COFFEE BREAK B8 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TuESDAY, FEBRuARY 1, 2022 Man’s crude behavior is a turn-off at home seen him do many times, he calls me a shriveled-up prune. He also constantly com- ments about younger women on TV, in the movies or even on the local news, and says things like, “Where’s that juicy young blonde who was on the news before?” Or he tells me how much I resemble an old woman on TV who looks like she’s 20 years older than I am. He also never fails to point out young women who still have their “baby fat,” which I don’t. He says he loves me and hugs and kisses me every day, but then he acts so creepy I don’t want him touching me. He is really starting to disgust and confuse me. He knows how I feel about this. Now he’s telling me I’M crazy because of how I DEAR ABBY: My 55-year-old husband and I have been married more than 25 years. 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I have been told before that he has incur- able narcissism. — FADING IN WASHINGTON DEAR FADING: Couples are supposed to love each other for who they are, not their appear- ance. Your husband is emotion- ally abusive. His hostility is bla- tant. That he would expect you to have sex with him with after hours on his cellphone — and no foreplay — is incredibly naive. Could he be deliberately trying to sabotage your mar- riage? A marriage and family therapist might be able to get to the bottom of this, but if coun- seling doesn’t help, you may have to let your adult sons fend NEWS OF THE WEIRD Fake poop helps evicted owls settle into new neighborhood they’d stick around. And it worked. “They like to be in a neighborhood, to live near other owls,” said Colleen Wisinski, a conservation biologist at the San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance, which launched the experi- ment with the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service. The scientists played recordings of owl calls before and after the new arrivals were released at four locations in Southern California. Wisinski used a syringe to squirt around fake owl poop — in reality, white paint. Their results were pub- lished Thursday, Jan. 27, in the journal Animal Conservation. Burrowing owls are the rare extroverts of the raptor world. These long- legged owls with slightly cross expressions actually love company. They nest in underground burrows with The Associated Press SAN DIEGO — Set- tling into a new home can be tough for anyone. So sci- entists have come up with some tricks to make trans- planted burrowing owls feel like they are not alone in their new digs, playing owl sounds and scattering fake poop. The owls’ grassland homes are often prime real estate, and they’ve been losing ground to develop- ment in regions like Silicon Valley and Southern Cali- fornia. Biologists have tried moving the owls to pro- tected grasslands but the challenge has been getting the owls to accept their new homes. Just dropping off the owls in prime habitat wasn’t enough, prior attempts showed. In a pilot program, scientists took pains to create the impression that owls already lived there so Ken Bohn/San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance, File This photo provided by the San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance shows a burrowing owl in a habitat at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park in 2014. many owls nearby. Such colonies provide protection from predators, such as coyotes or hawks, that may try to snack on the robin-sized birds. When one owl sounds an alarm, the others fly away. Federal law prohibits the killing of the birds but their habitat is not protected. Typically, they are flushed from their burrows before weather | Go to AccuWeather.com properties are built. “If after eviction there’s nowhere for these guys to go, it’s basically a death sentence,” said Lynne Trulio, an ecologist at San Jose State University who has studied burrowing owls for three decades. She was not part of the study. The population of western burrowing owls — the subspecies that lives in Brrr! It got so cold in Florida, iguanas fell from trees ST. PETERSBURG, Fla. — A cold snap in Florida is different than in other places. No blizzard condi- tions in the Sunshine State, AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 33/46 Kennewick 29/42 St. Helens 30/36 32/40 Condon 32/41 32/40 A little evening snow Cold; a little p.m. snow Not as cold Baker City 12 27 13 Comfort Index™ La Grande 15 28 22 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 8 Comfort Index™ Sun, then clouds Low clouds may break 32 14 Eugene 1 0 1 32/45 37 21 34 22 38 21 1 0 2 36 22 39 22 36 23 0 3 4 3 0 TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High: 81° Low: -31° Wettest: 1.23” 27° 4° 33° 20° 34° 21° PRECIPITATION (inches) Sunday Trace Month to date 0.38 Normal month to date 0.68 Year to date 0.38 Normal year to date 0.68 Trace 1.24 1.62 1.24 1.62 0.00 3.73 3.18 3.73 3.18 Powers AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION WEDNESDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 45% N at 6 to 12 mph 0.4 0.03 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Monday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 2% of capacity 27% of capacity 20% of capacity 36% of capacity 21% of capacity 35% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Sunday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1150 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 1 cfs Burnt River near Unity 15 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 168 cfs Minam River at Minam 166 cfs Powder River near Richland 76 cfs Grants Pass TUE. WED. 7:13 a.m. 4:59 p.m. 8:03 a.m. 5:40 p.m. 7:12 a.m. 5:01 p.m. 8:33 a.m. 6:59 p.m. MOON PHASES First Feb 8 Full Feb 16 Last Feb 23 New Mar 2 Burns Brookings Juntura 14/30 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 16/25 Frenchglen Paisley 16/38 18/28 Diamond Klamath Falls Lakeview 14/42 16/35 McDermitt 18/29 RECREATION FORECAST WEDNESDAY REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 46/40/r 38/30/c 32/16/pc 57/40/pc 30/16/sn 49/34/c 45/30/c 22/11/pc 27/19/c 45/33/c 35/32/c 36/30/c 29/20/c 28/20/sn 21/15/c 36/27/sf 42/17/pc 35/13/pc Hi/Lo/W 48/37/c 50/28/s 29/14/pc 60/39/pc 37/12/pc 56/32/pc 48/32/pc 27/7/pc 35/17/c 48/31/pc 49/32/c 49/35/c 41/27/c 37/22/pc 35/24/pc 44/31/c 47/16/s 44/15/s 20/30 19/29 Fields Shown is Wednesday’s weather. Temperatures are Tuesday night’s lows and Wednesday’s highs. THU. Grand View Arock 17/27 21/31 26/52 WED. Boise 15/32 13/39 14/39 Medford 38/57 Ontario 18/34 13/30 29/51 Roseburg Baker City Seaside SUN & MOON Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset Beaver Marsh Chiloquin OREGON Brownsville, Texas, and Juneau, Alaska, both had temperatures of 32 degrees on Feb. 1, 1985. On that same day, 2 inches of snow accumulated in Dallas, Texas. 24/36 33/46 33/51 Huntington 13/23 Brothers 12/37 Roseburg 6/22 18/31 Seneca 25/38 Oakridge 33/49 WEATHER HISTORY 17/28 28/44 Coos Bay Thermal, Calif. Antero Reservoir, Colo. Quillayute, Wash. High: 57° Low: 4° Wettest: 0.42” 23/38 Council 12/27 John Day Bend Elkton SUNDAY EXTREMES High Sunday Low Sunday 9/26 22/37 Florence Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. ALMANAC Sisters 33/47 21 17 8/25 Baker City Redmond 36/48 37/47 Halfway Granite 30/45 Newport 28 14 0 20/32 27/40 33/44 Corvallis Enterprise 8/21 15/28 Monument 27/37 Idanha Salem SAT 30 13 0 0 FRI Elgin 13/27 La Grande 23/30 Maupin THU 23/33 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 33/42 Lewiston 20/31 Hood River 24/32 33/44 WED Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2022 Walla Walla 27/36 Vancouver 29/39 TIllamook TONIGHT but there are issues as well when the thermometer drops. The low temperatures near freezing are rare in Florida, but at first glance the citrus, strawberry and tomato crops suffered no major damage. As for iguanas, well, that’s another matter. They are an invasive species, well accustomed to the trees of South Florida. When it gets cold, below 40 degrees, they go into a sort of sus- pended animation mode. And they fall to the ground. But they usually wake up with the sun’s warmth. It got cold in Florida this weekend. The National Weather Service reported that West Palm Beach hit 37 degrees Fahr- enheit, the coldest morning of the past 12 years. Up the East Coast in Vero Beach, the record low was tied at 30 degrees Fahrenheit, set in 1978. California — has declined by one-third since 1965. It is considered a “species of special concern.” . For their experiment, the scientists transplanted 47 burrowing owls during 2017-2018. Twenty were outfitted with GPS devices to track their movements, and the scientists also returned to the sites to check on them. Most successfully set- tled into their new homes and established breeding colonies. At the Rancho Jamul Ecological Reserve in southwestern San Diego County, there were about 50 owl chicks in 2020. City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla WED. THU. 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