OPINION READER’S FORUM Founded in 1906 WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 22, 2021 A4 OUR VIEW Where has Rep. Greg Smith been? Last week a conservative, national orga- nization released a report that showed Rep. Greg Smith, R-Heppner, has missed more votes — 240 out of 825 — than any other member of the Oregon House of Represen- tatives during the last Legislative session. The Club for Growth Foundation, a 501c organization with a focus on cutting taxes and other economic issues, issued a scorecard evaluating how many times law- makers — in both the House and Senate — were available to vote on the array of bills that come up during a legislative session. The data collected by the group showed in the Oregon House, the average member missed 8% of the 825 total votes. Repub- lican House members missed, on aver- age, 10% of all fl oor votes and Democratic members missed an average of 7% of all fl oor votes. Rep. Smith missed 29% of votes in 2021. The voting record of a lawmaker is important. How many times an elected leader votes are one clear way for constit- uents to gauge how involved they are and whether they are truly doing the people’s business. Voters don’t elect men and women to the Legislature to do nothing. Voters should expect their lawmaker will be actively engaged and responsive. To be fair, lawmakers can miss votes for a host of reasons. Sickness, family matters and, at least in the past few years, COVID- 19. No doubt, the coronavirus pandemic created new and complex problems for lawmakers. Still, to be singled out as the one law- maker who missed more than 200 votes, as Smith was, is surely not a good sign for area voters. In fact, it is troubling and raises a host of questions that, so far, are unanswered. That’s because Smith did not respond when he was asked by the Club for Growth why he missed so many votes. Other lawmakers who missed many votes did respond to the organization. Some cited other legislative responsibil- ities — such as caucus eff orts — or men- tioned COVID-19 restrictions or a desire to SCHOOL DAYS avoid the infection. There could very well be good rea- sons why Smith missed so many votes but absent an explanation what it looks like is he is not doing a good job representing his constituents. His voting record is even more mys- tifying because he was fi rst elected to the House in 2000. He is a veteran lawmaker who should know better. Smith’s voting record deserves a closer look by his constituents. Because on the face of it, it doesn’t look like Mr. Smith is spending the amount of time he needs to attend to business at the Legislature. LETTER TO THE EDITOR Healthy habits help students cope with challenges T he holidays are most often a as their academic growth. They are time of joyful celebration for intrinsically linked. children and families. Even It’s even more important that par- with adjustments to some of the usual ents have the tools to help their chil- school traditions like concerts and dren develop healthy coping skills class parties, there is still a lot of cheer and positive mental health. The fi ve to be found in our classrooms areas we pay attention to, and and in our community. ask parents to help cultivate, But for some students, this are: season is the most diffi cult time • Self-Management — of the year. A study from the How well students man- National Alliance on Mental Ill- age their emotions, thoughts, ness reports that 64% of peo- and behaviors in diff erent ple with mental illness say their situations. conditions worsen during the Tricia • Social Awareness — How holidays. This is true for adults Mooney well students consider the per- and children alike. spectives of others and empathize Children are like sponges, soaking with them. up everything around them – joy, grat- • Grit — How well students per- itude, stress, and anxiety alike. What severe through setbacks to achieve they experience at home, at school, long-term goals. and with friends shapes the way they • Growth Mindset — How stu- process and manage their emotions dents perceive the potential to change and mental health. factors central to their performance in We’ve all been living through a school. historically traumatic time, and the • Emotion Regulation — How accumulation of that anxiety takes a well students regulate their emotions. toll. It starts in the home, and when stu- Teachers and staff in the Hermis- dents enter kindergarten we begin by ton School District pay close attention talking about how to listen to what to the social and emotional needs of their feelings and bodies are tell- students. Their mental and physical ing them. We teach students how to well-being is every bit as important calm themselves when they are over- whelmed and how to name what they are experiencing. As they move through elementary school we begin to work with students on their grit and how to develop a growth mindset. They learn that chal- lenges are learning opportunities, and how to build supportive relationships with others. In secondary grades we focus on interpersonal skills and respect for themselves and others, which are both important parts of creating a safe environment. They also learn how to set goals for themselves and follow through. Using these skills they are better prepared to handle the stress and anxiety life can throw at them. We can always remember that the holidays aren’t a time for joy for everyone, and that expressing sad- ness and depression is the healthiest way to deal with them. It can be diffi - cult when it feels like everyone else is feeling festive, but you are not alone. We do hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday season and come back refreshed for a new year and new opportunities in 2022. ——— Tricia Mooney, doctor of education, is the superintendent of the Hermiston School District. Poisonings an attack on all wildlife The loss of eight Eastern Oregon wolves to poison- ing over the last year is an assault on all things living. It represents an indiscriminate attack on all our wildlife. All wildlife, avian and mamma- lian, carnivores and scaven- gers, are put at risk by these selfi sh acts. These animals repre- sent important pieces of a healthy, naturally-function- ing ecosystem. Their short sighted and illegal exter- mination threatens the bal- ance and function of that ecosystem. The Confederated Tribes of the Umatilla Indian Res- ervation supports a balanced approach to wolf recov- ery and carnivore manage- ment. Health, human safety and protection of our local economies is an important part of that balance, as is the maintenance of healthy big- game populations through a transparent, thoughtful and professional management approach. The vilifi cation of wildlife species and these vigilante attacks undermines this management approach. Wolves and other carni- vores serve an important role in maintenance of the health and vitality of our big game populations, as well as the many small carnivores and scavengers that make up our collective wildlife heritage. In addition to playing a role in ecology, predators have long been respected in tribal culture. They are prominent in our stories, coyote being the most famous, but wolves and others play a part in some of those stories handed down for many generations to provide teachings and les- sons as examples. Predators are esteemed as hunters, and often used in tribal members’ Indian names and tribal place names. They are promi- nent features in our regalia, including sacred eagle feath- ers, talons, and for some, even the hides and claws of mammalian predators are worn. All of these predators are threatened by indiscrimi- nate acts like poisoning. We hope the responsible parties are caught and held accountable for their actions and encourage any others contemplating such mea- sures to please reconsider. Kat Brigham CTUIR Board of Trustees chair EDUCATION CORNER Teaching our children how to deal with disappointment Q uickly babies learn that if they are hungry, with a bit of crying, someone will provide nutrition. As they grow and develop, they promptly refi ne what response they need to give to resolve what is causing their unhappi- ness. The child is beginning to create confl ict resolution Scott Smith skills. Yet when they reach a certain point, we as adults often step in and “fi x” situations so our children don’t become frus- trated and have a meltdown caus- ing us possible embarrassment. Our problem-solving skills of avoiding a temper tantrum stop the child from developing this life skill of self-evaluation and resolution. Everyone being a winner does not help our children succeed in dealing with life disappointments independently. It does teach them that adults will fi x things, so they are happy. The older the child gets, the harder it becomes to change those behaviors. Starting young and teaching them how to deal with disappointments and evaluating how they might avoid the situation next time will serve them the rest of their lives. Taking the time to teach your children how to deal with loss or failure and not blame is a complex skill they will continue to refi ne all their life. At some point, you or they will have to deal with fail- ure or loss. Sooner is better than later. Stepping back and helping them evaluate why they lost or failed is that life-impacting teach- ing moment. Asking them, “What could you do next time?” teaches them what they need to do to have success. It is much more challeng- ing than it seems, but the results will have rewards beyond belief. 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Postmaster, send address changes to Hermiston Herald, 333 E. Main St., Hermiston, OR 97838. Member of EO Media Group Copyright ©2021 ing that failure or loss is actually learning. As adults, how we deal with the failure of a situation models how our children respond when they experience a loss or failure. Most of us have gone to a school’s science fair and observed the stu- dents’ projects. The student who learns the most often is the one with the sad-looking cardboard box with notebook paper notes and drawing taped on the box, if handled correctly. This child was placed into the natural process of evaluating their project against others. Therefore, learning to see what others did, they understand adjustments they might try their next project. This student now learns the process of assessing a situation to better the result next time. The more often we allow a child to experience this process, the more their abilities will be enhanced, and they will use these abilities daily. Timing can be crucial. The night of the science fair when they see no ribbon is the best time to evaluate things. There is a natural process of learning when dealing with loss or failure. The absolute worst thing you can do is push the loss or failure onto someone else or something else. Later, spend time to reassure your child that you are proud of them and ask them what they noticed about other sci- ence projects and what they might do diff erently next time. Life-learning occurs when we allow the child to evaluate a sit- uation and make life adjustments to prevent replaying the previous experience. Life-learning also hap- pens when participating in sports — asking, “What might you try next time to make things better?” cause the child to start the thinking process. It’s easy to blame others when things don’t go as planned. The skill of self-evaluation over what the child might change next time activates the thinking process in the child. However, blame won’t increase the child’s ability to eval- uate and improve their skills or change the result. Looking for ways to acknowl- edge our children’s frustration and learn how to deal with loss or failure is accomplished through questioning as a way of evalua- tion. Asking questions such as: “What do you think happened?” “What should we do diff erently next time?” helps build their understanding of evaluating and taking charge of situations in a healthy way. Loss and failure are a part of life, yet we can control how we deal with it and make things better for ourselves and others. ——— Scott Smith, doctor of educa- tion, is a 40-plus year Umatilla County educator and serves on the Decoding Dyslexia Oregon board as its parent/teacher liaison. CORRECTIONS length and for content. It is the policy of the Hermiston Herald to correct errors as soon as they are discovered. Incorrect information will be corrected on Page 2A. 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