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TTrurtdsy, July 13, 19S8
The Family Council
Editor' .Vote: The Family Council conflict of e Juaie. a psvchlatrlrt, a
nrwjpipr editor, a wnmeo I pare editor and two newspaper wrl'erg These
consult with clrrymn of ajl filth and denominations. All letter! are held
In complete confidence.
Mr. L.M.R.: She threatens to of inadequacy and making her
leave home
Brenda: Mother makes me
seem a brat.
Mrs. L.M.R. My daughter,
Brenda, is 1 6 and evidently go
in? through a very difficult
s'age of I:fe. She is constantly in
tears, sr-oids rr.e 55 thou
were a low-grade servant
arsnej that neither I nor my
husband understands anything
conrr-rning her.
We have a good home and,
v.hiie we have to hudert out
s' lve? carefully, Brnda has cer
tainly had more of
inings or me than eitner I or
my husband enjoyed at her age.
She has a closet full of dresses,
yets a spending allowance and
manages to chisel a few things
from her father.
When I try to zet her to share
a little in the housework, she
feel even more criticized in her
parents' eyes.
Brenda no doubt exaggerates
when she accuses her mother of
looking like a "washwoman,"
but it would be well for her
mother to spruce up a bit and
budget Brenda more carefullv.
h I i Brenda suffers in her own opin
and : ion from a realization that she
is m the wrong. She bitterly re
sents her parents' disapproval.
The brst way to cure that
problem is to eliminate this feel
ing of disapproval by ending
the appeasement process and re-
good 1 quiring Brenda to earn approval.
When she earns it. she should
have it in unmistakable form.
Brenda is a torn person. She
wants to be good, and she has
fallen into "bratty'' ways. It is
up to the parents to insist that
she be good more often and
"bratty" less often. The parents
f r ,
4 L
is.
ft. V s . -.
-itimanaiiainiii Tim,
invariably s'arts screaming about j have made some of the difficulty
her problems. It seems, to hear
her tell it, that she is unpopular
in srhool and among the boys
and girls of her group because
of me, and my chief offense is
that I do not dress well and I
have no s ' 1 I life. When I sug
Jfe.st I could have more clothes
and more social life if she spent
Ie-s and hejpnri me in the house,
she becomes bitter and wild in
her talk.
Lately, she has taken to threat
ening to leave home to find a
job because, she says she hates
living with us. She also talks .'
about having herself psychoana- ;
1 zed and claims that a number
of the i:n ls in school have been :
helped hv a rt.'r !y ,-ts. '.
Prenda I can never satisfy '
my parents, no matter how hard
I try. They expect me to get
high marks in school, be a social
success and help with the house
work. I fail behind m my school
work because I am always tense
after arguments at home. I can't
eet along with the girls in school
because they gossip about my
mother and me. I seem to have
the reputation of being a brat
because I try to dress well, while
my mother comes to school look
ink like a washwoman. I am
not popular with the boys be
cause I am not trusted to stay
out late or go to the night spots
the hoys like to take girls to.
My parents just enjoy criticiz
ing and tearins me apart.
by making a special case of
Brenda She is an ordinary girl
and should be treated with un
derstanding but firmness.
(Copyright 195S.
General Features Corp.)
High School Tourists
Leave Mascot Behind
Portland UP. Two bus
loads of touring high school
youths from Michigan left Port
land yesterday, minus one mem
ber of the troop that has accom
panied 'hem on the tour.
Coozie. a white dog with a
curly tail, was missing when
fhe 44 students left for Seattle.
Her disappearance touched off
a call for help from Portland
residents to recover the mascot.
Parke Pennington, director
of the student tour, hitchhiked ;
back to Portland to look for
Coozie when it was discovered
she was not aboard the north
bound bus.
By noon he had to give up
and rejoin his tour but left a
plea with friends here and the
Humane Society to be on the
lookout for Coozie.
ELIZABETH TAYLOR. MICHAEL WILDING
Friends Blame) Age, Personality Difference
Liz Taylor, Wilding
Announce Separation
In Joint Statement
Hollywood (UP- Film star;zabeth. I thought I'd guide her
Elizabeth Ta-. lor confirmed to-: along life's stony path. Not at
day what Hollywood has long! all. Lately I'm simply told to
Court Records
DISTRICT COURT
Danny Emory Lovett. cn.t headlight.
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Paul r Edward. v Corine
f.n.ll nri.h'.eto of n,3lar!i..stm.l l .. J . nnnaav v. tommy
J . KTuiadv livnrr. ''"npialnt
I Pe parent: may be to eaL'r r to; Carn!nr .! OarrherlHln v Dean
Kitharn Lhamoerlain. divorce com-
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appears to have a painful sense , cTanL"nI,
of inadeqiiancy
advance their daughter beyond j ,',,'
ineir own status, ana Brenaa Hazel walker vj. Amos w. Walker.
Mary Jane Larchertv vs John
I-auchiin LaniherTv divorce complaint.
The parent evidently have at-! Vp.'AinV VSE
Miss Jean ChnsOanfcOn. Anderson.
Calif, and Colin Louis Darrah, Red
Bluff. Calif
Miss Mary Ann Wright, box 148.
Butte Falls, and Dwain Allen Richcrd
son, route 4, box 387. Grants Pass.
tempted to solve this problem by
.giving in to their daughter's
hysterical pressures, and by
depriving themselves. This is no
olution because it only widens
the gap between parents and
Child, increasing Brenda's sense
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ULIKXNI SMAY-CNUtlCU CO. UH. I Ua. U. i. fot. CWic. OtTMO BOTANO
expected she has separated
from actor Michael Wilding, and
friends blamed age and person
ality differences.
The actress. 24. and her 44-year-old
English husband issued
a joint statement that "Much
careful thought has been given
to the steps we are taking. It is
being done so we can have an
shut up.''
Sacrificed Career
Wilding only two weeks ago
sacrificed his career to remain
with Elizabeth, turning down
the touring company of "My
Fair Lady." Instead, he accepted
a briefer job in a film to begin
production next week in Swe
den, but friends said "Elizabeth
opportunity 10 work out our oictn t even want him to accept
personal situation. We are in : that.
complete accord on an amicable The actress herself leaves in
separation." - 1 0 days for location work on
No Divorce Plans ; MGM's "Raintree County."
The couple said they had no Other friends blamed the
immediate plans for a divorce, splitup on the fact her career
That the separation w a s : nas skyrocketed past his.
Wilding, they added, also "has
friendly was not in doubt. Both
still are living in their glass
been upset over
Elizabeth's
and-stone hilltop home. After j school girl crushes on her co
announcing the separation ! stars." Last fall gossip column
Wednesday night, they went out j ists claimed she was in love with
together for a drive.
Friends said, "Liz and Mike
are very unhappy over this and
Elizabeth is crying her eyes
out."
W'llding and his wife, often
called the world's most beauti
ful woman, were silent on rea
sons for the breakup. But
friends paid the cause lay in
Elizabeth's struggle to become
an adult."
Second Try for Each
The couple, each with one di
vorce in the past, tied the knot
in London, Feb. 21, 1952. The
union wasn't given much chance
by Hollywoodites because the
suave, sophisticated Wilding
was 20 years older than the
emotional Elizabeth.
A year ago the couple's domes
tic troubles became common
knowledge in the film colony.
Recently a magazine writer said
the reason for their differences
was that ''Wilding married a
clinging child who has grown
into an independent adult."
He Hates It Now
Observers claim the former
child actress lived under Wild
ing's guidance until she began to
make her own decisions a year
ago. Recently Wilding said to
his wife. "The happiest years of
my marriage were when you
were so dependent on me. I hate
It now. Now, I follow you
around "
Wilding also recently told a
magazine writer. "I'll admit I've
developed a complex about Eli-
Rock Hudson. Rumors have cir
culated again recently since
Montgomery Clift, an old friend
of Elizabeth, has been a con
stant guest at the Wilding home.
Tractor Upset Kills
Camas Youth, It
Camas. Wash. (U.R) An 11-year-old
Camas boy was killed
here yesterday when the tractor
driven by his 14-year-old broth
er overturned on him.
Clarl; county officers identi
fied the victim as Clifford Den
nis Littleton, route 2, box 1090.
Camas.
He was riding behind the trac
tor driven by his brother Larry.
The older boy drove the tractor
down a grade and attempted to
turn into a driveway but the
speed was too great and the ma
chine flipped over onto the
younger boy.
Roseburg Bus Service
To Resume on Aug. 6
Roseburg (U.R) Roseburg's
bus service, discontinued three
weeks ago because of lack of
patronage, will be resumed Aug.
6 on a 90-day trial basis.
New operator of the transit
system will be Ellison Transpor
tation Co. Former operator of
the system was Joseph Abeln.
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United Prats Fntur Writer
Washington 'U.R) The Gov
ernment Printing Office can
supplv vou with information on
JMiwwt-mjs almost any-
unug nivt uuw
to shoe a horse,
diaper a baby
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parsnips.
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gest general
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est booklets off the presses is
a volume on the Capitol. The
cover shows the building in bril
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Hail, Tornadoes
Plague Midwest
By UNITED PRESS
Hail whitened patches of the
Midwest Wednesday night as
thunderstorms dumped rain
over scattered sections.
Tornadoes were reported in
five states. but apparently
caused no damage. The twisters
were spotted in North Dakota,
Iowa, Minnesota, Alabama and
Florida.
Hail shredded crops in Mis
souri. Nebraska and Minnesota.
The hail near Wellfleet, Neb
was accompanied by a torren
tial downpour of rain measured
at two inches. The heavy rain
fall sent creeks in the vicinity
over their banks.
Another hailstorm near Kan
sas City. Mo., dropped pieces of
ice described as big as walnuts.
The hail was driven by winds
reaching 80 miles per hour.
The thunderstorms blanketed
a wide area stretching from the
Gulf of Mexico north almost to
the Canadian border and from
the Rockies nearly to the Appa
lachians. The Pacific Northwest and
the rest of the far west enjoyed
clear skies along with the New
England area . Farthur south
along the Atlantic Coast some
cloudiness marred otherwise
pleasant sunny weather.
Michigan ranks first in boat
building and in the production
of automobiles, automobile trail
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woodworking machinery, break
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how the Congress functions.
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Most of the printed matter or
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the Department of State, among
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One of the biggest chores is a
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when Congress is in session the
printing of the Congressional rec
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Here the printing office shows
its colors. Copy for the Record
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debates, etc., from both houses.
In the back is the appendix, a
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team, at present under the able
thumb of Public Printer Ray
mond Blattenberger.
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Marlon Doves Enters
Hospital for Checkup
Hollywood (U.R) Former
film star Marion Davies, 56. un
derwent a physical checkup at
Cedars of Lebanon hospital to
day. She entered the hospital
Wheat stocks held Yn itl ttot
age both on and off farms in
North Dakota April 1. 1956.
were estimated at 70.596,000
bushels.
Wednesday night after rporV
edly suffering exhaustion.
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