B12 THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD • SATuRDAY, NOVEmBER 26, 2022 COFFEE BREAK Wife is a second-class citizen in her own home is sweet and charming to everyone, but often ignores or becomes very angry with me. He has called me things he prom- ised never to say. He makes excuses for not wanting to do things together. He spends upwards of 12 hours a day outside and seems to want to avoid me. He defends his friends when they say disrespectful things about me, citing the fact that he “doesn’t want to lose old friends.” He believes that whatever is said by others — friends, family, etc. — is my problem and I should just accept it. We have seen a marriage counselor and it has not helped us. Help me understand, please. — UNDERVALUED IN NE- BRASKA DEAR UNDERVALUED: From your description, your husband is selfish, DEAR ABBY: I have been married for five years. My husband and I are both past middle age and have been married before (me twice; three times for him). For much of our early marriage, my husband was ill. He required several surgeries and a lot of care. I never com- plained or felt burdened, yet the small- est ache or pain I have is, apparently, a “pain” for him. As time has gone on, there are some things in our marriage that I frankly don’t understand. We celebrate Father’s Day and his birthday, but never Moth- er’s Day or my birthday. My husband self-centered, lacks the ability to em- pathize or nurture and would rather allow his “friends” to disrespect the woman he married than confront them. (What a prize!) I hope you felt some psychic gratification from taking care of him when he so badly needed it, because it appears that is all you are going to get from this rela- tionship. My question for you is: How long are you willing to tolerate being treated this way? Many women would prefer to be alone than living the life you are. You deserve better than what you have been getting, and I sincerely hope you will have the courage to go for it. DEAR ABBY: My youngest son and his wife invited me to come live with them in Colorado. I am 68 and retired, and was struggling to survive finan- cially (and physically) and maintain my home in Washington state. It made sense to sell it and move into their spa- cious house with them. My son was laid off from his job and has been seeking employment. He received an offer from a company in Pennsylvania. I’m about to receive a large amount of cash from the sale of my home, more money than I’ve ever had at one time. My son came to me last evening and asked me to lend him all of it for a down payment on a house in Pennsylvania. He says he will pay it back once his house in Colorado sells. He figures it could take six months to pay it back. My alarm bells are ringing, and I honestly don’t know how to respond. I believe he has my best interests at heart, but I’m hesitant to give him ev- ery penny. Am I being silly? He has never given me reason to doubt him. — BIG CHANGES HAPPENING DEAR CHANGES: Discuss this mat- ter with an attorney right now. If you decide to give a portion of the money you receive from the sale of your home in Washington for a down payment on your son’s home in Pennsylvania, you should have plenty left over for your- self. But whatever agreement you make should be in a legal document in writ- ing. It is not “silly” to want to protect yourself. In fact, it is very wise. Listen to your gut. █ Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Famed ‘Goonies’ house for sale in coastal Astoria ple who want to “make it their passion.” “It’s kind of a fun buy,” Miller said. “Whoever buys the house is going to have a relatively steady stream of extremely happy people walking up out- side to fulfill their childhood dreams.” The Associated Press ASTORIA — Good news for fans of “The Goonies:” the old Victorian home featured in the film is on sale in Astoria, and potential buyers are considering making it more accessible to the public. “We have a few interested parties right now,” said realtor Jordan Miller, the listing agent for the property. “It seems to be everybody’s intention to be able to open up the house a little bit more and have more access.” The 1896 home with sweep- ing views of the Columbia River flowing into the Pacific Ocean has been listed with an asking price of $1.7 million on Zillow, where it’s described as “fully loaded with history, nostalgia and iconic level of fame.” Since the movie hit theaters in 1985, fans have flocked to the home in northwestern Oregon’s historic port of Astoria. The city celebrates Goonies Day on June 7, the film’s release date, and welcomes thousands of people for the event. Owner Sandi Preston was known to have been largely wel- coming to visitors. But she lived in the house full time, and the constant crowds were a strain that prompted her at times to close it to foot traffic. After the film’s 30th anniver- sary drew about 1,500 daily visi- tors in 2015, Preston posted “no trespassing” signs prohibiting tourists from walking up to the property. She reopened it to the public this past August. City officials, who restricted parking in the area, have long sought to mediate the tensions between residents and the fans hoping to see and photograph the location. “While the owner of this lo- cation from The Goonies is a Lydia Ely/The Astorian In this undated photo is the house featured in the Steven Spielberg film “The Goonies” in Astoria. The Victorian home, built in 1896 with sweeping views of the Columbia River as it flows into the Pacific Ocean, is now for sale has been listed with an asking price of $1.7 million. Since the film was released in 1985, fans have flocked to the home, and the owner has long complained of constant crowds and trespassing. fan of the movie and enjoys chatting with visitors making the trek to Astoria to see the film locations, as you can imag- ine, it gets hard having hun- dreds of people crowding into your personal space every sin- gle day,” the Astoria-Warrenton Chamber of Commerce wrote in August on a Facebook page they administer called Goonies Day in Astoria. In the coming-of-age film, based on a story by Steven Spiel- berg and featuring a young Sean Astin, a group of friends fight to protect their homes from an expanding country club and weather | Go to AccuWeather.com the 1980s and ‘90s, including “Kindergarten Cop” starring Arnold Schwarzenegger. For now, potential buyers of the iconic Goonies house don’t seem to want to make the house their primary residence, said listing agent Miller, suggesting it has drawn interest from peo- threats of foreclosure. In the process, they discover an old treasure map that leads them on an adventure and allows them to save their “Goon Docks” neighborhood. Astoria and its rugged coast- line served as the backdrop for several well-known films from AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 44/49 Kennewick 42/46 St. Helens 42/47 40/46 39/48 43/48 41/47 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Cloudy A little afternoon rain Clearing and snow showers Cold with a snow shower Cold with a bit of snow 25 37 26 33 14 27 19 32 21 Eugene 0 0 0 38/49 34 20 29 22 35 27 0 0 0 La Grande 31 39 27 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 3 0 30 37 25 Comfort Index™ 3 29 22 34 28 0 0 0 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 88° Low: -5° Wettest: 4.06” 50° 14° 49° 23° 50° 23° 0.00 0.55 0.57 6.26 8.05 0.00 2.89 1.55 13.82 15.13 0.00 5.61 2.43 26.00 21.46 PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 55% WNW at 7 to 14 mph 3.0 0.05 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 1% of capacity 29% of capacity 10% of capacity 27% of capacity 10% of capacity 11% of capacity OREGON High: 65° Low: 6° Wettest: 0.01” Brookings Lakeview Roseburg The Great Appalachian Storm of 1950 con- tinued on Nov. 26, killing 34 in New York. Toronto had its greatest one-day snowfall of 12 inches, followed by a warm-up to 50 degrees with rain. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 7:05 a.m. 7:06 a.m. 4:14 p.m. 4:13 p.m. 10:35 a.m. 11:28 a.m. 6:44 p.m. 8:02 p.m. MOON PHASES STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland Marathon, Fla. Clayton Lake, Maine Baton Rouge, La. WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 37/52 860 cfs 4 cfs 8 cfs 60 cfs N.A. 36 cfs First Nov 30 Full Dec 7 Last Dec 16 New Dec 23 Brothers 36/46 26/40 Beaver Marsh 19/38 Roseburg 37/49 Burns Jordan Valley 24/42 Paisley 20/36 Frenchglen 20/39 Diamond Grand View Arock 22/38 28/45 24/45 Fields 32/49 20/46 Klamath Falls 21/43 Lakeview 14/39 McDermitt 17/46 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. City Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W Astoria 49/35/r 46/30/s Bend 46/26/r 34/25/c Boise 43/29/c 37/19/sf Brookings 51/42/r 47/37/sh Burns 37/21/c 32/11/sf Coos Bay 53/40/r 47/34/sh Corvallis 48/36/r 46/30/sh Council 36/21/c 31/12/sf Elgin 40/28/r 34/18/sf Eugene 49/37/r 45/33/sh Hermiston 50/34/r 40/22/sf Hood River 46/34/r 41/29/sh Imnaha 42/27/c 31/16/sf John Day 38/25/sn 32/19/sf Joseph 37/26/c 30/19/sf Kennewick 51/31/r 41/21/sf Klamath Falls 43/29/c 35/21/sf Lakeview 39/22/c 34/12/sf Boise 27/43 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. 24/39 Silver Lake 21/43 Medford Brookings Juntura 14/37 34/52 40/51 Ontario 29/44 23/39 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 27/36 Bend Coos Bay 23/36 30/41 Seneca 33/46 Oakridge Council 25/37 28/38 32/44 Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES ALMANAC 25/36 John Day 30/47 Sisters Florence Powers 27/38 Baker City Redmond 42/48 41/52 Halfway Granite 39/48 Newport 38/53 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 42/44 38/46 41/48 37/50 32 20 0 Corvallis Enterprise 30/37 31/39 Monument 36/45 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 0 Elgin 31/40 La Grande 39/43 Maupin 3 38/46 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 37/45 Hood River 37/43 TIllamook Comfort Index™ Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 39/51 Vancouver 42/46 45/50 Baker City Bob Dylan publisher sorry for $600 book’s replica autographs NEW YORK — Bob Dylan’s publisher is offering refunds for a $600 special edition of his new book, “The Philosophy of Modern Song,” acknowledging that the allegedly “hand-signed” copies were not individually in- scribed. “To those who purchased THE PHILOSOPHY OF MOD- ERN SONG limited edition, we want to apologize,” Simon & Schuster announced in a state- ment posted Sunday, Nov. 20, on Instagram. “As it turns out, the limited edition books do contain Bob’s original signature, but in a penned replica form. We are addressing this immediately by providing each purchaser with an immediate refund.” Simon & Schuster’s statement came after days of complaints from customers, who through social media had compared their copies and found the au- tographs suspiciously alike. The books had arrived with a letter from Simon & Schuster CEO Jonathan Karp, vouching for the signature’s authenticity. “The Philosophy of Modern Song,” in which Dylan assesses compositions ranging from Hank Williams “Your Cheatin’ Heart” to Jackson Browne’s “The Pretender,” was published Nov. 1. A Dylan spokesperson de- clined comment. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 45/31/r 46/34/r 36/26/r 49/38/r 48/38/r 44/31/sh 44/27/c 51/30/r 43/28/r 48/35/r 52/40/r 47/27/r 49/38/r 48/38/r 38/21/pc 48/36/c 36/24/r 46/28/r Hi/Lo/W 33/23/sf 41/30/sh 32/17/sf 44/31/sh 46/36/sh 40/28/c 39/18/sf 40/19/sf 34/21/sf 39/31/sh 47/35/sh 34/23/sf 45/35/sh 44/30/pc 28/13/sf 42/29/sf 28/17/sf 34/18/sf Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE P.M. snow, 1-2” Rain/snow shower 27 13 35 23 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Colder in the a.m. Snow and rain 34 24 38 21 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK P.M. snow, 1-2” A little a.m. rain 28 16 35 21 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly cloudy A little rain 37 26 45 28 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Rain/snow shower A little p.m. rain 37 26 39 27