A4 The BulleTin • Monday, March 22, 2021 Tracing DEAR ABBY Write to Dear Abby online at dearabby.com or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Dear Abby: Two months ago, I met a lady I will call Amber. We were instantly attracted to each other. The first date went well, and we reached first base (kiss- ing). On the second date, we reached second base (fon- dling). On the third date, which was also going well, after I finished paying the check for dinner, I asked her if she wanted to continue where we had left off. Amber said no. I was fine with it. Later that night, when we spoke over the phone, I pointed out, nicely, that she did not even say thank you for dinner, and Amber got offended. I decided to end things after that phone call. I felt she was being disrespect- ful of my feelings by not lis- tening to what I was saying. Fast-forward: Her birth- day is in two weeks, and I don’t know if I should bury the hatchet by dropping her a Happy Birthday text that day because I really did overall like her. — Brand-New in New Jersey Dear Brand-New: Amber may have become offended when, after she declined to proceed with further in- timacy, you told her she “hadn’t even” thanked you for the dinner. When I read that line, for a moment I won- dered if you equated the two and had expected that after buying her dinner you were guaranteed sexual favors in return. The two of you have a significant communication deficit. Contact her again only if you are willing to ac- knowledge that fact and hope she is willing to work on it with you. Dear Abby: My husband and I recently found out we’re expecting our first child. We have been married for five years, and while we are still fairly young, this has been a long time in coming. For both of our families, this will be the first grandchild. My brother is getting mar- ried next month. We live in a different state but plan to fly home for the wedding. My husband says we cannot tell our families about the pregnancy on this trip be- cause we don’t want to “over- shadow the happy weekend with additional good news.” This means we would need to tell them over video chat (not in person), since go- ing home for a separate trip is not an option due to COVID. While I see his point and certainly don’t want to over- shadow the wedding, I don’t see why we can’t tell them a few days before the wed- ding so that it’s in person and I won’t have to answer a bunch of questions from close family about why I’m not drinking at the wedding. My brother’s fiancee and I do not get along, and I’m not in the wedding party (if that makes a difference). Please advise. — Anonymous Mom-To-Be Dear Mom-To-Be: I am voting with your husband. Do not upstage your brother and his bride-to-be, tempting as it may be. To do otherwise will take the spotlight off the happy couple and aim it di- rectly at your belly. While this might seem like a welcome opportunity to stick your fin- ger in the eye of a woman you dislike, keep in mind that in a short time she will be family and impossible to avoid. The less friction the better. YOUR HOROSCOPE By Madalyn Aslan Stars show the kind of day you’ll have DYNAMIC | POSITIVE | AVERAGE | SO-SO | DIFFICULT HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR MONDAY, MARCH 22, 2021: Forth- right, energetic and impatient, there is no limit to what you can accomplish. This year, you will be active on multiple fronts, so remember to pace yourself and reserve quality time with family. Finances may ebb and flow, so avoid splurging on unnecessary items. If single, look your best, and you will attract the person of your dreams. If attached, take a well-deserved break and pencil in a vacation. CANCER provides warmth. ARIES (March 21-April 19) Contact a family member who may be too proud to ask for help. 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I think we did do this right.” Over the past year, 24 states and Wash- ington, D.C., have spent millions devel- oping and promoting the Apple and Goo- gle-based apps or systems. The tech giants made the basic platform free, but states have spent anywhere from $9,600 in North Dakota to $3 million in Washington state on app development and marketing. More than 28 million people in the United States have downloaded the mobile apps or activated exposure notifications on their smartphones. The systems use Blue- tooth technology and are both voluntary and anonymous. Critics say the technology has overem- phasized privacy at the cost of usefulness. “I have yet to see any convincing evi- dence that they’re worth it,” said Ryan Calo, a University of Washington law professor who has written critically about the apps for months and testified in front of a congres- sional committee last April, in an interview with Stateline. “A lot of money, a lot of attention, a lot of oxygen has gone into developing this app. That time and money should have been put other places,” he said, such as testing and manual contact tracing. The states that haven’t gone the route of digital contact tracing cite a range of rea- sons, from privacy concerns to a preference for manual contact tracing. Still, even as the COVID-19 vaccine sup- ply ramps up, the number of cases drops and states begin loosening restrictions, a few states have recently launched or are still planning to launch contact tracing apps. Oregon and New Mexico plan to release apps soon. Ryan Brennecke/The Bulletin file Students prepare their testing kits on the OSU-Cascades campus before heading out to test for COVID-19 symptoms to determine the prevalence of the coronavirus in the Bend community in May, almost a year ago. Oregon has yet to release an app for mobile devices to help with contact tracing, as other states have done, but has said it plans to do so. “I have yet to see any convincing evidence that they’re worth it. A lot of money, a lot of attention, a lot of oxygen has gone into developing this app. That time and money should have been put other places.” — Ryan Calo, a University of Washington law professor who has written critically about contact tracing apps is exchanged with nearby phones that also have opted in to the system. If a person tests positive for the coronavirus and enters a code from a public health authority into the system, notifications are sent to people whose phones picked up the infected per- son’s signal in the previous 14 days. Codes change regularly, and the warnings are anonymous. You’re told you were possi- bly exposed, but not where and by whom. Turning to technology Google’s Android phones use an app that State officials and experts argue such sys- each user must download. Apple offers apps tems add to their toolkits. They say the apps but also has integrated the exposure noti- help to reach younger people and provide fications system into its operating system, an alternative for those skeptical of tradi- iOS. States can use that to send notifications tional contact tracing, which relies heavily to users, encouraging them to opt in, with- on public health employees reaching people out requiring them to download an app. by phone. And they say the technology has Only public health authorities can acti- a role to play as Americans be- vate the system. gin to travel again — and face “This was architected in a the uncertain effects of virus way to secure privacy,” said variants. Calo, the Washington profes- “There is a possibility that sor. “They sacrificed the abil- The number of people in the U.S. who have we could have another spike ity to effectively measure if it downloaded contact in cases coming up later this worked.” tracing features onto their summer or in the fall,” said Measuring success mobile devices Sam Gibbs, deputy secretary According to state health for technology and opera- departments, the metrics tions of the North Carolina available to states to gauge success are the Department of Health and Human Ser- number of people who download or ac- vices. tivate the system, the number of times He hoped the state’s app would draw state-generated codes are used to notify 500,000 people; it’s been downloaded possible exposures and the number of ex- 785,000 times. posure notifications that are sent. “This is a time where we don’t want to Some state health officials acknowl- let our guard down,” Gibbs said. “We need edge the shortcomings of the apps. Gibbs, to continue to be conscious of the disease of North Carolina’s health department, even if we have been vaccinated.” In spring 2020, as states began shoring up said the state government is typically responses to the pandemic, state officials re- data-driven. “This particular program alized cellphone data could be used to track doesn’t give us the level of detail we use in the spread of COVID-19. Privacy advocates other programs,” he said. But knowing 785,000 residents have balked. Polling showed Americans were di- downloaded the app, officials can assume vided on whether it was acceptable for the those people are more likely to be cautious, government to use phones to track people he said. “There are a lot of soft outcomes who tested positive for the virus, according to this that we can’t really measure.” to the Pew Research Center. Most state health departments con- In response to the public concern, Apple and Google forged an unlikely partnership tacted by Stateline said digital contact trac- to develop a form of digital contact tracing ing complements manual contact tracing. Wyoming, for example, had about with a tamer name — an exposure notifi- cations system. The Bluetooth-based setup 7,000 people use the app at its peak, but only about 75 of them have used a code to is opt-in only and anonymous. broadcast potential exposures, according When a person opts in to exposure no- to Kim Deti, a health department spokes- tifications, their phone emits a signal that 28 million card and be sure to mingle. This may be the perfect opportunity to network with potential contacts. Be confident but not too brash. Tonight: Catch up on reading. ❝ LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) Someone may ask you for pointers on how to problem-solve. Be firm and truthful, yet sensitive and caring. You will have a positive impact. 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Take it in stride, and person. Instead, she said, the state relies primarily on in-person tracing. “We have continued to consider phone interviews by trained epidemiologists with cases to identify those at high risk of expo- sure, followed by direct notification of an exposure by an epidemiologist, to be the gold standard of response,” Deti wrote in an email. 1 in 5 don’t have smartphones There are other barriers. One in five U.S. adults don’t own a smartphone. Of Ohio’s decision not to make an app, “Equity con- cerns were a factor, as a person must own a smartphone to use these apps or ser- vices, possibly leaving vulnerable Ohioans without access,” said health department spokesperson Alicia Shoults in an email. Health departments in Mississippi and Texas cited privacy and accuracy concerns in deciding not to use digital contact trac- ing. The one-two punch of politicized pan- demic restrictions and early privacy con- cerns likely turned state officials away from digital tracing, said Brian Ray, a pro- fessor at Cleveland-Marshall College of Law and director of the school’s Center for Cybersecurity and Privacy Protection. “I’m pretty confident even the perfect app would have failed,” he said. “There was this sort of vicious convergence of both broad, widespread concern on the left and the right over surveillance generally, which was legit. “Despite the fact that Google and Apple created an entirely privacy protective model, but one that doesn’t work that well, they still got hammered on the privacy concerns,” he said. “Politically it was too dangerous.” Still, even a year into the pandemic, with vaccine supply ramping up, some experts say it’s not too late to launch these apps — and that they may be even more important now. Arizona’s app, which was developed through a pilot project at the University of Arizona, is available to the public but has not yet been marketed. Joanna Masel, a professor of ecology and evolutionary biology at the University of Arizona, said the value of exposure no- tifications only increases as coronavirus case numbers fall. “If there are 10 cases, and you quaran- tine one, you reduce the risk by a tenth. Each little bit of information you get is worth more,” she said. As more people prepare to travel, the ex- posure notifications will continue to work across state lines. The Association of Pub- lic Health Laboratories, which represents state and local health labs, hosts a national server to support all states with apps. “As people get vaccinated, as we hope to return to more quote-unquote normal life, I think the technology can play a bigger and bigger role,” said Katherine Feldman, director of the contact tracing unit at the Maryland Department of Health. 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