The Family Council
Editor- not.: Tb. Family CnoncJ eonsljta ol Judje.
thre. clergymen, a newspaper editor, a ttomen'i editor and two
Each article Is a sammary of an act oil report. The Family Cooncu
not fiva advice: It merely reports on problems that have oeen
with by responsible agencies and counselors.
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Laura S.-She should break i has been going on for several
off the relationship.
Betty IL-But I love him.
Laura S.-I am trying to
help out my friend who has
gotten into a lot of trouble,
partly because of me.
I introduced Betty to Ed. I
was sure she would like him
and she did-a little too much.
She was swept off her feet
and got involved in an affair
with him almost at once. This
months and she says sne
wants to marry him. He ap
pears to care for her a lot,
but is very vague about mar
riage. '
I saw that she should break
off the relationship entirely
as he has proven that he is
not a man to be counted on.
He isn't the sort of a person
who would make a good hus
band. But Betty insists she Ji
never love anyone else
Belly R.-I don't think Ed is
as bad as Laura says. I recog
nize that what has happened
was at least half my fault If
I had resisted fa
would have resDeptorf
wishes and still kept me as a
friend.
Ed has manv mm:. ii.-
I would like to find in a hus
band. He is interesting and
has a good sense of humor
and he is very attractive to
me. At times he can be very
?weet. I really l0Ve him very
much and don't want to break
it off.
The trouble Is that he
Clams UD at anv montinn nf
marriage. If I get stubborn, I
don't hear from him for
weeks on end. By the time, he
calls again I am so glad to
hear from him and so eager
for contact with him that I
take the easiest course.
The Council: Betty has in
deed gotten herself into a
peck of trouble. From the
looks of things, she has gam
bled away any possibility of
happiness she could have had
with this man.
- Unfortunately, Betty has
also invested a good deal of
herself in Ed. Her "love" con
sists to a great extent of her
awareness of all that she has
given to and hoped for from
this relationship.
It will be hard for Betty to
swallow the fact that her emo
tional investment up to this
point will yield no return.
She'll probably have to step
out with a loss. The more she
puts into the relationship, the
more she will have to lose
under the present terms.
If Betty sincerely loves Ed
she will not be able to go on
accepting the physical ges
tures of love without the un
derlying content. If she still
wants affection and tender
ness from him, and she still
has some hope of marriage to
him, she must give up the re
lationship as it now exists.
She .must make clear to him
what she really does want. If
Ed is not willing to give this,
he is of no use to her any-
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tion of 22 cantons, including
three that were joined in the
13th century.
way. It is just possible that a
firm and clear-cut decision on
her part will force him to sit
up and take a new view of
her and their relationship.
Betty should make it her
business to gain a better
understanding of her emo
tional needs as a woman and
as a self-respecting human be
ing through consultation with
a doctor and a clergyman.
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General Features Corp.)
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Farm Forum Will Slress New Frontier
Spokane -DPD Delegates
to the sixth annual Pacific
Northwest Farm forum here
Feb. 9-10 will concern them-
SENTENCES SUSPENDED
Charleston, S.C. -(DPD Mag
istrate W. D. Dickey gave sus
pended sentences Friday to
13 teen-agers arrested after a
gang fight Tuesday night that
sent two youths to a hospital
with stab wounds. Officers
said about 75 white youths
took part in the brawl but
only 13 were arrested.
selves with the challenge of
changing agriculture.
P. R. Gladhart, forum
chairman, said Friday the top
ic has been chosen because
modern farming is a mixture
of art and science.
Gladhart said that with the
country's changing economy
the farmer is no longer on
some geographic frontier.
Rather, he said, the farmer is
on a frontier of ideas.
The timberline in moun
tains is an elevation beyond
which trees do not grow.
In the Battle of Trafalgar.
27 British ships were pitted
against 33 French and Span
ish ships.
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