COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, ApRIL 23, 2022 Woman faces uncertainty in marriage, health and future for support. Could I be even more lonely if I leave? The thought of divorce feels overwhelming, but I feel like life is passing me by. Hoping you can point me in the right direction. — LIVING IN LIMBO IN MISSOURI DEAR LIVING: I wish you had mentioned what it was nine years ago that created a rift between you and your husband. If it was your diagnosis, it is truly regrettable. In the interim, have you tried talking about this with a marriage and family therapist? If the answer is no, you should. I am concerned about the degree of isolation you are feeling. The National Multiple Sclerosis Society (nationalms- society.org) offers virtual and DEAR ABBY: I’ve been mar- ried for 14 years and have two kids. Our youngest is 11. For the last nine years, it has been a love- less marriage. Luckily, he works a lot, but when he’s home, I stay in my bedroom. The only thing we do together is eat dinner. Our kids are thriving in school, and I worry that leaving will hurt them terribly. Should I wait until our youngest graduates? I am 47 and have multiple scle- rosis that is slowly progressing. I do not have family and friends in-person support groups that might benefit you greatly. Divorcing one’s spouse is not a guarantee that one’s loneli- ness will end, as many divorced women and men can attest. The National MS Society may be able to provide what you need right now. DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are expecting our first child. We are over the moon about it, and have lots of support from family and friends near and far. My husband’s family lives in another state and would need to fly to visit us. His parents are sep- arated, and elderly. I love his mother dearly, but I have an issue with her best friend, “Myra.” Myra has always been passive-aggressive. She makes things difficult and makes rude, snide comments. My moth- er-in-law plans to travel to meet our new baby, but she wants Myra to be her travel companion. Abby, after the stress and exhaustion of delivering a baby and any postpartum aftermath, plus the desire to keep our circle small due to COVID, I do not want to see Myra in the first few months after delivery. I have no issues with my mother-in-law, and don’t want to prohibit her from seeing her new grandbaby. But she refuses to travel alone. Am I going too far in saying I won’t be up for visiting with her snide best friend? — PREGNANT IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR PREGNANT: I don’t think you are going too far. You have the right to control who comes into your home. Tell your mother-in-law you would wel- come her coming to see the new baby, but that Myra is not wel- come in your home and will have to make other plans while Grandma is visiting your infant. If she asks why, tell her the truth — that Myra is negative and snide, and you don’t want to be exposed to that while you are in a vulnerable state. If she can’t agree to your wishes, tell her you and her son will visit her when the baby is older, but you will make sure she has plenty of pictures and videos in the meantime. NORTHEASTERN OREGON FISHING FORECAST Fishing action in Oregon starting to pick up EO Media Group Wallowa County ponds SALEM — The Oregon Department of Fish and Wildlife reports improving fishing conditions in several places around Northeastern Oregon. The agency has also started stocking rainbow trout in several ponds and reservoirs. Fish at Kinney Lake that overwintered will be available to shore anglers and anglers in nonmotor- ized boats (motors are not allowed on Kinney Lake). Kinney Lake and ponds throughout the county will be stocked with rainbow trout over the next couple months. Imnaha River Wallowa Lake Steelhead fishing is open through April 30. Both bait drifted near the bottom and jigs fished under bob- bers can be effective means of catching steelhead on the Imnaha. After rain or periods of warm weather, flows may increase and fishing may be more dif- ficult. Hatchery steelhead smolts have been recently released, and anglers may catch some of these fish as they migrate downstream through the river, especially if they are using bait. Anglers are reminded that bull trout may be encountered in the fishery and must be released unharmed. Anglers that hike down the Imnaha River and fish for steelhead in the Snake River must use barbless hooks when fishing for steelhead in the Snake River. Additionally, anglers fishing for steelhead in the Snake River need to be aware that the daily limit for steelhead in the Snake River is two hatchery steel- head this spring. Morgan Lake opened for fishing on Friday, April 22, 2022. a total of 1,133 steelhead counted at TMFD up to date for the run year, with an average of five fish per day over the past week. The spring chinook season opened April 15. There is a predicted run of approximately 3,000 spring chinook returning to the Umatilla River. A total of 12 spring chinook have been counted at TMFD so far this run year. Fishing was slow for opening weekend, but there were anglers out trying to take advantage of the early fish. The flows in the Umatilla have come up in the last few days from the rain and anglers should start see fish moving because of this. Anglers should start to find Morgan Lake Opened for fishing on April 22. Umatilla River Due to very poor pred- icated returns, retention of steelhead on the Uma- tilla River between the Highway 730 bridge and Three Mile Falls Dam (TMDF) will be closed through April 30, 2022. From TMFD to the Con- federated Tribes of the Umatilla Indian Reserva- tion boundary is open for fishing and retention of steelhead. There has been Grande Ronde River Anglers can fish for hatchery steelhead on the Grande Ronde through the weather | Go to AccuWeather.com Wallowa River Steelhead fishing is open through April 30. Addi- tionally, fishing for trout and whitefish can be good in the spring. Fishing con- ditions will be best when flows are lower, and fishing may be more difficult when the weather warms and the river rises. Astoria St. Helens Anglers have been suc- cessful catching bass, and bass fishing will likely improve throughout the year as the water tempera- ture increases. Trout fishing will probably be good in the coming months especially Waterbodies slated to be stocked with rainbow trout this week include the Highway 203 Pond near Baker City, Murray Res- ervoir near Unity, Phillips Reservoir and Bully Creek Reservoir. Kennewick 41/69 40/70 Condon 41/73 44/69 39/69 Clear to partly cloudy Partly sunny and milder Cloudy with a few showers Rain tapering off Cloudy and cool 64 42 53 32 55 33 Eugene 38/69 La Grande 33 65 39 Comfort Index™ 10 Enterprise 30 61 36 Comfort Index™ 6 51 35 53 34 7 0 3 10 49 35 50 31 8 0 2 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 100° Low: 14° Wettest: 2.89” 50° 30° 50° 33° 59° 37° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.15 0.77 0.55 1.44 2.61 Trace 0.66 1.24 3.04 5.86 0.06 2.43 1.73 9.62 9.59 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 30% SSE at 6 to 12 mph 7.5 0.16 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 42/66 THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin 10% of capacity 76% of capacity 45% of capacity 81% of capacity 44% of capacity 100% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 3150 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 7 cfs Burnt River near Unity 5 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 516 cfs Minam River at Minam 367 cfs Powder River near Richland 18 cfs Childress, Texas Saco, Mont. Newport, Ark. OREGON High: 66° Low: 23° Wettest: 0.38” The Dalles Crater Lake Tillamook WEATHER HISTORY A record chill gripped northern Florida on April 23, 1993. Tallahassee plunged to 31 degrees. The previous record of 41 was set in 1940. This was also the latest freeze recorded there last century. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 5:54 a.m. 7:48 p.m. 3:00 a.m. 11:46 a.m. SUN. 5:52 a.m. 7:50 p.m. 3:37 a.m. 1:03 p.m. MOON PHASES Last Apr 23 New Apr 30 First May 8 Beaver Marsh Full May 15 40/69 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 30/60 Paisley 30/66 26/64 Frenchglen 30/61 40/72 Klamath Falls 27/64 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 56/45/c 69/40/pc 64/44/s 57/44/pc 65/34/pc 60/46/pc 66/46/pc 63/36/s 63/40/pc 69/48/pc 71/48/pc 70/50/pc 67/44/s 65/39/pc 60/40/s 71/49/pc 64/32/pc 63/29/pc Hi/Lo/W 54/41/c 67/43/c 72/52/c 56/43/c 68/39/c 55/43/c 60/41/c 66/48/c 64/43/sh 63/42/c 69/51/c 63/49/c 67/50/c 67/46/sh 59/44/r 69/50/pc 62/38/c 63/37/c 34/67 Lakeview 24/63 McDermitt 30/62 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 29/63 33/62 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 30/62 Fields Medford Brookings Boise 35/64 40/77 41/57 29/66 28/67 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 24/65 31/66 27/62 Ontario 37/68 Burns Brothers 36/69 Roseburg Huntington 26/62 Bend Coos Bay 33/63 37/65 Seneca 35/69 Oakridge Council 27/63 33/65 33/68 Elkton Powers 32/65 27/59 John Day 30/69 Sisters Florence 41/57 Halfway Granite Baker City Redmond 40/60 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. Monument 34/68 36/66 Newport Enterprise 30/61 33/65 34/67 40/67 37/67 61 41 10 Corvallis 41/55 64 44 Elgin 30/63 La Grande 37/67 38/72 Idanha Salem WED 2 41/67 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 39/69 Hood River 39/67 TUE 0 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 39/71 Vancouver 41/69 MON 8 It will be stocked with trout throughout the spring. Fishing has been slow, and the reservoir is still very low, about 10% of capacity. The water has now reached the bottom of the Mason Dam boat ramp. There probably is enough water to launch small boats, but large boats may need a bit more water before they can use the boat ramp. Remember that tiger musky and bull trout must be released unharmed. Trout stocking schedule Longview SUN 3 Phillips Reservoir Oxbow Reservoir 40/68 TONIGHT 10 Reservoir is nearly full. The reservoir drained sig- nificantly last year, and there may not be many fish that survived through the fall and winter. However, the reservoir has recently been stocked with rainbow trout. Reservoir is 24 feet below full pool, and all boat ramps are usable except Spring Recreation Site at the upper end of the reservoir near Huntington. Anglers in the Powder River arm have recently had good catches of bass, and trout have been caught from shore with bait. There also have been some perch caught, and catfish are available. Maupin 27 63 35 Thief Valley Reservoir Brownlee Reservoir success as the clarity of the river improves and the river starts to drop. Most anglers use egg set up with a slinky weigh bounced off the bottom. Trout fishing on the Umatilla River, and its trib- utaries, is closed currently and reopens May 22. Bass and other warmwater spe- cies remain open all year. 42/56 TIllamook Comfort Index™ Reservoir is nearly full, and anglers have been suc- cessful catching 16- to 17-inch rainbow trout. Fishing from shore with bait has been a good technique, and fishing from a boat will probably also be a good way to fish the reservoir. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION 39/60 Baker City Unity Reservoir Fishing has been good for rainbow trout near the south end of the lake. Anglers have had success using both flies and lures. Anglers can have good suc- cess wading out from shore and casting lures or flies near where fish are rising. Boat anglers will have better access to more of the lake and may find fish near areas where the depth drops off. Alex Wittwer/The Observer, File end of the season on April 30. However, fishing may be difficult during periods of elevated flows. when water temperatures are in the low 50s. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 69/45/s 68/46/c 62/36/pc 72/45/pc 55/45/pc 62/44/c 68/40/s 70/45/pc 67/46/pc 69/51/pc 66/48/pc 69/38/pc 69/47/pc 67/47/pc 64/41/s 73/48/pc 61/34/pc 67/48/pc Hi/Lo/W 66/49/c 58/45/c 63/43/c 68/45/c 54/43/c 57/40/sh 73/51/c 71/48/pc 64/47/c 61/46/c 57/42/c 66/40/c 64/45/sh 63/43/c 63/43/c 67/49/c 59/41/sh 65/46/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Partly sunny Partly sunny 38 32 59 34 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Warmer Mostly sunny 50 37 66 39 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Milder Partly sunny 45 33 59 32 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly sunny Partly sunny 60 40 67 44 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Milder Milder 63 35 65 39