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WEDNESDAY, JUNE 17, 2015
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LIFE:
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support services, she knows
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stop, so I can’t stop,” Mes-
senger said. “I have to keep
going.”
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of Hermiston event June 26
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is “What is Your Hope in
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to potatoes to baskets that
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ceremonies begin at 6 p.m.,
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speak. At about 6:30 p.m.
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night. At 7 p.m. is a survi-
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her away from other drugs.
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peer-driven,” Adams said.
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out the back every day.”
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raped at age 19. She turned
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those things happened to
me and move on,” she said.
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and she stayed sober from
2000 to 2009, during which
time she moved back to the
Hermiston area and got a
good job.
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of doing my nine years,”
she said.
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year to raise money to host
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vors and their caregivers.
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year, Messenger said.
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they are doing,” she said.
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per bags in remembrance of
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movie theater has donat-
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someone who was using
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night when she had too
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got hooked again.
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efforts. He said recovering
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forward-thinking. As part
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to Heaven ceremony, where
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age anybody and every-
body to come,” she said.
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toward cancer research, gas
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receive treatment and the
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number, where, at any time
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one about cancer or have
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more information and sign
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out what we do and what
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bit harder of a year for our
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This year, she was given the
chance to go into drug treat-
ment, and she agreed. She
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was time,” Adams said.
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in February and spent 64
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sessions.
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her mother, however, and
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mism about her future.
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process takes is hard to say,
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her going, Adams said.
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process. Adams said when
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to wait. Widman said this is
good advice.
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patient. It’s a process.’ ”
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HERALD FILE PHOTO
Hermiston Relay for Life 2013 grand marshals Lisa Nino, pictured center left, and Angela Mer-
cado, center right, lead the survivor lap around the Armand Larive Middle School track during
last year’s event. This year, the grand marshals will be Mateo Rockwell, 8, a testicular cancer
survivor, and his mother, Natasha. The event will take place from June 26 through June 27.
priorities
A hundred years from now it will not matter what My bank account
was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove... but the
world may be different because I was important in the Life of a Child.
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