
her to get out.
Mrs. T. R. - She has no
where lo go and I'd worry
about her.
Mr. T.R. - I think It s high
time we got tough with Mil
lie. What do you think of a 22-year-old
girl who sits around
the house all day, watching
TV, reading and eating? Her
mother is sickly, and so at
first I thought it would he a
good idea for Millie to stay
home. After squeezing
through high school, that's
what she wanted to do - noth
ing! But 1 figured she'd help
her mother.
Instead, she sat hack and
added lo my wife's burdens.
The work got so heavy I had
to engage a maid. Now Millie
asks the maid to do the things
for her she uped to make her
mother do - iron her dresses,
serve her supper, straighten
her room. I want her to get
a job and take a room some
where. Once 1 see her helping
herself, I'll be glad to chip in.
we
Mrs. T.R. - You don't just
turn out a daughter. Where
would she go? Millie's never
hren particularly ambitious.
She barely finished high
school and has no special
training for a job. Maybe she
could learn to sell in a store,
but she doesn't know the first
thing about business.
Maybe I spoiled her. My
husband was away a lot and
I kept Millie close to me.
We're more like sisters than
mother and daughter. She's
wonderful company for me. I
don't mind doing little things
for her, picking up after her.
She has a marvelous disposi
tion and it's a Joy to have her
around.
1 don't think Tim should
nag her about helping. He
can't stand seeing her sit
quietly. He doesn't realize
we'd need the maid whether
Millie was here or not. I'm
not well and household help
is essential.
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Th. Council: "Whal shall
we do about Millie?" puts
Millie in the position of the
red herring which diverts at
tention from the main ques
tion which may well be, and
must have been for years,
"What shall we do about our
selves?" - ourselves being
Mr. and Mrs. R.
We'll bet there are dozens
of sore spots .1 this marriage
which these parents would
like to explore and thrash
nut, but the only one they
ran safely bring to the sur
face is Millie. And we'll dis
cuss it on the surface. But we
cannot refrain from noting
that Millie's apaihy and par
asitism may well be the end
products of a childhood
frnunht with confusion and
divided loyalties.
From the brief colloquy
above we already observe
how her niothei defends her
from her father, how her
father resents the expense
and the indulgences 'olerated
because of her mother's inval
idism Each of these has more
lava than love bubbling in
side As lo Millie, she appears lo
be a nnn-hroughl-up child
Any moves to set her straight
ore about 20 years late, hut
may still be effective To
speed things up. a psychnln
gical counselor may he able
to lead Millie to the answers
ninsl people have already
groped for al her age. an
swers to: What am I best suit
ed for' Where ran 1 besl
serve'' Whal are my goals in
life'1 I'p to now she seems lo
h;ive no nioie purpose in life
lhan a rai rol And she. too.
mav be headed for a 'slew.''
unless she is jarred from thr
unproductive da.e she's in
We agree with Mrs. M. thai
Millie shouldn't he lurned
nut. Hut her design fur livlne
should br turned Inside out
Naive, dependent, untried,
her fale on Ihe outside could
he worse than it is now She
might fall easy pre. to the
wrong influences and Mr. R
ivonld regret exposing her to
Ihe winds Instead she should
he led (preferably by a gnid
ance worker! to accept a new
frontier in her life that of
giving Instead of taking
She will nred help in
standing up to her parents
her crippling mother and crtt
leal father. Her duties it
home will have to be defined
and insisted upon, as pari o:
her membership dues in the
family And a lob is in tin
cards for her, loo If she does
not know the "first thing,"
there ate training deparl
ments to teach her. Millit
merely needs a goal.
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By JOSEPH L. MYLER
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