COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, JAnuARY 15, 2022 Wife gets no support in dealing with MIL and, in the five years we have been married, has never once vis- ited her son. I take him to visit her because he can’t get a driver’s license because of medical issues. Our child and I aren’t even allowed in her home. We have to sit in the car. She acts like our child doesn’t exist, but she has pic- tures of her other two grandchil- dren on Facebook and drives to see them almost weekly. My hus- band sees nothing wrong with her behavior and says he “won’t take sides.” I don’t know what to do. — PEEVED IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR PEEVED: Please accept my sympathy for your situ- ation. While your husband refuses to recognize there is anything wrong with his mother’s behavior, DEAR ABBY: I need some advice regarding my moth- er-in-law. She has hated me since the first time she met me because I’m not from the country but from “the city.” I have given her gifts for birthdays and holidays and invited her on day trips with us, but she always refuses. She also makes up lies about me. She claims I have STDs, spend all her son’s money, etc. She even spread a rumor that I wouldn’t allow her at our wed- ding. She lives 46 miles away it is off the charts. I hope you realize that most men stand up for their wives and children when they are mistreated. Because you can’t change your husband or his witch of a mother, and you made no men- tion of leaving the marriage, you will simply have to adjust to it. Start by planning an activity you and your child can enjoy while your husband is visiting his mom, rather than sitting for hours in the car. Even better, arrange “other” transportation for your husband. DEAR ABBY: I’m a 24-year-old woman who has been in a relationship with a man for seven years. “Ken” is 27 years older than I am. (I pursued him.) I love him, but I have always been DEAR WANTING: You became involved with Ken while you were still very young. It appears you never gave yourself time to fully develop as an individual. You state that you are still “in a relationship” rather than a mar- riage, which may be a blessing considering your ambivalence. Many women would be glad to live their life in a relation- ship that has all the positive qualities that yours has with Ken. I am sure you both will discover this when you move on. However, since you asked my advice, talk this through with a licensed relationship counselor before making any final decision. slightly confused about my rela- tionship with him, and he knows this. Lately, I have been feeling very guilty. My heart knows that my love for Ken isn’t enough for what he truly deserves. He’s a good, honest man, and I enjoy our relationship. We get along great, have a lot in common and make a great team. I am com- fortable with us and our life. But recently I have realized that I want to be on my own, alone, and not in a relationship. I feel a strong desire to focus on me and only me, so I can grow into the person I envision myself being. Any advice besides the obvious — my leaving the relationship? — WANTING MORE IN WISCONSIN NEWS OF THE WEIRD Study nixes Mars life in meteorite found in Antarctica which is a very exciting discovery about Mars and not a study to disprove” the original premise. This finding “is huge for our understanding of how life started on this planet and helps refine the techniques we need to find life elsewhere on Mars, or Enceladus and Europa,” Steele said in an email, referring to Saturn and Jupiter’s moons with sub- surface oceans. The only way to prove whether Mars ever had or still has microbial life, according to Steele, is to bring samples to Earth for analysis. NASA’s Per- severance Mars rover already has collected six samples for return to Earth in a decade or so; three dozen samples are desired. Millions of years after drifting through space, the meteorite landed on an icefield in Antarctica thou- sands of years ago. The small gray-green fragment got its name — Allan Hills 84001 — from the hills where it was found. Just this week, a piece of this meteorite was used in a first-of-its-kind exper- iment aboard the Inter- national Space Station. A mini scanning electron microscope examined the sample; Thomas-Keprta operated it remotely from Houston. Researchers hope to use the micro- scope to analyze geologic samples in space — on the moon one day, for example — and debris that could ruin station equipment or endanger astronauts. By MARCIA DUNN The Associated Press CAPE CANAVERAL, Fla. — A 4 billion-year-old meteorite from Mars that caused a splash here on Earth decades ago contains no evidence of ancient, primitive Martian life after all, scientists reported Thursday, Jan. 13. In 1996, a NASA-led team announced that organic compounds in the rock appeared to have been left by living crea- tures. Other scientists were skeptical and researchers chipped away at that premise over the decades, most recently by a team led by the Carnegie Institu- tion for Science’s Andrew Steele. Tiny samples from the meteorite show the car- bon-rich compounds are actually the result of water — most likely salty, or briny, water — flowing over the rock for a pro- longed period, Steele said. The findings appear in the journal Science. During Mars’ wet and early past, at least two impacts occurred near the rock, heating the planet’s surrounding surface, before a third impact bounced it off the red planet and into space millions of years ago. The 4-pound rock was found in Antarctica in 1984. Groundwater moving through the cracks in the rock, while it was still on Mars, formed the tiny globs of carbon that are present, according to the researchers. The same thing can happen on Earth and David J. Phillip/The Associated Press The meteorite labeled ALH84001 is held in the hand of a scientist at a Johnson Space Center lab in Houston, Aug. 7, 1996. Scientists say they’ve confirmed the meteorite from Mars contains no evidence of ancient Martian life. could help explain the pres- ence of methane in Mars’ atmosphere, they said. But two scientists who took part in the original study took issue with these latest findings, calling them “disappointing.” In a shared email, they said they stand by their 1996 observations. “While the data pre- “Unsupported spec- ulation does nothing to resolve the conundrum surrounding the origin of organic matter” in the meteorite, they added. According to Steele, advances in technology made his team’s new find- ings possible. He commended the sented incrementally adds to our knowledge of (the meteorite), the interpre- tation is hardly novel, nor is it supported by the research,” wrote Kathie Thomas-Keprta and Simon Clemett, astromaterial researchers at NASA’s Johnson Space Center in Houston. weather | Go to AccuWeather.com measurements by the orig- inal researchers and noted that their life-claiming hypothesis “was a rea- sonable interpretation” at the time. He said he and his team — which includes NASA, German and British scientists — took care to present their results “for what they are, AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 40/52 Kennewick 36/50 St. Helens 35/52 35/51 29/38 32/40 36/51 36/50 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Mostly cloudy Mostly cloudy Cloudy A snow shower in the a.m. Low clouds 35 22 37 27 38 27 Eugene 1 2 3 36/48 39 29 40 36 41 34 3 2 3 Comfort Index™ La Grande 1 27 39 27 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 1 1 2 23 39 27 Comfort Index™ 4 37 36 5 6 4 ALMANAC TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High: 82° Low: -17° Wettest: 0.81” 35° 19° 43° 30° 43° 33° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Trace Month to date 0.27 Normal month to date 0.31 Year to date 0.27 Normal year to date 0.31 0.01 0.83 0.76 0.83 0.76 0.00 2.78 1.46 2.78 1.46 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 50% S at 6 to 12 mph 2.4 0.04 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 41/62 1% of capacity 24% of capacity 18% of capacity 25% of capacity 18% of capacity 25% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1360 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 1 cfs Burnt River near Unity 15 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 295 cfs Minam River at Minam 148 cfs Powder River near Richland 53 cfs Del Rio, Texas Boulder, Wyo. Astoria, Ore. OREGON High: 56° Low: 21° Wettest: 0.80” Medford Burns Astoria WEATHER HISTORY On Jan. 15, 1780, ice in the New York Harbor was thick enough to allow the transport of heavy cannons. While river ice can stop boat traffi c, it can also create possibilities. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 7:28 a.m. 4:36 p.m. 2:26 p.m. 6:05 a.m. SUN. 7:28 a.m. 4:37 p.m. 3:18 p.m. 6:58 a.m. MOON PHASES Full Jan 17 Last Jan 25 New Jan 31 First Feb 8 26/42 Beaver Marsh 21/48 Roseburg Powers Brothers 35/57 Coos Bay 36/52 Burns Jordan Valley 24/38 Paisley 26/47 Frenchglen 26/45 Grand View Arock 29/35 25/39 Fields 32/54 Klamath Falls 20/45 Lakeview 16/42 McDermitt 22/41 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY MON. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 52/42/c 52/44/c 54/29/pc 56/35/c 38/24/pc 38/25/pc 57/44/pc 54/45/s 38/19/c 40/22/c 56/39/pc 55/43/c 47/35/pc 50/40/c 31/24/c 32/23/c 39/23/c 38/28/c 48/37/pc 52/42/c 42/29/c 45/32/c 38/31/pc 48/40/c 44/34/c 45/32/c 44/34/c 44/36/c 41/30/c 45/34/c 42/31/c 43/34/c 45/23/s 46/26/s 42/17/s 43/21/s Diamond 26/42 24/41 REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Boise 26/38 Shown is Sunday’s weather. 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Hi/Lo/W 38/34/pc 50/36/pc 38/24/c 54/35/pc 54/39/pc 48/38/c 37/29/c 40/29/c 38/30/c 51/36/pc 62/41/c 53/28/pc 52/37/c 51/36/pc 36/29/c 40/33/c 43/27/pc 37/31/c Hi/Lo/W 41/36/c 50/40/c 38/28/c 55/35/pc 50/43/c 52/43/c 37/29/c 43/33/c 46/36/c 51/40/c 62/46/pc 55/34/c 57/42/pc 51/40/c 39/30/c 44/38/c 47/29/c 43/36/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Mostly cloudy Partly sunny 33 24 38 23 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Mainly cloudy Cloudy 36 29 38 28 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Mostly cloudy Mostly cloudy 35 21 38 25 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly cloudy Mainly cloudy 41 30 42 33 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Low clouds Mostly cloudy 33 20 39 27