COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, ApRIL 9, 2022 Aging dog’s care becomes obstacle in relationship of Preston’s condition, she has changed her mind. I understand that. However, she’s now angry that I am going alone. I spend every day with her and go out of my way always to support her. She has no grand- children, having lost her only daughter two decades ago. I will be gone for only a weekend and return in plenty of time to be with her afterward. I haven’t seen my three grand- daughters in a year, and who knows when I will again. Should I feel guilty about leaving her and the dog? I am stuck in the middle here, and am going to upset her or my son’s family no matter what I do. — MAN IN THE MIDDLE DEAR MAN: You stated DEAR ABBY: I’m in a sev- en-year relationship with a beau- tiful woman I love and would do anything in the world for. I feel she would do the same for me. She has a dog, “Preston,” who she loves and who has been with her since puppyhood. At 16, Preston is failing badly and is on his last legs. There is no doubt his time is coming. We had planned on meeting my son and grandchildren for a family celebration after a sev- en-hour drive. Her plan was to accompany me, but now, because that your significant other’s only child died 20 years ago. It is pos- sible that puppy Preston became like a child to her, and losing him is causing her to revisit the loss of her daughter. If there is any way to manage it, post- pone the visit with your son and his family until later in the year, after Preston’s passing, or have them come to you. If that’s not possible, because it’s only a weekend, go see your son and your grandkids but remain in contact with her from afar during the visit. DEAR ABBY: My first hus- band was abusive, and I divorced him after less than four years of marriage. We had two daugh- ters. In 2016, I remarried, this time to a loving, caring man. My of any longer. Any advice would help. — HEARTBROKEN IN DELAWARE DEAR HEARTBROKEN: Would you really like to receive birthday and Mother’s Day greetings knowing they didn’t come from the heart and that you were paying for them? This is what your daughter’s actions have revealed. You have not caused this estrangement; she has, because you turned off the spigot. I’m sure you are hurting, because that is what your daughter intends. Since prayer hasn’t helped you cope with this, consult a licensed mental health professional, and I suspect you will have better results. You have my sympathy. oldest daughter was my maid of honor. A year after our wed- ding, she married her soul mate. Her father and I, including our current spouses, paid for their reception. Since 2017, this daughter has continually asked us for financial assistance. At first we helped, but after a terrible argument, we drew the line, and she decided to sever our relationship com- pletely. She sees us occasion- ally during holidays and is cor- dial, but she doesn’t call or text for my birthday or Mother’s Day, which is very hurtful. I don’t know where to turn, except to pray. I don’t want to be estranged anymore. I miss her terribly, but do not want to be financially taken advantage NEWS OF THE WEIRD Alex Jones appears for questioning in Sandy Hook lawsuit HARTFORD, Conn. — Alex Jones was ques- tioned Wednesday, April 6, by lawyers for families of Sandy Hook victims in Connecticut, where a judge had ordered the Infowars host to face mounting fines until he appeared for a deposition. Relatives of some of the 20 children and six edu- cators killed in the 2012 Newtown, Connecticut, massacre sued Jones for defamation after he said the shooting never happened. A judge found Jones liable for damages and a trial on how much he should pay the families is set for August. Jones, who lives in Texas, had defied a judge’s order to appear for a depo- sition in the case, saying he was too ill. But Con- necticut Judge Barbara Bellis said there wasn’t enough evidence that Jones was too sick to attend and ordered him to come to Connecticut for questioning and pay escalating daily fines until he did so. Jones paid $25,000 in fines for Friday and $50,000 in fines for Monday, according to court records. Jones said in a video on the Infowars website that the deposition began April 5 and was to continue April 6. He said in the video that the families’ lawyers began the deposition by “demon- izing” him for his ques- tioning official versions of events. “It’s just totally insane Gender-affirming medication banned for youth in Alabama MONTGOMERY, Ala. — Alabama lawmakers on Thursday, April 7, approved sweeping legislation to outlaw gender-affirming medications for trans kids and advanced separate leg- islation to prohibit class- room instruction on sexual and gender identity in early grades — a measure that critics have dubbed “Don’t Say Gay.” The Alabama House of Representatives voted 66-28 for legislation to make it a felony, punish- able by up to 10 years in prison, for a doctor to pre- scribe puberty blockers or hormones or perform sur- gery to aid in the gender transition of people under age 19. The bill now goes to Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey for her signature as Ala- bama becomes the latest red state to debate legisla- The Associated press, File Radio show host and conspiracy theorist Alex Jones was being questioned Wednesday, April 6, 2022, by lawyers for families of Sandy Hook Elementary School victims in Connecticut, where a judge had ordered the Infowars host to face mounting fines until he appeared for a deposition. to sit there and watch this happen and to watch them lick their lips and lick their chops and think we’re going to finally shut Alex Jones down,” Jones said. “These people want to put us in prison for our speech.” Jones’ lawyer, Norman Pattis, said tempers flared at times during the deposi- tion and much of the ques- tioning was not related to the school shooting. “I had the impression watching the attack on Mr. interviews discussing the details.” “Accordingly, we are unable to comment further at this time,” Mattei said. The deposition was held at the Bridgeport office of Koskoff, Koskoff & Bieder. After it ended, Pattis filed a court document asking Bellis to return to Jones the $75,000 in fees he paid, which the judge said he could request only after sit- ting for questioning. Bellis did not immediately rule. Jones that this trial will be about something far greater than what happened at Sandy Hook,” Pattis said on the video. “The trial’s going to be about ordinary peo- ple’s ability to say I’m not buying it, I want to raise questions, I want to draw my own conclusions.” The families’ lawyer, Christopher Mattei, said Jones has declared his “entire deposition confi- dential even while he and his attorney conduct media weather | Go to AccuWeather.com AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 38/46 Kennewick 38/48 St. Helens 37/49 35/49 37/48 Condon 39/54 39/49 SUN MON TUE WED A bit of snow late Morning snow showers Mainly cloudy, a shower Snow showers Mostly cloudy and chilly 43 25 42 20 47 24 Eugene 0 0 0 39/49 41 27 45 24 48 28 0 0 3 La Grande 27 41 22 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 0 0 24 36 18 Comfort Index™ 0 39 21 43 28 0 0 3 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 103° Low: -4° Wettest: 2.90” 68° 19° 70° 28° 73° 26° 0.00 0.04 0.19 0.71 2.25 0.00 0.08 0.40 2.46 5.02 0.00 0.80 0.56 7.99 8.42 PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date AGRICULTURAL INFO. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 28/43 35/42 39/50 40/51 39 22 0 Corvallis Enterprise 24/36 27/41 Monument 34/51 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 0 Elgin 26/40 La Grande 30/43 Maupin Comfort Index™ 33/47 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 34/47 Hood River 32/46 TIllamook 23 43 24 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 38/57 Vancouver 37/48 37/47 Baker City tion and policies aimed at trans youth. Rep. Neil Rafferty, the only openly gay member of the Alabama Legislature, appeared to struggle to hold back his anger and maintain composure as lawmakers headed to the vote. “This bill should not pass,” Rafferty said. “This is wrong. Y’all sit here and campaign on family ... but what this bill is, is totally undermining family rights, health rights and access to health care.” Republican Rep. Wes Allen, of Troy, sponsor of the House version of the bill, argued during debate that transgender youth are not old enough to make decisions about gender-af- firming medication. “Their brains are not developed to make the deci- sions long term about what these medications and sur- geries do to their body,” he said. Rep. Chris England, who also serves as chairman of the Alabama Democratic Party, said the measure tar- gets already vulnerable children and essentially tells them they are not wel- come in Alabama. “You’re saying this is about children. It’s not. What it is about is scoring political points and using those children as collateral damage,” England said. The bill would also require school coun- selors, nurses and others to tell parents if a child dis- closes they believe they are transgender. Jones missed the orig- inally scheduled deposi- tion in the case on March 23 and 24 in Austin, Texas. He cited a health issue including vertigo that his doctors initially thought was a serious heart problem but turned out to be a sinus infection. The plaintiffs have said they have been subjected to harassment and death threats from Jones’ fol- lowers because of the hoax conspiracy promoted on his website show. Jones has since conceded the shooting did happen. The Associated Press City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. 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