OPINION READER’S FORUM Founded in 1906 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 10, 2021 A4 EDITOR’S DESK What our children have lost during the pandemic A s I interviewed Hermis- ton School District’s band and choir teachers last week about the challenges of teaching such an interactive subject virtually, I asked what it had been like to have such an abrupt ending to the school year almost a year earlier. They described can- celed concerts, choir fes- tivals and fi eld trips that students had worked Jade hard for and looked for- McDowell NEWS EDITOR ward to. Band recruit- ment activities never took place, and the high school’s spring musical, “Grease,” never fi n- ished production. It struck a chord with me as I thought of how devastated I would have felt as a high school senior if our spring musical production of “Cinderella” had been canceled half- way through. Some of my best high school memories came from rehears- als and performances of that show. Recently, I saw an article about what experiences teenagers have missed because of the pandemic, and there were comments underneath about how students needed to stop whining when having virtual classes was nothing compared to previous generations who had been shipped off to war when they turned 18. It is true, there are teens who have had it worse. However, we would all be better off if people stopped giving Hermiston School District/Screen Capture Sandstone Middle School band students play a concert from their homes via YouTube video in November 2020. in to the instinct to pop up and shout “But something worse happened to someone else!” every time another human being says they’re having a hard time. Pain is pain, no matter where it falls on the scale of Every Bad Thing That Ever Happened. Many of the experiences youth are missing out on right now, taken in singular, aren’t essential to their growth and development. I didn’t bother to go to half my high school’s dances and yet I turned out fi ne; I doubt missing prom will leave today’s high schoolers with some essential missing ingredient to their character either. This is about more than a missed milestone, though. I can’t point to a singular event in my senior year of high school that shaped my life, but the year in general certainly did. I was testing the limits of the new- found level of independence that came with a driver’s license, get- ting over my fi rst taste of heartbreak and navigating social dilemmas and complicated friendships that seemed to come with higher stakes than the playground dramas of years past. Long after memories of the for- mula for the Pythagorean theorem have slipped away, I still treasure the memories I made in the choir room, on stage and in the stands. I remem- ber funny moments in the class- room, and spirited conversations about religion and politics over lunch as we slowly shaped our worldview. It is cruel that a generation of stu- dents had those memories, and oth- ers had them ripped away suddenly last spring, even if it was what was needed at the time to save lives. The question is how this past year will shape them. Older generations have accuse my generation — the Millennials — of being soft and enti- tled because we got too many tro- phies (I don’t know why they’re so mad at us when they were the ones handing them out, but that’s a discus- sion for another day). So what will a year without trophies bring? Perhaps the generation that grew up with active shooter drills will be extra resilient. Perhaps the genera- tion that spent a year of high school online will be particularly adaptable and self-motivated. Perhaps those that came of age during a racial jus- tice reckoning will be more enlight- ened. I hope so. It seems likely that for some stu- dents, however, the toll may be darker. As the pandemic slowly recedes, the adults need to make sure that there are resources available to help students whose anxiety, depres- sion, loneliness, low self esteem, eat- ing disorder, addiction or other strug- gles were exacerbated by what a year of the pandemic wrought. What will come of Generation Z, only time will tell. Their teachers have helped them the best they can through this diffi cult time, but as they leave school over the next few years, it seems likely the effects of the pan- demic will linger. LETTER TO THE EDITOR COLUMN Biko brings excitement to Malgesini pack School taxes still necessary for online education F I was disturbed by a recent letter to the editor suggesting we should be refunded our tax dollars desig- nated for education. I do not cur- rently have school-aged children, but am providing “Nana School” (online school) in my home for 2-5 grandchildren while their parents work. First, let me say that I agree this is not ideal — it is diffi cult, awk- ward, and sometimes downright frustrating. Obviously, for most chil- dren/young adults, in-person learn- ing is best. But suggesting we are being cheated out of our education tax dollars is shortsighted. Are we asking teachers to teach for no pay? Or suggesting we just not provide any kind of learning at all this year? Asking custodial staff to stay home and not maintain the buildings/cam- puses in which we have invested millions of dollars? The nicest word I can think of to describe such action is “silly.” I have listened in on my Littles’ online learning sessions, and must say I am impressed. Can you imag- ine trying to hold the attention of 20-30 school-age youngsters via video? Let alone trying to maintain any kind of discipline when kids are in homes with siblings, parents, pets, televisions, etc.? I say, “Good job, and Thank you!” to these teach- ers and staff who are having to work in a whole new way. Let’s be a lit- tle more supportive and appreciative and a little less critical, shall we? Ginger Linkel Hermiston our new paws have been pad- ding around our house recently. Biko, an almost 6-month-old Ger- man shepherd/Siberian husky mix, made the Malgesini pack whole again this past weekend. For the better part of nearly three decades, John and I have had a two-dog household. After we lost Lucifer, my hus- band’s German shepherd, early last month, it wasn’t a matter of if we would get another dog, but when. While John and I were immediately taken in by the Tammy little guy’s piercing eyes and Malgesini happy yelps, the General, my 8-year-old German shepherd, seemed annoyed by what he viewed as an interloper. Biko, who immediately wanted to meet his brother, has been mostly oblivious to the General’s boorish behavior. Although he appeared to miss Lucifer, the General was basking in the perks of being an only dog. While we tried to warn him that this was merely a temporary sit- uation, the General only seemed to under- stand that he was getting undivided atten- tion and going for a lot more rides. Whenever John or I left the house, the General happily jumped in the rig and immediately stuck his head out the win- dow. In fact, he hadn’t even been left alone at home since we lost Lucifer — until this past Saturday when we went to the adoption event. Initially, John wasn’t sure what breed of dog he wanted. Over the years, we bought three canine kids from Geyer Ger- man Shepherds. However, since Becky Geyer retired several years after we got Tammy Malgesini/Contributed Photo Biko, a 6-month-old German shepherd/ Siberian husky mix, settles into John’s lap after joining the Malgesini pack this past weekend. the General, I contacted another breeder. After being provided some initial information and encouraged to reach out with any additional questions, I was ghosted. I feel it was reasonable to inquire about the waitlist, especially since the deposit was nonrefundable. John then happened upon Petfi nder, which included dogs from Mikey’s Chance Canine Rescue. We discussed the pros and cons of adopting a dog that had a history. Gastineau, our second German shepherd, was a rescue — and while he became a part of our pack, he came with some baggage. I fi lled out the Mikey’s Chance appli- cation — providing everything from a history of our past pooches and breed preference to philosophies about train- ing and commitment to dog ownership, as well as references and photos of our house and yard. While it was a time-con- suming process, I appreciated its thor- oughness. I also felt confi dent that the agency would agree that we were the best match. We got to the meet and greet event at Paw’s Natural Pet Emporium in Ken- newick before our new canine kid had arrived. When he got there, it became obvious that he was a little social butter- fl y — wagging his tail and nuzzling up to both humans and other dogs. During the backyard introduction at home, the General wasn’t too keen on Biko’s exuberance in meeting him. Once we moved the getting acquainted efforts inside the house, the General would vac- illate between barking at Biko or physi- cally turning his head away in dismissal — as if to think, “If I can’t see him, then he’s not there.” By day three with guided socialization, positive reinforcement and playing the Pupcorn game (an exercise that includes catching a favored treat) together, the General’s barking is being replaced by sniffi ng. And if things get a little too intense for Biko, he looks to his Papa for protection. All is well with the Malgesini pack again. --- Tammy Malgesini, the former Hermiston Herald community editor, enjoys spending time with her husband and dogs, as well as entertaining herself with random musings. 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