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The Family Council
Editor's Note: The Family Council consists of a Judge, a psychiatrist,
three clergymen, a newspaper editor, a women's editor and two writers.
Each article is a summary of an actual case history. The Council reports
on problems that have been dealt with by responsible agencies and
counselors.
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AMBASSADOR ARRIVES W. M O. Halm, new ambas
sador of Ghana, arrives at the White House to present his
riwfontials to "President Eisenhower. The envoy told news
men after his visit that American 'newspaper pictures of
the President do not do him justice. (Vrl leiepnoto;
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Eileen M. Mary should get
away trom ner parenxs..
Mary M. I have no guts.
Eileen M. I am a single
girl of 24. Two years ago 1
left home and came to the
city to get a job and be on my
own. I am doing well and live
with a very nice family.
The reason I left home is
that my parents, especially
my mother, are impossible to
get along with. They just don't
recognize the 20th century.
They think a young girl must
be watched and criticized at
every step. They gave me no
freedom, opened my 'mail,
listened in on my telephone
conversations, waited up for
me whenever I went out.
Now they are doing the
same thing to my kid sister.
She is going on 18 and I am
trying to convince her to come
live with me as soon as she
gets out of high school. Un
fortunately, she doesn't have
the guts. Our parents will
ruin her life if she doesn't
get away.
. Mary M. It's true that. I
have no guts. I'm considered
very shy and when I visit
Eileen in the city I get almost
sick seeing all those people
hurrying around. She showed
me her office and I just know
if I worked in a place like
that I would never talk to
anyone. I'm all right with peo
ple I know, but I get so nerv
ous with - strangers. '
I guess our parents are
pretty hard to get along with,
but I seem to get around them
a little better than Eileen
does. Anyway, I've managed
to get them to leave my mail
alone and let me have some
privacy at the telephone., .
when I visit Eileen she
keeps bothering me about
how to dress and act and
which people to try to "make
out" with,, etc. I get even
more shy and nervous and
I'm glad to get home again
to be . with my parents and
old friends.
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The Council: From these
accounts, we suggest that Ei
leen is quite a chip off the
old block. Mary is wise to be
aware of the fact that the
"freedom" Eileen holds out to
her comes to little more than
a change of tyrants.
Since Eileen knows the un-
happiness domineering indi
viduals can cause their vic
tims, she should try to spot
and curb this tendency in her
self. Her interest in her sister
and her offer to be of help
are sufficient. It is not her
business to "rescue" a sister
who doesn't want to be rescu
ed from the arms of cruel parents.
Individuals like Eileen of
ten feel quite weak deep with
in themselves. They put on
a bold front and may go far
in establishing their independ
ence. But they are still un
certain of themselves and
want : to dominate someone
weaker as added assurance of
their powers.
On the other hand, Mary
sees herself as a timid, fright
ened person, but has actually
proven herself quite strong
and competent. She has man
aged to make some changes
in her strongly domineering
parents and she shrewdly
avoids placing herself in a
dependent position in relation
to her sister. She shows every
sign of being able to cope
with her problems. She should
worry less about her shyness
and her fear of large numbers
of strange people. Social ag
gressiveness ' : isn't . the only
worthwhile characteristic.
There is plenty of room in
the world for reserved in
dividuals. Mary may gain so
cial poise if she is allowed to
grow in her own way at her
own rate. ;
The taunt of "no guts" is
nonsense; Each of us has a
personal battle and a per
sonal way of fighting it. We
can't set the terms of the
battle and the weapons to
be used for someone else.
(Copyright 1959.
- General Features Corp.)
News About
Servicemen
COMPLETE TRAINING
Marine Pvt. Kenneth A.
Williams, son of Mrs. C. V.
Connover, route 1, box 463,
Eagle Point, recently complet
ed recruit training at the Mar
ine Corps recruit depot, San
Diego, Calif.
AWARDED MEDAL '
Army Specialist Four Wil
Ham N. Barlow, son of Mr.
and, Mrs: Olen H. Barlow, 415
Pine st., . Phoenix, recently
was awarded ' the good con
duct medal while serving
with the Fourth Transporta
tion battalion in 'Ludwigs
burg, Germany. " '
' Barlow,' a graduate of
Phoenix High school, attend
ed Oregon ' State college
where he was affiliated with
Sigma Pi fraternity. His wife,
Sharon, lives at 1425 Crater
Lake ave., Medford. -
TO LEAVE .
Marine Pfc. Neal W. Rob
erts, son of Mr. and Mrs. Ros
coe W. Roberts, 2476 Spring
st., is scheduled to depart
from San Diego, Calif., Nov.
2, aboard the Navy transport
USS General D. I. Sultan for
Okinawa with the Second
battalion, Fifth Marine regi
ment from Camp Pendleton,
Calif. , . r
The battalion is, scheduled
to arrive at Naha, Okinawa,
Nov. 19.
SERVING ABOARD
Richard T. Rosemus, son of
Thomas Rosemus, 5179 Crater
Lake highway, Medford, is
scheduled to be promoted to
third class petty officer while
serving aboard the attack air
craft carrier USS Essex.
. Rosemus will become a fire
controlman technician third
class in the U.S. Navy effec
tive Dec. 16. . ' '.
The Essex is currently on
its second Mediterranean tour,
Pendleton -UP- Robert V.
Keller, 36, a Washington state
prison escapee,, today was
found innocent of a charge of
assault and robbery while
armed with a dangerous wea
pon.
Grange Notes
Central Point Grange
The annual Grange Booster
night Saturday, Oct. 24, at
Central Point Grange was
considered, a success. The
event started with' a potluck
dinner at 7 pjn. '
The Grange lecturer, Mrs.
Gaston Floux, presented the
following program: presenta
tion of the Flag and the sing
ing of the Star, Spangled Ban
ner, lead by Mrs. Effie Kurtz;
group singing directed by
Mrs. Arnold Bohnert, with
Mrs. Kurtz . pianist; remarks
on Grange history by Grange
Master Benton Boyce. .
Harry Myers, music direc
tor for the Central Point Jun
ior High, presented three stu
dents in a flute trio. In honor
of Myers, the Rev. G. Robert
Jacks of Medford sang "The
Oregon Waltz." This is the
song Myers composed for the
Oregon Centennial contest
and which placed third in the
state. " . .
"The Voice of the Grange,"
an original poem by Mrs.
Scott Hamilton, was read by
Mrs. Hamilton. "Portrait of
a Member," an original poem
written by Mrs. Otto Neider
meyer . and honoring Mrs.
Hamilton was read by Mrs.
Floux. '
Mrs. Walter Jensen gave a
resume of original skits and
poems that Mrs. Hamilton had
contributed for various af
fairs of the Grange during the
years she has been a member.
Mrs. L. C. Goydon presented
Mrs. Hamilton a corsage.
In celebration of United Na
tions Day, the audience sang
"The Song of Peace," led by
Mrs.- Bohnert. Students of
the Colleen Hope Dance Stu
dio were presented by Col
leen in dances of - various
countries. Two "Gay Nineties"
numbers were features in
costume by Mrs. Frankie Bur
ton, accompanied . by Mrs.
Kurtz.
Mr. Jacks sang "Sweet Lit
tle Jesus Boy," ."He's Got the
Whole World in His Hands,"
and i "Danny Boy." Pianist
was Mrs. Kurtz.
"American Citizenship" was
the title of the speech by Mrs.
Clarence Wilson of the Med
ford Toastmistress club.
The.- program.' concluded
with the singing of "May the
Good Lord Bless and Keep
You." Square dancing and
mixers were directed by Ben
ton Boyce for the remainder
of the evening.
Christopher Columbus was
a weaver while studying geo
graphy.
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