A4 The BulleTin • Monday, april 26, 2021 Fines DEAR ABBY Write to Dear Abby online at dearabby.com or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Dear Abby: My husband recently started a new job. He works with a bunch of women, which is a switch from what I’m used to since all his previous jobs were with all men. These women “adore” him, and I don’t think most are a threat, but two of them are very flirtatious, although he’s not one to notice that stuff. He says they act like that with everyone, but I have tried to explain there are boundar- ies of what’s acceptable for how a woman acts toward a married man. He thinks I’m overreacting and they don’t mean anything, but they treat me differently when he’s not around. I am confident he wouldn’t flirt back, but they seem to take his kindness as “accept- ing” their behavior. I don’t want them to think he thinks it’s OK, but he doesn’t want to be rude since they all work together. What can be done, and how can I get him to see what I see? Am I overreact- ing? — Stuck Between Quiet or Confronting Dear Stuck: You and your husband will be a lot happier if you stop obsessing about his work environment. No- where in your letter did you state that your husband has been unfaithful. It would be extremely in- appropriate for you to con- front his co-workers. If their “adoration” gets to the point where he becomes uncom- fortable, he can either tell them enough is enough or enlist the help of his supervi- sor or his boss. Dear Abby: I was lunching with a group of women when the waiter walked up and ad- dressed us as “you guys.” Men would be highly offended if a waiter approached a table of men and referred to them as “you ladies.” To me, there needs to be another way of addressing women that does not insult them and expect it to be accepted. It would have been just as easy to say, “What can I do for you ladies today?” or something of that nature. One of the women at our table informed the waiter that we were a group of women, not men. Was she right to correct him? — Patsy in Alabama Dear Patsy: The use of the word “guys” is decidedly ca- sual. I’m sure your server — who I’ll bet was a young per- son — didn’t intend to insult anyone when he addressed your group as “you guys.” While I would not have been offended, clearly your table- mate was. And because she was offended, she was right to speak up — as long as she did it in a way that didn’t em- barrass the server. Dear Abby: My boyfriend of 11 years has a 16-year-old son from a previous relation- ship. Yesterday his son had a job interview, and not only did my boyfriend accompany him into the interview, he also answered the questions for his son. I tried to explain to him that parents don’t do that, but he thinks I am just being critical. Doesn’t it look bad if parents go along into interviews? — Baffled in the East Dear Baffled: It not only looks bad, it IS bad. It looks terrible! Your boyfriend is a helicopter parent, and as well-meaning as he may be, he is doing his son no favors. I would be shocked if the boy was hired after that interview. YOUR HOROSCOPE By Madalyn Aslan Stars show the kind of day you’ll have DYNAMIC | POSITIVE | AVERAGE | SO-SO | DIFFICULT HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR MONDAY, APRIL 26, 2021: Gentle, plodding and cautious, take your time for important decisions. This year, you push yourself out of your comfort zone and accept challenges. Unconditional support from family allows you to move forward and never look back. Your finances grow with long-term investments and increases in salary or com- mission. Take your loved ones on that long-anticipated vacation. If single, open your heart. If attached, express love through actions. AQUARIUS gets you to socialize. ARIES (March 21-April 19) Pressure could mount from partners who want more than you can deliver. Distance yourself from those trying to guilt you into going against your will. Have fun with someone who you know always has your back. To- night: Chat with family. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) Tackle work that requires more effort than usual. This could involve a paid job or just labor-intensive work around the house. Get it done early. Saving the best part of your day for last speeds up the pace. Tonight: Light exercise. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) Take a deep breath before reacting to a romantic situation. A friendly flirtation could be just that and nothing more. Give creativity a chance. Take an art, music or dance class with no expectations other than expressing your- self. Tonight: Positive affirmations. CANCER (June 21-July 22) Perk up your living space. There could be differences of opinion about how radically your family wants to make changes. If you want to fix things up more completely, hire professional help if the job is beyond your talents. Tonight: Inspired leftovers. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) You’ve got the muscle to promote your ideas to others. Whether expressing your viewpoint or marketing a product, speak clearly and persua- sively to get the message across. Take it down a notch, and nobody will be offended. Tonight: Romantic time. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) Cut fat from your budget. Think of one item that your heart is set on but is out of reach. Start saving for it while you eliminate nonessentials. Treat yourself well but don’t break the bank. Tonight: Group texts. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) Take advantage of more confidence and high energy without burn- ing the candle at both ends. Pace yourself, and the job will get done with time to spare. Show off your culinary skills to dinner guests. Tonight: Play a brain-teasing game. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) Find a lull in your schedule so you can find that quiet space to catch up on reading. Combine social and volunteer activities, as long as they don’t de- mand too much of your time and energy. Tonight: Watch a celebrity biopic. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) Speak your mind freely, and others will listen. Your idealism and earnestness come through loud and clear. Confide in a trusted friend about hidden fears. Put your mind at rest now that you got it off your chest. To- night: Outdoor dining. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) Look over detailed notes for projects you began but never finished. Discard those that will never see the light of day. Show those that seem worthwhile to someone who can comment objectively. Tonight: Be honest with someone you love. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) Share insights about life and love with a group of like-minded people. These are not subjects that you openly talk about, so be discriminating. Start to think ahead toward the summer. Research a destination that appeals to everyone. Tonight: Takeout specials. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20) 8 Things could feel like they are out of control. Don’t let your frustra- tion get the better of you. Step back and find a solution. Gently but firmly steer others involved in the right direction. Tonight: Sweat off your nervous energy. Brown has since allowed gyms to reopen. “There’s folks that seem to think we have the authority to put padlocks on doors. We don’t,” Wood said. “All we can really do is increase the pen- alty. There is a lot of room to increase the penalties.” Continued from A1 That means businesses the state believes committed the most egregious COVID-19 safety violations will be able to delay fines until long after the pandemic is over and could end up paying significantly re- duced penalties after their ap- peals are resolved. The situation illustrates the limitations of applying Or- egon’s standard workplace safety rules to the extraordi- nary circumstances created by the pandemic. While Oregon OSHA tells businesses they must remedy violations during the appeals process, the agency has little power to force those businesses into compliance and the state has been unwill- ing to pursue criminal charges against repeated violators. Many businesses have con- tinued to defy state COVID-19 health restrictions while ap- pealing their citations, or have publicly solicited donations to fight their penalties. Oregon OSHA says even if businesses are delaying fines through appeals, and some remain hellbent on breaking the rules, the threat of a fine is enough to get most businesses to comply. But that logic is frustrating to worker rights ad- vocates. “We’re talking about a pan- demic that has resulted in 103 workplace-related deaths in Or- egon,” said Jess Giannettino Vil- latoro, political director for Ore- gon AFL-CIO, one of the state’s largest labor groups. “There should be a stronger way to hold bad actors accountable.” The appeals process Safety officials visited Gold Miner Restaurant in Grants Pass earlier this year after re- ceiving multiple complaints from patrons and a request from Josephine County Pub- lic Health. They found that the restaurant wasn’t requiring that employees wear masks and had remained open for indoor din- ing in violation of state regula- tions in force at the time. Nancie Bowers, the restau- rant’s owner, told officials during the inspection that she knew she was violating state rules, according to Oregon OSHA. Multiple calls to the restaurant seeking comment went unanswered. On April 6, Oregon OSHA levied a nearly $18,000 fine against the restaurant. Bowers hasn’t officially in- formed the state whether she will appeal, but a day after the citation was issued she launched a GoFundMe campaign, asking supporters to donate money to help the restaurant fight the fine. The campaign has raised more than $6,700 so far. “I believe they have no right to close my business and al- low others to be open,” Bowers wrote. “We practice high stan- dards to protect our employees and customers.” “We are gonna give them a good fight,” she added. When Oregon OSHA hands down a willful viola- tion, it knows it is likely in for a time-intensive and sometimes costly fight. Oregon OSHA administrator Michael Wood said even before the pandemic, the vast major- ity of businesses that received willful violations appealed be- cause those violations come with larger fines and employers generally want to avoid hav- ing them become a permanent part of their record. If anything, employers have been even more keen to appeal willful COVID-19 safety violations. “In every one of these cases, in particular, we’re likely to see an appeal because, frankly, al- most without exception, we’re dealing with employers who have made a conscious deci- sion that they aren’t going to submit to our requirements,” Wood said. “That makes it un- likely they would step away without appealing, even com- pared to the norm.” As of April 8, the state had issued 125 citations to busi- nesses for violating COVID-19 safety standards. Nearly 75% of employers who have received fines for nonwillful COVID-19-related violations have already paid. In the vast majority of those cases, fines were under $1,000. Oregon has a history of hand- ing out fines for non-willful violations that are significantly smaller than the national av- erage, according to annual The Bulletin file Kevista Coffee Shop in Bend has been fined by Oregon regulators over disregarding COVID-19 rules. reports from the U.S. Depart- rant’s fine by more than half. ment of Labor. In coming to the settlement, On the other hand, employ- he said the agency considered ers cited for intentionally flout- the timing of the fine — Gov. ing COVID-19 safety standards Kate Brown allowed restau- have received fines of between rants to reopen for indoor din- $8,900 and $126,749, and al- ing shortly after Oregon OSHA most invariably appealed. inspected Kozy Kitchen — and After an appeal, Oregon the fact that a $4,000 fine still OSHA will try to negotiate an seemed substantial for a small agreement with the employer restaurant with five employees. during an informal settlement Wood, though, insists that conference. If the the settlement two sides can’t “We’re talking about with Kozy Kitchen reach a settlement, won’t serve as a a pandemic that baseline for other the case will go on to the Workers’ that has resulted in 103 businesses Compensation flouted COVID-19 Board where an workplace-related safety standards, administrative law especially those deaths in Oregon. that have been judge will rule on the appeal. There should be fined multiple The state and times for repeated a stronger way to violations. the employer often end up spending “Most of the hold bad actors more on legal fees employers we’re than the initial fine citing, we know ar- accountable.” when a case goes en’t going to come — Jess Giannettino that far, Wood said. into compliance Villatoro, with the But the burden simply because we AFL-CIO, one of Oregon’s cited them,” Wood falls on Oregon largest labor groups OSHA in those said. “We’ve had cases to prove that ongoing activity the penalties were appropriate. with them and that certainly That means the agency has makes the possibility of a settle- an incentive to negotiate lesser ment a good deal less likely.” penalties or violations during those initial conferences if they Flouting safety standards aren’t convinced they will pre- But even if violators could vail in front of an administra- pay substantial fines in future, tive law judge. those fines aren’t forcing them A total of 1,629 Oregon into compliance now when OSHA violations were resolved workers and patrons are most at through the appeals process risk of contracting COVID-19. over the last three years, with When the governor man- 43% amended on appeal and dated that gyms close in No- 12% rescinded, according to vember with COVID-19 cases Oregon OSHA data. Oregon rising throughout the state, collected 64% of the total value Salem-based gym chain Court- of penalties issued over the house Club Fitness refused. past three years due to a por- That prompted Oregon tion of fines being reduced on OSHA to fine the gym $90,000 appeal. Businesses can also for operating four facilities in work out payment plans once defiance of state regulations. their appeals are resolved. The gym appealed the fine and When safety officials in- continued operating, calling spected Kozy Kitchen in North the state’s regulations unrea- Bend on May 14, 2020, they sonable. Many other businesses found the restaurant open for have complained about the indoor dining against state state’s revolving and what they health regulations and observed see as arbitrary COVID-19 employees without face masks safety standards, although the failing to maintain social dis- vast majority appear to have tance, according to field notes. complied with the rules. According to the notes, “I repeat my pledge to sup- restaurant owner Dave Grover port any reasonable request to told Oregon OSHA officials help in the fight against covid,” that he was aware he was violat- owner John Miller wrote in a ing state rules but refused two since-deleted Facebook post. requests from the officials to “Voluntarily bankrupting a shut down for the remainder of business my members depend the day. Grover didn’t respond on for their health, and 300 to a request for comment. employees depend on for a liv- The result of the inspection ing, is not reasonable.” prompted Oregon OSHA to is- In January, Oregon OSHA sue Kozy Kitchen a willful viola- issued the gym a second fine tion and a fine of $8,900 for re- of $126,749 for continuing to maining open for indoor dining. defy Brown’s mandates, by far After a settlement confer- the largest fine it has issued for ence, Wood said, he signed off a coronavirus violation. Again, on an agreement that would the gym appealed. downgrade the violation to No other steps were taken serious and reduce the restau- to ensure the gym complied. A Bend business Kevista Coffee in Bend was fined $8,900 by Oregon OSHA in July after the state alleged it willfully failed to require face coverings. Like Courthouse Club Fitness, the coffee shop appealed and continued to defy state rules. Between Dec. 30 and Jan. 5, five people complained to Ore- gon OSHA that the cafe wasn’t requiring masks or physical distancing. One complaint noted that the coffee shop was soliciting donations to help in its fight against Oregon OSHA, according to state records. The agency levied a second fine of $27,470 against the cof- fee shop last month for open- ing up against state regulations in December. Owners Kevin and Krista Lauinger have not yet told the state if they will ap- peal the second fine. They did not respond to a request for comment for this story. The Lauingers told Oregon OSHA they were aware of the rules to shut down in-person dining but chose to remain open, according to previous Bulletin reporting. Signs on the door explained to the public that the store was engaged in a “peaceful protest.” Oregon OSHA adopted a temporary COVID-19 rule in November meant to strengthen its ability to enforce COVID-19 safety standards, but beyond issuing fines and citations the agency has little power to force businesses into compliance. And other state agencies haven’t stepped in. Liz Merah, a spokesperson for the governor, said in January that businesses that violated the state’s COVID-19 safety stan- dards could be charged with Class C misdemeanors, but also acknowledged the state hadn’t taken that approach to force businesses into compliance, instead relying on an educa- tion-first approach. Still, Wood said he believes the threat of fines from Oregon OSHA are effective in encour- aging most employers to ad- here to safety guidelines. “I do believe that our pen- alties and awareness of them have an effect on other em- ployers who may be wavering in their decision to follow the closure orders and to require the use of facial coverings,” Wood said. But Kate Suisman, an attor- ney at the Northwest Workers’ Justice Project, which sup- ports low-wage and immi- grant workers, said employees aren’t seeing businesses held accountable when they flout safety regulations. She said the workers she supports feel dis- illusioned with the system and that has made them less willing to speak up about safety vio- lations. “Workers know the whole system isn’t going to bring them satisfaction,” Suisman said. “What they want is for their employer to change their practices, but workers have given up on that during the pandemic.” Attention Parents of 2021 Grads! Help make some memories! 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