The Columbia Press November 20, 2020 Senior Moments 7 Off the Shelf by Kelly Knudsen with Emma Edwards Things to ponder on those dark and stormy nights It was a dark and stormy night. I thought of that phrase as I went to bed Monday night. Was that credited to Pea- nuts creator Charles Schultz, author Charles Dickens, or both? The answer is yes. Both. But it was not original to either of them. The phrase was coined by Victorian author Sir Ed- ward Bulwer-Lytton in the book, “Paul Clifford,” pub- lished in 1830. Charles Schultz taught Snoopy, as well as Charlie Brown, to begin their writings with that dark and stormy night phrase. Schultz’s five children often inspired his stories. Charles Dickens (who, by the way, had 10 children) borrowed the phrase from Bulwer-Lyt- ton’s book 112 years earlier. We have enjoyed a few of those dark and stormy days and nights this past week. When I was young, I loved to sit on our porch (in those days everyone had a good- sized front porch) and watch our Michigan storms. We were taught that thun- der and lightning was simply God rearranging the furni- ture and, of course, God had to have the lights on. We learned to love storms! For those of us who have lived here for many years, we can’t help but remember our 2007 Advent Day storm. The windows on my bed- room were rattling last night just as then, causing the entire room to vibrate and shake. This Thanksgiving season, I am reminded to be especial- ly thankful for my nice warm home that can weather such storms to the realm of enjoy- ment. In Sir Bulwer-Lytton’s book, he described the storm quite adequately. Here is the long, long first sentence of his first chapter: “It was a dark and stormy night; the rain fell in torrents - except at occasional intervals, when it was checked by a violent gust of wind which swept up the streets (for it is in London that our scene lies), rattling along the housetops, and fiercely agitating the scanty flame of the lamps that struggled against the dark- ness.” One of my favorite of Dick- ens books is “A Tale of Two Cities.” “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times . . .” And, this time of the year, we’ll be reminded of his renowned “A Christmas Carol.” I realize our tables will be smaller this year with the current restrictions. Life goes on. Read Ecclesiastes 3 and re- member, God has made ev- erything beautiful in its time (past, present and future)! And now I will join Snoopy in wishing a heartfelt happy Thanksgiving to all my fam- ily and dear friends that I am honored and blessed to have in my life. May this holiday season bring love to your heart, health to your body, and peace and joy to your home. Race Talks initiated mindful discussions Warrenton Community Li- brary hosted the six-session Rural Race Talks facilitat- ed by LaNicia Duke, which wrapped up Nov. 4. The talks began Sept. 23, with community members meeting via Zoom and in person at Warrenton City Hall and continued every Wednesday from 6 to 8 p.m., with those attending learn- ing how to talk about race. As they talked, most discovered core truths and values along the way. Tackling the subject is chal- lenging, but LaNicia helped the group feel at ease with her outgoing, friendly per- sonality, thanking the group for showing up and being willing to challenge them- selves through the discussion and learning process. The first couple of sessions focused on building rela- tionships and trust among the group, taking time for participants to get to know each other while creating a healthy, safe place to listen, learn and discuss. Each session also took time for one or two mindfulness moments, led by a yoga in- structor from Seaside. Mind- fulness is a calming and relaxing necessity for mean- ingful discussions. During the Oct. 14 meeting, participants discussed race as a social construct in the United States, Oregon’s Ex- clusion Law of 1844, and the Racial Integrity Act of 1924. Participants were asked, “How do we unlearn social norms and ideas that no lon- ger serve us?” At the end of that session, LaNicia asked participants to find and watch a mov- ie about race in the United States. One of the recom- mended movies, The Best of Enemies, was an eyeopener for many. The movie is a true story of the unlikely relation- ship between Ann Atwater, an outspoken civil rights ac- tivist, and C.P. Ellis, a local Ku Klux Klan leader. During the racially charged summer of 1971, Atwater and Ellis came together to co-chair a community summit on the desegregation of schools in Durham, N.C. In the end, the two find common ground and real- ize they have more similar- ities than things to divide them, a theme that resonated throughout the Rural Race Talk sessions. Other mov- ies watched and discussed included, Just Mercy, Good Trouble, Green Book, and The Immortal Life of Henri- etta Lacks. Thank you to LaNicia and all the participants for their desire and dedication to dis- cussing, learning and grow- ing together. A sampling of the com- ments from participants: • “I wanted to thank you for the Rural Race Talk series. I enjoyed them very much and feel I came away with a better understanding of race and an improved perspective on how we can have different views and backgrounds but still work together to make this world a better place!” and • “I cannot thank you enough for bringing safe di- alogue/forum to Warrenton to have open dialogue about such a tough topic. THANK YOU!” The library is interested in hosting more community conversations and discussion forums. Is there a community topic or issue you would like to discuss? What social issues impact our community? If you have ideas for a topic, please send an email to war- rentoncl@gmail.com or call the library. Kelly Knudsen is director of Warrenton Community Library. She has a master’s degree in library and infor- mation science. IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF OREGON FOR THE COUNTY OF CLATSOP In the Matter of the Estate of MARTINE G. STARR, Deceased Case No.: 20PB06971 NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that James C. 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