COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THuRSDAY, DECEmBER 16, 2021 Weight loss doesn’t take sting out of observations told things like, “You should see your cousin. She’s almost as big as you were!” which is quickly followed by an offhand, “No offense,” which tells me they know it offends me. I said as much to them at first, but the insulting comparisons continue. It’s not just one person saying this; it has actually become the family standard. I know I was very large, but this is extremely hurtful. I find myself avoiding family visits because the sub- ject seems to invariably come up in some way. Is there anything beyond what I have already tried that can convey the distress this causes? — FORMER FAT REL- DEAR ABBY: During the last year, I made some signifi- cant changes to my life. I left an emotionally abusive marriage after 23 years, which gave me the confidence to take better care of myself. I have lost 70 pounds and am almost down to the weight I was in high school. I am very proud of this. My issue is my family has now started using my former weight as a measuring stick. I am often mates get to know each other better, you may feel more com- fortable with them. If that doesn’t happen, you may want to make other plans for lunch. That you have been including your middle school friend during those lunches I think is loyal, caring and compassionate. Doing so is not “hurting” him. If he’s unable to integrate and become part of the group, no law says the two of you must have lunch with those people every single day. Consider alternating lunches with other students so you can widen your circle of friends. Friends are treasures. The more of them you have, the richer your life will be. them make me uncomfortable, but I still eat lunch with them some- times. I don’t want to be rude to my friend, but I am unsure if I want to join this group. I have a separate friend whom I met in middle school, and I have reason to believe that I am his only friend. He eats lunch with me and my upperclassmen friends. They ignore him while he talks to me about the things we like. I am afraid I’m hurting him by making more friends. Any advice? — STRESSED TEEN IN NEW JERSEY DEAR TEEN: New relation- ships take time to develop. With time, as you and your new class- ATIVE IN MISSOURI DEAR RELATIVE: Your rel- atives have been told that alluding to your former weight problem causes you distress. That it con- tinues tells me they are thought- less at best, not to mention rude and inconsiderate of your feelings. Because you can’t change their behavior (and neither can I), the logical solution is to do what is best for you and see less of them. DEAR ABBY: I have begun high school and I love it, but I’m bumping into friend problems. My new friend has many other friends in one big friend group, and she’s inviting me to join them. I barely know these people, and some of NEWS OF THE WEIRD Study: Winter tornadoes to get more powerful as world warms in power when using a formula that takes wind speed, rotation and size of path into account. Power increased 1-1/2 times for the spring storm, he said. Trapp said that’s because there are two key ingredients needed for tor- nadoes: unstable stormy weather and wind shear. Wind shear, the differ- ence between winds up high and near the ground, is usually stronger in the winter, but there’s not as much stormy weather because it requires warm humid conditions near the ground. But as the world warms there will be more opportunity for instability in the winter, he said. Three outside scientists said there may be some- thing to the research, but they aren’t yet completely convinced. “I’m not 100% sold on the technique, but it’s a very interesting approach,” said Harold Brooks, a scientist at the National Severe Storms Laboratory in Norman, Oklahoma. “To me the really interesting result seems to be the lon- ger-tracks for the cool season.” A single study always raises uncertainty issues, but the results make sense, said Northern Illinois Uni- versity meteorology pro- fessor Victor Gensini: “One of the major com- ponents to Friday’s out- break was the broad and anomalous warm (swath of temperatures) which permitted the storm to last for what will likely be a record-breaking path length.” By SETH BORENSTEIN The Associated Press WASHINGTON — Nasty winter tornadoes — like the deadly ones last week that hit five states — are likely to be stronger and stay on the ground longer with a wider swath of destruction in a warming world, a new study shows. The combination of a longer and wider track with slightly stronger winds means some rare winter tornadoes that are killers now will have nine times more the power by the end of the century if carbon dioxide levels con- tinued to rise, according to a study presented at the American Geophys- ical Union conference Monday. The study, which pre- dates the devastating Mayfield, Kentucky, tor- nado outbreak, looks at strength and not fre- quency of big torna- does as climate change progresses. Not peer reviewed yet, it was pre- sented in poster form as a peak at new research to be published later. “There is a potential for events in the future that are more intense that would not have been as intense in the cur- rent climate,” said study author Jeff Trapp, head of atmospheric sciences at the University of Illi- nois, Urbana-Champaign. “Bearing in mind that these high end events are still going to be rare.” Trapp took the con- ditions during two large tornado strikes in 2013 Gerald Herbert/The Associated Press In this aerial photo, destruction from a recent tornado is seen in downtown Mayfield, Ky., Sunday, Dec. 12, 2021. According to a study present- ed at the American Geophysical Union conference on Monday, Dec. 13, 2021, nasty winter tornadoes _ like the deadly one last week that hit five states _ are likely to be stronger and stay on the ground longer with a wider swath of destruction in a warming world. — the Hattiesburg, Mis- sissippi, tornado that in February of that year injured 82 people with winds of 170 mph and the Moore, Oklahoma, tor- nado that killed 24 people with winds up to 210 mph in May— and put them into dozens of computer simulations of worst-case climate change scenario by 2100, which other sci- entists say is increasingly unlikely. The worst-case sce- nario, which the world used to be on track for, weather | Go to AccuWeather.com would have another 6 degrees or so of warming between now and the end of the century. Trapp said he will soon run simula- tions based on a scenario closer to the current tra- jectory for carbon dioxide emissions of about 3.2 degrees warming above current levels. Trapp found a big change on the winter storm, significantly longer and wider tracks and windspeed increases around 14% that added up to the nine-fold increase AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 38/48 Kennewick 40/46 St. Helens 39/48 TIllamook Hood River 36/46 34/44 39/47 36/47 Condon FRI SAT SUN MON Cloudy with a little snow A morning fl urry; cloudy Cloudy A little snow at times Rain and snow showers 30 20 33 21 34 21 Eugene 0 0 0 37/48 34 29 33 29 36 27 0 0 0 18 32 20 La Grande 1 29 39 26 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 0 2 3 23 35 21 Comfort Index™ 0 36 22 38 29 4 1 0 3 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 87° Low: -8° Wettest: 2.16” 32° 12° 36° 19° 35° 18° PRECIPITATION (inches) 0.01 0.29 0.39 5.30 8.60 0.02 0.64 0.91 10.62 16.43 0.39 2.61 1.80 24.65 23.98 AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION FRIDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 35% S at 4 to 8 mph 0.6 0.04 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Wednesday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 0% of capacity 19% of capacity 15% of capacity 13% of capacity 13% of capacity 11% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Tuesday) Grande Ronde at Troy 1240 cfs Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder 0 cfs Burnt River near Unity 14 cfs Umatilla River near Gibbon 244 cfs Minam River at Minam 150 cfs Powder River near Richland 21 cfs Zapata, Texas Crested Butte, Colo. Los Angeles, Calif. OREGON High: 47° Low: 11° Wettest: 0.58” The Dalles Lakeview Rome Elkton 37/51 SUN & MOON THU. FRI. 7:26 a.m. 4:11 p.m. 3:07 p.m. 6:11 a.m. MOON PHASES Full Dec 18 Last Dec 26 New Jan 2 Beaver Marsh 37/46 Grants Pass First Jan 9 Burns Boise 24/35 Jordan Valley 24/34 Paisley 16/35 Frenchglen 25/36 Diamond Grand View Arock 27/35 26/39 21/34 Fields 31/37 17/34 Klamath Falls 19/33 Lakeview 13/30 McDermitt Shown is Friday’s weather. Temperatures are Thursday night’s lows and Friday’s highs. 18/32 RECREATION FORECAST FRIDAY SAT. 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Hi/Lo/W Hi/Lo/W 35/30/pc 40/36/r 46/41/c 48/40/r 38/23/c 37/30/c 37/29/c 41/34/c 48/42/c 50/38/r 42/40/c 46/38/r 37/25/pc 33/24/c 38/29/c 41/35/c 43/26/c 45/42/c 47/42/c 49/40/r 51/37/c 53/42/r 44/26/c 48/31/c 46/37/c 50/42/c 48/40/c 51/42/r 28/27/c 37/33/i 44/34/c 41/39/sn 38/24/c 43/35/c 37/27/c 41/37/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Not as cold Mostly cloudy 27 19 35 22 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. A morning fl urry Mostly cloudy 31 22 38 24 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Cloudy Mostly cloudy 26 16 36 22 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly cloudy Cloudy 34 23 45 28 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Cloudy and chilly A morning fl urry 32 20 39 26