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"- SUNDAY, JUNE 5. 1960
MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE. MEOFORD. ORE.
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The Family Council
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. Each anlcla Ta a""t dllor and two writer!
- counselor!. b e" a" wl " MsponilbU agencies and
Bruce C
boy.
Ethel coddles our
- Ethel C. -
" best for him.
I know what's
.- Bruce C. - My wife and I
- nave a long-standing conflict
: about a problem that affects"
;our youngest son, Tim, aged
.10.
, Tim was seriously ill in his
pearly childhood and still suf
; fers from a slight physical
. handicap. The doctors say he
; may5 or may not grow out of
" it. But whatever the outcome,
'1 feel he must learn to be a
" man in a man's world.
; Ethel coddles him too much.
She makes a baby of him. He
'. gets his way in everything. He
starts up with the other kids
:and then runs to her for pro--tection.
He won't always be
"able to do that. He must learn
to fight his own battles.
t r.mei i. - i teei tnat no-
'body knows what is best for
her child as a mother does.
Everybody says I spoil Tim,
l but if it weren't for me he
might not be alive and healthy
today, 'Ine doctor has said
i that many times.
; Tim is definitely very deli-
cate. He can't fieht. It Is also
important that he shouldn't be
"emotionally upset. It's true he
jets his way too often, but I
an't run the risk of letting
.im get over-excited.
As Tim becomes better able
jo reason, I'll be able to help
" lim cope with things. He is
an unhappy boy because he
;. can t be just like the others
" The Council: The problem's
, ef dealing with an invalid or
jHolfzinger Speaks
$Uaycee Meeting
vj George Holtzinger, sales
'".representative of the Celotex
-corporation, was guest speak
ier at a recent meeting of the
tMedford Junior Chamber of
Commerce.
He showed a movie entitled,
Your Home Comes First."
Two- new members wel
comed Into the local club
;were Robert W. Remington,
"809 Marie st., Medford, branch
:manager of General Electric
rCredit corporation; and Bruce
R. Rogaert, 927 West 13th st.,
.-formerly of Vista, Calif.
Richard Greer, Medford
;Jaycee, spoke on proper han
dling of the U. S. flag at a
jneeting of the Grants Pass
Jaycees Wednesday. Douglas
'Peters, Medford Jaycee sec
retary, accompanied him.
C Approximately 16 people
from the Medford Jaycees
;planned to attend the Grants
tPass Jaycees' installation ban--quet
and dance Saturday.
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handicapped child may be
more delicate and involved
than the usual ones, but, es
sentially, the child himself is
not very different.
Like all children, the handi
capped boy or girl wants to
be independent. All children
want to grow up into strong,
capable adults and all chil
dren are at times uncertain
whether they'fr ever be able
to make the grade.
Parents give children a
sense of security through
their love, but this very love
can undermine the child's
sense of security if it isn't
bestowed judiciously. The
over-protective kind of love
frightens the child because it
leads him to believe his par
ents have no confidence in his
ability to fend for himself.
A frightened child can be
very aggressive when he feels
he can get away with it. He
may pick on those who are
smaller and weaker, or even
attack bigger children if he
is assured of adult protection.
What is upsetting aboutj
Tim s case is not his inability
to fight back, but his aggres
siveness. We don't doubt Eth
el's contention that he is un
happy and easily upset.
We don't think Ethel ought
to worry about what "every
body says" of her treatment
of Tim, but she should try to
understand her boy and her
relationship with him even
more deeply than she has in
the past. Naturally she has a
great deal of anxiety about a
delicate boy, but she must use
this anxiety more construc
tively in helping him build
his confidence.
The answer for Tim is to
help him find abilities
through which he can exercise
his powers. He should learn to
play a musical instrument if
he has the inclination, or he
might be good at drawing,
woodcarving or photography.
When he accomplishes some
thing on his own he will gain
belief in his ability to become
man in a man s world.
Fighting physical battles
won't be necessary.
(Copyright 1960, General
Features Corp.)
Graduation Held
At Local Academy
Graduation exercises were
held Saturday for the eighth
grade class of Rogue River
Junior academy, Medford, at
the Valley View Seventh-Day
Adventist church.
Pastor Floyd Bresee was
speaker at the 11 a.m. bac
calaureate. Pastor Don Mac
Kvor gave the address. Mrs.
Ersel Hallsted, organist, and
Mrs. David Morgan, soloist,
provided special music.
Fourteen eighth graders re
ceived diplomas and special
recognition was given to eight
10th graders who completed
their work at the school this
year, Principal ired Wilbur
said.
Eighth graders are Stan
Mohr, Patty Ruozi, Judy
Beltz, Ronald Bechtel, Caro
lyn Bigger, Kenneth Cory,
Melvin Hackworth, Steve
Hallsted, K a t h y Jennings,
Sandy Kitchen, Sannon Ren
hard, Linda Trude, Gene Yost,
and Roger Zanotto.
Tenth graders are Daren
Baker, Sharon Bowman,
Frank Brown, Arthur Fry,
Dorecn Paulson, Karen San
tee, Larry Snyder and Pati
Zanotto.
Rogue River Pupils
Take Examinations
Rogue River-Rogue River
eighth graders took achieve
ment tests in the high school
gymnasium last week, accord
ing to Superintendent John B.
Harr.
Scores from the California
Testing bureau battery will
be used in counseling at the
beginning of the freshmen
year next fall.
The results will be of par
ticular value in placing them
in the proper mathematics
program," Harr said. "Those
showing higher achievement
will be started in algebra
rather than In general mathe
matics and will be encouraged
to pursue another three years
of more advanced mathe
matics," he added.
Other valuable scores for
counseling and guidance pur
poses are the ratings for read
ing ability and jsvel ot Eng
lish usage, Harr pointed out.
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