The BulleTin • Wednesday, July 13, 2022 A7
DEAR ABBY
Write to Dear Abby online at dearabby.com
or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069
Dear Abby: My boyfriend,
“Ashton,” is bisexual. Af-
ter we have fights, he takes
“breaks” and uses them to
be with other men. He has
several friends who are bi-
sexual or transgender. He is
presently in the closet about
his status because he comes
from a Christian family and
lives in a highly conservative
area.
He was still maintaining
contact last year with his
on-again, off-again boy-
friend, “Will,” even though
he swore nothing was going
on between them. He always
rushed back to Will or kept
him on the side during his
other relationships as well.
I almost broke up with him
four months ago over his
hanging out with Will.
Now he wants his friend
“Cody,” who is a transgender
male, to stay with him for
several days for an upcoming
concert there. I’m in the pro-
cess of moving to his area,
but I don’t trust him not to
have sexual relations outside
of ours. My straight male
friends have warned me not
to trust him.
Should I break up with
him because I don’t feel he
respects his female partners
as much as he does his male
ones? It also seems like he
has a double standard with
sharing phone details. I share
mine openly, but he isn’t as
open with his, which leads
me to think he’s still got
someone else on the side. Yet
he wants me to see only him.
Help!
— Frustrated Girl
In California
Dear Frustrated: Because
someone identifies as bisex-
ual does not mean the per-
son is incapable of being mo-
nogamous. Ashton, however,
seems to use these “breaks”
to consort solely with other
males. He may be using you
to hide his true orientation
from his Christian family.
None of this bodes well for
your relationship. Listen to
your friends. They may have
more insight into Ashton’s
character than you do.
P.S. People who hide their
phones often have more go-
ing on than they are com-
fortable revealing. Consider
this another red flag, and re-
consider both the move and
your romance with him.
Dear Abby: I have a life-
long friend whose oldest
child has always been led to
believe that his stepmother
is his mother. The stepmom
has had two children of her
own now, and it is clear that
she treats her own kids far
better. I recall example af-
ter example. When does the
charade end?
I have been close friends
with the kid’s dad since
childhood, but that poor kid
will feel betrayed when he
finds out who his mother
really is and that I was one
of the adults who knew and
kept it from him. He will be
18 soon. What can I do?
— Silenced In The West
Dear Silenced: Talk to the
young man’s father. Point out
that because of genetic test-
ing, it’s only a matter of time
until his son learns the truth
about who his birth mother
is, and it would be better if
the news comes from his fa-
ther.
YOUR HOROSCOPE
By Georgia Nicols
Stars show the kind of day you’ll have
dynaMiC | POsiTiVe | aVeRaGe | sO-sO | diFFiCulT
MOON ALERT: There are no restrictions to shopping or important deci-
sions today until 9 p.m. PdT. The Moon is in Capricorn.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR WEDNESDAY, JULY 13, 2022: you’re
friendly and caring and always eager to help others, especially family mem-
bers. you’re a loyal friend who is easy to talk to. Personally, you are adventur-
ous. This is a wonderful year for you because you are getting recognition for
what you do, perhaps a raise, a promotion or an award. Congratulations!
ARIES (March 21-April 19)
you might be surprised today by a parent or an older family member,
because they will say or do something that catches you off guard. Mean-
while, you might see the need to do home repairs, or possibly a home
repair project will be interrupted. (yikes!) Tonight: Patience.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20)
Today is full of interruptions! you might have a chance to see new
places and meet new faces. you might also envision original, new ideas.
Travel plans will change, or perhaps you will suddenly have to travel when
you didn’t expect to do so. This is a day to stay light on your feet! Tonight:
Think for yourself.
GEMINI (May 21-June 20)
Keep an eye on your money and your assets today, because any-
thing could happen. something will catch you off guard, almost certainly.
For example, you might find money; you might lose money. avoid activities
that could harm something you own. Tonight: Check banking.
CANCER (June 21-July 22)
Today is full of impulsive desires and unexpected activities. expect to
make new discoveries or encounter new people who will generate a sense
of excitement in you. Oh yes, your interest is piqued! Break free of your rou-
tine and do something different to satisfy your urge for adventure! Tonight:
Be courteous.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22)
Today your mind is shooting off in many directions like electrical
impulses. although this will make you feel restless, it also will help you
come up with solutions to old problems. Research will definitely pay off.
study behind the scenes to learn something new. Tonight: avoid squabbles.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)
Today your ruler Mercury is dancing with unpredictable uranus,
which is why you feel mentally restless and eager for fun diversions. This is
also why you may have an unusual arrangement with a friend or a member
of a group. Or you might meet someone new and unusual. Tonight: Be
diplomatic.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22)
a parent, boss or someone in a position of authority might surprise
you today. They might have fresh news or suggestions. This also might
relate to something unexpected taking place at home. (small appliances
might break down.) stock the fridge in case surprise company shows up.
Tonight: harmony at home.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21)
Travel plans might be delayed or upset today; conversely, you
might suddenly have to travel. surprise news also might catch you off
guard. stay flexible today, because plans will change. you will meet new
people and hear surprising news. Tonight: avoid arguments.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21)
Keep an eye on your wallet today, because something unexpected
could impact your wealth. Protect what you own from loss, theft or damage.
Meanwhile, new ideas and approaches to how you handle shared property
or deal with an inheritance might arise. Tonight: Caution when shopping.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)
This is an exciting day, and you’re eager for adventure! in part, this
could be because a partner or close friend surprises you by doing or saying
something unexpected. you might be introduced to someone who is
unusual and different. social plans might suddenly change. Tonight: stay
mellow.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)
Pet owners should be vigilant about their pets today. Meanwhile,
interruptions at work will occur. They might create delays, even cancella-
tions. Give yourself extra time to deal with the unexpected today. On the
upside, you’re full of clever ideas and fresh solutions! Tonight: don’t react.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20)
social plans will surprise you today. you might receive an exciting
invitation or, conversely, a fun event might be delayed or canceled. Parents
should be vigilant about their kids to avoid mishaps. sports events will have
upsets and possible accidents. Pay attention to everything you say and do!
Tonight: Patience.
TODAY
IN HISTORY
By The Associated Press
Today is Wednesday, July 13, the 194th
day of 2022. There are 171 days left in
the year.
Today’s Highlight in History:
On July 13, 2013, a jury in sanford,
Florida, cleared neighborhood watch
volunteer George Zimmerman of all
charges in the shooting of Trayvon
Martin, the Black teenager whose
killing unleashed furious debate over
racial profiling, self-defense and equal
justice.
in 1863, deadly rioting against the
Civil War military draft erupted in new
york City.
in 1923, a sign consisting of 50-foot-
tall letters spelling out “hOllyWOOd-
land” was dedicated in the holly-
wood hills to promote a subdivision.
in 1960, John F. Kennedy won the
democratic presidential nomination
on the first ballot at his party’s conven-
tion in los angeles.
in 1965, President lyndon B. Johnson
nominated Thurgood Marshall to be
u.s. solicitor General; Marshall be-
came the first Black jurist appointed
to the post.
in 1973, former presidential aide alex-
ander P. Butterfield revealed to senate
Watergate Committee staff members
the existence of President Richard nix-
on’s secret White house taping system.
in 1974, the senate Watergate Com-
mittee proposed sweeping reforms
in an effort to prevent another Water-
gate scandal.
in 1985, “live aid,” an international
rock concert in london, Phila., Mos-
cow and sydney, took place to raise
money for africa’s starving people.
in 1999, angel Maturino Resendiz,
suspected of being the “Railroad
Killer,” surrendered in el Paso, Texas.
in 2006, israel imposed a naval block-
ade against lebanon and blasted
the Beirut airport and army air bases;
hezbollah fired dozens of rockets
into israel.
in 2011, California became the first
state in the nation to add lessons
about gays and lesbians to social stud-
ies classes in public schools under a
measure signed by Gov. Jerry Brown.
in 2016, Theresa May entered no. 10
downing street as Britain’s new prime
minister following a bittersweet exit
by david Cameron, who resigned after
voters rejected his appeal to stay in the
european union.
in 2020, Washington’s nFl franchise
dropped the “Redskins” name and
indian head logo amid pressure from
sponsors; the move followed decades
of criticism that the name and logo
were offensive to native americans.
Ten years ago: Republican presiden-
tial hopeful Mitt Romney insisted he
had “no role whatsoever in the man-
agement” of Bain Capital, a private
equity firm, after early 1999, and de-
manded that President Barack Obama
apologize for campaign aides who
persisted in alleging otherwise. Movie
producer Richard Zanuck, 77, died in
Beverly hills, California.
Five years ago: a federal judge in
hawaii weakened President donald
Trump’s travel ban by vastly expand-
ing the list of u.s. family relationships
that visitors from six Muslim-majority
countries could use to get into the
country. Trump defended his son’s
meeting with a Russian lawyer during
the presidential campaign. China’s
most prominent political prisoner,
nobel Peace Prize winner and human
rights campaigner liu Xiaobo died in
prison of liver cancer at the age of 61.
One year ago: The government re-
ported that prices paid by u.s. con-
sumers in June had posted the sharp-
est 12-month spike in 13 years, as a
swift rebound in spending ran up
against widespread supply shortages.
l.a. angels pitching and hitting star
shohei Ohtani unleashed his 100 mph
heat while pitching a perfect inning for
the win as the american league beat
the national league 5-2 for its eighth
straight victory in the all-star Game;
Ohtani went 0-for-2 at the plate. “The
Crown” tied with “The Mandalorian”
for the most emmy nominations, 24
each, but the Marvel universe also got
bragging rights with runner-up “Wan-
daVision”; the nominations reinforced
the rapid rise of streaming, as the
top-nominated scripted shows were
on services that had largely emerged
in the preceding two years.
Today’s Birthdays: Game show an-
nouncer Johnny Gilbert (TV: “Jeop-
ardy!”) is 94. actor Patrick stewart is
82. actor harrison Ford is 80. sing-
er-guitarist Roger McGuinn (The
Byrds) is 80. actor-comedian Cheech
Marin is 76. actor daphne Maxwell
Reid is 74. actor didi Conn is 71. actor
Gil Birmingham is 69. singer louise
Mandrell is 68. Rock musician Mark
“The animal” Mendoza (Twisted sis-
ter) is 66. actor-director Cameron
Crowe is 65. Former tennis player
anders Jarryd is 61. Comedian Tom
Kenny is 60. Country singer-song-
writer Victoria shaw is 60. Bluegrass
singer Rhonda Vincent is 60. actor
Kenny Johnson is 59. Roots singer/
songwriter Paul Thorn is 58. Country
singer neil Thrasher is 57. actor Ken
Jeong is 53. singer deborah Cox is 47.
actor ashley scott is 45. actor Fran
Kranz is 41. actor aya Cash is 40. st.
louis Cardinals catcher yadier Molina
is 40. actor Colton haynes is 34. actor
steven R. McQueen is 34. soul singer
leon Bridges is 33. actor hayley erin
(“General hospital”) is 28. actor Kyle
harrison Breitkopf is 17.
NHL
Shane Wright moves past draft
slide, looks ahead with Kraken
BY TIM BOOTH
associated Press
SEATTLE — In the days
after his unexpected draft
night slide, Shane Wright’s
phone lit up with a constant
stream of text messages and
calls from unfamiliar num-
bers.
Some were expected, like
new teammates with the Se-
attle Kraken reaching out.
Others caught the 18-year-
old by surprise, like when
Wayne Gretzky was on the
other end of the line.
“Some number popped
up on the phone. I’m like,
‘Hello?’ He’s like, ‘Hi Shane,
this is Wayne Gretzky.’ Oh,
OK. That’s pretty cool,”
Wright recalled Tuesday.
It’s been a whirlwind for
Wright since he was taken
by the Kraken with the No. 4
overall pick in the NHL draft.
After a few years during
which Wright was expected
to be the No. 1 pick, he tum-
bled from the top spot as he
was bypassed by Montreal,
New Jersey and Arizona.
Wright didn’t stop falling un-
til Seattle — coming off a dis-
appointing expansion season
— nabbed what it believes is
another cornerstone for its
future.
Then came the messages
from new teammates like Jor-
dan Eberle, Jaden Schwartz
and Matty Beniers. And the
one unforgettable phone call
from “The Great One.”
“It was like probably an
hour after the draft. He called
me just to say just keep your
head up, keep working, keep
grinding. It’s not about what
number you go, it’s more
about the situation you go
to and the city you go to, the
organization,” Wright said.
“He just said keep your head
up and just keep working,
just earn your spot on the
team and show that you’re
a good player in the league
and that you can be a differ-
ence-maker.”
Becoming a differ-
ence-maker starts this week
with Wright’s participation in
Seattle’s first developmental
Ken lambert/The seattle Times via aP
Seattle Kraken’s Shane Wright participates in drills at the team’s
first prospect development camp Monday in Seattle.
camp. He’s one of the star at-
tractions, along with Beniers,
as the Kraken bring together
prospects for the first time.
Beniers made an impact
for the Kraken in his first sea-
son, appearing in 10 games
late in the year after his col-
lege season at Michigan. He
finished with nine points and
looked ready to handle the
rigors of playing in the NHL.
Wright is hoping he can
show during this camp and
into the fall that he’s ready to
follow Beniers’ path.
“Development camp, it’s
more about learning their
play style, learning from their
talented staff and coaches
and to skate with other high-
end players here,” Wright
said.
“Once it comes to training
camp, your mindset, your
job is to earn a spot on the
team. So that’s going to be my
mindset coming into train-
ing camp and throughout the
offseason.”
Wright has played under
the microscope for years in
the Ontario Hockey League
as the long-projected top
pick. He put up 94 points in
63 games of junior hockey
last season.
His draft fall was reminis-
cent of Seth Jones in 2013 —
the last draft with a massive
level of uncertainty about the
top pick. Wright appeared to
be glaring toward Montreal’s
staff after he was finally se-
lected fourth, but he said the
analysis of his facial expres-
sions has been blown out of
proportion.
“I was just trying to look
into the camera and I guess
their table just happened
to be right behind there,”
Wright said. “I can under-
stand, I can see why peo-
ple could misinterpret what
happened there. But I wasn’t
trying to death stare toward
Montreal’s table or anything.”
Tiger
Continued from A5
And then it was another
four months before Woods
played again at the Masters.
And after that, six weeks
until the PGA Championship
at Southern Hills, where he
distanced himself from Phil
Mickelson — nothing new
there — when it came to the
LIV Golf.
Woods now is back in
the public two months later.
His words are getting stron-
ger.His most pointed com-
ments were for players who
seemingly had their careers
in front of them, who had
yet to even make it to the
PGA Tour and chose to take
money they otherwise would
have had to earn through
performance.
Woods spoke at his Hall of
Fame induction in March of
his parents taking out a sec-
ond mortgage on their home
to pay for his junior develop-
ment. And when he turned
pro and signed big endorse-
ments deals with Nike and
Titleist, the priority was to
pay it off.
That was his road.
As he spoke Tuesday, the
Official World Golf Ranking
board had its annual meeting
at St. Andrews. Still to be de-
termined is whether LIV Golf
gets world ranking points.
Even if it goes through a one-
year waiting period, most —
if not all — of the players will
be out of the top 50 by then.
That makes it a long road
back, especially if the majors
— which seem to like LIV
Golf as much as Woods —
change their criteria.
“That is a possibility, that
some players will never, ever
get a chance to play in a ma-
jor championship, never
get a chance to experience
this right here, walk down
the fairways at Augusta Na-
tional,” Woods said.
“That to me, I just don’t
Peter Morrison/aP
Tiger Woods speaks during a press conference at the British
Open in St. Andrews, Scotland, on Tuesday. Woods made his most
pointed criticisms to date of the golfers who have opted to play on
the Saudi-funded LIV Golf tour.
understand it.”
LIV Golf still doesn’t have
anyone from the top 15 in
the world ranking, though it
has some major champions
with plenty of name recog-
nition — Mickelson, a chief
recruiter for Norman; Dustin
Johnson, Brooks Koepka and
Bryson DeChambeau.
Norman isn’t at St. An-
drews for the gathering of
British Open champions. It’s
not clear whether he ever
planned to attend, having
skipped the last two times it
was held at the home of golf.
The R&A figured he would
be a distraction amid the cel-
ebration of the 150th edition
and asked him not to come
this year.
Woods thought it was the
right call.
“Greg has done some
things that I don’t think is in
the best interest of our game,”
he said.
He later referenced Nor-
man trying to start a World
Golf Tour in the early 1990s
that was quashed. The most
powerful dissenting voice
back then came from Ar-
nold Palmer. The King was
20 years beyond his last PGA
Tour win but still a consistent
presence in golf.
That’s what the tour could
use from Woods.