COFFEE BREAK B6 — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THURSDAY, AUGUST 19, 2021 Beau’s female friends send a ‘hands-off ’ signal to his paramour I looking for trouble where there isn’t any? Should I just ignore the fact that his friends are women? He has men friends, too, but it’s the girls he is closer to. — Threatened in Arizona Dear Threatened: Some men relate better to women than they do to men — which may be why your gentleman friend is closer to these women than to his male friends. They may be emitting a “proprietary vibe” because they feel threatened and fear you will steal him away. I don’t know where this rela- tionship is headed, and neither do you at this point. So for now, ignore the “vibes.” Be warm and friendly to the women and con- centrate on what you have going with him. And please, write me Dear Abby: I have been seeing a wonderful man for seven months and spend every weekend with him. We live 45 miles apart, but it works for us. He has a group of friends, fi ve ladies, that he spends a lot of time with. He dated one of them for a year before he broke it off , but they remain friends. I have met the group and, while they act friendly, I get a proprietary vibe from them. It makes me feel extremely uncomfortable around them and I have told him so. Am again in six months so I and my readers know what happens. Dear Abby: My daughter is expecting her second child. I threw a baby shower for her when she was expecting her fi rst and she complained that it “felt cheap” and wasn’t the celebra- tion she envisioned. I was deeply hurt, but the shower was for her, and I did not want to focus on my feelings. I apologized and tried to make it up with extra gifts. I am unsure whether I should plan a shower for her now. I don’t want to off end her by not doing so. Everyone in our circle is fully vaccinated for COVID so that would not be a concern. Please advise. — Well-Meaning in New Mexico Dear Well-Meaning: Your around, and it’s especially off en- sive at the dinner table. It’s like bringing in a collie and having it shake all over three or four times. We have noticed this especially in middle-aged women. Does anyone else fi nd this off ensive? My neighbor thinks they are trying to draw attention to them- selves. — Hairy Situation in Washington Dear Hairy Situation: This is a habit I have observed among women of every age. Switching from an updo to down and vice versa could also be tempera- ture-related. (Could the mid- dle-aged women be meno- pausal?) It may also be a nervous habit. But in most cases, I agree with your neighbor. It screams “Look at me.” daughter’s behavior is rude, insensitive and ungrateful. You are under no obligation to give her another baby shower. If she approaches you for another one, suggest she ask some of her friends to give her the “shower of her dreams.” P.S. This is just an FYI, but if you care about the rules of etiquette, it is considered a breach for a mother to throw her daughter a shower. You have already done more than enough for her. Dear Abby: Why, in social situations, do women with long hair feel the need to constantly change their hairstyle from an updo to letting it fall to their shoulders and vice versa? This lets hair — and dander — fl y NEWS OF THE WEIRD Woman using gun’s laser sight to play with cat shoots friend time it’s been on the market since 2017. Four years ago, it was sold for $900,000, The Boston Globe reported. The home, in Boston’s North End, is about 1,165 square feet. But more inter- estingly, the house is barely 10 feet wide at its widest point. The humble abode narrows in the back, ending at 9.25 feet. There are four stories in the home and a private deck that displays views of the Boston Harbor. Also, the house off ers updated appliances, hardwood fl oors and exposed brick, and a Juliet balcony facing private gardens. The home does not have a front door. Guests enter through a private side door and they’re met with a somewhat full-sized kitchen and dining room. The second fl oor holds the living area and the bathroom. The third level has a living space and a bedroom. Lastly, the upper level of the house has the only other room — a master bedroom. Appointments are avail- able to view the home, but buyers may want to act quickly because the quaint The Associated Press KENOSHA, Wis. — A Wisconsin woman acci- dentally shot a friend while using the laser sight on a handgun to play with a cat, authorities said. A criminal complaint charging the 19-year-old woman with negligent use of a weapon said she was visiting a Kenosha apart- ment on Tuesday, Aug. 10, where a 21-year-old man had brought a handgun. The woman, who a witness said had been drinking, picked up the handgun, “turned on the laser sight and was pointing it at the fl oor to get the cat to chase it,” when the gun went off , the complaint fi led Aug. 12 said. The man, who was standing in a doorway, was shot in the thigh, authorities said. He left and went into another apartment, where police found him after responding to a 911 call, the Kenosha News reported. A tourniquet was applied to his leg to stop the bleeding before he was taken to a hospital. There’s no word on his condition, Terry Flores/The Associated Press Kenosha police investigate a shooting at 40th Avenue and 45th Street on the city’s north side Tuesday, Aug. 10, 2021, in Kenosha, Wis. A 19-year-old woman was using a handgun’s laser sight as a cat toy when she accidentally shot a friend, according to prosecutors. The 19-year-old woman was charged Thursday with injury by negligent use of a weapon. too small for Hamburg police. Offi cers in the German city found themselves having to perform CPR on a Chihuahua last week after a distraught girl came rushing into a police station saying her pet had stopped breathing after she acciden- tally dropped it. After checking its vitals, offi cers cupped the dog’s nose to provide mouth- to-snout resuscitation and massaged its heart all the way to a veterinary clinic. but authorities said he was facing charges for violating bond conditions that pre- vented him from having a weapon. The woman told police she thought the magazine had been taken out of the gun and said it “acciden- tally went off ,” according to the complaint. Paw patrol: German police revive girl’s dropped Chihuahua BERLIN — No job is In a statement Friday, Aug. 13, Hamburg police said vets later called the precinct to say the dog was in a stable condition. Boston’s famed Skinny House back on market, listed for $1.2M BOSTON — Boston’s famous Skinny House is on sale again for a whopping $1.2 million. The vertically rectangu- lar-shaped house was listed Monday, Aug. 16, the fi rst house was sold in less than three months in 2017. Susan B. Anthony photo, found in attic, now going to auction GENEVA, N.Y. — A rare framed photograph of Susan B. Anthony is being auctioned with a starting price of $5,000. The 20-by-16-inch photo was found in an concealed attic space in a building in Geneva, New York, after the property was sold in December. The Rochester Demo- crat and Chronicle reported Tuesday, Aug. 12, that David Whitcomb, an attorney and now owner of the building, has worked with an antiques dealer to bring some 350 items that he discovered in the attic, including the historic pho- tograph of Anthony, to auction. The photo was taken by Geneva photographer James Ellery Hale in 1905, just months before Anthony’s death. It was selected by the Susan B. 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