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Sunday, October 18, I9S5
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IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT is expected from Britain's
Princess Margaret and Capt. Peter Townsend about plans,' if .
any, to wed. He returned to England from "exile" in Belgium;
she halted vacation presumably to meet him. (International)
As We Live
LONELINESS NEED NOT
MAKE ADULTS UNHAPPY
Loneliness is one of the com
monest complaints among adults.
Having had companionship from
birth, they can
not adjust
themselves to
bejng alone
when some
thing happens
to deprive
them of that
c o m p a n i on
ship. Even a child
Dr. Her lock must be alone
at times. He cannot always have
playmates with him, nor can he
expect a busy parent to amuse
him.
As years pass and the child
reaches maturity, the times
' when he is alone may increase or
decrease, depending upon the
circumstances of life. The
chances are, however, he will
Qnot like loneliness any more
than he did when a Child, and
will seek means of overcoming
it.
Being alone can be fun, if it is
not for too long at a stretch. A
few hours, or even a day when
there is no one around can be
a blessing for a person whose
work makes it necessary to be
with people most of the time.
Just getting away from people
is a good way to eliminate ner
vous tension and emotional strain
from constant human contacts.
People who learn to enjoy being
alone are generally far more re
laxed than those who want per
petual companionship.
Can Do As He Pleases
When alone, a person can be
himself and does not feel it nec
essary to act and talk as others
think he should. He can dress,
recline, and do as he pleases. So
cial pressures are not present to
force his behavior into any set
pattern.
Most important of all, he can
do the things he wants to do,
; when and how he wants to do
them. He does not have to con
sider other people nor does he
have to stop to think if he is
inconveniencing or bothering
anyone. The ability to be one's
self without any restraints makes
being alone occasionally more
By ELIZABETH HURLOCK, PH.D.
fun.
LETTERS FROM READERS
Opinion of Others: . "What
makes some -people so afraid of
public opinion lhat they wait to
see how people feel about every
thing before doing anything?
N.M.
(A) Fear of public opinion
springs from a feeling of per
sonal inadequacy. When a person
has self-confidence and self-assurance,
he does not stop to think
of how others will react to what
he says or does. He says and does
the things he thinks are right.
On the other hand, the person
who feel inadequate and inferior
is too afraid of what others might
think to take any chances and,
as a result, he waits to see what
their reactions are before he is
willing to move.
Sloppiness at Home: "I feel
that a man should be as careful
about his appearance at home as
he is when at - work. My hus
band is .very critical of me if I
am not fixed up when he returns
from work, but the first thing
he does is to take off his coat
and tie, and kick off his shoes.
He accuses me ot picking on
him if I say anything about this."
Mrs. T. L.
(A) This is a case of "what is
good for the goose is good for
the gander." If your husband ex
pects you to be neat and well
groomed when he comes home
from work, you have a right to
expect the same of him. I am
sure he could be comfortable
without being sloppy if he had
some lounging clothes and com
fortable 'shoes.
Grandchild: "Our son eloped
last March and the baby arrived
in July. Of course everybody
raised eyebrows and we have
been very much embarrassed and
ashamed. I cannot feel the same
way about the baby as I would if
the circumstances had been dif
ferent. Is this unnatural?"
(A) It is perfectly natural for
you to feel as you do. However',
the baby will have a hard enough
time in life without your adding
to it. Try to feel as -you would,
had circumstances been differ
ent. (Copyright, 195J.
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