Heppner Gazette-Times, Heppner, Oregon Wednesday, July 9,2008 - FIVE
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Hosting foreign exchange students can Hospital patients still need a dose of
be a wonderful experience for everyone R patience and a sense of humor
To the editor:
It was about this time last year 1 saw an article in the Heppner Gazette, “Host
families needed for exchange students.” It caught my eye and stayed in my thoughts for
a few days. Then with work, kids and just a busy life, the thought faded...
Then it came, the phone call saying that my family had been referred by someone
“anonymous” saying that we would be a great host family. What a coincidence, we had
already been thinking o f hosting an exchange student.
The woman on the phone tells us a few things about the organization she was
with and set up an appointment to meet with us.
In the meantime we were sent, via email, several profiles of students available and
told to “pick” our top three choices. These profiles consisted o f a photo, home country,
age, year in school, the duration o f their stay, smoking or non-smoking, if they liked
animals, etc. We didn’t know what we should be looking for. What were the criteria that
we should be interested in or focused on? Do we care if it’s a boy or girl, their age, their
home country? We have never done this before; we don’t know what we are doing. So
with no guidance we picked our three top choices.
Two weeks and school will be starting. We had heard nothing about our exchange
student. When is she coming? We have jobs and we need to know when we need to be
available to pick her up at the airport. We got no answers, not a single person we con
tacted within the organization had any answers for us. We sat waiting and wondering if
she was even coming. Were we going to be getting an exchange student? Did they pick
another family and not tell us? So many questions unanswered. No communication at
all between the company and our family.
One week before school starts and the phone rang. It’s a call from the company
asking about our exchange student. They want to know if her arrival went well. What?
She is not here yet nor do we know when she will be here!
August 28, we get an email telling us that our exchange student will be arriving
on August 31! Now we have three days to make arrangements to pick her up. Three days!
I guess we were lucky though, I know a family that learned about when their exchange
student was arriving the day o f their arrival.
Kylie. This is her American name. A cute little South Korean girl, 16 years old,
shy and scared to death walking off the plane. Welcome to America! It would take a
long time to go through the 10 months that Kylie lived with our family here in Heppner,
highlighting all the great experiences we both had, her and our family. Telling o f all the
things we each learned about each other’s countries. There were great moments that
will be treasured forever. But what I would like to share with you is this: Kylie did not
share many interests that our family had. Some o f this was cultural, some o f this was
her personal interest did not mesh with our family. This is supposed to be an experi
ence that both the student and the family enjoy. We love sports, Kylie hated sports. We
would spend time outdoors; Kylie hated to be outdoors. During our journey together,
exchange student and host family, and watching other families with exchange student’s
deal with their struggles at home, I decided this has to change, what I was seeing was
not right and there has to be a better way to do this. A way to make this enjoyable for
the student and the host family.
I am now an area representative for a small exchange student organization, ICES,
that focuses on quality, not quantity. I have chosen to work with the following com
munities: Heppner, lone, Arlington, Condon, Fossil, Boardman, Irrigon and Echo. I am
committed to turning a new leaf in the arena o f exchange student programs. Because o f
stories like mine that happen everywhere, this is going to be an uphill battle, so much
damage control to be done.
I know from our experience the importance o f finding the right student for the
right family, a student who shares the same interest as your family, students with good
grades who we think are coming here to truly learn English and the American culture.
The best part, I will be with you every step o f the way, holding your hand when
you need it, giving you tips from other family’s experiences to help deal with any cul
tural differences that might come up, working with you and the schools to ensure these
students are following the rules set in place for them. Should a problem arise I will be
a phone call or a short drive away. The area manager is Linda Corbin. She has already
been in contact with many schools in and around these areas. The schools have com
mitted to allowing us to work on placing students in their communities. Some o f these
schools are setting no limit on the number o f students they will take. Small community
schools greatly benefit from their community members hosting exchange students. It
provides additional funding for them.
If you are one o f those families that has hosted in the past and you told your
selves you would never do it again, 1 urge you to reconsider. If you have never hosted
before, it can be a wonderful experience for everyone, the student, the community and
the family. Please contact me your local area representative with ICES, Teresa VanDoom
at 541-676-5985, 541-377-2162 or email at go_celebration@hotmail.com.
Teresa VanDoom
Heppner
Apology to the citizens of Heppner
Dear Citizens o f Heppner:
I’d like to address the recent events that occurred here in Heppner. My actions
were unlawful and I wronged so many people, not just those people directly affected,
but everyone who was affected by my actions.
I feel that I should apologize to all those people. But it doesn’t stop there. In
response of my actions I made concerned parents scared and outraged, for that I also
apologize.
What I did was wrong, there’s no denying that. Though, I would like to prove
myself, prove that I have changed for the better. It’s time I grow up and become a hard
working member of this community. Again, I apologize to all those I wronged.
Christopher E. Hendricks
Heppner
To the Editor:
Like a boiling teapot sometimes on just has to vent. Recent bouts in hospitals
have updated me on modem procedures with advanced technology and skills. But in
order to receive the most benefit from all this TLC, a patient still needs a dose of patience
along with a sense o f humor.
I certainly didn’t help myself by not preparing for a hospital stay compared to
when we child-bearing females used to pack an emergency bag in anticipation o f the
big event as well as fully dressing for hospital trip. Now it’s OK to trip in without even
underwear or shoes. No matter, you still get stripped bare butted, exposing your wrinkled
oven-dried prune appearance instead o f a once youthful, smooth body. No use getting
dressed up to be dressed down with a southern exposure. Casual dress, it’s called. Even
a pair o f bed socks seems like a fashion accessory and a beat-up pocket comb given to
me by a sympathizer seemed like a precious gift.
After fanning you with a well-ventilated hospital gown, they put a patient in an
ice-cold room. This is to prevent further deterioration until they can decide if you are
salvageable. Later, just before discharge, if procedures are successful they ramp up the
hospital room temperature so that one has a healthy looking pink glow when re-entering
the outside atmosphere that was cruising along in the triple digits.
If one doesn’t survive in the outside world follow ing discharge perhaps it’s be
cause a patient can’t fathom all the prescription drug terminology with a road map that
sounds like an obstacle course. “Take 1 in the morning Vi hour before eating" means lay
off the grub, fatso. Then there are the morning pills, the noon pills and the afternoon pills
until you shake, rattle and roll. Try not to choke on the horse-size potassium tablets and
don’t forget that slow-bum feeling w hen they put the stuff in your IV. Must not forget to
take your before-bed pills, even though you know you aren’t going to get any sleep.
Hospitals orchestrate it so no patient can expire from over-relaxation. Nurses
take “vitals” so often, the blood pressure cuff stands at attention. Then there’s always
one “Dracula” registered nurse with PMS and a needle frenzy. Rolling veins, my eye,
that lady whose face would crack if she smiled, is all about blood. Next time I hope
I can bring my own needle as the one used on me was designed for elephants. We at
least use sharp needles when vaccinating or drawing blood from cattle or horses. As to
sleeping, the banging o f the pharmacy door, like a drumbeat, is designed to keep your
senses alert.
At least I have the good sense to say nothing and shut up occasionally; like when
the nurse said, “nothing by mouth” and I thought she said, “you’ve got a mouth.” Gee,
all I wanted was a drink of water before rigor mortis set in from lying on a modem slab
called a bed. After a bout of fasting, they then served harvest crew meals laden with so
many calories your body can work on elevating blood pressure and cholesterol problems.
The specialists and the techs need business also, I guess. I’ve sampled better, less gummy
rolled oats fed to our horses and there are potatoes still around that haven’t recovered
from six months in a flooded field. It could be called “flashing” that features an arthritic
strip-tease in the hospital bathroom shower minus ballet-like movements or any jazzy
music - not something to record or watch.
Once you are home again you're on your own. Then one begins to appreciate
the extra steps, the kind words and the attention o f caring hospital personnel w ho try to
bring us out o f our misery and give us comfort when we need that TLC. Hooray for the
health care industry from start to finish. Some o f us may not run like a deer anymore,
but at least the motor keeps on ticking thanks to a little tune-up or two and a “can-do”
attitude.
Merlyn Robinson
Heppner
You will get caught
Letter to the Editor;
Several weeks ago someone decided that the five gallons o f gas and gas can we
had for our lawnmower was needed by them more than we needed it. Or maybe they felt
they deserved more than us - 1 don’t know, but I would like our gas can back.
We as yet have not reported this to the police department and will not do so if
our can is returned - keep the gas. A bright blue five gallon gas can is very unusual in
Heppner so you will get caught if it is not returned. Just leave it in our yard - please.
Diann Nagel
Heppner
“A” list weeds require management plan
The Morrow County
Weed Control District Nox
ious Weed Ordinance Com
pliance Policy MC-C-3-90,
as amended requires land-
owners/operators in Morrow
County with infestations of
“A” list noxious weeds to
file a weed control manage
ment plan with the district.
Plan requirem ents
include a m ap sh o w in g
weed locations and short
term and long term control
strategies. The A dvisory
Board considers the plan
requirement first as a way
to increase both a w a re
ness and involvement of the
Heritage Land Co.
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landowners and operators in
the required weed control
activities, and second, as a
protection from being is
sued citations as long as the
plans are being followed.
Ownership changes and new
weed locations also require
a new or amended plan for
the property.
The Adv isory Board
is focusing on areas where
M editerranean Sage and
Holly Rebekah
Lodge card
party to be held
Holly Rebekah
Lodge will be hosting card
parties in July and August.
On Saturday, July 12, play
will begin at 7 p.m. The cost
continues to be only $5 per
person with refreshm ents
being served throughout
the evening. Prizes will be
awarded at the end o f the
evening.
White Top are found, but
all “A ” list weeds do re
quire a plan. Morrow Coun
ty ’s “A" list weeds include
rush skeletonweed, yellow
starthistle, tansy ragwort,
dalmation and yellow toad
flax, M editerranean sage.
Leafy spurge, spikeweed,
musk thistle, Scotch thistle,
purple loosestrife and com
mon crupina.
Degree of
Honor to hold
annual picnic
The Degree o f Hon
or will hold their annual
picnic on Tuesday, July 15
at 6 p.m. at City Park. All
m em bers and friends are
invited to attend. Drinks will
be provided.
For more informa
tion call Shirley at 676-9977
or Mary Ann at 422-7485.
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