Page 2, THE GAZETTE-TIMES, Heppner, OR, Thursday, Nov. , By ERNIE CEXE&A Mayor Jerry Sweeney and I recently attended a meeting at the county courthouse. There were approximately IS others present at the meeting and although the meeting was interesting, when Mayor Sweeney and I left, we were both a little vague as to just what had transpired during the meeting. The entire meeting was carried out to Roberts Rules but all members present seemed to talk rather strangely. There were very few spoken words, only abbreviations to the related subjects. The meeting went something like this: Do you think the OEC should support the ONO and if they do what about the MIC. If the ECOAC approves what about HUD. AFSCME. IAM, ONE, ILWU. ABY. ACW. CLC. LCDC, OLCC and the CIA? What effect will the ONA have on the EOCCMHC, EDH&TC, if the EDOCC. MRADD, BOR. HHS. TWO. IHS, MCGG. FORE. RHS. MCSD, NFO, and OWG. SIX M ED disagree? If thev will go along with the money to be appropriated will the EPA, DEQ. ONPA. ELK. CIA. AOI. EDOCC, OWG. TWO. withdraw? After two hours the debate of the entire issue was tabled, to the satisfaction of all present until the following month. Probably to find new letters in the alphabet to combine or allow those present to find out what they were TALKING about! Heppner City Police and the Sheriff's department reported a mild Halloween. Friday night with little or no disturbances. City police reported some youngsters using shaving soap to decorate the merchants windows. On the brighter side of Hallow-en. youngsters in the kindergarten classes were taken to Pioneer Memorial nursing home to entertain the patients. The youngsters, mostly 5 years of age treated the patients to a few songs and were rewarded with small treats. With their gaily decorated costumes ranging from cowboy attire to ghosts', and some dressed as strange creatures from another planet, they brightened the day for the patients. While in the hospital the youngsters were quiet, orderly and courteous. Special thanks to Don Cole, Mr. Anderson and Mrs. Epping for helping brighten a day for the nursing home patients. Perhaps the youngsters will pay another visit to the nursing home and be rewarded with smiles of gratitude from the patients. The mail pouch EDITOR: Mv wife and I were visiting my sister. Alice Dungan. Condon, from our home in Lakewood. CA. We just saw the picture of the old Star Theatre in your Oct. 23 issue. I remember going there for a nickel as a small boy. about mis while mv father was having work done at the blacksmith shop next door. I don't remember the name of the street but it mav help others pinpoint the location have visited my cousins Jim and John Logan. Cecil, where we have enjoved trips photographing the old bonioiead near Willow Creek, trying to lrale old sheep tamps in our search lor bottles Perhaps Tcddv Palmateer. Lee and Paul Pettyjohn. Lloyd Morgan and others will remember my wife as the former Evelyn Mangold who taught at the Morgan School ItS-:v with Mrs. Youngmayr NC 'NEIL' NASH Lakewood. CA EDITOR: We at Southern Oregon State College are planning a series of reunions in observance of Ashland s Centennial, our Nation's Bicentennial Celebration and SOSC's Golden Jubilee. For this. we need the names, home addresses, and class year of anvone who has ever attended SOSC in Ashland, tireeon from 1926 up to the present. One need not be a graduate to be an Alumni Association Member, as many of .our students had to transfer to other colleges in our formative scar to obtain degrees " Replies should be sent to the Alumni Office. Southern Oregon State College. Ashland. OR 97520. Thanks so much for your attention in this matter and for past services to our college Hl'GHG SIMPSON Alumni Director EDITOR I am som it is necessary to trouble you so often, with protestations about distortions of the policies and actions of the United Church of Christ, but we are scrupulous about the accuracy of our own statements and like to be treated accordingly. I am referring, again, to inaccurate statements about the United Church of Christ in a column by Lester Kinsolving copv attached i. We do not have a Rev. Harold Schultz who ti a top executive" of the I'nited Church. We do have Rev Larold Schulz who is executive director of the ICC Center for Social Action. . Mr Kinsolving attended and reported on the Oenerai Sv'nod of Ihe I'nited Church last June. He is surely aware of the fad that the salaries of ihe officers of the Church and of the heads of established agencies-including that of Mr. Schulz-were made public at the Synod and are a part of the Svnod Minutc-a public siatement. May we have a correction EVERETT C PARKER. New York. tin Ihe Oct 2 issue. Ihe Gazette-Times refers to Larold St hulr not Harold St hull. Editor.! EDITOR : No doubt vou are already aware of the fact that the Star Theater was locaied on the corner now occupied by the Heppner Hotel The Heppner Hotel w as constructed in 1923 or '24 JOHN F. KILKENNY Portland THE CAZETTE'TIMES HKHW ( IK TV NEWSPAPER Box tI7. Heppner. Ore H Sub notion rale: tt per year in Oregon. 17 elsewhere Krnesl V. Joiner. Publisher puhlisfced even Thursday and entered a mndi-la matter at the post office at Heppner . Oregon, unorr the ad of Man J. 1171. Srrond-clau postage paid at rteppner. urr, 1975 (il'EST EDITORIAL President Ford feels the U.S. grain deal with the U S S R, will please American farmers. I disagree with him for several reasons. In the first place substantial American wheat sales were lost during the soalled grain sale moratoriam because the Russians scoured the face of the globe to buy for cash from other grain exporting nations when the U.S. denied them that privilege Subslantial grower income was lost as well because the market softened when a ready outlet for our largest crop in history was not allowed. The market is still down after the agreement was finally made due to the fact that the volume of sales to Russia under the five year pact represents only about 6 per cent of current U.S. production. A second point which concerns growers deeply is the inter ference of government in the market place. They were urged to produce at full throttle with the assurance that government would let the free enterprise system function normally, then they find themselves with huge stocks with the government limiting their sales. A third consideration is the unduly long duration of the sales ban beyond the announced purpose of fully evaluating Russian needs and U.S. supplies. I feel frankly, that the ban was extended to influence Russia tobuv elsewhere (which they did) so that when it was lifted, it wovlld not raise U.S. prices of wheat. I feel certain the whole Russian grain agreement was designed for the protection of the American consumer. A fourth reason for grower dissatisfaction and loss of confidence in their government is the unprecendented dominance of the Dept. of State and the maritime labor unions in establishing U.S. grain policies. They see no credibilitv in these bodies influencing marketing divisions when the Dept. of Agriculture is in existence for that purpose and has been urging free trade policies to strengthen the U S balance of payments and the American dollar. Another point of concern is the possible short comings of a bi lateral long term agreement as it relates to a free market policv. when market shaving and pricing provisions seem to be included in the agreement provisions. Finally the producer looks upon the initiative of this bi lateral grain agreement as a fore runner of additional export sales agreements dominated by government policy and action which can substantially limit the volume of U S wheat exports. Under a full production schedule the grower views this as a dangerous price deterent should reserve slocks build to previous levels. He is certain a strong U S economy is heavily dependent upon a strong US Agricultural economy. WILLIAM Hl'LSE. Chairman. Oregon Wheat Commission THE RISSIXN ;kin agreement M EST EDITOR! l. Consumers could be among the casualties caused by the recentlv concluded grain deals with Russia, says WaKlron Johnson, president of the Oregon Farm Bureau Federation. Johnson, w ho leads more than 8,000 Oregon farm and ranch families in the stale's largest volunteer farm organization, is not impressed by trade statements that the government's negotiations to exchange gram for oil will stabilize the foreign market for U S. wheal. "Any time you have governments controlling markets, you enter the realm of political uncertainty. This can cause producers to distrust government guarantees of unfettered markets, such as those made to grain producers by President Ford Producers become nervous and tend to cut Nick production, ralher than maintain it at high leels. This causes a disruption of market projections and could have an effect on Ihe cost of food to the U.S. consumer." Johnson insists. He expresses particular concern about the government's dealings with mainland China and its possible effects on a traditional U S. market, such as Japan. "Now that the government has taken the marketing prerogative away from producers in the case of Russia, w hat will stop it from doing the same thing in China?" he asks "The president has demonstrated that he is vulnerable to political pressure from an interest group In the case of Russia, it was the AFLCIO maritime unions in the east . The unions have their pound of flesh and still we have no guarantee that Russia will agree to sell us oil. "Instead of the Department of Auricullure making the agreement with Russia, it was the Slate Department. The matter has been taken out of the hands of the producers, w no make grain surpluses possible." Johnson fears a similar combination of events could in cur with regard lo Pacific Northwest gram He says Japan is well aware of this and is probably hedging on its purchase commitments right now. just as Russia did during the recent moratorium "Instead of market stability, the price of w heal plummeted die limit on futures buying." he concludes "This tells me and other wheal growers thai despite claims of sweetness and light, we have been forced into a boom or bust situation totally dependent upon the whims of the government." WALDRON JOHNSON. President. Oregon Farm Bureau Federation. h'WSt1 Us ' .VW ' ' 20 Years ago Richard I.. Kononen and James II Haves at Oregon Stale College, have been lectcd for membership m the Order of Silver Wings. Air Force drill team society Mrs Mary Van Stevens, mayor of Heppner. was in Portland lo attend Ihe annual meeting of the League of Oregon cities. Miss Barbara Prock. and IJertwrl Peterson were mar ried at a f.mdlelighl ceremony at the Vain Lutheran Church. rv ille Smith, former owner nt the Heppner Lumlier Com pany has purchased the Mel-on !" Machine ("om ul Seattle Juvenile charged with burglaries PRETTY GOOD MUSIC Dennis D Doherty. Morrow County District Attorney, has filed petitions in Juvenile Cmirl against a 17 year old juvenile who is charged wilh 4 burglaries and 6 major thefts The 10 offense involve a total rejxirted lovs of IS4H0 and occurred over a 6 months period in the Boardman. Irrtgon and Umatilla areas The investigation of these crimes was conducted princi pals bv the Morrow County Sheriffs office, with some assistance from Peace Offi cer in Umatilla County What message are you really giving By Terry I). Ilirni. SW This is the third in a series of articles on Family Therapy The first defined family therapy, while the second discussed one of the most common problems found in families -denial of feeling This article will discuss another common family problem A perwn can express himself in two different ways ii verbally, communicating something by word of mouth, and 1 2 nonverbally. communications which may be transmitted bv facial expression, arm movement, body movement, andor some other type of action. In Ihe verbal comment, three things are important in the message: Hi Ihe words used. 2 the information related, and (3) the tone of what is said An example of a verbal comment would be Bob's telling his wife. "I'm going to go bowling tonight " This phrase in itself can be very matter -of fact; but if the lone conveys anger or digust. Ihe message is drastically changed If one or two swear words are added along with an angry or disgusted lone of voice, the message u even more different Nonverbal communications may be usd along with or in place of verbal comments. In the example above, as Bob was saying. I'm going lo go bowling tonight." he stormed out and slammed the door. The storming out and slamming the door is Ihe nonverbal message. A situation which frequently appears in families is the parents' telling the children how much they love them. But then the nonverbal communications appears when Ihe parents don't even listen lo whal their children are saying, or even spend any lime with them. A lot of limes the person giving Ihe nonverbal message is no! aware that he is giving that particular message. In the interaction between family members in family therapy, the therapist helpi each member identify both Ihe verbal and nonverbal communications of Ihe sender. The nonverbal communication of not spending lime with the children may exist for several reasons, such as: H feeling mai-uate lo relate to children. 2 being angry at them heme withdrawing attention or love, andor 3 ' just not having Ihe energy lo spend the time with them In example 1 1 and 3. the parent is not responding to the child because of ihe parent s feelings, not because of the action of the child Usually children Interpret everything very personally a being Iheir fault and cannot see the personal problem or hangups that their parents may have Because of Ihis. then, in a negative siluat in the child Ms he ha done something wrong and that is why the parent is not responding lo him In Ihe siluation where the parent doesn'l spend time with the child, the child may feel rejected and unloved even though Ihe actual reason the parent diesnt spend time with the child is simply because he's loo lired w hen he comes home from work If Ihe child feel rejected. In self defense he may give verbal and nonverbal messages that he doesn't like his parent or parent A g d example of this is Ihe child never doing anything his parents want him to do. The rjiildi thinking is. "Why should I do anything they want me to do if they don'l like me They're jut using me as a slave lo do work for them.' Another example of verbal and nonverbal communications frequently lakes place around the area of trust. A parent may tell Ihe child how responsible he is (verbal but then no! ever let the child go anyplace or do anything (nonverbal!, The verbal statement shows trust, while the nonverbal statement communicates lack of trust In the family therapy sessions, as each member becomes more aw are of his verbal and nonverbal communications, he ran have a greater control over what he actually communicates This control Involves giving messages which are consistent on bolh Ihe verbal and nonverbal levels Thai i. Ihe verbal and nonverbal slatemenla communicate Ihe same message Mayor of Hardman DEAR MISTFR EDITOR: The discussion at the country store Saturday night got started on President Ford's safety and sort of took off ever which way II was Clem Webster that allowed we have seen some changes in this country when the President Is safer in the same room with the empererof Japan and Ihe chanceller of Germany than he is walking or riding on Ihe streets of A(1em said it's awful when our own people try lo shool Ihe President but w hen we can't ev en git the poor man across a intersection that's dumb The Secret Seme has gone from 400 men to I .200 in Ihe past eight year, declared Clem, and all t mi of em weren't a big of good to him w hen his limosine run a red lighl the other week and got smacked by a young feller lint bad the right of wav. (lent said it looks to him like Mr. Ford had ought lo slick clout lo home, instead of making all over the counlrv to help hisself and all Ihem other non politicians that are trying to slay in office. Hem said he can't see why Ihe President can I do in Washington what he's been running around all over the counlrv doing , . . ... . I ike usual Kd Dooliltle was disagreed wilh Clem. Hrst oft ' Ed said. Americans don'l want a President we got to keep Imked up ler his own protection. We want him lo be a free man beading up a free country, and that means we want him to be able to go when and where he pleases. Another thing went on r,o. is inui nav ing a rreiidenl visit you makes you iniivortanl, Towns in this country spend a year gitting ready (er a two hour slop bv a President. Ed went on. cause we feel Ihe office belongs to us. not stuck behind some desk with guards on the doors. Zeke C.rubb broke in to remark on what Clem had lo sayj about the President's supiar guests. Zeke was of a mind In; politics ain't the onlv thing that makes strange bedfellers. war do lo We re gitting thing turned around. Zeke said, when our biggest World War enemies now is our best friends and our biggest cilv is fixing lo go broke without federal aid while we use federal money lo give war equipment to bolh sides m Ihe Middle East and keep up ever foreign country, friend and foe. thai will let us , , While New York Cilv keeps spending like a drunk Irv ing to dunk hisself soU-r. the President leaves the country altogether fer Ihe safetv of Red China People reading our history Km years from now will think they picked up Ihe tunnv papers b mistake, was Zeke words Mister Editor'. Ihe fellers let Ed and Oem wind down. But Bug llookum did git the floor like enough to say that it looks to him like Ihe hardest lesson this counlrv is hav ing lo learn is thai thev ani l no such Ihing a a free lunch Somewhere down I be pike. Bug declared, somebody ha got lo pay Ihe laic ler all of them that ha been riding this old bun through the land of milk and honey. Yours truly. M AYOR HOY HIMOl'XI. COMMON SEN l SENSE OF III MOK Hv I ESTER MSOl.lt; As the nation's sixth largest denomination, the 1 million member Episcopal Church may possibly avoid a in,ior split on Ihe issue of female ordinahon-if Us clergy ami laiiv i an emulate Ihe common sense of one of its bishops and the sense ol humor of another The denomination's ranking prelate. Presiding Bishop John Allin. held a press conference following the Portland. Maine meeting of the House of bishop, which censured three ol its memtx-rs Two retired and one resigned, the three were censured for conducting an ecclesiastically illegal senile for ordination for II women, which the House of llishops quite accurately resolved was "damaging divisive and disuiptive" in H effect on Ihe life of the church 'This was ahoui the strongest action Ihe House of Bishops could lake given what has been widely and rightfully denounced as the cop out" of ihe equivalent of a grand jury which 'investigated' these bishop televised disobedience o.' church law and violation of their ordination vows i Bishop Allin was asked whal loval church people can do if there are more of these bogus ordinations conducted in Kpiscopal churches, i along with communion services conducted by Ihese ladies who in Ihe absence of either vahdiiv. or even- official name, for their statu, are sometimes identified as "priestesses" i They quil hilling acts when thev slop drawing crowds." replied Allin There is. ol course. Ihe possibility that this eminently M-nsihle ailv ice lo ignore these feminist sideshow may incite these ladies lo new and greater spectaculars Under the guidance id their press agent Belly Medsgar "formerly wilh Ihe Philadelphia Bulletin and The Washington Post i. It is not l,evwid Ihe realm of possibility that Ihese priestesses might elect one ol their number bishop at large, and bring Ihe censured bishops la k on slage to consecrate her The annual meeting of Ihe House of Bishop discussed such ty picallv Fpiscopakcompromise strategies a local option on lemale ordination, with the decision up lo each individual diocese Tbi might be reavmable if only the pneslesses were reasonable enough lo desist from invading the diocese ol any bishop who resisted their goal But they are not Another silly solution discussed by the bishops is "londihonal ordination" a necessary procedure w hen there is real doubt a to whether a person has already been baptized, but a sham when applied to any of these women who were what they claim a v alidity I ordained on TV. The very vehemence of their claim to be validly ordained mav solve a major problem should the Episcopal General Convention next year vole in favor of ordination of women to Ihe priesthood For a good many Episcopalians favor this In principle, while al Ihe same time abhonng these undisciplined priestesses The Rev. Alison Check, a deacon of the Diocese of Virginia who claims to lie a priest, announced vehemently that under no circumstances will she submil to any lorm of reordinalion. or condition ordination "I would just as soon remarry my husband " ll may be that this is a statement which she (and several others who scoffed al such reordinalion I lakes no more seriously than her ordination vow of obedience lo her bishop. It i quite dulnoux. however, thai the Episcopal Church could retain any integrity al all were Mrs Cheek lo reverse herself on this e pressed conviction and be allowed valid ordination, when and if Ihu Is allowed for women. If Ihese ladies continue their sacerdotal show biz, Lexington, Kentucky's retired Bishop William R. Moody savs he will seek permission from Ihe owners to obtain See retariat. winner of horseracing'a Triple Crown. "I have been asked lo blest foxhounds," noted Moody. -Whv should I deny ordination lo this noble ileed who Is now obeying the Scriptural admonition lo 'Be fruitful and multiply'? Bishop Moody also noted thai nowhere In the New Testament do the Twelve Apostles condemn one of the Roman Emperors they lived under iCaliguIa, 17 41 ADl who made his horse a Consul of Rome. "The Bible Is full of references to friendly beasti," hr observed, "and the Episcopal Church had 111 full quota of part of horse. Why nol Ihe whole thing?"