COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THURSDAY, MARCH 17, 2022 Man insulted when his wife is asked to be godmother DEAR ABBY: I have a girl- friend, “Dawn,” who is one of my oldest friends. She’s my only friend who stuck with me through the growing pains and diff erent stages in my life. I married a man who I think is the love of my life. He’s very macho and proud. We have built a life together, and through stepchildren, exes and family — through thick and thin — our love has endured. Well, my husband is also pos- sessive. Dawn recently asked PRICES me to be the godmother of her second child, her son. My hus- band is off ended that I was asked and he wasn’t. He has never made an eff ort to have a friendship with Dawn and her husband, or even met her son since his birth many months ago. He wants no part in the process, which I am very upset about. What do I do? Should I ignore my husband’s feelings, be a good friend and godmother to Dawn’s baby and deal with the aftermath with my husband? — POTEN- TIAL GODMOTHER IN ARIZONA DEAR POTENTIAL GOD- MOTHER: Your husband appears to be not only possessive, Oregon State Police but also somewhat self-centered and controlling. It would be inter- esting to know why he’s pouting, since he’s not close to your friend nor particularly interested in her baby. Because one spouse is asked to be a godparent does NOT auto- matically mean the other must be. Some children have only one god- parent; others have them in multi- ples. If you wish to be godmother to Dawn’s baby boy, go ahead and do it — and do not feel you have to apologize for it. DEAR ABBY: I’m worried my 23-year-old son may be in serious fi nancial trouble. He has always made clear that he wants to run a business instead of working at a 9-to-5 job. He has been working nications director at the department, said it’s been pushing for more than 20 years to come up with a plan. “We’ve been talking to every Legislature since 1999 in earnest about this, saying, ‘Hey, in the future there are going to be a lot of elec- tric vehicles on the roads and vehicles that get high mileage per gallon. Since we get our money from a tax on every gallon of gas sold, we need to start thinking about this,’” she said. Currently, electric vehicle owners can opt into a pro- gram that taxes them by their mileage, measured by a plug-in they put in their car, and money goes to the Transportation Department. Snow said it’s likely that will have to be a requirement in all electric cars in the future in order to fi nance the Trans- portation Department. The Transportation Department and Fish and Wildlife are interested in electrifying their fl eets as quickly as possible, but shortages of electric trucks caused by supply chain issues mean it could be years before either agency gets even a dozen or more of these vehicles. Fish and Wildlife cur- State police employees Continued from Page B1 drive more than a million miles per month, according “When people think of to Mindy McCartt, com- wildlife management, I munications director for the don’t know if they realize Oregon State Police, but she there really is a lot that could provide no information gets done. We do surveys, on how the agency is coping research, manage fi sh har- with current fuel costs and vests, but our work also the increases likely to come. focuses on picking up McCartt said any adjust- ill and injured animals, ments to the department’s helping private landowners. $4.9 million biennial fuel You’ve got a cougar in budget will be a “wait and downtown Portland? We see game.” have to be available.” The agency is halfway Because Fish and Wild- through its budget cycle life doesn’t receive money and has time to adjust from the state’s general according to how big a hit fund, it doesn’t have many it takes on gas prices. If options for requesting emer- prices remain above $4 per gency funding. gallon for the next year, “We don’t get to shift McCartt said, the agency around money. We don’t will need to double its fuel get to go to the Legislature budget to at least $8 million and ask for additional funds for the next biennium. through the emergency Because the agency gets board,” Hurn said. most of its funding from the For now, it’s likely that state’s general fund, McCartt project by project, teams said that it can request emer- within the agency will have gency money through the to fi nd a way to balance the state Emergency Board. budgets they already have Getting off gasoline until 2023. “If projects run out of For the Transportation money, then they won’t be Department, planning for a able to start again until 2023 future without gasoline has when they have a newly been a long time coming. adopted budget,” Hurn said. Shelley Snow, commu- weather | Go to AccuWeather.com hard trying to start a consultation business for the last four or fi ve years, which sometimes works and sometimes does not. He’s dependent on my credit card, which he was only supposed to use for emergencies, but he sometimes uses it for more than that. I pay off the credit card bills and he owes me all the money he has charged on it. He promises to pay it back, and comes up with the weirdest excuses when he can’t. On a number of occasions I have tried to sit him down and get out of him if he’s in trouble, but he keeps insisting that he’s “working on things and everything will be OK soon.” I want to be sup- portive, but I see the debt rising rently has about 1,300 employees and 650 vehi- cles in its fl eet, and it typi- cally borrows another 80 to 100 from the Administra- tive Services Department to use for surveying during the summer, their busiest time of year. Hurn said the Adminis- trative Services Department has about fi ve electric trucks to lend out, but they aren’t well equipped to handle the remote projects Fish and Wildlife works on because of the dearth of charging sta- tions throughout the state. The Transportation Department is also hopeful it can get electrifi ed fl eets in the future, but the supply is just not there. “We have orders in for electric pickups right now that cannot be fulfi lled,” said Lynde, the opera- tions administrator at the department. “We’d like to advance faster, but the reality is the market right now is directed at individual consumers and less at full fl eets,” he said. On the bright side, when fuel prices are up, more Astoria Longview 44/54 Kennewick 46/55 St. Helens 46/58 43/60 Portland Condon 43/63 FRI SAT SUN MON Considerable cloudiness Cooler with a little rain Mostly cloudy and chilly Warmer with high clouds 30 54 34 50 27 44 28 51 32 Eugene 0 0 5 42/60 49 32 45 30 51 39 0 0 4 34 55 39 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 4 6 30 53 37 Comfort Index™ 6 40 28 48 38 0 1 4 9 ALMANAC TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High: 92° Low: -6° Wettest: 2.55” 54° 35° 54° 39° 52° 38° 0.03 0.05 0.34 0.44 1.63 0.17 0.39 0.81 2.26 3.71 0.20 1.25 1.12 6.80 6.73 PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 40% SSE at 6 to 12 mph 4.6 0.07 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 5% of capacity 42% of capacity 27% of capacity 56% of capacity 31% of capacity 73% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy 5910 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 1 cfs Burnt River near Unity 6 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 597 cfs Minam River at Minam 327 cfs Powder River near Richland 38 cfs SUN & MOON FRI. 7:00 a.m. 7:02 p.m. 7:46 p.m. 7:33 a.m. MOON PHASES Mar 17 Last Mar 24 New Mar 31 Beaver Marsh 39/63 Brookings First Apr 8 Burns Juntura 31/65 Boise 36/61 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 33/57 Paisley 29/61 Frenchglen 32/61 Diamond Grand View Arock 31/59 34/64 29/61 Fields 37/65 31/60 Klamath Falls 24/61 Lakeview 26/59 McDermitt Shown is Friday’s weather. Temperatures are Thursday night’s lows and Friday’s highs. 30/57 RECREATION FORECAST FRIDAY SAT. City Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W Astoria 54/43/r 51/39/r Bend 60/42/c 51/30/r Boise 61/42/c 62/33/c Brookings 53/44/c 51/38/r Burns 59/34/c 50/23/c Coos Bay 55/42/c 50/38/r Corvallis 58/44/c 52/34/r Council 52/33/c 49/24/r Elgin 55/35/c 50/29/r Eugene 60/46/c 51/37/r Hermiston 64/42/c 59/38/r Hood River 60/47/c 53/40/r Imnaha 56/43/c 54/31/r John Day 59/39/c 49/26/r Joseph 50/38/c 49/26/r Kennewick 66/38/c 61/37/r Klamath Falls 61/36/c 44/18/pc Lakeview 59/35/c 45/20/r Ontario 34/64 25/61 24/60 Medford 40/53 Huntington 33/56 27/59 40/66 FRI. The St. Patrick’s Day snowstorm of 1956 occurred March 16-17 in New England, New York and Pennsylvania. Blue Hill Observatory, outside of Boston, reported 12.6 inches. Full 32/57 REGIONAL CITIES WEATHER HISTORY THU. Brothers 23/56 Roseburg Grants Pass The Dalles Crater Lake Meacham 7:01 a.m. 7:01 p.m. 6:33 p.m. 7:12 a.m. 37/60 Oakridge Council 32/52 27/56 Chiloquin OREGON Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 31/59 Seneca 38/61 Coos Bay Ocotillo Wells, Calif. Champion, Mich. Panama City, Fla. High: 63° Low: 28° Wettest: 0.41” 31/60 Sisters 35/60 Elkton 41/59 31/53 30/54 John Day Bend Powers Halfway Granite 27/49 Baker City Florence 46/53 TUESDAY EXTREMES High Tuesday Low Tuesday Monument 32/61 Redmond 44/51 42/55 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 34/55 42/57 46/60 Corvallis Enterprise 30/53 42/58 Newport 42/59 50 28 33/55 La Grande 38/59 39/61 Idanha Salem TONIGHT La Grande Elgin Pendleton The Dalles 46/59 44/58 Rain and drizzle early 4 43/59 38/61 Newberg Lewiston 43/58 Hood River Maupin 1 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 42/66 Vancouver 46/56 TIllamook Comfort Index™ people tend to use public transit. The Transporta- tion Department expects that, as in 2008, ridership will increase on trains and buses. But, as in the years since 2008, Lynde expects the impacts of high fuel prices now will be felt for many years ahead on the road. “We probably never really catch back up,” he said about projects that get paused due to higher costs. “We are always managing a declining investment in what’s needed.” AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION 46/54 Baker City and number of lies piling higher. I am worried sick about him. Please help. — ANXIOUS MOM IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR MOM: Turn off the spigot. You have been your son’s “angel” long enough. A busi- ness that cannot support itself is a failure. That your son would abuse your generosity and compound it by lying to you is very sad. The way to stop this cycle is to remove him from your credit card and let the chips fall where they may. If he needs a business partner, it should not be you any longer. TO MY READERS: Today’s the day for the wearing of the green! A very happy St. Patrick’s Day to you all. — LOVE, ABBY FRI. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SAT. 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