COFFEE BREAK B8 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TuESDAY, JunE 21, 2022 Wife feels it’s the end of the line with drunk hubby become — alone with no life. My husband ignores me and drinks a lot. When we visit family, it’s a free-for-all drunk fest for him. I just don’t have the energy at my age to deal with a drunk. I dealt all my life with an alcoholic father and I don’t want to do it any- more. How do I begin to rebuild my life and start over? I really need to do this for myself. — AT A CROSSROADS IN OHIO DEAR AT A CROSSROADS: I agree that rebuilding your life is something you need to do for your- self. The surest way to accomplish it would be to get a job. This may eventually equip you to survive on your own. If you need transporta- tion, ask your daughters for help, DEAR ABBY: I got pregnant at 15 and had my oldest daughter at 16. I met my husband at 18, and went on to have four more daugh- ters. I have been with him for more than 30 years (I just turned 49). My girls are living their own lives now. The thing is, now that I’m alone with my husband, I have come to discover that we have nothing in common. I want to leave him, but I have no money, no car and no job. I have become someone I never thought I would or take public transportation. If you prefer not to attend “family” gatherings, have your husband go alone. Your father’s alcoholism may have contrib- uted to the fact that you married someone with an alcohol problem, thinking it was “normal.” If that’s the case, consider finding a nearby chapter of Al-Anon (al-anon.org/ info) or Adult Children of Alco- holics and Dysfunctional Fami- lies (adultchildren.org) and attend some of the meetings. They are sometimes held online, so you could do it on a computer, if nec- essary. I wish you luck on your journey. DEAR ABBY: I am a widow with three serious illnesses, one of which is potentially deadly. I hesitate to confide in some of my friends because the majority of them go into a litany of their ill- nesses. For the most part, their ail- ments are common and require just a small change in diet or perhaps losing some weight. What makes it uncomfortable for me is they act like they are in a life-threatening situation, which they aren’t. I find it increasingly difficult to empathize with their common colds, achy joints, etc. How can I explain to these folks how much they upset me? For the most part, they are good people, just very self-centered. — CHALLENGED IN NEW HAMPSHIRE DEAR CHALLENGED: It may be unrealistic to expect friends who don’t know about your serious medical conditions to empathize with you or stop com- plaining about their aches and pains. Rather than say their com- plaints are annoying, tell them the truth about what’s going on with you. After that, try to remember that regardless of how minor, every person’s health challenges are important to them, even if on the grand scale of things they don’t seem that way to you. J Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Con- tact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Burmese python hunt in Florida Everglades slated for August the hard-to-see snakes in the wild. A key point of the snake event, the governor said, is to raise awareness about the threat and enable people to take part. “We view this as a challenge,” he said. “We really wanted to supercharge those efforts.” The Associated Press MIAMI — Flanked by a huge writhing snake, Gov. Ron DeSantis announced on Thursday, June 16, that the annual prize-winning hunt for invasive Burmese pythons in the Florida Everglades will begin Aug. 5. People must register to par- ticipate and complete an online training course for the event, which typically draws hun- dreds from across the country. Last year’s “Python Challenge” involved more than 600 people from 25 states, DeSantis said at a news conference in the Everglades. Behind the Republican gov- ernor, it took three people to hold a live, 10-foot female python as a demonstration. The snakes have virtually no natural enemies in the Everglades and have deci- mated native populations of mam- mals, birds and other reptiles. “These pythons are a threat to the Everglades,” DeSantis said. “Let’s reel in some pythons.” The hunt begins Aug. 5 at 8 a.m. and ends Aug. 14 at 5 p.m. Prizes include $2,500 for the most pythons captured and $1,500 for the longest snake. Last year, the Apple workers vote to unionize at Maryland store TOWSON, Md. — Apple store employees in a Baltimore suburb voted to unionize by a nearly 2-to-1 margin Saturday, June 18, a union said, joining a growing push across U.S. retail, service and tech industries to organize for greater workplace protections. The Apple retail workers in Towson, Maryland, voted 65-33 to seek entry into the International Association of Machinists and Aerospace Workers, the union’s announcement said. The vote could not immediately be con- firmed with the National Labor Relations Board, which would have to certify the outcome. An NLRB spokesperson referred ini- tial queries about the vote to the board’s regional office, which was closed late Saturday. Apple declined to comment Lynne Sladky/The Associated Press Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis, center, holds a Burmese python at a media event, Thurs- day, June 16, 2022, where he announced that registration for the 2022 Florida Python Challenge has opened for the annual 10-day event to be held Aug 5-14, in Miami. The Python Challenge is intended to engage the public in participating in Everglades conservation through invasive species removal of the Burmese python. Also pictured are Ron Bergeron, left, McKayla Spencer, second from left, Rodney Barreto, third from right, and Jan Fore, second from right. first-prize winner captured 223 pythons, while the $1,500 winner bagged a snake that was more than 15 feet long. Snakes must be killed humanely. weather | Go to AccuWeather.com DeSantis said this year’s state budget includes $3 million specif- ically for python removal in the Everglades, including technology such as infrared sensors to locate AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 56/62 Kennewick 56/68 St. Helens 60/81 58/74 Condon 62/86 59/77 WED THU FRI SAT Clear Sunny and pleasant Sunshine and not as warm Mostly sunny and pleasant Sunny and beautiful 74 44 74 44 82 52 Eugene 10 10 9 57/79 71 46 74 49 81 54 10 10 7 La Grande 52 82 51 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 6 9 6 48 79 50 Comfort Index™ 10 72 46 77 55 10 10 8 8 NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Sunday Low Sunday High: 105° Low: 16° Wettest: 1.91” 63° 33° 65° 41° 66° 39° 0.00 0.47 0.78 4.45 5.12 Trace 2.35 0.98 8.71 9.67 0.04 3.26 1.28 17.43 13.96 PRECIPITATION (inches) AGRICULTURAL INFO. 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