COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, OCTOBER 16, 2021 Husband resents wife’s life outside of home with my friends, he says, “It’s always been me and you, no one else.” We fight every time I go out. I’m tired of all of it. Do you have advice for me? — Sick Of Explaining Dear Sick: Yes. Recognize that you married an antisocial, deeply insecure and verbally abu- sive man. He views any relation- ship you have with someone other than him as a threat, so he is pun- ishing you for it. Also, recognize that his anger and his need to con- trol you will only escalate. You may be “sick of explaining,” but your husband is sick, period. I’m advising you to make a discreet call to the National Domestic Dear Abby: I’ve been with my husband for eight years, mar- ried for one. Before our mar- riage, it was just the two of us doing everything together. He has a strong distrust of people, and doesn’t have any friends. We moved to a bigger city where I found a better job and made new friends. I go out with them occa- sionally, but when I do, he is very rude and snide to me. When I ask him why he’s mad if I go out Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) because, at some point, you may need a safe escape plan. Dear Abby: I have been living with my boyfriend, a stalwart and loving partner, for seven years. He proposed recently and, of course, I said yes. My brother lives in a large city, and because I had attended their church, I asked him if we could be married there. Now he and his wife need to talk to us in person to assure the ministers that my fiance and I are “evenly yoked” and willing to make a public proclamation of our faith. My fiance is not religious. He is willing to do whatever it takes to make me happy and says he’s change into their fall colors. It is also when the media refers to the people who come to look at those colorful leaves as “leaf peepers.” I don’t know how the term came about, but trust me, no one is walking around peeping like baby chicks. The correct term is “leaf peekers.” A teacher I once had explained it to our class this way: “This is the time of year when the tourists arrive to take a peek at our leaves when the colors are at their peak.” Just wanted to share, Abby. — Jay In Ben- nington, Vt, Dear Jay: Live and learn. Thank you for explaining it to this dumb cluck. willing to “take the hit” for me, but I can’t stand the idea of seeing him uncomfortable on a day that should be a happy one. How can I back out of this situation without alienating my brother, who is the only immediate family I have left? — Cringing In Colorado Dear Cringing: Thank your brother and his wife WARMLY for their willingness to help you and your fiance, but explain that the two of you feel a smaller wed- ding would be more appropriate, so you have decided to elope. Many couples do this, and it shouldn’t result in a family feud. Dear Abby: This is the time of year when the leaves begin to Lucy in the sky: Spacecraft will visit record 8 asteroids Lucy intends to pass within 600 miles (965 kilometers) of each targeted asteroid. “Every one of those flybys needs to be near-perfection,” Zurbuchen said. The seven Trojans range in size from a 40-mile (64-kilo- meter) asteroid and its half-mile (1-kilometer) moonlet to a hefty specimen exceeding 62 miles (100 kilometers). That’s the beauty of studying these rocks named after heroes of Greek mythology’s Trojan War and, more recently, modern Olympic athletes. Any differences among them will have occurred during their formation, Levison said, offering clues about their origins. Unlike so many NASA mis- sions, including the upcoming Dart, short for Double Asteroid Redirection Test, Lucy is not an acronym. The spacecraft is named after the fossilized remains of an early human ancestor dis- covered in Ethiopia in 1974; the 3.2 million-year-old female got her name from the 1967 Beatles song “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds.” “The Lucy fossil really trans- formed our understanding of human evolution, and that’s what we want to do is transform our understanding of solar system evolution by looking at all these different objects,” said South- west Research Institute’s Cathy Olkin, the deputy principal sci- entist who proposed the space- craft’s name. One of its science instruments actually has a disc of lab-grown diamond totaling 6.7 carats. And there’s another con- nection to the Fab Four. — a plaque attached to the spacecraft includes lines from songs they wrote, along with quotes from other luminaries. From a John Lennon single: We all shine on . . . like the moon and the stars and the sun. By MARCIA DUNN The Associated Press CAPE CANAVERAL, Fla. — Attention asteroid aficionados: NASA is set to launch a series of spacecraft to visit and even bash some of the solar system’s most enticing space rocks. The robotic trailblazer named Lucy is up first, blasting off this weekend on a 12-year cruise to swarms of asteroids out near Jupiter — unexplored time cap- sules from the dawn of the solar system. And yes, there will be diamonds in the sky with Lucy, on one of its science instruments, as well as lyrics from other Beatles’ songs. NASA is targeting the pre- dawn hours of Saturday, Oct. 16, for liftoff. Barely a month later, an impactor spacecraft named Dart will give chase to a double-as- teroid closer to home. The mis- sion will end with Dart ramming the main asteroid’s moonlet to change its orbit, a test that could one day save Earth from an incoming rock. Next summer, a spacecraft will launch to a rare metal world — a nickel and iron asteroid that might be the exposed core of a once-upon-a-time planet. A pair of smaller companion craft — the size of suitcases — will peel away to another set of double asteroids. And in 2023, a space cap- sule will parachute into the Utah desert with NASA’s first sam- ples of an asteroid, collected last year by the excavating robot Osiris-Rex. The samples are from Bennu, a rubble and boulder-strewn rock that could endanger Earth a couple centuries from now. “Each one of those asteroids we’re visiting tells our story ... the story of us, the story of the solar system,” said NASA’s chief of science missions, Thomas Zurbuchen. SwRI via The Associated Press This image provided by the Southwest Research Institute depicts the Lucy spacecraft approaching an asteroid. It will be first space mission to explore a diverse population of small bodies known as the Jupiter Trojan asteroids. Teaming up There’s nothing better for understanding how our solar system formed 4.6 billion years ago, said Lucy’s principal scien- tist, Hal Levison of Southwest Research Institute in Boulder, Colorado. “They’re the fossils of planet formation.” China and Russia are teaming up for an asteroid mission later this decade. The United Arab Emirates is also planning an asteroid stop in the coming years. Advances in tech and design are behind this flurry of asteroid missions, as well as the growing interest in asteroids and the danger they pose to Earth. All it takes is looking at the moon and the impact craters created by asteroids and meteorites to realize the threat, Zurbuchen said. The asteroid-smacking Dart spacecraft — set to launch Nov. 24 — promises to be a dramatic weather | Go to AccuWeather.com throughout the outer solar system and are now at one loca- tion where we can go and study them,” Levison said. exercise in planetary defense. If all goes well, the high-speed smashup will occur next fall just 7 million miles (11 million kilo- meters) away, within full view of ground telescopes. The much longer $981 million Lucy mission — the first to Jupi- ter’s so-called Trojan entourage — is targeting an unprecedented eight asteroids. Lucy aims to sweep past seven of the countless Trojan asteroids that precede and trail Jupiter in the giant gas plan- et’s path around the sun. Thou- sands of these dark reddish or gray rocks have been detected, with many thousands more likely lurking in the two clusters. Trapped in place by the gravita- tional forces of Jupiter and the sun, the Trojans are believed to be the cosmic leftovers from when the outer planets were forming. “That’s what makes the Tro- jans special. If these ideas of ours are right, they formed Dress rehersal Before encountering the Trojans, Lucy will zip past a smaller, more ordinary object in the main asteroid belt between Mars and Jupiter. Scientists con- sider this 2025 flyby a dress rehearsal. Three flybys of Earth will be needed as gravity slingshots in order for Lucy to reach both of Jupiter’s Trojan swarms by the time the mission is set to end in 2033. The spacecraft will be so far from the sun — as much as 530 million miles distant — that massive solar panels are needed to provide enough power. Each of Lucy’s twin circular wings stretches 24 feet across, dwarfing the spacecraft tucked in the middle like the body of a moth. AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 50/54 Kennewick 50/53 St. Helens 47/55 49/54 TIllamook 47/60 45/65 52/56 47/53 Condon SUN MON TUE WED Clear Becoming cloudy A shower or two; cooler Mostly sunny and milder Breezy in the morning 55 32 59 37 60 37 Eugene 0 5 7 48/56 51 33 62 41 61 43 0 10 7 Comfort Index™ La Grande 9 47 67 38 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 9 9 9 46 68 37 Comfort Index™ 10 59 42 62 44 0 10 10 ALMANAC NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 101° Low: 8° Wettest: 7.10” 54° 23° 54° 35° 54° 34° 0.00 0.04 0.24 3.62 7.10 Trace 0.07 0.52 7.45 12.52 0.07 0.17 0.70 16.58 17.57 PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 25% S at 7 to 14 mph 7.6 0.14 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir N.A. 9% of capacity 10% of capacity 21% of capacity 2% of capacity 0% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland Zapata, Texas Bodie State Park, Calif. Gonzales, Texas OREGON High: 67° Low: 12° Wettest: 0.42” Roseburg Lakeview Tillamook WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Florence An early blizzard raged across South Dakota and southern Minnesota on Oct. 16, 1880. Drifts blocked railroads. The storm also caused boat-sinking gales on the Great Lakes. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset 7:10 a.m. 6:05 p.m. 5:00 p.m. 2:39 a.m. SUN. 7:11 a.m. 6:03 p.m. 5:21 p.m. 3:50 a.m. MOON PHASES 576 cfs 0 cfs 17 cfs 46 cfs 56 cfs 3 cfs Full Oct 20 Last Oct 28 New Nov 4 Beaver Marsh Powers 46/55 First Nov 11 46/55 Silver Lake Jordan Valley 42/66 Paisley 36/63 36/58 Frenchglen 43/67 44/59 Klamath Falls 35/59 City Astoria Bend Boise Brookings Burns Coos Bay Corvallis Council Elgin Eugene Hermiston Hood River Imnaha John Day Joseph Kennewick Klamath Falls Lakeview Hi/Lo/W 54/44/r 61/41/sh 71/47/s 54/43/r 68/38/pc 56/45/r 56/40/r 66/42/s 68/37/pc 56/45/r 71/49/pc 60/46/sh 69/43/c 68/42/pc 65/38/pc 72/45/pc 59/31/c 63/28/c Hi/Lo/W 59/44/pc 55/32/pc 56/40/c 57/45/pc 55/26/pc 60/39/c 59/35/pc 57/36/sh 52/31/r 60/38/pc 63/37/s 59/40/pc 54/37/r 53/38/r 50/36/r 67/39/s 50/24/pc 47/22/pc 41/70 Lakeview 27/63 McDermitt 35/65 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. Grand View Arock 36/67 38/66 Shown is Sunday’s weather. Temperatures are Saturday night’s lows and Sunday’s highs. SUN. Diamond 40/67 Fields Medford Brookings Boise 45/71 43/60 47/54 32/71 34/63 Chiloquin Grants Pass Juntura 27/68 40/58 33/58 Roseburg Ontario 40/72 Burns Brothers 44/58 Coos Bay Huntington 38/63 46/61 Oakridge 34/66 42/67 Seneca Bend Elkton THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin 45/68 41/60 Council 34/66 John Day 40/65 Sisters 48/56 Comfort Index takes into account how the weather will feel based on a combination of factors. A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 37/67 Baker City Redmond 50/54 51/55 Halfway Granite 40/60 43/56 50/55 48/55 52 33 10 Corvallis 43/73 46/56 Newport Enterprise 46/68 47/67 Monument 43/62 Idanha Salem TONIGHT 34 66 36 Elgin 43/68 La Grande 44/62 Maupin Baker City 48/68 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 44/71 Hood River 44/68 51/57 Lewiston Walla Walla 42/72 Vancouver Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 71/46/c 53/44/r 67/38/pc 59/43/r 54/45/r 55/44/r 72/45/s 68/45/pc 68/42/c 56/48/r 55/45/r 65/39/sh 55/45/r 55/46/r 65/40/pc 65/46/sh 68/34/pc 68/44/pc Hi/Lo/W 60/39/pc 58/37/c 51/31/pc 59/39/pc 55/43/pc 58/37/c 61/37/sh 65/40/s 58/37/pc 59/44/pc 60/39/c 57/29/s 60/38/c 60/40/pc 59/37/pc 62/40/pc 49/31/sh 60/40/r Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Turning out cloudy Clouding up 43 26 61 34 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Becoming cloudy Increasing clouds 55 35 67 44 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Turning out cloudy Becoming cloudy 49 32 65 32 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Partly sunny; mild Mostly cloudy 65 38 69 40 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Clouding up Becoming cloudy 66 36 67 38