The BulleTin • Sunday, March 28, 2021 C3 DEAR ABBY Write to Dear Abby online at dearabby.com or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Dear Abby: I have meddling in-laws. Anytime my husband of 20 years and I have a dis- agreement, he calls his parents to complain about me. On six different occasions, I found messages and Facebook chats between my husband and my in-laws in which they called me a bad mother, a terrible person, crazy, evil, the devil and disparaged my family. Because of this, I have cut off contact with his relatives, and they cannot come to our house. My husband insists on being around them, and we ar- gue because I want our 9-year- old son to have only limited contact with them. I don’t want them tearing me down in front of him. I also expect my spouse to spend time with me and our son at holidays, but my hus- band says I’m being unreason- able and I should just “move on and let it go.” His parents refuse to apologize. They say they have done nothing wrong. I need some objective advice. — Miserable in Missouri Dear Miserable: The per- son who has done something wrong is your husband. He should not have gone running to Mommy and Daddy when you had a disagreement. What they did was accept his side of the story and support their wounded child. I don’t blame you for not wanting your son subjected to any smack talk from his grand- parents. Wanting to shield him from that doesn’t make you crazy, evil, etc. Bury the hatchet with them if it’s possi- ble, and drag your husband to a licensed marriage and fam- ily therapist so he — and you — can learn to disagree like adults. Dear Abby: My mother keeps buying me (and my now-teenage daughters) clothes from a catalog for el- derly women. Think lots of bird prints, florals and elas- tic-waist pants. She’s an amazing mother and grandmother and an in- spiration in my life. I appreci- ate her generosity and that she thinks of us. However, none of us wear the clothes, and I don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her we are “pretty par- ticular” when it comes to style. We are very frugal and even shop second-hand stores for some clothing. Should I speak up, or quietly continue donating the clothes? The last thing I want is to hurt her. — Wincing in Lansing, Mich. Dear Wincing: Do NOT tell your mother you and your daughters have been donat- ing the clothes she orders for you. DO tell her that teenage girls these days dress much dif- ferently than women her age and yours, and that it would be “prudent” to ask them what they might like or gift them money to buy something of their own choosing. It’s the truth, and she should hear it. As to what she is ordering for you, thank her for her gen- erosity and point out that since the pandemic began most women have been wearing jeans, sweats, leggings, etc. and that while you are grateful for her, you think she should be aware of it. Fashions change, and there is nothing so con- stant as change. YOUR HOROSCOPE By Madalyn Aslan Stars show the kind of day you’ll have DYNAMIC | POSITIVE | AVERAGE | SO-SO | DIFFICULT HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR SUNDAY, MARCH 28, 2021: Confident, enthusiastic and impulsive, the desire to learn and grow moves you in a positive direction. This year, you acquire knowledge that enhances your ability to connect with people personally and professionally. Keep an eye on your finances since you may be tempted to spend more than usual for business and pleasure. If sin- gle, friendship may lead to love. If attached, your partner is your biggest cheer- leader. CAPRICORN directs your energy. ARIES (March 21-April 19) Spend the day outdoors with someone special. Make sure there are no crossed wires and you both agree about the game plan. Look forward to a deep conversation. Give your point of view sweetly, though firmly. Tonight: Sam- ple something sweet. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) You may be preoccupied with an unfinished project. Work on it in the morning, and then set it aside. Children and grandchildren may come to visit. Brush up on your cooking skills. Experiment with herbs and spices. Tonight: Family film. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) Get your household chores done early. Take a car, bus or train ride some- where off the beaten track. You may be invited to a gathering or party. Someone you meet could become an important contact. Tonight: Phone a friend. CANCER (June 21-July 22) Attending a sporting event or watching it from home may define your day. Try to persuade an out-of-town relative to come for a visit. If that does not work, arrange to Zoom with several family members. Tonight: Solve a problem. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) Enjoy your breakfast and the morning paper before the day takes you by storm. You may want to indulge in a lazy Sunday, but others have different plans. Bite the bullet and go out with friends. Tonight: Carve out alone time. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) You may discover you have less cash on hand than you thought. Explore online bargains and creative ways to buy what you need. Think of it as a treasure hunt. Involve your family and compare what you find. Tonight: Relaxation. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) Family may make plans without asking you. Be accommodating and assertive. You know how to bring others around to your point of view. Take advantage of that quality. Make others feel they have gotten what they want. Tonight: Online shopping. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) Be sure to jot down last night’s dream. It might contain an illumi- nating message. Ask someone you love for a favor you have been hesitant to bring up. The positive response may surprise you. Tonight: Start an exciting page-turner. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) Reflect on advice you recently received from friends. They know you well and can provide the objectivity you need. Think about joining a book club. You will expand your social circle when you widen your interests. Tonight: Laughing out loud. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) Pat yourself on the back for making it through a challenging week. The recognition you receive will boost your confidence. Share happy thoughts with someone feeling down. Talk them into going for a walk in the park. Tonight: Artistic impulses. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) 9 Research destinations for a family trip. The good news is, if you do your homework, you’ll discover the perfect place at a great price. Children and grandchildren may provide you with surprising tips on where to go. Tonight: Dance party. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20) The entrepreneur in you is ready to emerge. Use your natural charm, and someone may be interested in marketing your ideas or selling your products. Ask an informed friend to guide you through the process. Tonight: Catch up with friends. Central Oregon’s source for events, arts & entertainment Pick up Thursday’s Bulletin for weekly event coverage and calendars Billionaire’s clothing company becomes a sportswear sensation BY MIN JEONG LEE AND YOOJUNG LEE Bloomberg When it comes to Japa- nese retail billionaires, the first name that springs to mind might be Tadashi Yanai, the entrepreneur behind the Uniqlo brand and the nation’s richest man. But there’s another founder who’s drawing attention as one of his biggest companies transforms in the country. Yoshio Tsuchiya’s Work- man Co. has expanded be- yond its roots as a maker of drab uniforms for laborers into low-cost, functional sportswear and outdoor gear. The evolution has won praise from investors, analysts and even Fast Retailing Co.’s Yanai, who says the company has created a “new market.” Other observers question whether the positive momentum has reached its limit. Workman’s shares have more than quadrupled since the start of 2018, despite par- ing some of their gains re- cently. That boosted Tsuchiya and his family’s stake in the company alone to about $4.5 billion, according to the Bloomberg Billionaires Index. For one analyst, the retailer has the potential to really take Toru Hanai/The Washington Post In 2016, Workman moved into low-cost outdoor gear before open- ing its first WORKMAN Plus store, like the one shown above, two years later to focus on sports and outdoor clothing. off when the country gets clear of the covid-19 pandemic. “It’s one of the more excit- ing stories in Japanese retail” once things get back to nor- mal, said Ruhell Amin, global head of retail equity research at William O’Neil & Co. in London. Tsuchiya opened Work- man’s first store in 1979 when he was in his late 40s. The company specialized in work clothing for construction la- borers, a booming business in the country’s bubble economy of the 1980s. In 2016, Workman moved into low-cost outdoor gear be- fore opening its first WORK- MAN Plus store two years later to focus on sports and outdoor clothing. The com- pany had 632 regular stores and 269 WORKMAN Plus shops across Japan as of March 10, often in areas where blue-collar workers live. One popular product is a waterproof jacket that costs $36 (3,900 yen), much lower than comparable offerings by other companies. A “climb light jacket” from The North Face, for example, retails for about $300 (33,000 yen). “Because our clothes were originally designed to suit workers, they weren’t inferior to sportswear in function- ality, and most importantly, they could be made at cheap prices,” Tetsuo Tsuchiya, a family member and senior managing director at Work- man, said in an interview with ITmedia Business Online in January. “We realized that was Workman’s strength.” Richard Kaye, a portfo- lio manager at Comgest As- set Management Japan Ltd., which owns Workman shares, said the quality of the com- pany’s products can be better than more expensive brands because of its established sup- ply chain. The apparel maker boasts “high performance at one- half to one-third the cost of famous brands,” Ryozo Mi- nagawa, a senior analyst at SMBC Nikko Securities Inc. in Tokyo, wrote in a Novem- ber note. It has “no competi- tion” in the cheap sportswear segment, he wrote. “I want them to keep it up — competition is a source of development,” Fast Retailing’s Yanai told reporters following an earnings release in October when asked about the threat of Workman. “We created a new market and so has Work- man,” he said. “The clothes have functionality, and I think they’re very good.”