A8 The BulleTin • Friday, FeBruary 19, 2021 Claims DEAR ABBY Write to Dear Abby online at dearabby.com or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069 Dear Abby: Our 11-year- old has learned to lie, and we feel terrible about it. Because she has a sensory processing disorder, clothes are a useless gift because the seams and fabric are often uncomfortable for her. We have repeatedly asked fam- ily and friends not to gift her clothes, but her grand- mas are in denial and often do it anyway. Our sweet daughter has decided that sparing their feelings is more important than asserting her own, and I’m worried this behavior will teach her that her feel- ings are less important than other people’s. How do we teach her to be polite and honor her own feelings and wishes without offending well-meaning relatives who cannot understand that she doesn’t appreciate or value these gifts? — Mama Bear in Texas Dear Mama Bear: Of course your daughter should be taught that her feelings — and opinions — are important. But accept- ing gifts graciously is proper etiquette. It is considered rude for a recipient to tell folks their gifts are unwelcome or un- wanted. It would not be rude, however, for YOU to run interference by remind- ing these clueless gran- nies about your daughter’s problem and telling them what has been happening to their impractical gifts — that they are given away, donated, etc. because she cannot wear them. A far more welcome gift would be something she’s interested in or a gift card to a store that carries items she might like. Then suggest an area of interest of hers they may be unaware of. Also, for “in- surance,” request a receipt be included with the gift. YOUR HOROSCOPE By Madalyn Aslan Stars show the kind of day you’ll have DYNAMIC | POSITIVE | AVERAGE | SO-SO | DIFFICULT HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR FRIDAY, FEB. 19, 2021: Tough, imagi- native and groundbreaking, you go off and do your own thing. This year, you fearlessly explore a gem, and create a masterpiece with it. If single, you do best on your own, but this year you do meet someone. And fall in love. Just don’t be rash — let it come to you. If attached, your perceptions are broad- ened and changed by your partner this year. AQUARIUS opens your eyes. ARIES (March 21-April 19) Today generates a hectic pace. A chance to correct ongoing prob- lems at work will present itself. Gather information and sharpen your skills. Your charm and appeal are in top form. You’ll be motivated and can accom- plish much, but don’t push too hard or overreact. Tonight: Relax. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) Finance is always one of your favorite topics, but this is especially true today. There can be some confusion concerning exactly what your monetary circumstances are. First impressions should be heeded as you make financial plans now. Tonight: Online retail therapy. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) The present nobility in you will be highly visible at work today and make an impression on influential individuals. No counterproductive pat- terns in relationships or legal matters. Honesty and credibility will prove to be especially precious today. Tonight: Invitations come your way. CANCER (June 21-July 22) The idea of being your own best friend in developing a healthy life- style must be embraced. Don’t lose focus or shift your priorities. Dissipating precious energy could end in frustration. You’ll enjoy the peace and solitude of nature. Tonight: Perform a random act of kindness. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) Today generates active and interesting social professional con- tacts. A dynamic friend is an absolute inspiration. Focus on forming clear goals. Your hopes and wishes. Meditate on self-awareness and personal re- sponsibility. This leads to a new assertiveness. Tonight: Online schmoozing. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) Extra recognition is coming your way at work. Demonstrate your capabilities in situations that promise to facilitate advancement. Make a list of goals and decide about community and your role in it. Tonight: A bright, talented friend provides inspiration and joy. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) Today is energetic. You want to win every competition, and travel plans and study will be important. Your cleverness and eloquence enable you to find the quickest route to fulfillment. An email or call marks the begin- ning of an intriguing bond. Tonight: Watch a foreign film. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) Today brings a glimpse into the motivations of others at work. Prepare for a few secrets to come to light. Explore investments and other strategies to establish long-term financial security. This is also an optimum time to pre- pare some writing for publication. Tonight: Early beddie-byes. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) True happiness in a really good relationship or partnership can be attained. Be especially patient and very sincere. There can be an old hurdle to surmount before trust is free to grow. It will. Compromise is important. Tonight: Dinner with friends. Continued from A7 From March 15, 2020, through Wednesday, the agency has paid out $7.6 billion in state and federal benefits — more than it paid during the previous decade — and has gone through 650,000 claims for regular benefits from the state unemployment trust fund. About 70% have qualified for payment. The total for the compara- ble period in 2019-20 was 131,000 claims, about 20% of the recent total. During the Great Re- cession a decade ago, the number of claims rose over a 12-month period, as op- posed to a two-month pe- riod last year, and they were largely federally funded extensions of regular state benefits, up to a maximum of 99 weeks that ended in 2013. For most people ap- plying for those benefits, their applications could be checked against employer payroll records. In contrast, Congress in the initial coronavirus re- lief act made self-employed and gig workers eligible for benefits for the first time in the unemployment system’s 85-year history, in addition to supplemental payments of $600 weekly to all un- employed workers. Ore- gon and other states had to obtain information about income and identity from these first-time recipients. Gerstenfeld said Oregon has paid out $612 million in benefits to 99,000 self-em- ployed and gig workers in the federal program, which is known as Pandemic Un- employment Assistance. Thousands of others have qualified for some regular state benefits, so 68% of ap- plicants have qualified. Congress added iden- tity requirements for those self-employed and gig workers in the latest 11- week extension of unem- ployment benefits under the Continued Assistance Act, which became law on Dec. 27. The U.S. House is now considering another exten- sion of unemployment ben- efits, which for many will end March 13. The House proposal is for an extension to the end of August; Pres- ident Joe Biden has pro- posed the end of September to coincide with the end of the federal budget year. The Senate also will have to consider the legislation, which mirrors Biden’s $1.9 trillion pandemic aid plan. Oregon Sen. Ron Wyden, the Democrat who now leads the tax-writing Fi- nance Committee, has pro- posed adding $1 billion to help states improve their delivery of unemployment benefits and connect better with the U.S. Department of Labor, which oversees the system. A spokesman says Wyden also wants the Sept. 30 date Biden has proposed. e Courtesy of Territorial Seed Co. via Capital Press Territorial Seed Co. workers package and ship seed. Seeds Continued from A7 Farmers who grow vegeta- ble seed for commercial-scale farms say that market has been less stable during the pan- demic, but many seed crops are still performing well. People are still spending more time and money on land- scaping — a boon for grass- seed companies. “It feels like, in the retail sec- tor at least, people went crazy buying,” said James Schneider, Enchanted Continued from A7 Roofs of buildings through- out the park had been tattered by falling branches. While the park was dam- aged during a similar storm over a decade ago, Vaslev said this is worse. “The whole park is a war zone, disaster area,” said Vaslev. “There is a ton of cleanup. I’ve never seen it this bad.” The full picture of the dam- age to the park is still emerg- ing. Vaslev said the Ice Moun- tain Bobsleds and Big Timber Log Ride are both covered in fallen trees that will have to be carefully removed to prevent president and CEO of Baren- brug USA, a grass-seed sup- plier located in Tangent. Schneider estimated residen- tial retail makes up about 60% of total grass-seed industry sales. Year over year, from 2019 to 2020, he said residential sales of grass seed increased 25%, and sales this spring are projected to jump 5% to 20%. When sports fields closed last spring, sales of commer- cial and sports seed mixes ini- tially took a hit. But as sports teams adapted — for example, by filling the stands with card- board fans — sales returned to normal. Golf courses, experts say, ordered record amounts of seed because more people have picked up the sport during the pandemic. “Golf has had a resurgence they haven’t seen since Ti- ger Woods. We’ve picked up a whole new generation of golfers,” said Scott Harer, vice president at Columbia Seeds, another grass seed company, located in Albany. “The whole park is a war zone, disaster area. There is a ton of cleanup. I’ve never seen it this bad.” So is the Challenge of Mondor, despite the fire alarm, she said. The family will also have some money for repairs. In December, the Tofte fam- ily, which owns the park, an- nounced they’d raised enough money to open for another season. In response to a precipitous drop in visitors last year caused by the pandemic, the family began selling park memora- bilia and asking for donations to stay open. The money raised means the park has been able to keep its insurance policy, said Vaslev. But she said there is still a high deductible, and it’s not clear what insurance will cover. — Susan Vaslev, whose family has owned and operated Enchanted Forest for nearly 50 years causing further damage. But Vaslev said it’s not all bad news. 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