COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, NOVEmBER 13, 2021 Vintage dress given to friend ends up for sale online been hanging onto, to wear or craft with. I wanted her to turn it into something meaningful for herself instead of keeping it buried in my closet. Last weekend we had lunch. When I asked her how it fit or what she planned to do with it, she told me she had given it to someone I don’t know to sell on a clothing resale site. I can’t help but feel angry. I know I gave it to Gabbi, but I think what she did was rude. If she had asked me if it was OK to give it away, I would have asked for it back. How do I stop harboring this feeling? Every time I think of her now, I get upset. The next Dear Abby: I used to collect vintage dresses, many of which I bought online from retailers for several hundred dollars each. I reluctantly sold some on con- signment after a breakup — you know, “out with the old, in with the new.” But I kept ones that were beautiful works of vintage art. A friend of mine (I’ll call her “Gabbi”) likes to sew, and I offered her one of the dresses I’d made it clear he wanted nothing to do with me, it made sense to leave it alone. But now, with my grandparents in failing health, I feel they should know. I just don’t know if it would do more harm than good at this point. Please advise. — Thrown In Kansas Dear Thrown: What do you think you will accomplish by telling Norm’s parents at this point? You have been their grand- child for four decades. Because their health is precarious, they may not need to hear anything that would upset them. I vote for keeping this “news” private, as Norm and your mother have requested. I hope you will let go of your disappointment because if you can’t, you may destroy a valued relationship. Dear Abby: Two years ago, a couple of months before my 41st birthday, I found out that the man who raised me (I’ll call him “Norm”) is not my bio- logical father. Norm is a won- derful, loving father figure, who has made clear that this changes nothing between us. Because this discovery was heartbreaking at first, my par- ents decided not to tell Norm’s parents or siblings about it. Ini- tially, I supported their decision because, after my biological father day, after our lunch, we went to an estate sale and Gabbi brought up this other person again — “I should have invited ‘Bethany’ so she could find merch to resell.” I think Gabbi is oblivious about how she makes other people feel. What do you think? — Taken Aback In Alabama Dear Taken Aback: You gen- erously tried to help Gabbi by giving her the dress, but unless you specified that it was a col- lectable item and if she couldn’t use it you wanted it returned, you shouldn’t blame her. From my vantage point, it seems Gabbi is generously trying to help a friend who needs to make some money. STEELHEAD GREEN Continued from Page B1 Continued from Page B1 As soon as that line touches the water, the next angler should cast. Both anglers will reel up any slack. If their tackle is matched, there should be no tangles. Using the kicker, make slight adjustments in for- ward and reverse to keep the lines taut, the beads fishing in line. Make sure the anglers keep their rod tips up at a 45-degree angle. It was our second drift when the first fish struck. Operating the kicker, Hocking made the first cast, then Carl. Third in line, I picked my spot in shallow water and then Kris Bales, in the bow, made his cast. We drifted back, our weights touching down time to time. Then the tension in my rod tip changed, like a wet sock had fouled the leader. That’s what a fish feels like! I set the hook hard and the line angled toward mid-river. The six-pound hatchery buck didn’t fight hard, but the next one put up quite a battle before the hook popped out of its beak. I finished the morning with a wild nine-pound male that we turned back, watching it kick away from the sandbar to make more steelhead. In a year with fewer fish, try beads for steelhead. And lie to your buddies about the fishing. Gary Lewis is the author During winter, deer, elk and bighorn sheep burn their fat reserves to pro- duce body heat. So long as those reserves last, the ani- mals can withstand even sub-zero temperatures for extended periods, biolo- gists say. But once those fat layers have been shed, deer in particular struggle to find enough to eat to keep their body tempera- ture up. Even with the welcome flush of new green grass this fall, Ratliff said deer could be vulnerable this winter. “If we have a whopper of a winter again we’re going to lose deer,” he said. During the last such winter, 2016-17, deep snow and prolonged periods of frigid temperatures devas- tated deer herds in Baker County and other parts of Northeastern Oregon. In response to the loss of hundreds of animals, ODFW cut hunting tags by up to 50% for the 2017 ] Kris Bales/Contributed Photo By January there are still good numbers of fish in the mainstem Snake above Clarkston, Washington, but the bulk of the run begins to move up the Grande Ronde and other tributaries like the Salmon (Idaho) and the Imnaha (Oregon). If a cold snap drops the temperature of the Grande Ronde, fish may move back down out of the Grande Ronde and into the mainstem Snake again. of Fishing Central Oregon and Oregon Lake Maps and Fishing Guide and other S. John Collins/Baker City Herald, File Mule deer in the snow along the Powder River east of Baker City during the devastating winter of 2016-17. the much larger deer and elk. But Ratliff pointed out that birds are much less capable of digging through snow to reach grass com- pared with deer. Snow doesn’t pose a major problem for deer unless it’s capped with an ice crust, he said. But for birds, even sev- eral inches of snow can keep them from reaching the grass, Ratliff said. hunting season. In many units, deer herds have yet to recover enough to prompt state officials to increase tag allocations. Benefits for birds, too Autumn grass also ben- efits upland game birds such as chukars and quail that eat grass, Ratliff said. Birds don’t need as much forage, of course, as Computer not running as fast as when it was new? Let us install lightning-fast solid state drive! Still running unsupported Windows 7? We’ll help you avoid critical issues by installing Windows 10! titles. To contact Gary, visit www.garylewisoutdoors. com November 27th & 28th The most valuable and respected source of local news, advertising and information for our communities. eomediagroup.com weather | Go to AccuWeather.com AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 53/58 Kennewick 50/59 St. Helens 52/60 TIllamook 48/61 51/60 Condon 48/64 53/62 SUN MON TUE WED Cloudy with a shower Mostly cloudy Rather cloudy Showers around; cooler Mostly sunny and chilly 58 30 27 - 41 28t 22 40 22 Eugene 6 0 2 52/65 62 36 40 25 40 29 8 0 1 Comfort Index™ La Grande 7 48 59 50 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 7 7 9 41 56 48 Comfort Index™ 7 36 20 36 28 10 0 3 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 102° Low: 3° Wettest: 2.95” 43° 33° 47° 40° 47° 32° 0.15 0.61 0.26 4.96 7.74 0.61 1.10 0.68 9.50 14.26 0.46 1.45 0.95 19.96 19.98 PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date Florence 52/68 OREGON High: 70° Low: 28° Wettest: 2.60” Roseburg Joseph Tillamook WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration 45% S at 7 to 14 mph 0.4 0.08 Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir N.A. 12% of capacity 13% of capacity 12% of capacity 7% of capacity 1% of capacity RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) MMXQ\WٺKWUM[MM][ STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland Ontario, Calif. Lake Yellowstone, Wyo. Tillamook, Ore. On Nov. 13, 1883, the Leonids Meteor Shower put on a spectacular show from midnight to dawn. Clear skies favored viewing in many parts of the country. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 6:48 a.m. 4:24 p.m. 2:28 p.m. 12:41 a.m. SUN. 6:50 a.m. 4:23 p.m. 2:47 p.m. 1:50 a.m. MOON PHASES 851 cfs 0 cfs 15 cfs 73 cfs 133 cfs 9 cfs Full Last oŊo0Ѵb]-ঞomomv†Ѵ|-ঞom|o7-‹ Nov 19 Nov 27 -ѴѴĹŐƔƓƐőƑƒƕŊѵƓƔƖ New Dec 3 First Dec 10 45/61 Beaver Marsh 36/59 Roseburg Powers Brothers 50/66 Coos Bay 51/67 Jordan Valley 41/60 Paisley 41/62 Frenchglen 43/63 Klamath Falls 35/59 Hi/Lo/W 58/53/r 65/50/pc 61/47/pc 62/52/c 62/35/c 61/52/c 61/51/c 56/44/c 59/49/c 65/52/pc 67/53/c 61/50/sh 61/51/c 65/48/c 55/47/c 66/57/c 59/35/c 61/37/pc Hi/Lo/W 54/42/r 66/32/sh 63/38/pc 57/45/sh 63/25/c 60/41/sh 56/39/sh 58/31/c 59/34/c 58/39/sh 68/41/c 59/41/sh 62/35/c 66/32/c 58/29/c 68/41/c 58/27/r 59/26/sh Grand View Arock 40/63 41/64 Lakeview 32/61 McDermitt 38/61 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River [;u Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Diamond 41/62 41/66 Shown is Sunday’s weather. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 41/55 Baker City Redmond 52/59 54/60 Halfway Granite 40/55 53/60 53/62 52/65 60 31 8 Corvallis 47/64 50/61 Newport Enterprise 41/56 48/59 Monument 48/64 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 39 56 37 Elgin 43/59 La Grande 45/61 Maupin Baker City 47/66 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 47/63 Hood River 47/66 55/60 Lewiston Walla Walla 48/66 Vancouver 51/58 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 63/48/c 59/54/r 58/51/c 64/46/pc 59/50/c 58/51/r 59/41/c 67/55/c 66/54/c 62/55/sh 68/51/c 65/48/pc 67/50/c 62/55/c 57/49/c 64/49/pc 59/46/c 66/53/c Hi/Lo/W 63/41/c 57/41/r 60/34/c 60/39/sh 55/44/r 54/38/r 57/38/pc 65/41/c 66/38/c 58/41/r 63/43/sh 62/31/sh 60/41/sh 58/40/sh 57/33/c 60/42/sh 59/30/c 62/38/c Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Rather cloudy Mostly cloudy 43 38 55 40 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Rather cloudy Mostly cloudy 49 49 60 43 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Rather cloudy Mostly cloudy 43 36 55 43 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Mostly cloudy Sun, then clouds 55 47 65 57 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Mostly cloudy Mostly cloudy 56 37 59 50