COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 27, 2021 Romance with prison inmate evolves into love triangle friend I had “made her uncom- fortable.” She ended up blocking me on Facebook. Abby, he’s now saying he’s in love with both of us. I’m not allowed to talk about her, and anything they talk about is “none of my business.” I do not get as many phone calls from him as I used to, and I think it’s because of her. I’m not sure what her plans are, but I get the feeling she’s trying to get me out of the pic- ture. Please tell me what to do. — CROWDED IN ALASKA DEAR CROWDED: For- give me for seeming negative, but from what you have written, I don’t think this man is in love with either one of you. What you DEAR ABBY: I am a 42-year-old mother of three who has been in a relationship with a man for almost six years. He is incarcerated. We started out as friends. Things were great until this year, when he reconnected with an old girlfriend. I had a conversation with her over Facebook, and she wanted to invite me out for coff ee one day. I ended up messaging her later on that night, and she told my boy- should “do” is reassess your rela- tionship with this two-timing felon. His ex-girlfriend may indeed be maneuvering to get you out of the picture, and my advice to you, which I sincerely hope you will follow, is to let her do it. You may have started out as “friends” with this man, but friends do NOT treat friends the way he has been treating you. DEAR ABBY: I’ve read many letters over the years about rela- tionships in which there is a sig- nifi cant age gap, and thought I would like to share a success story. My boyfriend and I have a 22-year age diff erence, and we couldn’t be happier. We are both divorced with children (his is cussing wills, estate planning and the hurdles that come with retire- ment and raising high schoolers, but we do it with great respect for where the other is in their own journey. This is the best relation- ship either of us has ever been in. I’m so glad we didn’t let our age diff erence prevent us from enjoying this life together. — LUCKIEST GIRL IN TEXAS DEAR LUCKIEST GIRL: When both parties are adults with experience in the world, age is only a number. While there can be challenges in May-December unions, you and your boyfriend appear to be looking at the future with eyes wide open. Thank you for your upper of a letter. grown and lives independently; mine are 14 and 11). We found each other about a year before the pandemic. He was above the age range I’d specifi ed on online dating apps, but we met at a mutual friend’s art opening. There were immediate sparks, and we didn’t realize our age dif- ference until about a week later. By then the seeds of a mature, noncodependent relationship were sprouting. He’s 60 now, and I am 38. We live separately, but go back and forth between the houses most nights. He’s actively engaged in my kids’ lives, and we’re talking about marriage. Because of our age diff erence, this includes dis- South African scientists detect new virus variant amid spike bility, he said. “We can see that the variant is poten- tially spreading very fast. We do expect to start seeing pressure in the health care system in the next few days and weeks.” De Oliveira said that a team of scientists from seven South African univer- sities is studying the variant. They have 100 whole genomes of it and expect to have many more in the next few days, he said. “We are concerned by the jump in evolution in this variant,” he said. The one piece of good news is that it can be detected by a PCR test, he said. After a period of rel- atively low transmission in which South Africa recorded just over 200 new cases per day, in the past week the daily new cases increased to more than 1,200 on Nov. 24. On Nov. 25, they jumped to 2,465. The fi rst surge was in Pretoria and the sur- rounding Tshwane metro- politan area and appeared to be cluster outbreaks from student gatherings at uni- By ANDREW MELDRUM and MOGOMOTSI MAGOME The Associated Press JOHANNESBURG — A new coronavirus variant has been detected in South Africa that scientists say is a concern because of its high number of mutations and rapid spread among young people in Gauteng, the country’s most populous province, Health Minister Joe Phaahla announced Thursday, Nov. 25. The coronavirus evolves as it spreads and many new variants, including those with worrying mutations, often just die out. Scien- tists monitor for possible changes that could be more transmissible or deadly, but sorting out whether new variants will have a public health impact can take time. South Africa has seen a dramatic rise in new infec- tions, Phaahla said at an online press briefi ng. “Over the last four or fi ve days, there has been more of an exponential rise,” he said, adding that the new variant appears to be driving the spike in cases. Scientists in South Africa are working to deter- mine what percentage of the new cases have been caused by the new variant. Currently identifi ed as Denis Farrell/The Associated Press, File A baby cries as her mother receives her vaccine against COVID-19, in Johannesburg on Thursday, Oct. 21, 2021. A new COVID-19 variant has been detected in South Africa that scientists say is a concern because of its high number of mutations and rapid spread among young people in Gauteng, the country’s most populous province, Minister of Health Joe Phaahla announced Thursday, Nov. 25, 2021. B.1.1.529, the new variant has also been found in Botswana and Hong Kong in travelers from South Africa, he said. The World Health Orga- nization’s technical working group met Nov. 26 to assess the new variant and may decide whether or not to give it a name from the Greek alphabet. The British govern- ment banned fl ights from South Africa and fi ve other southern African countries and that anyone who had recently arrived from those countries would be asked to take a coronavirus test. U.K. Health Secretary Sajid Javid said there were concerns the new variant “may be more transmis- sible” than the dominant delta strain, and “the vac- cines that we currently have may be less eff ective” against it. The new variant has a “constellation” of new mutations, said Tulio de Oliveira, from the Network for Genomic Surveillance in South Africa, who has tracked the spread of the delta variant in the country. The “very high number of mutations is a concern for predicted immune eva- sion and transmissibility,” said de Oliveira. “This new variant has many, many more muta- tions,” including more than 30 to the spike pro- tein that aff ects transmissi- versities in the area, said health minister Phaahla. Amid the rise in cases, sci- entists studied the genomic sequencing and discovered the new variant. “This is clearly a variant that we must be very serious about,” said Ravindra Gupta, professor of microbiology at the Uni- versity of Cambridge. “It has a high number of spike mutations that could aff ect transmissibility and immune response.” Gupta said scientists in South Africa need time to determine if the surge in new cases is attributable to the new variant. “There is a high probability that this is the case,” he said. “South African scientists have done an incredible job of iden- tifying this quickly and bringing it to the world’s attention.” South African offi cials had warned that a new resurgence was expected from mid-December to early January and had hoped to prepare for that by getting many more people vaccinated, said Phaahla. Computer not running as fast as when it was new? Let us install lightning-fast solid state drive! Still running unsupported Windows 7? 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We make it easy for you to start the process of owning your own home. 1429 Adams Ave La Grande, OR 541-962-7557 weather | Go to AccuWeather.com AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 52/56 Kennewick 56/57 St. Helens 55/60 TIllamook 51/62 47/62 55/60 54/59 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Overcast Mild with some sun Cloudy with a shower Turning cloudy Rain and drizzle 47 29 48 31 48 30 Eugene 3 3 1 49/61 47 35 50 44 54 35 4 5 3 Comfort Index™ La Grande 5 42 55 38 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 3 3 8 39 56 37 Comfort Index™ 5 52 38 5 7 4 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 86° Low: -9° Wettest: 3.15” 43° 30° 46° 37° 48° 38° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.65 0.60 5.00 8.08 0.00 1.43 1.61 9.83 15.19 0.00 3.26 2.55 21.77 21.58 HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 45% S at 6 to 12 mph 0.1 0.06 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir N.A. 15% of capacity 14% of capacity 11% of capacity 9% of capacity 6% of capacity Bend Lakeview Astoria On Nov. 27, 1898, the famous “Portland” storm formed off Cape Cod, causing the loss of 200 lives. Many others were lost to the raging sea in 50 small vessels. Boston received more than a foot of snow. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 7:07 a.m. 4:13 p.m. 11:57 p.m. 1:11 p.m. SUN. 7:08 a.m. 4:12 p.m. none 1:32 p.m. MOON PHASES STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Oceanside, Calif. Langdon, N.D. Quillayute, Wash. High: 63° Low: 13° Wettest: 0.03” 842 cfs 0 cfs 16 cfs 85 cfs 126 cfs 9 cfs Last Nov 27 New Dec 3 First Dec 10 Beaver Marsh Powers 50/63 Full Dec 18 47/59 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 36/59 Paisley 36/63 32/55 Frenchglen 40/60 Medford 31/56 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 56/49/sh 62/43/pc 54/35/pc 58/47/pc 54/28/pc 57/48/c 60/47/c 50/32/pc 55/35/pc 61/48/c 62/48/pc 62/49/c 60/43/c 57/42/pc 56/39/pc 64/52/pc 56/26/pc 60/26/pc Hi/Lo/W 55/48/r 53/38/c 53/34/pc 57/46/c 52/24/pc 58/43/c 56/42/r 46/31/c 46/33/c 56/44/c 59/42/c 59/46/r 52/37/r 51/38/pc 48/34/r 58/42/c 54/26/pc 56/23/pc 33/55 32/57 Lakeview 28/60 McDermitt 31/58 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 35/61 Klamath Falls Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. 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