COFFEE BREAK B8 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TUESDAY, AUGUST 16, 2022 Woman and her son endure boyfriend’s odd behavior if I bring it up. I like doing things with him and with his daughter, but not when they’re together because it’s always them against us. She also hangs on him constantly and whines when I’m around. I realize I can’t change how he acts, but I feel like I constantly need to prove myself to him and stick up for my son. Sometimes I’m a little jealous because he treats his daughter so diff erently than he treats us. I don’t want to feel this way. Can you help me come up with a diff erent way of reacting to it? — WEARY IN WISCONSIN DEAR WEARY: Frankly, your question, “Can you come up with a diff erent way of reacting to the way your boyfriend treats DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of seven years is very competitive. There is constantly this under- lying contest about whose kid is better, whose dog is better, etc. It’s silly. They are both great kids (and dogs) in their individual ways, and I suspect he likes to brag about his 11-year-old daughter just to publi- cize that she’s “great.” He often criticizes my son. He also has “house rules” for us that he doesn’t hold himself or his daughter to, and becomes upset you and your son?” surprised me. The traits you have described are obnoxious. I fi nd it hard to believe that for seven years you’ve tol- erated the double standard he exhibits and his constant criticism of your son — who by now prob- ably thinks there is something wrong with himself — because of it. Put your foot down (better late than never)! Insist that he stop crit- icizing your boy and displaying the double standard. If he doesn’t comply, for both your sakes, end the relationship. DEAR ABBY: Last year a friend of mine had a baby shower, which I attended, and I bought her an expensive gift. Shortly after, her baby was, unfortunately, still- born. Rather than return the gifts or save them for a future child, my friend sold them on an online virtual yard sale. I was upset because I had spent a lot of money and, had she returned the item, I could’ve used it because I was pregnant. Needless to say, I didn’t tell her how I felt. Now, one year later, she’s preg- nant again. Honestly, I’m happy for her, but she’s having another baby shower. What would be the rule of etiquette here? I want to go, but I don’t feel I should have to buy her another gift. — UPSET IN THE EAST DEAR UPSET: It’s regret- table that the gifts from the fi rst pregnancy weren’t returned to the givers or kept for a future preg- nancy, but chances are that your friend was an emotional wreck after having lost her baby, and she wasn’t thinking straight. If you plan to attend this shower, you should absolutely bring a gift. A side note: While reading your letter, I recalled that although the practice is well-entrenched here, not all cultures have baby showers before a child is born. In China, Egypt and France, the cele- bration is held after the birth. And in Ireland, Russia and Japan, it’s considered bad luck to have a baby shower before the baby arrives. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. █ NEWS OF THE WEIRD Scientists use tiny trackers, plane to follow moths on move size, Menz said. The kinds of radio tags used to follow birds can be too heavy for smaller fl iers. But transmitters have gotten tinier. And it helps that the death’s- head hawk moth is huge compared to other insects, with a wingspan up to 5 inches. The iconic species — dark col- ored with yellow underwings and skull-like markings — was able to fl y well with the tiny tracker glued to its back, said Martin Wike- lski, a study co-author and migra- tion researcher at Germany’s Max Planck Institute for Animal Behavior. The moths are thought to migrate thousands of miles between Europe and Africa in the autumn, fl ying by night. For the study, researchers released tagged moths in Germany in the hopes they’d start fl ying on their migration path toward the Alps. Wikelski, the study’s pilot, took off in his plane, circling the area and waiting for any moths on the move. If he did pick up a signal from a tiny traveler, he would follow its radio blips for hours at a time. “The little moth is guiding you,” he said. The Associated Press NEW YORK — Trillions of insects migrate across the globe each year, yet little is known about their journeys. So to look for clues, scientists in Germany took to the skies, placing tiny trackers on the backs of giant moths and following them by plane. To the researchers’ surprise, the moths seemed to have a strong sense of where they were going. Even when the winds changed, the insects stayed on a straight course, the scientists reported in a study published Thursday in the journal Science. Their fl ight paths suggest these death’s-head hawk moths have some complex navigation skills, the authors said, challenging ear- lier ideas that insects are just wanderers. “For many, many years, it was thought that insect migration was mostly just dictated by winds, and they were blowing around,” said lead author Myles Menz, now a zoologist at James Cook University in Australia. It’s been tough for scientists to get a close look at how insects travel, in part because of their small weather | Go to AccuWeather.com Christian Ziegler/Max Planck Institute of Animal Behavior In this undated image provided by the Max Planck Institute of Animal Behavior, after tagging, moths are released in Konstanz, Germany, and followed in a light aircraft for up to 80 kilometers into the Alps. Scientists in Germany attached tiny trackers to giant moths looking for clues about insect migration. The researchers followed the fl ight paths of 14 moths, with their longest track around 56 miles. Not only did the moths fl y in straight lines, but they also seemed to work around wind conditions, Menz said, fl ying low to the ground when the winds were against them, or rising up to catch a helpful tail wind. Though the number of moths tracked was fairly small, get- ting any close-up look at insect migration is signifi cant, said Ryan Norris, an insect and bird migra- tion researcher at the University of Guelph in Canada, who was not involved in the study. “I was surprised at how far they could track them,” Norris said. “And it certainly is surprising that individual moths stay on this straight trajectory.” Offi cials: Loud ‘boom’ in north Utah likely a meteor SALT LAKE CITY — A loud “boom” heard across areas of northern Utah was likely a meteor, offi cials said Saturday, Aug. 13. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 57/76 Kennewick 61/95 St. Helens 68/102 64/99 61/100 Condon 66/105 64/98 WED THU FRI SAT Mostly cloudy and hot Mostly sunny and hot Partly sunny and very hot 95 58 92 54 95 53 6 6 5 98 62 95 59 97 60 5 4 4 Baker City 49 99 53 Comfort Index™ La Grande 4 54 100 57 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 5 4 2 56 98 58 Comfort Index™ 3 95 60 3 5 3 NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Sunday Low Sunday High: 116° Low: 33° Wettest: 4.95” 88° 41° 90° 41° 95° 42° 0.00 0.12 0.19 4.59 6.18 0.00 0.16 0.30 9.14 10.96 0.00 0.07 0.29 17.83 15.52 PRECIPITATION (inches) HAY INFORMATION WEDNESDAY 15% NE at 4 to 8 mph 13.1 0.25 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Monday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 8% of capacity 51% of capacity 22% of capacity 77% of capacity 3% of capacity 37% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Sunday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON Ontario Meacham WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Death Valley, Calif. Bodie State Park, Calif. Port Aransas, Texas High: 100° Low: 35° Wettest: none On Aug. 16, 1979, temperatures dropped below freezing in northern Minnesota and to 37 degrees as far south as Pittsburgh, Pa. It was because strong high pressure in Canada brought chilly air southward. SUN & MOON TUE. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset WED. 5:54 a.m. 5:56 a.m. 7:58 p.m. 7:56 p.m. 10:26 p.m. 10:48 p.m. 11:22 a.m. 12:33 p.m. MOON PHASES 653 cfs 80 cfs 134 cfs 48 cfs 131 cfs 28 cfs Last Aug 18 New First Aug 27 Sep 3 Sisters Full Sep 10 57/98 Beaver Marsh Powers 57/80 62/98 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 64/96 Frenchglen Paisley 63/96 57/91 55/92 Klamath Falls 66/104 54/94 65/102 Lakeview 54/89 McDermitt 63/95 RECREATION FORECAST WEDNESDAY REGIONAL CITIES THU. City Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W Astoria 76/59/pc 72/59/c Bend 96/60/c 93/60/pc Boise 103/71/s 97/70/pc Brookings 69/55/c 68/56/c Burns 97/60/c 92/58/c Coos Bay 70/59/c 68/58/c Corvallis 99/62/pc 90/59/s Council 101/62/s 97/65/pc Elgin 101/59/pc 98/62/pc Eugene 101/62/c 93/60/s Hermiston 105/63/pc 103/73/pc Hood River 102/75/pc 102/72/s Imnaha 100/68/s 100/70/pc John Day 98/63/pc 91/63/pc Joseph 96/59/pc 97/62/pc Kennewick 105/64/pc 102/70/pc Klamath Falls 94/57/pc 92/56/pc Lakeview 89/54/c 86/50/pc Grand View Arock 63/100 Fields Shown is Wednesday’s weather. Temperatures are Tuesday night’s lows and Wednesday’s highs. WED. Diamond 62/96 64/97 Medford Brookings Boise 67/103 64/105 58/69 62/99 52/92 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 56/97 54/94 53/92 Roseburg Ontario 65/104 Burns Brothers 60/98 Coos Bay Huntington 55/93 58/96 Oakridge 60/101 68/104 Seneca Bend Elkton Council 49/99 John Day 54/100 58/97 Florence SUNDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin Sunday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date Eugene 56/70 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. ALMANAC Baker City Redmond 56/69 58/100 53/94 63/95 53/65 60/89 91 62 3 62/102 Corvallis Halfway Granite 59/103 60/99 Newport Enterprise 56/98 54/100 Monument 65/103 Idanha Salem 60/101 97 62 Elgin 55/101 La Grande 64/99 Maupin Partly sunny and very hot 66/102 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 65/103 Hood River 63/104 TIllamook Clear Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 61/105 Vancouver 64/97 56/81 TONIGHT Reports of the loud noise circu- lated at about 8:30 a.m., with people from Orem to southern Idaho posting that they heard the “boom,” The Salt Lake Tribune reported. Utah Gov. Spencer Cox tweeted that his offi ce confi rmed it was not related to any seismic activity or military installations. The National Weather Service’s Salt Lake City offi ce wrote in a tweet that its lightning detection mapper likely picked up the mete- or’s trail fl ash, which offi cials said seemed to be confi rmed by witness video in Roy. South Salt Lake resident Wendi Melling was just heading out the door when she heard the noise, which she described as a “loud deep booming sound” followed by a few seconds of rumbling. “I thought I heard something fall in the house. I have since searched the house top to bottom and the only thing I’ve found was one slat from our wooden fence that had fallen, so that’s a relief,” Melling wrote in a Facebook message. “It did sound similar to sonic booms I’ve heard before, followed by a short incident of a sound sim- ilar to low rolling thunder,” Melling said. WED. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla THU. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 103/69/s 102/73/pc 95/64/pc 89/62/s 99/53/pc 96/61/c 104/67/pc 103/66/s 65/54/c 64/55/c 90/58/s 91/60/s 104/68/pc 98/72/c 105/64/pc 102/69/pc 104/67/pc 99/74/pc 98/70/pc 94/66/s 80/59/c 74/59/c 100/58/c 97/58/pc 98/66/pc 92/63/s 102/66/pc 94/62/s 97/66/s 98/70/s 105/73/pc 104/75/s 97/55/pc 93/57/pc 102/70/pc 99/75/pc Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Partly sunny; warm Partly sunny; hot 79 54 95 60 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Partly sunny Very hot 89 53 104 66 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Partly sunny; warm Partly sunny; warm 84 55 94 49 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Partly sunny; hot Very hot 96 59 103 68 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Record-tying heat Very hot 99 53 100 57 GET RECLINING & GET SAVING! 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