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MEDFORD, OREGON, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 19, 1960
Section B
NEW OFFICERS - Elected as new officers of the Oregon
Veterinary Medical association at Thursday's Portland con
ference were (from left) Dr. Roy H. Peterson, Tillamook,
president; Dr. Raymond C. Storey, Molalla, president-elect;
and Dr. O. H. Muth, Corvallis, secretary-treasurer.
People's Thinking
Subject of Study
San Diego, Calif. -(UPD- Can
one man know how it feels to
be in another man's shoes?
" A San Diego State College
psychologist says the answer
is yes and he wants to know
more about it.
The psychologist. Dr. Way
man J. Crow, will direct a
two-year study in how accu
rate one individual can be in
judging another.
"We all know people who
lack insight into others, who
can't take a hint," Crow said.
"We also know others who
quickly sense our moods and
feelings, who seem to know
what we are trying to say
when we ourselves can't find
the right words to express it."
He said he will make use in
his study of people who can
easily put themselves into the
other fellow's shoes.
He said he hopes the study
will show how to direct such
people to occupations that can
make use of their ability to
to understand others. He also
thinks a way nay be found of
Instilling this quality in those
who lack it.
VERY MUCH ALIVE
Sheboygan, Wis. -ftPD-Adolf
Fale told would be rescuers
Wednesday he really wasn't
dead. Police set out with ropes
and a long ladder after spot
ting Fale lying motionless and
face down on the Sheboygan
river ice. But Fale explained
he was peering through the
ice trying to spot minnows
and remained motionless so as
not to frighten them.
Rules Listed for
Flower Planting
Minneapolis, Minn. - (UPD -Begin
planning for indoor
spring planting of flowers
now, and follow these rules,
says the University of Minne
sota Institute of Agriculture:
Keep the plans in sunshine
or bright light. Roses espec
ially need sunlight.
Keep the soil moist, water
ing whenever it is dry to the
touch.
Keep the plants at cool
night temperatures, prefer
ably at 60 degrees.
Keep the plants out of ex
tremely hish temperatures
(over 75 degrees).
The Family Council
Editor"! Note: The Family Council consist! of s Judge, m psychiatrist,
three clergymen, a newspaper editor, a women's editor and two writers.
Each article is a summary of an actual i-ase history- The Council reports
on problems that have been dealt wtk by responsible agencies and
counselors.
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Washington's Birthday
Louise R. - My sister says
I shouldn't marry him.
Jeff D. - She's crazy if she
listens to that crackpot.
Louise R. - I am 28 and
single. I guess that describes
about the worst of my prob
lems.
As a result of being in
popular and hopeless about
my future I became involved
in an affair with a man I had
known only a short time. Jeff
is 33 and also single and very
much in need of affection.
After we were involved for
several months I started to
feel very guilty about this re
lationship. I told Jeff I want
ed to get married or break
off. He told me he didn't love
me, but was willing to marry
me. I don't love him either,
but I now feel that I have less
chance than ever of marrying.
I don't know what to do. My
sister, who doesn't know the
whole situation, advises me
against marrying him. She
thinks he's no good.
Jeff D. Louise is crazy if
she listens to her crackpot
sister. Pauline has had it in
for me from the first because
she thought I ought to take
Louise to all kinds of fancy
places and spend a lot of
money on her. The heck with
that stuff. Even if I had the
money I wouldn't want to go
to those places..
Aside from that, Pauline
doesn't realize the kind of guy
I am. We don't have to get
married. Nobody and. nothing
is forcing us, but I am willing
to do it because I realize
Louise is very unhappy. I feel
sorry for her.
Louise can do as she likes.
I'm not trying to force her
into anything. I just want her
to know that if she lets her
sister tell her what to do she'll
probably remain an old maid
- and she'll have only herself
to thank.
The Council: Louise and
Jeff seem to be suffering from
the same disease and we don't
see a cure coming out of mar
riage to one another oh the
basis they have established.
Essentially their disease is
self -hatred and interestingly
enough one of its main symp
toms is the lack of ability to
love others.
As we get the picture these
two threw themselves at one
another, feeling that they
were so worthless nobody in
the world could care for them.
Neither had respect for the
other because they couldn't
believe that anyone worth
anything would bother with
them. The acts of physical in
timacy in which they in
dulged were colored with fear
and disgust because each felt
used by the other.
At the moment Jeff holds
the upper hand because Lou
ise was first to break under
the destructive impact of such
a relationship. But if they
marry because she is desper
ate and he "feels sorry for
her" they can only destroy
one another further with the
ferocity of their hatred.
The best thing that Louise
and Jeff can do is to recognize
that they need to reconstruct
their lives emotionally and
morally if they wish to
achieve any satisfaction and
peace of mind. Perhaps they
can find a little more self-confidence,
which is a form of
self-love, by trying to expand
their social horizons and put
ting themselves out to be con
siderate of others. Gradually,
they will find that persons of
both sexes can like and even
love them just as they are.
Then they will be ready to
consider a marriage based on
self-respect and mutual re
spect. Louise should bear in mind
that her age and past errors
are far less .important than
her present state of mind. She
should cultivate generosity
and a warm interest in things
and people. This will keep her
from the depression that now
serves as a big barrier to
forming new friendships.
(Copyright 1960,
General Features Corp.)
FARM INDUSTRY
Washington - It is esti
mated thai.jnore than 35 per
cent of all Americans either
work on farms, in industries
which process farm products,
or furnishing goods and serv
ices to farmers.
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VALUE
Dolly for dollar, your wisest invesN
ment for pleasure and functional use
is a brand new car. And your Medford
dealer adds to the value by protecting
your purchase with skilled service and
complete selection of quality parts.
ECONOMY
Look at the results of the Mobilgas
Economy Run! The new cars are de
signed to obtain top performance
AND maximum mileage. There's
economy in other ways, too: every
thing in your new car is designed
to last longer.
STYLING
Never before have cars been built to
give you so much pride and pleasure.
Look at the low, trim lines -accented
by sculptured steel, see the tastefully
fashioned new interiors and the galaxy
of new colors. There's beauty in every
inch!
QUALITY
From bumper to bumper, tires to roof,
every part of the new cars is designed
and constructed to assure you of top
quality.. New long-life metals, fabrics
and plastics are tested, then carefully
crafted into your new car.
COMFORT
Like roomy interiors and lots of
stretching room? The new '60s give
amazing new dimensions of room and
comfort for the whole family, and
lots of trunk room, too! For practical
uses, the station wagon selection is
greater than ever!
PERFORMANCE
There's safety in performance and
the '60 cars have it! All the new en
gines operate more smoothly, linked
to the finest transmissions ever of
fered. Take a test drive and see what
pleasure you get behind the wheel.
DEPENDABILITY
Turn the key your car will start
quickly and run like a whisper mile
after mile, year after year. New de
signs, combined with better materials
and lubricants assure you of depend
able performance never before imagined.
ENGINEERING
There's been a revolution in engineer
ing and you get the brilliant bene
fits in a sturdy, steady new car. En
gineers have developed new bodies
and chassis that give you top-flight
comfort, readability, safety in your
new '60 car.
Discover
how much
better the new
1960 cars really
are! Discover that...
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D-Days are here . . . and the '60's are rolling. The cars are new and exciting, and Medford dealers have a big
ger, wider selection than ever before! Now, during Dealer Days, it's easier than ever for you to own a new car
yourself! Why not visit the showrooms tomorrow? Slide under the wheel and see if the new cars aren't even
more luxurious and comfortable than you'd imagined . . . take a test drive and thrill to the power and ease of
handling of a '60 . . . talk price to the salesman and discover that he'll give you a real deal! Do it tomorrow . . .
don't delay . .
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