Medford mail tribune. (Medford, Or.) 1909-1989, February 23, 1961, Image 34

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    MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE, MEDFORD, ORE.
THURSDAY. FEBRUARY 23, 1961
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We're
Having
A Camera
to Introduce Our
New Gift Center
1 only each
Bell & Howell
8 mm. Movie Camera
With Case
Reg. $49.95 $J COO
NOW
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Bell & Howell
8 mm. Movie Camera
Reg. $44.95 $50
NOW OA
Eastman
Electric Eye
Starmatic
127 File-Reg. $?50
$29.95-NOW
Cameras
Perfumes
Jewelry Watches
Noveltys Tobacco
8mm Kodak Brownie
8 mm. Movie Camera
Model 2-Reg. '$0150
$32.50-NOW ,v
F2.3 lens
PLASTIC DROPCLOTH LAWN
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1 9x12 size
1,000 uses
Now only
All sturdy metal construction.
While They Last
& 8
CM
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EL AY
2B
OUTSIDE PAINT
Self Cleaning
Improved for
Rough Service
White
Brown t
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GARBAGE CAN
,'. 31 Gal. With lid
wJ f ft
Burners
899 fl
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Galvanized
Reg. $1.29 Value
Soft Face
HAMMER
Steel head, wooden handle with inter- frvjf
changeable plastic or rubber tip.
HACK SAW
Rubber pistol - grip
handle. Adjust t o
three lengths.
BROWNIE STAR FLASH SET
0 PLUS o Reg. $11.95
For the next 10 days you receive a FREE
roll of black and white film for each roll
brought to us for developing.
This offer will be good on as many rolls as you can shoot in the next
10 days. Black & white roll will be given, even if you bring in a color
roll - of course the regular fee will be charged on developing, and
the offer does not pertain to reprints on negatives.
MANY OTHER CAMERAS & ATTACHMENTS
DRASTICALLY REDUCED !
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SPECIALS FROM OUR PHARMACY
20 Gal. Capacity Ventilated
STEP LADDERS
6 Ft.
$f79
2 Ft.
$66
Rubbing Alcohol
Regular 59c Size
Dristan Tablets
Regular $1.69 Size
Super Anahist
COUGH SYRUP Reg. $1.79
Super Anahist
NASAL SPRAY Reg. $1.79
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3y2 lb. Size
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Chocolate, Vanilla, Orange, I
Butterscotch jf
s-i9 $S9y
NAIL SALE
Bright 4-D6-D
Finishing 8-D 1 lb.
Smooth 8-D 16-D
Box 11b.
Fine 3-D 1 18"
Shingle 1 lb.
February Clearance Sale
on the Mezzanine
Girls' Corduroy Slacks
Sizes 2 to 6 $1.00
Sizes 7 to 14
Subtccn 8 to 16
$1.19
$1.79
Girls' Car Coats
Hooded All Washable Val. lo $7.08
Sizes 3 to H $2.99
Girls' Wool Skirts
ain Colors
en's 8 to 1
$3.99
Asst. Plaids and Plain Colors
Sizes 7 to 14 Subtecn's 8 to 14
Values to $8.08
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MrClWH "Botanv"
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fi $13.95
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Yardage & Notions
Dept.
GINGHAM
1 NOW CARRIES A WIDE SELECTION OF
79
tj Sweaters
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Drastically
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AT ONLY
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BROWSE THROUGH OUR NEWEST
SIMPLICITY PATTERNS
ALL THE LATEST STYLES IN STOCK
SEWING NOTIONS
FOR ALL YOUR SEWING NEEDS
KNITTING WORSTED 07
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Ladies' Capris
$2.99
Asst. Flannels Corduroy and Knits
Sizes 8 to 18
Values to S7.98
NOW JUST 1
All Fine 100
lambs Wool
Smart New
. Styles
-k All Sizes
fc Perfect for
Spring Wear
$99
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100 Wool 4-oz. Skein 4-Ply
Cotton Prints
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Values to 49c Yard
SI 00
iYards For
Ladies' Casual
Cotton Dresses
Regular and Half Sizes
While They Last $2.99
Ladies' Short Sleeve
Slip-on Sweaters
Orlons Fur Blend and Banlon
Sizes 34 to 40 $179
Ladies' Cotton Blouses
Asst. Prints and Solid Colors
Stock Up NOW QQ
JUST 35a.
Latest Toy Sensation
SkjpStick As Seen on TV"
Johnsons gg pj
The All New Way To Shine Shoes
98'
49
Shelf &
Linin
Whi
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te Glazed . . . Smooth Em
Shoe Department
Sizes 4-4l2-5
Samples Only!
We've just received a shipment of Sample Shoes.
All in the Latest Styles.
IF YOU HAVE A SMALL
HARD TO FIT FOOT . .
DON'T MISS THIS
Very Good Selection
Heels and Flats
Values over $7.95
$98
PAIR
PRESEASON
ON
FISHING EQUIPMENT
Rod and Reel combinations galore! All Brand New
Stock, all popular brands! Fly, Spin, Trolling, cast
ing and Salt outfits! Here's just one example:
MITCHELL 300 wline
LONGFELLOW ROD
Reg. Value - $45.45
Family V
Council
Cditur's Note: The Family Cuun
ell consists of a Judge, a psychia
trist, three clergymen, a newspaper
editor, a women's editor and tw
writers Kach article is a summary
of an actual case history .The
Council reports on problems 'that
have been dealt with by responsible
agencies and counselors.
Julie H Aly husband feels
lost without his brother.
Milton H She's just try
ing to break us up.
Julie H. I'm married four
years, have a two-year-old
baby, and now suddenly rea
lize that my 30-year-old hus
band is the biggest baby I
know. He ean't make a move
without consulting his older
brother. '
I knew they were very
close and I admired their re
lationship as a fine, brotherly
loyalty. From childhood up,
they slept in the same room,
went to the same school, and
are now partners in business.
But I had no idea that Mil
ton, as an adult and a mar
ried man, was so dependent
on his brother socially and
emotionally. I feel I'm mar
ried to a hyphenated person
named Milton - Alvin, even
though it's only Milton who
comes home each night.
My immediate problem is a
social one. We spent a pleas
ant evening at the new home
of a couple who happen to
know Alvin and his wife, too.
While there, Milton remarked
that Alvin would feel bad
over not being asked along,
and that we had all better,
keep mum about the visit.
The upshot? We must return
next month with Alvin and
wife, and pretend that it's our
first visit, to spare Alvin's
feelings! .
How can a wife grow close
to a husband who wants to
be 99 per cent brother?
Milton H. I can't under
stand what Julie has against
Alvin. He s never said a word
against her. In fact, he liked
her from the minute I intro
duced her to him, and was
glad I was marrying her.
I owe a great deal to Alvin'
and I don't think I can ever
do enough for him. He took
me into his business as an
equal partner, even though I
had nothing to offer but my
two hands and feet. Our
business is thriving. Both our
wives get a good allowance,
and Julie should be as grate
ful as I.
About this party coming up
next month that has Julie aH -burned
up, all I did was re
mind our host , to do some
thing he meant to do anyway.
They really wrnted Alv.ii and
his wife along that first lime,
and it was an oversight. And
since I can't bear to see Al
vin hurt, we cooked up this
little plan for us all to come
over together, and play
dumb. y ' i'-
II Julia's, trying. to make.
me choose between her and 1
my brother, she's just being
cruel.
-
the Council: We can sympa- :
thize with Julia in her mar
riage to the little man who
Isn't there, because he's men
tally back in that childhood
berth next to Big Brother.
She's reminding him that
he'd better take stock and
discover where Alvin ends,
and he an entity called
Milton begins.
Under flowery protesta
tions of "brother-love, Mil
ton clings to an almost hys- ,
terlcal involvement with Al
vin. Breaking loose seems inv;
possible. And yet, for a suc
cessful marriage, it must be
done. Julie sees that he can
never be wholly hers, because
he is not even wholly him
self. To find himself, see him
self, and stand alone as i a
whole man, he may need the
detached aid of a guidance'
counselor. But he must be
helped to see that his nervous
solicitude for his older broth- .
or is the symptom of anun-.
healthy hunger. To satisfy it,
he is sacrificing his marriage
Julie has a hard row to
hoe. On the surface ope
might suggest that she en-"
dcavor to feed her husband's
ego so that he may find
greater satisfaction in the
husband-role, with less need
to play the hovering brother.
But it's harder to super
impose a new relationship on
an old than to start from
scratch. Milton came to Julie
"with strings attached," tied
to his brother. Evidently no
body has yet explained to
him (or else, he can't accept)
that marriage means "for
saking all others and cleaving
only unto thee."
This does not mean aband
oning Alvin. It merely calls
for a re-alignment of loyal
ties, in the order of their
claim upon his thoughts and
actions. In our society, llvs
Wife and Child first. ',
Milton has two families,
the one he was born into, and
the one he was man enough
to found himself. The second
is his first responsibility. His
brother isn't. 1,1
An average adult person
has four to six quarts of blood
weighing 12 to 15 pounds.
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