COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, MAY 21, 2022 College student is tested trying to reason with mom I’ve never shared a lot with her regarding my social life because she has always been very strict (for instance, my dad knows I enjoy tailgating and par- tying as long as my grades are good). I am very responsible and always take care of every- thing that needs to be completed before I let myself have fun. Dad knows this and trusts me. How- ever, I couldn’t fathom telling my mom about it. I think part of the problem is she grew up abroad, and when she came to the U.S. for college in the 1990s, she faced a severe culture shock. We have always been very different people. Con- trary to what she may think, DEAR ABBY: I am a freshman at a Midwestern uni- versity, and I love it. I finished my first semester with straight A’s, and my second semester has been strong. I have a great group of friends and have already made plenty of memories. My problem is I have been having a disagree- ment with my mom. I would like to rush a sorority in the fall, and while my dad is fine with it, my mother won’t even entertain the topic. my main reason for joining a sorority is not “to party.” It’s an attractive option for off-campus housing, and I think it would be an effective way to meet more people (especially at such a big school). If I don’t like how rush pans out for me, I have no issue with dropping out, but I think it would be worth a try. I want to have an open con- versation with Mom, but she is very close-minded. I don’t want to go behind her back, because I think that would only do more harm than good. How should I navigate this conversation? — GOING GREEK? DEAR GOING: As much as you dread it, you must have a sit-down, comprehensive con- versation with your mother about this. Emphasize the ben- efits of being in a sorority. She may be concerned because in some Greek organizations there have been severe abuses of the pledges, some of which were so dangerous that students lost their lives. You may also want to research the compliance history of the Greek organizations on your campus before addressing the subject with your mother, so you can allay any concerns she has. DEAR ABBY: My 27-year-old daughter has issues due to a bitter divorce between her father and me. She treats us poorly, blames her problems on us and feels she is justified. How do I handle this? I don’t think she respects either of us much. As for our relationship, we get along as long as things are going OK for her. But if she’s having a difficult day, I get the blame. Advice? — COLD-SHOUL- DERED IN NEW YORK DEAR COLD-SHOUL- DERED: Tolerating your daugh- ter’s behavior isn’t healthy for either of you. Encourage her to seek professional help for her “issues,” and when she starts the blame game or being disre- spectful, shorten the visit, end the phone call or otherwise dis- tance yourself. has been a good technique, and fishing from a boat will probably also be a good way to fish the reservoir. Fishing will likely be best at Unity Reservoir over the next couple of months while the reservoir has a good amount of water in it. TROUT Continued from Page B1 depth drops off. There are some nice kokanee avail- able this year with some fish around 16 to 18 inches. Jigging and trolling for kokanee can both be pro- ductive ways of fishing for theme. The docks were recently put in place for the season at the county boat ramp on the north end of Wallowa Lake. Grande Ronde River Steelhead fishing is closed until Sept. 1, 2022. Variable flows may make fishing difficult during spring runoff. As the water warms, bass fishing will become better in the lower Grande Ronde. Anglers are reminded that bull trout and chinook salmon may be encountered in the Grande Ronde River and must be released unharmed. Brownlee Reservoir Reservoir is 11 feet below full pool, and all boat ramps are usable. Anglers in the Powder River arm have had good catches of perch and bass have fre- quently been caught. Some crappie have been caught, but cooler weather has probably slowed the crappie fishing. Bass fishing in the upper reservoir has been good when water tempera- tures have warmed. How- ever, during cooler weather, bass fishing has been more difficult. Anglers have had some success trolling for trout near the Burnt River. Imnaha River Hells Canyon Reservoir Ellen Morris Bishop/Wallowa County Chieftain, File Bass anglers have had some success, but many of the fish have been small. Trout fishing has been slow. As the weather warms anglers will be able to fish for catfish throughout the reservoir particularly from late May on. Oxbow Reservoir Anglers have been suc- cessful catching bass, and bass fishing will likely improve throughout the year as the water tempera- ture increases. Trout fishing will probably be good in the coming months espe- cially when water tempera- tures are in the low 50s. The Imnaha River winds through Wallowa County. a recent report of observa- tions of dead trout at Thief Valley Reservoir. However, ODFW district fish staff were unable to observe any dead fish when they investi- gated the report. Unity Reservoir Reservoir is nearly full, and anglers have been suc- cessful catching 16- to 17-inch rainbow trout. Fishing from shore with bait has been a good technique, and fishing from a boat will probably also be a good way to fish the reservoir. Wolf Creek Reservoir Reservoir is slowly filling, and the boat ramp is now useable. However, the reservoir is still very low. Without a substantial increase in water, the res- ervoir may drop quickly throughout the year so fishing may be best over the next couple months. It will be stocked with trout throughout the spring. Fishing has been slow, and the reservoir is still very low, about 12% of capacity. The water has now reached the bottom of the Mason Dam boat ramp. There prob- ably is enough water to launch small boats, but large boats may need a bit more Thief Valley Reservoir Reservoir is full. The res- ervoir drained significantly last year, and there may not be many fish that survived through the fall and winter. However, the reservoir has recently been stocked with rainbow trout. There was weather Unity Reservoir Reservoir is full, and anglers have been suc- cessful catching 16- to 17-inch rainbow trout. Fishing from shore with bait Thief Valley Reservoir Reservoir is full. Thief Astoria Longview 45/63 Kennewick 44/73 St. Helens 47/76 Baker City La Grande 4 48/76 Condon 48/78 49/75 8 35 59 38 Comfort Index™ 7 8 10 43/74 64 43 64 40 77 51 9 9 10 9 8 10 7 ALMANAC THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 114° Low: 17° Wettest: 2.83” 50° 32° 51° 38° 53° 40° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Trace Month to date 0.64 Normal month to date 0.85 Year to date 2.57 Normal year to date 3.73 0.05 1.43 1.35 5.21 7.80 0.08 3.05 1.47 12.92 11.76 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 40% NNW at 7 to 14 mph 8.7 0.16 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 13% of capacity 99% of capacity 45% of capacity 100% of capacity 50% of capacity 101% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 7770 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 104 cfs Burnt River near Unity 177 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 507 cfs Minam River at Minam 1380 cfs Powder River near Richland 69 cfs Death Valley, Calif. Evaro, Mont. Shell Knob, Mo. OREGON High: 66° Low: 27° Wettest: 0.15” Rome Crater Lake Aurora WEATHER HISTORY On May 21, 1894, Salton, Calif., roasted in 124-degree heat. This is the hottest temperature ever recorded in the United States in May and only 10 degrees lower than the nation’s all-time high of 134 degrees. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 5:16 a.m. 5:15 a.m. 8:22 p.m. 8:23 p.m. 1:39 a.m. 2:10 a.m. 10:51 a.m. 12:08 p.m. MOON PHASES Last New May 22 May 30 First Jun 7 Full Jun 14 34/65 Roseburg 46/68 36/64 Beaver Marsh 45/61 Powers Brothers 43/72 Coos Bay 46/76 Burns Jordan Valley 36/62 Paisley 38/66 Frenchglen 37/67 Klamath Falls 35/69 Hi/Lo/W 63/49/pc 70/47/pc 68/45/pc 65/48/pc 67/40/s 61/46/pc 71/48/pc 67/38/pc 61/44/pc 74/49/pc 77/55/s 76/56/pc 65/43/pc 64/43/pc 57/40/sh 76/57/s 69/37/pc 67/36/pc Hi/Lo/W 61/48/pc 72/40/pc 69/48/s 63/49/pc 70/37/s 64/46/s 71/45/pc 65/41/pc 63/41/pc 71/45/pc 76/56/pc 72/50/s 67/44/c 65/39/pc 61/39/pc 80/55/pc 70/37/pc 70/37/s Grand View Arock 40/72 38/67 Lakeview 34/67 McDermitt 35/65 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Diamond 34/66 38/69 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. MON. Boise 42/68 Fields 45/77 SUN. 38/71 Silver Lake 35/67 Medford Brookings Juntura 35/67 44/78 48/65 Ontario 42/73 34/66 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 33/64 39/70 Oakridge 40/67 44/72 Seneca Bend Elkton Council 34/63 36/64 39/71 46/74 74 50 36/65 33/56 John Day 35/71 Sisters Florence 46/61 Halfway Granite Baker City 5 60 38 Monument 40/69 Redmond 43/59 Eugene 62 39 37/64 43/69 46/75 Enterprise 35/59 44/71 Newport 76 47 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Corvallis 65 38 9 36/61 La Grande 43/65 47/73 Idanha Salem WED Times of clouds Partly sunny and and sun warmer Elgin Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 63 39 5 37 64 41 Comfort Index™ Enterprise A passing Times of clouds morning shower and sun 34 63 36 Comfort Index™ TUE 45/68 45/69 45/75 Lewiston 46/69 Hood River Maupin MON Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 50/76 Vancouver 47/76 44/65 SUN Fishing has been good for rainbow trout near the south end of the lake. Anglers have had success using both flies and lures. Anglers can have good suc- cess wading out from shore and casting lures or flies near where fish are rising. Boat anglers will have better access to more of the lake and may find fish near areas where the depth drops off. There are some nice kokanee available this year with some fish around 16 to 18 inches. Jigging and trolling for kokanee can both be productive ways of fishing for them. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION TIllamook TONIGHT Wallowa Lake Valley drained significantly last year, and there may not be many fish that survived through the fall and winter. However, the reservoir has recently been stocked with rainbow trout. Fishing will probably be best over the next couple months before the reservoir drops again due to increasing water releases in the spring and summer. water before they can use the boat ramp. Remember that tiger musky and bull trout must be released unharmed. Phillips Reservoir | Go to AccuWeather.com Partly cloudy Steelhead fishing is closed until Sept. 1, 2022. Trout fishing may be good when water conditions allow. When the water tem- perature increases, bass fishing may be good in the lower portions of the river. Anglers are reminded that bull trout and chinook salmon may be encountered in the Imnaha River and must be released unharmed. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 69/47/pc 73/52/pc 63/40/pc 77/50/pc 59/48/pc 72/48/pc 73/44/pc 77/54/pc 69/53/s 75/53/pc 68/47/pc 71/44/pc 76/50/pc 75/51/pc 65/45/s 78/56/pc 61/41/pc 68/52/s Hi/Lo/W 69/48/c 66/45/pc 62/43/pc 79/48/pc 57/45/pc 67/45/pc 74/48/pc 80/54/pc 73/52/pc 72/49/pc 68/46/s 74/40/pc 74/49/s 71/48/pc 66/45/c 77/52/s 61/40/pc 71/51/pc Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE A p.m. shower A shower 37 29 59 37 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Showers around Sunshine, a shower 49 39 68 43 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK A passing shower Partly sunny 44 30 55 35 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Showers around Mostly sunny 57 40 66 53 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Breezy A shower 63 36 64 41