COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THuRSDAY, JunE 30, 2022 Abusive husband manipulates wife, kids living in shelter embarrassed that we are living here. I want a divorce, but he won’t talk about it, and threatens not to send money to support me and the children. He doesn’t send much, but I have enough gas to get everywhere during the week. He keeps telling me how much money he makes now and that he can get us a nice place where he is, or he can come stay a whole week with us when he’s off. I don’t want him to come stay with us. When I tell him this, he gets angry and hangs up, but then calls back the next day to say the same thing. I can’t get him to under- stand that I don’t want to be with him anymore, and I’m tired of his abuse. (The last time I lived with him, he “accidentally” knocked DEAR ABBY: I am the mother of two small children. I have separated from their ver- bally abusive, alcoholic father. I returned to my grandmother, who raised me, and tried to get a job. I couldn’t find one quickly because we went into quarantine and my uncles made me move out. I currently live in a women’s shelter with my children, and I finally got a job. My problem is my husband still acts like we are getting back together, and he’s few years but under the six- year average of 42%. Pork producers received 26% of the retail price in May, up from the six-year average of 22%. But the food dollar is an imperfect indication of farm profits, as it does not take into account farmers’ input costs. “The farmers’ share (data) is not necessarily super helpful to tell you whether farmers are making money, because it’s more important to them what the actual price is relative to their costs,” said William Hahn, agricultural econo- mist for USDA. In 2022, farmers’ costs are high. According to USDA’s National Agricultural Sta- tistics Service, farmers in April 2022 compared to April 2021 paid 29% more for livestock feed, 71% more for fertilizer, 16% more for chemicals, 62% more for fuel and 21% more for machinery. “Bottom line, in many cases, the higher prices farmers are being paid aren’t covering the increase in their farm expenses,” said Cryan, of the Farm Bureau. HOLIDAY Continued from Page B1 Farm shares vary by commodity and fluctuate year-to-year. Some com- modities saw the farmers’ share shrink in 2021, according to USDA. The agency has not yet released complete 2022 data. Chips or potato salad are staples at many summer cookouts. Farmers in 2021 got 16% of the retail price of potatoes, down from the longtime average of 18%. Lemonade is another popular picnic item. Of every retail dollar spent on fresh lemons, farmers in 2021 received 18%, down from the 20% average. The farm share of each retail dollar spent on cheddar cheese was 29%, down from the 31% average. The dairy farmers’ share on a half-gallon of vanilla ice cream was 16%, 1% below average. Other commodities have seen the farmers’ share spike. In May of 2022, according to USDA, farmers received 41% of the price consumers paid at the store for beef, up from the last our son into the couch and walked out.) He won’t admit he has a problem. Any advice? — DONE FOR GOOD DEAR DONE: Your hus- band persists the way he has been because he’s trying to wear you down to the point that you will reunite with him. Perhaps you should accept fewer of those phone calls. If there are social workers connected to the shelter you’re staying in, consult them about your predicament. Your husband cannot shirk paying child support. If he doesn’t do it voluntarily, his wages can be garnished. While you’re at it, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800- 799-7233) because they may have useful suggestions about how to rid yourself of your abusive, alco- holic husband. DEAR ABBY: Our only son has moved 2,000 miles away and has no contact with his sisters or me. I know his street address and still have his email address and phone number. About 10 years ago, when I was separated from his father, we were both expressing our angst, and I more than likely negated his feelings in an email. I ran across it the other day, and now realize that it may have caused the rift. Should I bring that up in an apology now, hoping he will accept my most sincere acknowl- edgment that I ignored his pain? If so, what do I say? I am heart- broken and cannot sleep well with this hanging over my head. to the inn, his wife’s boutique and the business lease in downtown Ash- land. “We only opened our business in Ashland because we thought we sold this place.” But selling has been difficult. “It’s hard to sell because it’s zoned timber and grazing — mixed RIMROCK Continued from Page B1 Now, he and his wife, Kim, have decided to sell. “I can’t afford two mortgages and a business lease,” he said, referring — HEARTBROKEN MOM IN TEXAS DEAR MOM: Write your son and tell him you are trying to understand what has caused the rift between you. Explain that you have been going over things in your mind and found the email from so long ago. Tell him that if this is what caused it, you sin- cerely apologize, but that you were both going through a dif- ficult time when the email was written, that you love him and hope he will forgive you if it caused him pain. █ Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. use — but it has a kitchen, so any bank or lender says, ‘restaurant’ and they’re not lending to restaurants because they’ve had bad experiences with restaurants because of COVID,” he said. “So we’re trying to find somebody who has cash so we don’t have to deal with bankers.” “Once you get to the edge, you can see the river more clearly and the cool thing is you can see Zumwalt Prairie and the snowcapped Wallowa Mountains. It’s the best view of the canyonlands I know of.” — Cabot Carlston, RimRock co-owner, speaking of a nearby hike Bill Bradshaw/Wallowa County Chieftain Cabot Carlston, co-owner of the RimRock Inn near Flora, opens the smoke flap on one of three tepees at the inn Thursday, June 16, 2022. Planned Parenthood sues Idaho over ‘trigger’ abortion ban tion provider, joined with Planned Parenthood Great Northwest, Hawaii, Alaska, Indiana, Ken- tucky in the lawsuit filed in the Idaho Supreme Court on Monday, June 27. The Planned Parent- hood organization operates two reproductive health care clinics in Idaho and is in the process of opening another just over the state line in Ontario, Oregon. “It is abhorrent that we have now entered an era where the delivery of safe essential health care will be criminalized,” Gus- By REBECCA BOONE Associated Press BOISE, Idaho — A regional Planned Parenthood organization is suing Idaho over its “trigger law” abortion ban, contending the ban violates Idaho residents’ rights under the state Constitution and that it is so vague that phy- sicians will not know when they can legally help patients who are miscarrying or facing medical emergencies. Dr. Caitlin Gustafson, an abor- weather | Go to AccuWeather.com abortion was necessary to prevent the death of the pregnant person, or that the pregnant person showed them a police report alleging rape or incest. The law also requires physicians to use the medical method that provides the “best opportunity for the unborn child to survive.” Specifically, Idaho’s trigger law requires a judgement from the U.S. Supreme Court, which fol- lows the court’s Friday opinion and allows time to allow requests for a potential rehearing. It’s not tafson said in a press release. “Physicians take an oath to pro- vide the care patients need to keep them safe, so we cannot stand by while the government intrudes on this deeply personal and complex medical decision.” The Idaho law, passed in 2020, makes it a felony punishable by up to five years in prison for anyone to perform or attempt to perform an abortion. The law says health care providers can attempt to defend themselves against crim- inal charges by saying that the AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 55/66 Kennewick 53/74 St. Helens 56/79 59/81 62/88 58/80 54/78 Condon FRI SAT SUN MON Clear Mostly sunny and pleasant A thunderstorm around A thunderstorm around A stray p.m. t-shower 84 50 79 49 72 47 Eugene 7 10 10 52/81 85 54 77 55 72 50 7 10 10 La Grande 55 85 52 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 8 9 7 51 81 52 Comfort Index™ 9 79 52 69 49 5 9 10 9 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 122° Low: 29° Wettest: 2.80” 88° 51° 86° 55° 88° 56° PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.48 1.05 4.46 5.39 0.00 2.40 1.31 8.76 10.00 0.00 3.27 1.75 17.44 14.43 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 30% NNW at 7 to 14 mph 13.3 0.29 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 25% of capacity 91% of capacity 40% of capacity 100% of capacity 32% of capacity 100% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy 6750 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 123 cfs Burnt River near Unity 89 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 130 cfs Minam River at Minam 2320 cfs Powder River near Richland 46 cfs Death Valley, Calif. Yellowstone N.P., Wyo. Beaufort, S.C. OREGON High: 100° Low: 37° Wettest: 0.05” Ontario Lakeview Astoria Juneau, Alaska, received more than 53 inches of rain for the year by June 30, 1985. Olympia, Wash., south of the jet stream, had its driest six months in a century with only 14 inches of rain. SUN & MOON THU. 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Diamond 50/88 Fields Medford Brookings Boise 59/93 53/85 51/66 54/93 45/86 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 50/87 49/83 43/84 Roseburg Ontario 60/95 Burns Brothers 53/76 Coos Bay Huntington 49/85 52/85 Oakridge 55/90 63/94 Seneca 51/91 RECREATION FORECAST FRIDAY REGIONAL CITIES WEATHER HISTORY Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 52/86 Bend Elkton Council 49/85 John Day 49/85 Sisters Florence TUESDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin 50/80 51/86 53/64 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 52/91 Baker City Redmond 51/61 53/63 Halfway Granite 51/78 Newport 53/75 83 50 56/86 55/78 55/81 Corvallis Enterprise 51/81 55/85 Monument 57/87 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 8 Elgin 51/86 La Grande 56/83 Maupin 49 85 51 60/87 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 60/89 Hood River 59/90 TIllamook Comfort Index™ Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 61/94 Vancouver 54/78 51/65 Baker City clear when the court will issue its judgement, but it’s expected fairly soon, starting the clock on Idaho’s trigger law. Planned Parenthood is asking the state’s highest court to put the case on a fast track so that it can hear arguments and issue a deci- sion before mid-August. The Idaho Attorney Gener- al’s Office did not immediately respond to a request for comment. Idaho Attorney General Lawrence Wasden generally declines to comment on pending litigation. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla FRI. SAT. Hi/Lo/W 89/62/s 74/52/c 78/47/s 88/57/s 61/53/c 76/51/pc 95/62/s 93/60/s 90/59/s 80/56/pc 69/54/c 85/50/pc 80/55/pc 81/55/s 83/58/s 88/61/s 79/47/s 87/62/s Hi/Lo/W 90/63/pc 73/53/pc 76/48/t 82/56/t 58/52/pc 70/53/pc 97/63/s 95/63/pc 88/62/t 75/59/pc 66/53/pc 81/52/c 76/56/pc 78/57/pc 87/61/pc 84/61/t 78/51/t 87/61/s Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Partly sunny Mostly sunny 58 45 81 52 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Mostly sunny Sunshine and nice 69 50 90 60 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK A few showers Sunny and nice 67 44 76 44 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly sunny Sunny and pleasant 80 52 86 57 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Mostly sunny; nice Mostly sunny; nice 85 51 85 52