COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, DECEmBER 18, 2021 Educator feels homeschool past carries stigma today I am asked what year I gradu- ated, or other questions about my schooling. (They assume that since this is my hometown, I attended school in the same dis- trict in which I work.) If I reply with, “I was homeschooled,” I get shocked silence, and feel I must somehow justify my mom’s choice to homeschool me (something over which I had no control). This isn’t just from colleagues, but also parents and staff. In addi- tion, our district likes to feature alumni who work at the district and who chose to return to their hometown to give back. Well, I meet one of those criteria, but I cringe when they mistakenly announce my name as an alumna DEAR ABBY: I was home- schooled K-12. I now have mul- tiple master’s degrees and work for a public school. I returned to my hometown and, with hard work and dedication, have moved up the career ladder in my district. While I love my job, I also value and respect the fact that my mom chose to home- school me. I can’t change my childhood, so I embrace all of those who are part of a village to raise and educate children. My challenge comes when band is an “open book” when it comes to discussing our personal finances with others, while I am extremely private about this type of information. Recently, our neighbors stopped by, and he told them what we paid for some work we had done on our house, which they did not ask to know. I was appalled that he did it, and asked him after they were gone not to tell people such private information. I’m very uncomfortable discussing our sal- aries with others, while he thinks it’s something for all to know. We’re a middle-class family, and I’m by no means embarrassed by our finances, but I think it’s preferable to abstain from dis- cussing these matters with others. in a public forum, not knowing how to handle it. Please advise. — EDUCATION LOVER IN ARIZONA DEAR EDUCATION LOVER: I think it is time for you to stop being self-conscious about the kind of education your mother gave you, which equipped you to attain not one, but mul- tiple graduate degrees. Rather than “cringe” and hide the fact that you are not an alumna from the district, discuss this with the administrators, so the error can be corrected. DEAR ABBY: My hus- band and I have been mar- ried for seven years. He pro- vides financially for our family, while I work part-time. My hus- He thinks it’s rude not to tell people what we pay for things and how much we make and save. Is it common practice to discuss personal finances with others? — PRIVATE LADY IN NEW MEXICO DEAR PRIVATE LADY: Rude?! Nowhere is it written that people “have” to discuss their finances with anyone other than one’s spouse, immediate family or CPA. Keeping quiet about finan- cial matters is not a breach of eti- quette; it’s good judgment. What your husband is doing could be perceived as bragging, which creates resentment and jealousy rather than impresses others, and anyone who reads my column knows it can drive people away. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Postal hike doesn’t stop catalogers from stuffing mailboxes this time of the year is from The Vermont Country store. “Catalogs do seem a bit old-fashioned. They’re so analog. But I think it may be their only way of getting visuals in front of you,” said Kaplow, who hasn’t set foot in a store in years. Nonetheless, catalogs remain expensive to print and mail. The U.S. Postal Service gave a one-two punch to the industry this year with a 3% postage increase in Jan- uary followed by an addi- tional, unexpected increase of nearly 9% implemented in August. But consumer spending remains hot and catalogs are a way for retailers to differentiate themselves, so it makes sense for retailers who can afford to distribute catalogs to do so, Lipsman said. Catalog numbers dropped about 40% between 2006 to 2018, when an estimated 11.5 bil- lion were mailed to homes, but they’ve stabilized and are showing signs of an uptick in volume, according to Miller at the ACMA. Miller said catalogs won’t be going away any- time soon, partly because they have staying power compared to the fleeting impact of email, online advertisements and other digital communication. “People are used to clicking and moving on, but the catalog is still sitting there on your coffee table. It’s going to continue to entice you to shop,” he said. The Associated Press PORTLAND, Maine — A big postal rate increase over the summer hasn’t stopped catalog retailers from stuffing mailboxes this holiday season. The U.S. Postal Service says more than 300 million catalogs flooded into peo- ple’s mailboxes last month, and the overall number of catalogs has grown 12% over last year, officials said. The boost continues a positive trend for catalogers that are defying those who predicted their demise in a digital world. “The industry is not dying. There are plenty of companies that are still aggressively mailing cat- alogs,” said Paul Miller, vice president and deputy director of the Amer- ican Catalog Mailers Association. Some online retailers like Bonobos, Amazon and Wayfair began mailing cat- alogs in recent years. A few that went away, like the Sharper Image and J. Peterman, have returned. Heavyweights like Lands’ End, Hammacher Schlemmer and L.L. Bean never wavered. Several factors are working in favor of catalog retailers. For starters, digital advertising on e-commerce websites has grown as much as 20% to 40% this year even as privacy policy changes — Apple’s efforts in particular — have made it more difficult to target ads and measure their The Associated Press, File A selection of catalogs are displayed in Freeport, Maine. A big postal rate increase over the summer hasn’t stopped catalog retailers from stuffing mailboxes this holiday season. The U.S. Postal Service says more than 300 million catalogs flooded into people’s mailboxes last month and that overall the number of catalogs has grown 12% over last year. effectiveness, said Andrew Lipsman, retail analyst at eMarketer. Further, some find online shopping difficult to navigate — a space that is jumbled thanks to algo- rithms, marketing and advertising, analysts say, making it hard for people to find what they want. Jonathan Zhang, a pro- fessor of marketing at Col- orado State University, said another important factor is that catalog and store shoppers are more loyal to brands than people who shop online only. His research found a weather | Go to AccuWeather.com browsing in a store or cat- alog, he said. New York shopper Helen Kaplow acknowledges it’s easier to thumb through catalogs and circle items of interest or dog-ear the pages, rather than scrolling through websites. One of her favorite catalogs around higher return on investment from catalogs because those shoppers buy more than online-only shoppers. The internet’s clutter tends to produce shop- pers who search for spe- cific things, preventing the “serendipitous discoveries” that shoppers make while AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 37/46 Kennewick 37/44 St. Helens 38/43 39/44 38/43 40/43 40/45 39/44 Condon SUN MON TUE WED A little late- night snow Cloudy with a little snow A rain or snow shower Partly sunny A snow shower possible 23 33 23 34 21 33 19 34 24 Eugene 0 1 0 45/48 39 28 39 25 39 31 3 2 2 La Grande 0 31 36 32 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 0 0 28 39 30 Comfort Index™ 2 41 27 41 31 4 5 4 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 90° Low: -15° Wettest: 1.82” 32° 22° 36° 30° 38° 31° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Trace Month to date 0.30 Normal month to date 0.45 Year to date 5.31 Normal year to date 8.66 0.08 0.64 1.02 10.62 16.54 0.16 2.77 2.02 24.81 24.20 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 60% S at 7 to 14 mph 0.1 0.04 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 49/54 1% of capacity 19% of capacity 15% of capacity 14% of capacity 13% of capacity 12% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1100 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 0 cfs Burnt River near Unity 14 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 179 cfs Minam River at Minam 168 cfs Powder River near Richland 20 cfs Zapata, Texas Wolf Point, Mont. Texarkana, Ark. OREGON High: 51° Low: 14° Wettest: 0.37” North Bend Burns North Bend WEATHER HISTORY Wind-driven lake-effect snow accumulated to 2 feet in northwestern Pennsylvania on Dec. 18, 1981. In 1984, this date seemed more like its April counterpart, with tem- peratures in the 60s in Pennsylvania. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 7:27 a.m. 4:11 p.m. 3:45 p.m. 7:13 a.m. SUN. 7:28 a.m. 4:11 p.m. 4:30 p.m. 8:11 a.m. MOON PHASES Full Dec 18 Last Dec 26 New Jan 2 First Jan 9 Brothers 45/51 32/43 Beaver Marsh 28/41 Roseburg 47/51 Burns Jordan Valley 24/41 Paisley 25/43 Frenchglen 27/42 Grand View Arock 24/38 19/36 Fields 39/47 Klamath Falls 23/41 Lakeview 19/38 McDermitt 16/33 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY MON. Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 46/40/c 47/41/sh 48/35/r 50/35/c 39/26/c 37/23/c 51/45/r 54/43/c 38/22/c 35/19/c 53/46/r 51/44/sh 46/39/r 47/38/c 35/27/sn 35/24/c 37/33/sn 39/23/c 48/42/r 48/41/c 44/34/r 39/34/c 43/36/r 41/35/r 41/36/sn 43/34/c 44/37/r 44/36/c 38/32/sn 41/30/c 41/33/r 36/33/c 41/24/c 41/26/c 38/17/c 39/17/c Diamond 23/43 22/36 REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Boise 22/39 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. 23/41 Silver Lake 28/41 Medford Brookings Juntura 17/38 44/51 46/51 Ontario 25/35 26/44 Chiloquin Grants Pass Huntington 23/40 Bend Coos Bay 21/35 29/38 Seneca 41/48 Oakridge Council 23/33 31/44 39/52 Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin 24/35 John Day 40/51 Sisters Florence Powers 23/32 Baker City Redmond 41/46 46/50 Halfway Granite 41/46 Newport 49/53 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 38/47 43/47 42/45 47/51 40 27 0 Corvallis Enterprise 28/39 31/36 Monument 40/44 Idanha Salem TONIGHT Comfort Index™ Elgin 31/37 La Grande 41/45 Maupin Baker City 40/41 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 39/46 38/40 Hood River 44/46 TIllamook Lewiston Walla Walla 39/41 Vancouver Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 40/35/sn 44/40/r 36/31/sn 47/37/c 46/43/r 43/37/c 35/26/c 41/34/r 46/31/r 45/43/r 54/42/r 51/33/r 51/43/r 45/43/r 35/25/c 43/37/r 41/33/sn 41/33/r Hi/Lo/W 39/34/r 45/39/r 40/26/sn 46/38/c 49/40/sh 41/35/sh 37/23/c 37/31/c 36/31/i 46/39/r 51/43/sh 49/29/c 51/42/c 48/40/sh 32/25/sn 41/34/sn 45/30/c 34/31/sh Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Periods of snow Snow 25 24 34 25 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Periods of snow Snow to rain 30 29 38 32 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Snow Snow, up to 1” 25 23 36 28 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Periods of snow Periods of rain 38 32 48 32 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Snow A bit of snow 33 23 36 32