COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THURSDAY, MAY 5, 2022 Mom wonders how to reveal youngest son’s parentage ings, after I explained what hap- pened, he off ered to be Oliver’s “dad” because he had bonded with him — provided he would not have to pay child support. I agreed. I have two other older sons whom he fathered. There have been times when Oliver and his brothers have asked about his brown skin, and I have been able to dodge the question. He’s getting to an age where I don’t think I can hold off much longer. I always knew the time would come when he would have to know his dad is not his biological father, but I’m not sure what to tell him. I don’t think I want him to know he is a product of rape, nor do I want to throw myself under the bus and say I cheated on his DEAR ABBY: I have a won- derful 12-year-old son, “Oliver,” who was conceived during a date rape at a work party. I don’t remember much about that night. When I found out I was pregnant, I hoped my husband at the time was the father. When the baby came, it was obvious he wasn’t, because Oliver is a diff erent race. (I am Caucasian, and I’m thinking Oliver may be Pacifi c Islander.) We divorced when Oliver was 2, and my ex had a DNA test, which, of course, proved he was not the father. Despite the fi nd- COSTS People who delay care are more likely to see their health conditions worsen, and face higher costs in the long run. “We also see really sig- nifi cant inequities in terms of who is impacted by health care costs and who’s delaying care,” Vandehey said. For example, data from the 2019 Oregon Health Insurance Survey found that Oregonians who iden- tify as Pacifi c Islanders were three times as likely as white Oregonians to delay care because of health care costs. Other margin- alized communities were additionally more likely to report they were unable to pay medical bills. Households have struggled to pay med- ical bills recently, incur- ring signifi cant med- ical debt, including many who declared bankruptcy — according to studies the OHA report cited, including from the Peterson Center on Healthcare and OSPIRG. The study also found 10% of people in Oregon reported using up all or most of their savings because of medical bills. Health insurance and health care systems in the U.S. are complicated, according to Vandehey, and diffi cult to change. “Part of it’s run by the federal government, part of it’s a combination of fed- eral and state,” he said. “For large insurers, actu- ally, states are prohibited from regulating parts of the market. We can’t control or manage the whole thing, but there are a number of have access to my house in case of severe weather (we live in tornado country). The layout and founda- tion of my house are sturdier than theirs. When I told her I didn’t want anyone to have a key, she got really off ended. It made me feel awful, but Abby, this is my fi rst house, and if I have to give a key to someone when I don’t want to, it defeats the purpose of having my own place. I have been living with my parents to save up, and Mom has used guilt trips against me before. My sister and brother-in-law agree I shouldn’t give in to her. I feel like a horrible daughter for refusing because she’s not the type to snoop, but there have been instances when I’ve been in my room and she has entered New Zealand rocket caught, dropped by helicopter WELLINGTON, New Zea- land — Using a helicopter to catch a falling rocket is such a complex task that Peter Beck likens it to a “supersonic ballet.” Rocket Lab, the company that Beck founded, partially pulled off the feat Tuesday, May 3, as it pushes to make its small Electron rockets reusable. But after briefl y catching the spent rocket, a helicopter crew was quickly forced to let it go again for safety reasons, and it fell into the Pacifi c Ocean where it was collected by a waiting boat. The California-based company regularly launches 59-foot rockets from the remote Mahia Peninsula in New Zealand to deliver satellites into space. On Tuesday, the Electron rocket was launched in the morning and sent 34 satellites into orbit before the main booster section began falling to Earth. Its descent was slowed to about 33 feet per second by a parachute. That’s when the helicopter crew sprang into action, dangling a long line with a hook below the helicopter to snag the booster’s parachute lines. Rocket Lab/Contributed Photo In this image supplied by Rocket Lab, the Electron rocket blasts off for its “There And Back Again” mission from their launch pad on the Mahia Peninsula, New Zealand, Tuesday, May 3, 2022. The California-based company regularly launches 59-foot rockets from the remote Mahia Peninsula in New Zealand to deliver satellites into space. The crew caught the rocket but the load on the helicopter exceeded the parameters from tests and simula- tions, so they jettisoned it again. The roller coaster of emotions was caught in a livestream of the event, with people at mission control cheering and clapping as the rocket was caught, only to let out a collective gasp and sigh about 20 seconds later. Still, Beck hailed the mission as a success, saying that almost every- Computer not running as fast as when it was new? Let us install lightning-fast solid state drive! Are you running an outdated Windows Operating System? We’ll help you avoid critical issues by installing Windows 11! weather AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 45/56 Kennewick 49/57 St. Helens 50/57 46/55 48/54 Condon 49/60 50/56 FRI SAT SUN MON A couple of showers late Periods of rain A little afternoon rain Cold with a little rain Cold with showers around 52 30 44 28 47 29 Eugene 1 0 0 50/57 50 33 43 35 45 33 1 0 0 La Grande 46 57 42 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 5 0 41 54 39 Comfort Index™ 7 40 28 42 33 1 0 1 0 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 99° Low: 15° Wettest: 1.90” 59° 35° 59° 37° 66° 40° 0.00 0.30 0.11 2.23 2.99 Trace 0.16 0.21 3.94 6.66 0.02 0.18 0.23 10.05 10.52 PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 50% WNW at 6 to 12 mph 1.8 0.09 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 50/57 10% of capacity 85% of capacity 46% of capacity 98% of capacity 49% of capacity 99% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy 4470 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 28 cfs Burnt River near Unity 6 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 676 cfs Minam River at Minam 491 cfs Powder River near Richland 33 cfs Zapata, Texas Bodie State Park, Calif. Henderson, Texas OREGON High: 70° Low: 21° Wettest: 0.22” Hermiston Klamath Lake Meacham SUN & MOON THU. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 46/63 Baker City Redmond 46/55 49/57 Halfway Granite 47/57 Newport 50/59 48 29 48/58 48/54 51/56 Corvallis Enterprise 41/54 46/57 Monument 46/58 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 3 Elgin 46/56 La Grande 43/54 Maupin 3 49/58 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 49/63 Hood River 49/58 TIllamook Comfort Index™ Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 52/63 Vancouver 49/55 48/54 42 60 40 thing went to plan and that the unex- pected load issue was a tiny detail that would soon be fi xed, a “nothing in the scheme of things.” “They got a great catch. They just didn’t like the way the load was feeling,” Beck said of the heli- copter crew in a conference call after the launch. He said a detailed analysis should reveal the reasons for the discrep- ancy in the load characteristics. He said he still hoped the company could salvage some or all of the spent rocket booster, despite it get- ting dunked in salt water, which they’d hoped to avoid. Rocket Lab named its latest mis- sion “There And Back Again” — a reference to the movie trilogy “The Hobbit,” which was fi lmed in New Zealand. The company described the brief midair capture at 6,500 feet by the Sikorsky S-92 helicopter as a mile- stone. It says making its rockets reusable will enable the company to increase the number of launches it makes and reduce costs. Elon Musk’s SpaceX company designed the fi rst reusable orbital rocket, the Falcon 9. The Associated Press | Go to AccuWeather.com Baker City without knocking. Should I stick to my guns or am I wrong? — DAUGHTER IN DILEMMA DEAR DAUGHTER: It strikes me as somewhat pushy that your mother would ask for a key to your home before it is even completed. What have your par- ents done during previous torna- does? Because the house symbol- izes your independence, I don’t think you should hand the key over. It may make sense to have someone you trust be able to enter if you are traveling or have a pet that needs to be walked while you are working. In that event, you may change your mind and see the wisdom in off ering her one. P.S. If she abuses your trust, you can always have your locks changed. NEWS OF THE WEIRD things that we can do as a state.” One of those things is the Sustainable Health Care Cost Growth Target Program. While the program’s recent report looks at a six- year period, future reports are intended to come out annually, with the intention of holding the big players in the health care system accountable for rising costs to patients. “It’s sort of a goal and a target that we’re going to hold insurers and providers accountable to meeting year over year,” Vandehey said. The goal is to limit annual increases in health care costs statewide to 3.4% over the next several years. That’s a percentage similar to the average increase in wages. State programs, like Medicaid, are already subject to a 3.4% growth target. In comparison, health care costs rose around 6.5% a year during the period the study looked at. Looking at the numbers, the average family’s insur- ance premium in Oregon was just under $20,000 in 2019, enough to buy a car. For individuals the number was around $6,600. While the program, created by state lawmakers in 2019, is still in its early stages, Vandehey said that future steps could include talking with lawmakers about ways to mitigate the fast-in- creasing health care costs in the state. “It’s critical that people have access to health care that they need, and that it be aff ordable,” Vandehey said. “And that they not have to choose between housing and food, and health care.” Continued from Page B1 dad. That would open up questions about who his bio dad is. Please help. — LOOKING FOR BEST WAY IN WASHINGTON DEAR LOOKING: I fail to understand why you would equate “rape” with “cheating.” What hap- pened wasn’t your fault, and you should feel neither guilt nor shame that it happened. While I under- stand your desire to protect Oliver, you should tell him the truth. When you do, be sure to empha- size how much you and your ex love him and how proud you are that he is your son. DEAR ABBY: I’m in the pro- cess of building my fi rst house down the street from my par- ents. (The lot was a good deal.) Recently, my mom told me she wants a key so she and Dad can City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla FRI. SAT. Hi/Lo/W 63/48/r 57/46/r 55/43/r 64/47/r 55/44/r 55/43/r 70/48/r 64/50/sh 58/44/r 56/48/r 57/47/r 63/39/r 60/48/r 56/46/r 57/40/c 60/50/r 53/38/r 58/46/r Hi/Lo/W 57/42/c 54/41/r 46/33/r 57/39/r 51/38/r 53/38/r 61/41/c 62/43/pc 53/39/sh 55/42/r 53/41/sh 54/29/c 53/39/sh 54/40/r 53/35/c 59/43/sh 43/29/r 54/38/sh Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Occasional rain A touch of rain 34 24 53 37 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Chilly with rain A touch of rain 43 33 64 46 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK A little rain Periods of rain 40 29 49 35 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Periods of rain Periods of rain 54 36 57 44 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK A bit of rain Periods of rain 60 40 57 42