COFFEE BREAK B8 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TUESDAY, AUGUST 24, 2021 Birth mother reconnects with biological son he should be spending with his family? And, after his mother passes away, what role should I play in his life? His father is deceased, and he and his adopted brother are estranged. — Bio mom in Texas Dear Bio Mom: Your son should have told his adoptive mother about the reunion, regard- less of who initiated it. I think it would be better for everyone if she was included. A way to do that would be to thank her for taking such good care of your son and helping him to become the man he is today. I do not think secrecy is healthy. If it backfi res, there will be deeply hurt feelings because of the subterfuge. At this point in your son’s life it’s too late Dear Abby: When I was an unmarried 18-year-old, I had a child out of wedlock. Unsure that I could provide for him, I chose to place him for adoption so he would have a chance for a better life. This year, we connected through DNA. The reunion has been great, even though I choose to remain in the background because his mother is still living. Would it be appropriate this fall and winter to include him in my holiday festivities as long as it doesn’t interfere with the time for you to be his mommy. How- ever, you CAN be a good friend, since his only family now is the woman who loved and raised him. Dear Abby: I have been dating a man for almost three years. He’s retired; I’m still working. He refuses to stay with me during the week because I need to go to bed early. I see him only on the week- ends. Am I wrong for wanting him to stay with me during the week? I feel like we really don’t have a relationship. My previous boyfriends would stay with me every night. Am I doomed with this man? By the way, he’s been married four times. — Wants more in Michigan Dear Wants More: Wake up. The man you have been dating isn’t going to change. He has struck out at marriage four times and may have “plans” during the week that do not include staying with a “Sleeping Beauty.” If you want more companionship than what you’re getting, you are going to have to seek it elsewhere. Dear Abby: My daughter is getting married. Her father and I never married, but legally he’s listed as her father. For the past 40 years she has used my last name. Well, her wedding invita- tion arrived today and her father’s name is on it. Mine isn’t even mentioned! My parents and I raised her. Her dad was around but never an active father. I raised her, but he gets the glory and the privilege of walking her down the aisle? She says I’m being “a wacko.” Must I accept this and let it go? I feel so hurt that I really don’t want to go to the wedding. — Loving mom left out Dear Mom: I understand your feelings. If you haven’t asked your daughter why she chose to do this, you should. At the least, you deserve an explanation. Please understand that if you refuse to go to her wedding, it could create a permanent rift. There may be grandchildren and milestones you also could miss. Of course, the decision is yours to make, but since you asked me to weigh in, I’m suggesting you take the high road, attend and support your daughter on “her” day. NEWS OF THE WEIRD Persephone, the robot guide, leads visitors in a Greek cave The Associated Press ALISTRATI, Greece — Persephone is a tour guide in Greece, but perhaps not the type people are used to. Billed as the world’s fi rst robot tour guide inside a cave, Persephone has been welcoming visitors since mid-July to the Alistrati Cave in northern Greece, 84 miles northeast of the city of Thessaloniki. The multilingual robot covers the fi rst roughly 500 feet of the part of the cave that is open to the public. In the remaining 2,400 feet, a human guide takes over. The robot was named Persephone because, according Greek myth, it was in a nearby plain that Pluto — the god of the underworld who was also known as Hades — abducted Persephone, with the consent of her father Zeus, to take her as his wife. The robot can give its part of the tour in 33 lan- Giannis Papanikos/Associated Press Persephone guides the visitors inside Alistrati cave, about 84 miles northeast of Thessaloniki, Greece, on Aug. 2, 2021. Persephone, billed as the world’s fi rst robot used as a tour guide inside a cave, has been welcoming visitors to the Alistrati cave since mid-July. guages and interact at a basic level with visitors in three languages. It can also answer 33 questions, but only in Greek. Nikos Kartalis, the scien- tifi c director for the Alistrati site, had the idea of creating the robot when he saw one on TV guiding visitors at an art gallery. Seventeen years later, “we got our funds and the robot guide became a reality,” Kartalis told The weather | Go to AccuWeather.com Associated Press. The robot was built by the National Technology and Research Foundation and cost $139,000. “We already have a 70% increase in visitors com- AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 52/66 Kennewick 53/75 St. Helens 60/79 55/79 Condon 58/85 57/78 Turning cloudy Baker City 41 78 46 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 9 46 77 49 Comfort Index™ 10 74 41 76 40 Eugene 10 10 10 51/79 76 49 71 46 75 45 10 10 10 9 68 42 72 45 10 10 10 9 NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Sunday Low Sunday High: 109° Low: 25° Wettest: 5.13” 82° 37° 83° 43° 78° 40° PRECIPITATION (inches) Sunday Month to date Normal month to date Year to date Normal year to date 0.00 0.65 0.30 3.11 6.29 0.00 0.42 0.48 6.54 11.14 0.11 0.42 0.45 15.79 15.68 AGRICULTURAL INFO. 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ALMANAC Sisters 52/74 72 44 48/82 Baker City Redmond 50/61 52/64 Halfway Granite 50/76 Newport 77 45 10 50 77 52 Sunny and pleasant 50/82 46/73 53/81 Corvallis Enterprise 46/77 50/77 Monument 56/79 Idanha Salem SAT Clouds and sun; Partly sunny and Nice with plenty pleasant nice of sun Comfort Index™ 10 La Grande FRI Elgin 45/77 La Grande 50/76 Maupin THU 55/81 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg 50/79 Lewiston 55/83 Hood River 53/81 50/68 WED Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2021 Walla Walla 54/83 Vancouver 54/78 TIllamook TONIGHT Persephone, with a white body, black head and two luminous eyes, moves on wheels, guiding visitors to the fi rst three of eight stops along the walkway. She can do two more stops, but her low speed slows down the tour, which is conducted in three languages. Perse- phone’s creators are consid- ering ways to speed her up. The robot’s begins by saying: “My name is Perse- phone, I am the daughter of the goddess Demeter and the wife of Pluto, the god of the underworld. I welcome you to my under Earth kingdom, the Alistrati Cave.” Many visitors are intrigued by the robot guide. “It was surprising for me. I’ve never experi- enced such a thing. Actu- ally, honestly, I prefer a live guide, but it’s interesting doing it this way. And I like the pace of the robot. It goes slower, so I can look around,” said Patrick Markes, a Czech visitor. pared to last year since we started using” the robot, says Kartalis. “People are enthusiastic, especially the children, and people who had visited in the past are coming back to see the robot guide.” The robot moves along a walkway, passing through an ornate landscape of stalactites and stalag- mites. These varied forma- tions can reach 50 feet tall and are seen throughout the cave’s nearly .6-mile walkway, which is acces- sible to people with limited mobility. “This cave is one of the most beautiful, not only in Greece but in Europe, as well,” says Kartalis. “It has stalactites and stalagmites in many shapes and colors, even red.” He said the cave was 3 million years old and was fi rst explored in 1974 by the Hellenic Speleological Society and a team of Aus- trian speleologists. It opened to visitors in 1998. By COSTAS KANTOURIS City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla WED. THU. 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